Ruwando Podcast: Psychology For Men with Brains and Balls Ruwando

Is there a difference between Western vs. Eastern dating culture?

Last time Hans Comyn was on the podcast he shared a controversial opinion that ruffled some listeners’ feathers— that Western men are better off dating non-Western women.

We discuss this point of view and some key questions such as:

Why is dating different in East vs West?

Are men attracted to traditional women?

Is choice of women related to standards? Or culturization? Or some other unconscious factor?

Dating in a a small town vs city?

Is success more important than failure?





Hans’ “Gentlemen’s Guide”: https://t.ly/YMpBD

Hans on meeting foreign women: https://t.ly/HnX0x





00:00 - Why you should date non western women

3:53 - Is choice of women related to standards?

7:48 - Harder is always better - or not?

11:22 - Balancing masculine and feminine in relationships

19:06 - Why is west and east dating culture different?

25:52 - Women want to surrender to men

29:58 - Are men attracted to traditional women?

34:18 - Importance of female and male spaces

37:59 - Western vs eastern dating culture

44:45 - Beauty of slow seduction

51:36 - Is success more important than failure?

01:01:19 - Responsibility before entitlement

Why do we have resistance to certain goals? Especially the ones that are really important to us?



This episode covers how to be passionate about your goals, especially if you have a pattern of putting them off. There is a relationship between emotional patterns and behavior, and we can reprogram these emotional patterns.




00:00 - Why do we have resistance to certain goals?

2:44 - What is passion actually?

4:08 - Fear of failure brings self sabotage

6:27- Different kinds of thinking

7:37 - How to reprogram emotional patterns?

13:36 - The connection of big goals and resistance

16:48 - Attachment to identity vs action

17:59 - The reward of hard work

20:05 - Dealing with emotional discomfort

30:29 - How to be Passionate about your goals?

Guru Pashupati speaks on the philosophy behind hanuman, how to train on gada, and other life wisdom.




00:00 - Intro

01:12 - Spiritualism and Martial Arts

12:25 - Different Forms of Guru

13:46 - Life and Playfulness

16:00 - The role of money in our life

19:43 - Symbolism of Hindu Deity Hanuman

25:28 - Violence, Power and Domination

28:16 - Connection of Justice and Power

30:51 - The power of conserving your energy

34:23 - How to train with gada?

38:07 - The Four Stages of Consciousness

41:10 - The Imagination and False Perception

44:05 - Supplement Reality with Dreams

46:35 - Guru’s Lifestyle

49:18 - Energy Cultivation

The Magician Archetype is the part of your psyche that makes meaning, abstracts reality, and creates your life-- whether you take that literally or figuratively depends on your Magician.

This episode covers "magic" in the creative process, the shadow aspects of the magician, the five stages of belief, the importance of the Fool archetype, hacking self-fulfilling prophecy, and how to become the magician


00:00 Intro

4:20 Magical thinking throughout history

5:35 Subjective mind of magical thinking

10:55 What is the magician archetype?

13:57 Belief and meaning as magicians tools

18:21 Magic in the creative process

29:40 The importance of the Fool

34:55 Shadow aspect of magician

37:30 Removing blocks to becoming the magician

45:19 Five stages of belief

1:03:23 The role of the magician

1:19:30 How to become the magician?



Uncover your inner world:

https://www.ruwando.com/archetype

(includes a free coaching session with Ruwan)

The Warrior Archetype is the part of the psyche for overcoming obstacles and winning zero-sum competition. It's become the most suppressed aspect of masculinity in the modern era.

Activate this archetype within you with the Masculine Archetype Challenge. Comes with a complementary coaching call with Ruwan:

https://www.ruwando.com/archetype

(Republish from 2020. New episodes coming in June.)

This book totally changed how I view human behavior, and perception of reality.

I focus on the first 4 "non-spiritual" circuits of Timothy Leary & Robert Anton Wilson's circuit model.

Republished from 2020. This is the episode that got my wife to like me. I'm still on paternity leave. New episodes coming in June.

https://www.ruwando.com/archetype

Psychophilosophy, quantumpsychology, thelema, general semantics, Alfred Korzybski