Mom and Mind

Katayune Kaeni, Psy.D., PMH-C
Mom and Mind

Posptartum Depression is real. And it's only part of the story. We dig in to ALL of the stuff that no one tells you about, but you NEED to know. Dr. Kat, Psychologist and specialist in perinatal mental health, interviews moms, dads, experts and advocates about how to cope, manage and recover from perinatal mood and anxiety disorders. We talk about postpartum depression, postpartum anxiety and SO MUCH MORE! We get real. We get honest. We put on our stigma crushing boots and address the realities of the transition to motherhood and parenthood. Learn about it before you find out about it the hard way! You don't have to suffer! www.momandmind.com

  1. 375: A Physician’s Journey Through Loss, Birth, and Postpartum with Dr. Phindile Chowa

    HACE 5 DÍAS

    375: A Physician’s Journey Through Loss, Birth, and Postpartum with Dr. Phindile Chowa

    We often mistakenly think physicians are immune to postpartum challenges, but nothing could be further from the truth. Today’s guest shares her story of pregnancy loss, traumatic birth, and intense postpartum difficulties. From feeling shamed and unsupported, therapy helped her find a place of forgiveness and a healthy mental space for herself. Join us to learn more! Dr. Phindile Chowa is an emergency-trained physician currently practicing in Georgia. She attended the University of Pittsburgh for her undergraduate studies and medical school, completing her residency at Harvard. With several years of experience in a large academic hospital, she swiftly ascended to an administrative role within the emergency department, focusing on enhancing the patient experience. During the COVID-19 pandemic, she witnessed transformative changes in healthcare delivery, motivating her to redefine her medical practice. Determined to restore dignity to patient care, she established the concierge medical practice, EMCare2U, where she provides personalized healthcare services to individuals and families. With a particular emphasis on postpartum care, she wrote the book What to Expect Next, a postpartum guide to assist mothers planning for a healthy postpartum journey. Dr. Chowa also hosts the podcast, Fourth Trimester Voices, where she creates a platform for meaningful conversations surrounding postpartum challenges, maternal health, and healthcare advocacy. The podcast amplifies the voices of mothers, healthcare professionals, and advocates to share their stories, insights, and support for navigating the postpartum experience.  Show Highlights: Dr. Chowa’s path to emergency medicine that began in her childhood Her first pregnancy, miscarriage, and the accompanying trauma A second pregnancy full of fear and anxiety, which culminated in a traumatic birth and a NICU stay Breastfeeding and sleeping issues—and a very challenging first few weeks at home with a newborn The postpartum screening test with a low score and no resources to help her A difficult night that led to drastic action and an eye-opening conversation with her mother Finding therapy, getting help, and learning to take a “me-centered” approach Learning forgiveness and finding ways to get more sleep and break down intrusive thoughts Helping others with a new post-COVID perspective of medicine Transitioning to concierge medicine and personalized care Collaborative care and medical advocacy What’s normal and NOT normal in postpartum care Dr. Chowa’s podcast, Fourth Trimester Voices, to show moms that they are not alone The need to fine-tune postpartum care in a comprehensive and holistic way Resources: Connect with Dr. Phindile Chowa Website, Instagram, Facebook (Join the postpartum support group, Beyond the Fourth Trimester.), and Fourth Trimester Voices podcast Call the National Maternal Mental Health Hotline at 1-833-TLC-MAMA or visit cdph.ca.gov Please find resources in English and Spanish at Postpartum Support International, or by phone/text at 1-800-944-4773. There are many free resources, like online support groups, peer mentors, a specialist provider directory, and perinatal mental health training for therapists, physicians, nurses, doulas, and anyone who wants to be more supportive in offering services.  You can also follow PSI on social media: Instagram, Facebook, and most other platforms Visit www.postpartum.net/professionals/certificate-trainings/ for information on the grief course.   Visit my website, www.wellmindperinatal.com, for more information, resources, and courses you can take today! If you are a California resident looking for a therapist in perinatal mental health, email me about openings for private pay clients!

