Single Sounds Katie McNamara

Katie chats with Jillian Romero Chaves, the founder of Clara for Daters - an app that helps singles track their dates and make better choices when dating. We track a lot of things in life we want to improve or make progress on so why not track your dating journey? Jillian shares her own dating experiences and how tracking her dates on her own app has helped her learn more about herself and the type of person she is looking for. Tune in to learn how to navigate the modern dating world with more self-awareness and positivity.
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KEY TAKEAWAYS 

Clara for Daters helps users track dates by asking helpful post-date questions, enabling them to make better choices in the early stages of dating.

Tracking dates helps daters stay accountable, recognise patterns, and focus on qualities that matter in a potential partner.

Multi-dating, or going on dates with multiple people, can help anxious attachment styles by preventing fixation on one person and encouraging a slower pace.

The data from Clara confirms that conversion rates from dating app matches to in-person dates are low

Focusing on enjoying individual connections and learning from each date brings you closer to finding the right partner, rather than fixating on the end goal.


BEST MOMENTS
"Dating intentionally means going on dates. If you can be on the apps and saying you're dating intentionally and never go on a date, that's not dating intentionally."
"Don't focus on that big end goal. Just focus on those connections in the moment and it'll get closer."
"I feel like that's what you learn the more you multidate - you have these conversations, then you're like, okay, now I feel comfortable to have it again if it came up."
"It's important that we have that safe space to reflect by ourselves. It's important."
"The whole idea is we're trying to make dating fun again. It is tough and you can't sugar coat it, but you can do things as tools like Clara to help get better."

VALUABLE RESOURCES
Clara for Daters - https://www.clarafordaters.com/
Single Sounds - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
 
ABOUT THE HOST
Katie McNamara - London.
I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium.
As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.
Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/
 
CONTACT METHOD -
Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds 
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/ 
singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com
 
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Katie interviews a high-energy, sassy, and always-late single who is unapologetically herself. Discover her unique quirks, like sitting on the floor to put on shoes and her love for Grand Designs. With her infectious energy and confidence, this guest is ready to find a partner who can keep up with her "spontanaynay" lifestyle.
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KEY TAKEAWAYS 

This single is always late but believes she's worth the wait

She has a specific dream life planned out, including living near London, owning three dogs, and having a pickup truck for stargazing dates

Her biggest icks include men who can't find her in a restaurant, wear lycra, have mismatched trouser and sock lengths, and have messy flats

She is confident, can talk to anyone, and has a great strut when entering a room

Spontaneity is key - she wants a partner who's ready for adventures, even after a night out

She embraces her weirdness and quirkiness, like sitting on the floor to put on shoes and constantly strutting

Her love for Grand Designs has inspired her dream house plans


BEST MOMENTS
"I'm always late, but I always say I'm always late but worth the wait."
"I am someone who loves like fully and wholeheartedly and I think that I have a lot of love to give to the right person."
"If you want to have fun, you want to have adventures and yeah, you want to be woken up in the middle of the night and go to a drive thru, or go do something fun and random, like, I'm your girl."

VALUABLE RESOURCES
To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/

ABOUT THE HOST
Katie McNamara - London.
I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium.
As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.
Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/
 
CONTACT METHOD -
Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds 
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/ 
singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com
 
 
 
 
 
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This multi-talented single man brings humour, adventure, and an impressive array of skills to the table. From his musical prowess to his daring hobbies and meaningful career, he's sure to capture the hearts of many! Discover why he just might be the perfect match for someone looking for a partner who can keep them on their toes whilst making them laugh!

KEY TAKEAWAYS 

The guest is a true hobbyist with an impressive array of skills, including multiple instruments, extreme sports, and stand-up comedy. 

He has a successful career as a sustainability consultant, using his math skills for good. 

The guest is looking for a meaningful, long-term relationship with someone who shares his sense of humour and adventurous spirit. 

He finds it attractive when someone can call him out on his bulls**t and challenge his opinions. 

The guest took a big risk by signing up for a stand-up comedy course and now performs regularly. 

He puts effort into planning creative and fun dates, which is a major green flag. 

According to his friend, the guest is the "full package" and sure to keep a partner on their toes.


BEST MOMENTS
"My most controversial opinion is that people in London should have to have a license to be able to walk and be a pedestrian.”
"I think the biggest risk I've taken was about a year ago, signing up to a stand-up comedy course, and then... I've kept doing it."
"You should date me because I am a good laugh and a good date. And I'll pick the place, which is apparently not that common."

