Soft Men Are What's Wrong With This World | EP 022

In this episode, Phil criticizes the crisis going on in modern society about lost men. He expresses disappointment over men who fail to live up to what a respectable man should be. Phil points out how so many men lack commitment, discipline, and the ability to fulfill their responsibilities, leading to negative impacts on their families and society. He urges men to embrace discomfort, take responsibility, and strive to be better husbands, fathers, and individuals. The episode challenges men to level up and reject weakness, with Phil promising to relentlessly hold men accountable and call out behavior he views as damaging to society.

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Timestamps:

(00:57) - A Blunt Take on Today's Men

(04:27) - Confronting the Epidemic of Inadequate Male Role Models

(08:02) - Rejecting the Culture of Softness 

(11:10) - The Misguided Majority

(13:55) - A Challenge to Rise Up


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Transcription:

[00:00:00] Do you know how many sh*tbag husbands there are in the world? 

You know how many sh*tbag parents there are in the world that don't provide? 

Because they're too f*cking pussy to do anything about it? 

And they talk, talk, talk, but they never do, do, do? 

Jesus Christ. 

This is why so many people in this world are being hurt.

This is why so many people in this world are struggling. 

Because these are the f*cking examples.

[00:00:30] 

What's going on you guys? 

It's Phil Bohol and welcome to the Phil Bohol Show, where we have real talk about family, fitness, finance, and everything that would hold you back from leveling up in every area of your life. 

And more importantly, how I personally got through them. 

Everybody else in this world wants to bullsh*t you.

I'm here to give you the truth.

Soft men are what's wrong with this world. 

[00:01:00] Straight up. 

I don't know what it is about men calling themselves men. 

Straight boys. 

I don't know what's wrong with people nowadays. 

Is it really so hard to just man the f*ck up and do what you gotta do? 

Like, does your word mean nothing to you anymore? 

Is it so easy for you to take a step forward and immediately take two steps back because you're too f*cking pussy to commit to your life?

[00:01:30] Jesus Christ. 

It's so sad to me to see grown ass men calling themselves men when we all know that you're a goddamn boy. 

Jesus Christ. 

When's the last time somebody's actually looked at you in the f*cking face and said, “You're not a f*cking man, you're a boy, you little bitch.”

So many people need to hear this.

So many people are just so f*cking lost right now. 

[00:02:00] They don't even realize that they have nothing of substance to give to the world. 

There's so much that's missing from all of these f*cking men and it's sad because now everybody else has to suffer being surrounded by a bulk of men who don't do sh*t with their life and all they do is talk.

The dumbest part about this whole situation. 

It's so f*cking disappointing. 

[00:02:30] It's so disappointing to, like, see somebody want to change their life, change their situation, and then immediately go to victim mode, immediately go to bitch mode. 

Like, f*ck. 

What do you see when you look in the mirror? 

Like, literally, when you look in the mirror, and you know that little bitch is inside of you, what do you? 

How does it feel?

How does it feel to know that you're a bitch? 

Why does life have to be that way? 

[00:03:00] What was so f*cked up about your upbringing? 

That your word means nothing to you, your commitments mean nothing to you, that you have to be the softest motherf*cker you could possibly be? 

Jesus Christ, thank God you were never in the military.

Jesus Christ, I can't imagine having to deal with your ass. 

I don't think even men know what the f*ck it means to be a man anymore. 

I really, I'm just at a loss for f*cking words to see all the weakness in the world. 

[00:03:30] Fat, broke, f*cks, in this world, think that they're, what they say holds any truth, holds any value.

When their actions literally show the complete opposite, but these are the same people that think that they're winning in life. 

These are the same people that believe that life owes them something. 

Do you not realize how much of a f*cking bitch that you are like? 

I I don't even know how to articulate this into words.

[00:04:00] Do you guys realize how sh*tty it must feel to live your entire life not realizing that you operate from a place of being a bitch. 

Have you never had a man in your life, a cartoon character, to encapsulate what it even means or what it looks like to be a f*cking man? 

It's so apparent why there's so many people losing in this world.

[00:04:30] And the reason why I get pissed off, guys, just so you understand, it's not just them that it's affecting.

It's not just you that it's affecting.

If this is you, motherf*cker, it's affecting your family. 

Other people have to settle for you being that way. 

Do you know how many sh*tbag husbands there are in the world?

You know how many sh*tbag parents there are in the world that don't provide? 

Because they're too f*cking pussy to do anything about it. 

And they talk, talk, talk, but they never do, do, do. 

Jesus Christ. 

[00:05:00] This is why so many people in this world are being hurt. 

This is why so many people in this world are struggling.

Because these are the f*cking examples that surround people. 

You got kids watching these f*cking pussies, like, operate this way, and then now those kids are like, “Oh, I guess that's what it should look like. I should basically say that I'm gonna do things and then just f*cking never do it. Because that's what that guy's doing. That's what dad's doing. That's what uncle's doing.” 

You guys realize this is a plague? 

[00:05:30] Is it because like everybody's too afraid that they're gonna get f*cking cancelled? 

Are they afraid that if they actually like man the f*ck up and actually operate, that they're gonna have less opportunity for themselves?

Like can somebody fill me in here on like why the f*ck this is normal? 

When did men become snowflakes? 

[00:06:00] When did it become normal not to do the hard things so that way you can earn the life that most people can only f*cking dream of?

What is happening that - can somebody put in the comments and tell me what's happening?

Can somebody like tell me? 

Why the world? 

Is it the shutdown? 

Because I went through the shutdown. 

I lost my job, too. 

Oh, it's because you come from humble beginnings? 

Me too, motherf*cker. 

I came from the Philippines. 

[00:06:30] I was poor in the United States for a very long time, my entire f*cking life.

So what is it? 

What has happened to man that you can be such a bitch and still feel like it's okay to be a bitch? 

Where's all the real men at? 

Where's all the savages? 

Like, if you're a savage, come on. 

Like, f*cking, roger up, because, Jesus, it feels like it's harder and harder and harder to see real ones.

Where are my real people at? 

Where are the real savages at? 

[00:07:00] Where are the real men at? 

F*ck, man. 

Like, is it just good now to just be fat, unhappy, drinking all the time, drinking all the time, drinking and drinking and drinking all the damn time? 

Smoke something. 

Do some drugs. 

Break your word. 

Is it just good to be a sh*tbag nowadays?

Is that what it is to be a man? 

F*ck. 

How about we like, stop all of that. 

[00:07:30] How about we g