    54 min
  2. 374: ENCORE: Sleep Deprived Moms with Lauren DePaola, LCSW

    30 OCT

    374: ENCORE: Sleep Deprived Moms with Lauren DePaola, LCSW

    SLEEP, SLEEP, SLEEP! We are talking about a very important topic…SLEEP! We’ve all heard that new moms and parents don’t sleep when they have a baby, but its actually a pretty huge deal. Lauren DePaola is going to give us the information we need to know about how it Impacts us and why we need to be taking a closer look on protecting our sleep as much as possible. We cover stages of sleep, how much sleep you really need and what kind, what can happen when you don't get enough sleep and why its so important!!!! Lauren DePaola, LCSW is a wife, mother of two boys and a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Florida. She owns a private mental health practice with a focus on reproductive mental health: Postpartum Wellness & Family Counseling, located in Gainesville, FL. Lauren is the founder of the Alachua County Perinatal Mental Health Coalition, the President of the Florida Chapter of Postpartum Support International and Co-Chair of the newly formed Florida Maternal Mental Health Collaborative.    Resources: Call the National Maternal Mental Health Hotline at 1-833-TLC-MAMA or visit cdph.ca.gov Please find resources in English and Spanish at Postpartum Support International, or by phone/text at 1-800-944-4773. There are many free resources, like online support groups, peer mentors, a specialist provider directory, and perinatal mental health training for therapists, physicians, nurses, doulas, and anyone who wants to be more supportive in offering services.  You can also follow PSI on social media: Instagram, Facebook, and most other platforms Visit www.postpartum.net/professionals/certificate-trainings/ for information on the grief course.   Visit my website, www.wellmindperinatal.com, for more information, resources, and courses you can take today! If you are a California resident looking for a therapist in perinatal mental health, email me about openings for private pay clients!    Alachua County Perinatal Mental Health Coalition website:  http://ppwandfc.wixsite.com/acpmhc

    44 min
  3. 373: Breaking Barriers: Transforming Maternal Mental Health Care with Paige Bellenbaum, LCSW

    28 OCT

    373: Breaking Barriers: Transforming Maternal Mental Health Care with Paige Bellenbaum, LCSW

    You are in for a treat as we hear from someone who is fully committed to the advocacy and activism it takes to make a difference in the lives of new moms. She is relentless in her fight and the scope of her work is far-reaching. I’m excited to be joined by Paige Bellenbaum for today’s show.  Paige Bellenbaum is a social worker, founding director, and Chief External Relations Officer at The Motherhood Center of New York. This place is doing phenomenal work in the field of perinatal mental health, helping push the dial forward on the kind of care that new moms who are suffering should be receiving. She’s been able to put forth legislation in NY to help mothers by mandating hospitals to provide education and encourage screening for all new and expectant mothers. Paige has worked in public policy, advocacy, community organizing, and in direct practice with disadvantaged communities. Paige shares her experience as a mom and how it brought her into this work. After Paige’s first child was born, the postpartum depression and anxiety she experienced nearly ended her life. When she began to heal, her relentless fight began for education, screening, and treatment so that no one has to suffer. She continues to work closely with multiple NYC agencies on maternal mental health best practices and policies, and she was a member of the NYC Maternal Mortality and Morbidity Review Committee as well as currently sitting on the NYS Maternal Mental Health Working Group. Paige has appeared on numerous TV news shows and major media platforms in an ongoing effort to get the word out about maternal mental health. She helps us understand the importance of education, treatment, and screening, and why higher levels of care are essential for those experiencing moderate to severe perinatal mood and anxiety disorders.  Show Highlights: Paige’s journey into the work she does today, beginning 18 years ago with the birth of her son Paige’s anger that led to a new law in New York to require screening and education for new moms An overview of Paige’s bill and what it took to get it into law The changes in maternal mental health awareness over the past few years The suffering is REAL for many mothers. Validating women’s experiences and building a sense of community Education and screening are vital to help people recognize the signs and symptoms of perinatal mood and anxiety disorders. Details about The Motherhood Center in NYC and the scope of their work  “This is just the beginning.” Paige’s message: “Lift your voice and tell your story. Your story is power–and it can move mountains.” Resources: Connect with Paige Bellenbaum and The Motherhood Center: Website and Instagram Call the National Maternal Mental Health Hotline at 1-833-TLC-MAMA or visit cdph.ca.gov Please find resources in English and Spanish at Postpartum Support International, or by phone/text at 1-800-944-4773. There are many free resources, like online support groups, peer mentors, a specialist provider directory, and perinatal mental health training for therapists, physicians, nurses, doulas, and anyone who wants to be more supportive in offering services.  You can also follow PSI on social media: Instagram, Facebook, and most other platforms Visit www.postpartum.net/professionals/certificate-trainings/ for information on the grief course.   Visit my website, www.wellmindperinatal.com, for more information, resources, and courses you can take today! If you are a California resident looking for a therapist in perinatal mental health, email me about openings for private pay clients!