VALUABLE RESOURCES
To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/

ABOUT THE HOST
Katie McNamara - London.
I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium.
As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.
Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/
 
CONTACT METHOD -
Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds 
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/ 
singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com
 
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Join Katie as she interviews a charismatic and adventurous single lady who's left the corporate world behind to pursue her passions. This sparkly yoga instructor shares her love for exploring London's bakeries and coffee shops, the types of men she finds most attractive, and her biggest icks in dating. 
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KEY TAKEAWAYS 

She left her corporate grad job after just three months to pursue her non-corporate passions

She's a self-proclaimed list maker and a human map of London's best coffee shops and bakeries and wine bars

Her friends would say she's weirdly attracted to actors, and she admits to having a thing for men with moustaches!

Her biggest icks include men who are closed-minded and vape

She considers herself a massive feminist but still appreciates chivalrous gestures like carrying heavy bags

Her best friend describes her as "sunshine in human form" and praises her for being an incredibly generous, kind, and sparkly person


BEST MOMENTS
"I feel like when I think of the word nerdy, I reframe it as being like, oh it's such a thing where people are super passionate about something and I actually love that."
"I hated the fact that I was in a massive office with the people I was on a call with. Why don't we just go and connect like real people?"
"I've definitely in like my self-care, self-love era. Quite like a soft girly."
"She's kind of touched my life in so many ways that I can't even describe. And honestly, she's just an absolute catch. A gorgeous human being, inside and out."
"I'd want to date someone who is, I'd say quite wholesome, also quite chaotic”

VALUABLE RESOURCES
To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
 
ABOUT THE HOST
Katie McNamara - London.
I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium.
As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.
Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/
 
CONTACT METHOD -
Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds 
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/ 
singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
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Katie chats with Molly Cookson from 2 Girls 1 Pup about their adventures in dating off the apps so far in 2024. From speed dating disasters to man crawls, they share their experiences and insights on trying new ways to meet potential partners. Get ready for a fun-filled discussion that will make you feel less alone in your dating struggles! 

KEY TAKEAWAYS 

Molly and Katie emphasise the importance of having single friends who can relate to your dating experiences and provide support.

Participating in various dating events and activities can help bring fun back into the dating process and alleviate the pressure of relying solely on dating apps.

Being open-minded when meeting new people is crucial, as you may find a connection with someone you wouldn't have initially considered on a dating app.

Rejection is an inevitable part of dating, both on apps and in person, and it's essential not to take it personally.

Pushing yourself out of your comfort zone by trying new dating experiences can be scary but rewarding.

Giving people a chance beyond the first few minutes of interaction is important, as nerves can impact initial impressions.

Dating can be challenging and emotionally taxing, so it's essential to be kind to yourself throughout the process.


BEST MOMENTS
"You could be the best peach in the world, but not everyone likes peaches."

VALUABLE RESOURCES
2 Girls 1 Pup - https://www.instagram.com/2_girls_1_pup/
Single Sounds - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/

ABOUT THE HOST
Katie McNamara - London.
I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium.
As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.
Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/
 
CONTACT METHOD -
Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds 
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/ 
singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com
 
 
 
 
 
 

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This week's single guest is an optimistic and adventurous single man who's looking for a long-term relationship and a supportive teammate. From laidback dates in Mexico City to his controversial opinions on women's Tinder bios, this guest takes an interest in people and will keep you entertained while sharing his unique perspectives.
KEY TAKEAWAYS 

The guest appreciates maturity and experience in dating, having previously dated women up to 8 years older than him.

He believes women aren't held accountable for the outrageous things they put in their Tinder bios, and provides humorous examples in the episode

His most toxic trait is getting stroppy when losing at video games or board games

The guest's worst dating story turned out to be his best, involving a woman who was 2 hours late to their date in Mexico City

He emphasises the importance of supporting one another and having each other's backs in a relationship.

The guest has lived and worked in various countries, teaching languages and running his own tutoring business.


BEST MOMENTS
"Women aren't really held to account for what they say in their bios".
"One of these is a lie. I hate men. I have a baby. I have a job. Turns out the lie was, yeah, she doesn't have a job."
"If you beat me in a video game or a board game, which is unlikely, by the way, I will get a bit stroppy. I might not talk to you for like, 10, 15 minutes."
"I want to have a relationship with someone where we're just smashing life together as a team, supporting each other, caring for each other."

VALUABLE RESOURCES
To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
ABOUT THE HOST
Katie McNamara - London.
 I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium.
As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.
Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/
 
CONTACT METHOD -
Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds 
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/ 
singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com
 
 

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