    1 h
  4. 372: How Undiagnosed Autism Compounds Postpartum Struggles with Lynn Wilhite, LSW

    21 OCT

    372: How Undiagnosed Autism Compounds Postpartum Struggles with Lynn Wilhite, LSW

    I’m happy to welcome back a previous guest on the podcast. Lynn Wilhite is a licensed clinical social worker who joined me for Episode 263, Coping with Treatment-Resistant Depression. Things have changed for Lynn since she has recently been diagnosed with autism, ADHD, and PTSD. She shares the impact of her diagnoses and how she’s making connections about why things were so difficult for her in the past. Her insights help us understand how the many layers and factors of ADHD and autism have complicated her journey. Lynn has paused her work in therapy and social work to focus on her healing, understand her diagnoses, and learn more about her son’s autism diagnosis. She feels passionate about bringing neurodivergence into the postpartum conversation, along with normalizing and destigmatizing autism and other forms of neurodivergence for new moms. She is currently writing a book about her postpartum and parenthood journey. Join us to learn more from Lynn’s story! Show Highlights: Developments in Lynn’s life since her last visit to Mom & Mind The prevalence of parents being diagnosed with autism alongside their children Lynn’s diagnostic process—and how her struggles in life began to make sense Stereotypical autism vs. female autism A constant battle of “defending” a diagnosis Medical gaslighting that women have to endure for themselves and their children Autism’s part in the challenges of pregnancy and postpartum, even in the smallest details Autism’s effects in Lynn’s life “Should I have even had a child?” Depression and anxiety are highly comorbid with autism. Masking skills are at their finest in autistic adults. Lynn’s biggest lessons learned on her journey The value of support and community Resources: Connect with Lynn Wilhite: Instagram Lynn Wilhite’s other Mom & Mind episode:  Episode 263 Call the National Maternal Mental Health Hotline at 1-833-TLC-MAMA or visit cdph.ca.gov Please find resources in English and Spanish at Postpartum Support International, or by phone/text at 1-800-944-4773. There are many free resources, like online support groups, peer mentors, a specialist provider directory, and perinatal mental health training for therapists, physicians, nurses, doulas, and anyone who wants to be more supportive in offering services.  You can also follow PSI on social media: Instagram, Facebook, and most other platforms Visit www.postpartum.net/professionals/certificate-trainings/ for information on the grief course.   Visit my website, www.wellmindperinatal.com, for more information, resources, and courses you can take today! If you are a California resident looking for a therapist in perinatal mental health, email me about openings for private pay clients!

    50 min
  5. 371: Behind the Sessions: Signs and Symptoms of Postpartum Depression with Dr. Kat

    17 OCT

    371: Behind the Sessions: Signs and Symptoms of Postpartum Depression with Dr. Kat

    In my therapy practice, I meet with moms at all stages of their reproductive journeys. It is a consistent thing that perinatal mental health conditions sneak up on people. Many new moms don’t know when to be concerned and when to seek help for perinatal depression, which can happen at any point in the reproductive journey and worsen in the postpartum. It’s important to notice the signs and symptoms. Let’s take a closer look! Show Highlights: The “baby blues” vs. postpartum depression—”How do I tell the difference?” Symptoms that signify a deeper problem and possible postpartum depression Identifying issues with eating and sleeping patterns that could point to postpartum depression Postpartum depression differs in context from generalized depression. Feelings of failure, self-criticism, and isolation as a new mother “I FEEL bad because I AM bad.” Postpartum depression is relatively common (Around 20% of mothers will experience it.) Difficulty bonding with a new baby can indicate postpartum depression. Thoughts about the stigma of postpartum depression and the fear of judgment Good news! There is help and free support available. You CAN get better! Dr. Kat’s advice about what you can do RIGHT NOW Resources: Call the National Maternal Mental Health Hotline at 1-833-TLC-MAMA or visit cdph.ca.gov Please find resources in English and Spanish at Postpartum Support International, or by phone/text at 1-800-944-4773. There are many free resources, like online support groups, peer mentors, a specialist provider directory, and perinatal mental health training for therapists, physicians, nurses, doulas, and anyone who wants to be more supportive in offering services.  You can also follow PSI on social media: Instagram, Facebook, and most other platforms Visit www.postpartum.net/professionals/certificate-trainings/ for information on the grief course.   Visit my website, www.wellmindperinatal.com, for more information, resources, and courses you can take today! If you are a California resident looking for a therapist in perinatal mental health, email me about openings for private pay clients!

    32 min
  6. 370: Severe PPD, Anxiety Healing and Advocating for AAPI Moms

    14 OCT

    370: Severe PPD, Anxiety Healing and Advocating for AAPI Moms

    Join us for this episode with my guest, Dr. Jasmine. She is a mom of one, a clinical pharmacist, and she holds a perinatal mental health certification. As a survivor of severe postpartum depression, anxiety, and insomnia, she has also served as a peer mentor volunteer for Postpartum Support International (PSI). A fierce maternal mental health advocate and second-generation Taiwanese-American, Dr. Jasmine hosts a podcast called Healing the Tigress, which features conversations around Asian American Pacific Islanders’ (AAPI) maternal mental health. Her newsletter, blogs, and Instagram focus on motherhood, mental health destigmatization, and gentle parenting. Her writing has been featured in Mother.ly, Psyched Mommy, and she was interviewed last fall about her PPD story by Women’s Health.  Show Highlights: Dr. Jasmine’s story of infertility, her pregnancy, and her daughter’s birth The super storm that drove Jasmine’s postpartum depression into a downward spiral Feelings of worthlessness, failure, and asking, “Why did we try so hard for this?” Addressing the problems with her Ob-gyn at her six-week checkup Facing the combination of insomnia, intense anxiety over feeding issues, and worry about bonding with her baby Jasmine’s experience with taking an antidepressant, opening up to her husband, and seeing a psychiatrist Seeing improvement in small steps with medications and therapy Finding joy again and feeling confident in motherhood Being on “the other side” of medications as a pharmacist Cultural factors that clouded Jasmine’s thinking and stigmatized medications and therapy Learning to function in a “mid-generation” of a very different culture Factors behind Jasmine’s decision not to have a second child An overview of Jasmine’s podcast, Healing the Tigress, to make space for AAPI moms Jasmine’s advice to other moms Resources: Connect with Dr. Jasmine:  Blog Instagram Healing the Tigress podcast Connect with Dr. Kat: Please find resources in English and Spanish at Postpartum Support International, or by phone/text at 1-800-944-4773. There are many free resources, like online support groups, peer mentors, a specialist provider directory, and perinatal mental health training for therapists, physicians, nurses, doulas, and anyone who wants to be a better support in offering services.  You can also follow PSI on social media: Instagram, Facebook, and most other platforms Visit www.postpartum.net/professionals/certificate-trainings/ for information on the grief course.   Visit my website, www.wellmindperinatal.com, for more information, resources, and courses you can take today! If you are a California resident looking for a therapist in perinatal mental health, email me about openings for private pay clients!

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  7. 369: Understanding Hyperemesis Gravidarum: Causes and Impacts on Pregnancy and Beyond

    7 OCT

    369: Understanding Hyperemesis Gravidarum: Causes and Impacts on Pregnancy and Beyond

    Today, Dr. Kat hosts Dr. Marlena Fejzo, an expert on hyperemesis gravidarum (HG), a severe form of pregnancy sickness. Dr. Fejzo, affiliated with the University of Southern California and the HER Foundation, discusses HG's debilitating symptoms, its long-term health impacts, and the challenges within the healthcare system. She emphasizes the need for better awareness, research, and treatment protocols, including the importance of thiamine supplements and support groups. Dr. Fejzo also highlights her ongoing research on genetic factors and potential treatments, advocating for improved care and support for HG patients. Join us! Bio:  Dr. Marlena Fejzo is a women’s health scientist and expert on severe pregnancy sickness. She is a researcher at the University of Southern California, Research Director of the HER Foundation, and Chief Scientific Officer of Harmonia Healthcare. Fejzo found the first genes for uterine fibroids and for nausea and vomiting during pregnancy. In March, Fejzo was honored as one of Time’s Women of the Year, in May she was named one of Time’s 100 Health Catalysts, and in July she was awarded the 2024 Victoria J. Mastrobuono Award in Women’s Health by the National Organization for Women.  Show Highlights: Definition and severity of hyperemesis gravidarum (HG) Long-term health impacts on mothers and fetuses Advocacy and the importance of having support during medical appointments Current state of research and funding challenges for HG studies Prevalence and statistics related to HG Psychological effects, including potential PTSD in affected women Historical context and misunderstandings surrounding HG Future research directions, including genetic studies Clinical trials for new treatments and potential biomarkers Resources: Please find resources in English and Spanish at Postpartum Support International, or by phone/text at 1-800-944-4773. There are many free resources, like online support groups, peer mentors, a specialist provider directory, and perinatal mental health training for therapists, physicians, nurses, doulas, and anyone who wants to be a better support in offering services.  You can also follow PSI on social media: Instagram, Facebook, and most other platforms Visit www.postpartum.net/professionals/certificate-trainings/ for information on the grief course.   Visit my website, www.wellmindperinatal.com, for more information, resources, and courses you can take today! If you are a California resident looking for a therapist in perinatal mental health, email me about openings for private pay clients! Connect with Dr. Fejzo Twitter - @DrFejzo LinkedIn  HER Foundation   International HG Conference on November 6th and 7th, 2024 in Ventura, CA international colloquium Hyperemesis gravidarum https://www.hyperemesis.org/ichg2024/ To Donate to Dr. Fejzo’s research efforts: bit.ly/fejzo

    47 min
  8. 368: Behind the Sessions: Postponing Sleep: Time Alone or Anxiety?

    3 OCT

    368: Behind the Sessions: Postponing Sleep: Time Alone or Anxiety?

    Today’s episode covers a common problem I see with clients in therapy; it’s the issue of fighting sleep. People are exhausted, running on empty, and not getting the sleep they need. When the kids go to bed, there is an urge to stay awake and get things done or have alone time when your body is screaming for the sleep it needs. During the perinatal time, the loss of sleep is prevalent in many instances and impacts every area of life! Join me for more!  Show Highlights: Time for relaxation, decompression, and autonomy shouldn’t take priority over sleep. Is there avoidance going on? Avoidance of sleep can be related to trauma or PTSD. A cycle of repeatedly pushing sleep back leaves you frayed, irritable, anxious, and depressed. No judgment from me, but a gentle urging to take an honest look at your sleep challenges Look to compromise by guarding the nights you stay up to have alone time, but prioritize your sleep on other nights. Tips for promoting good sleep Resources: Please find resources in English and Spanish at Postpartum Support International, or by phone/text at 1-800-944-4773. There are many free resources, like online support groups, peer mentors, a specialist provider directory, and perinatal mental health training for therapists, physicians, nurses, doulas, and anyone who wants to be a better support in offering services.  You can also follow PSI on social media: Instagram, Facebook, and most other platforms Visit www.postpartum.net/professionals/certificate-trainings/ for information on the grief course.   Visit my website, www.wellmindperinatal.com, for more information, resources, and courses you can take today! If you are a California resident looking for a therapist in perinatal mental health, email me about openings for private pay clients!

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Posptartum Depression is real. And it's only part of the story. We dig in to ALL of the stuff that no one tells you about, but you NEED to know. Dr. Kat, Psychologist and specialist in perinatal mental health, interviews moms, dads, experts and advocates about how to cope, manage and recover from perinatal mood and anxiety disorders. We talk about postpartum depression, postpartum anxiety and SO MUCH MORE! We get real. We get honest. We put on our stigma crushing boots and address the realities of the transition to motherhood and parenthood. Learn about it before you find out about it the hard way! You don't have to suffer! www.momandmind.com

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