Soiling the Nest: Why Your Teen is Pushing You Away

Is your college-bound teen suddenly moody, defiant, or picking fights? Welcome to soiling the nest—a real and natural part of their transition to independence. In this episode of the Women’s Mental Health Podcast, licensed psychotherapists Randi Owsley, LMSW, and Jessica Bullwinkle, LMFT, break down why this happens, how it impacts your mental health, and what you can do to cope. Whether you're feeling hurt, confused, or just plain exhausted, this conversation will help you navigate the messy emotions of this stage with self-care and confidence.

While this shift can feel personal, understanding the psychology behind soiling the nest can help you navigate the emotional rollercoaster with empathy and patience. Beyond the household, this behavior also has social and economic impacts, influencing family dynamics, financial planning, and emotional well-being. Learn practical tools to manage your own emotions, strengthen your parent-child relationship, and find resources to help guide you through this transformative stage with confidence.

Whether you're a parent navigating this emotional phase at home or a business leader looking for solutions to prevent disruption in your company, we’ll provide expert insights, actionable strategies, and preventative measures to help you adapt and thrive. Stay tuned for practical tips, professional advice, and real-life examples that bring clarity to this complex topic!

Questions we answer!

Why do some teens engage in challenging behavior before leaving home?

How can I differentiate between normal teenage behavior and more serious issues?

What are some strategies for addressing challenging behavior in teens?

Should I be worried if my teen experiments with substances?

How can I support my teen's mental well-being during this challenging time?

Is it normal for my teen to distance themselves from family and spend more time with friends?

What role does autonomy play in a teen's development?

How can I prepare my teen for the challenges of leaving home?

What should I do if my teen's behavior becomes concerning or poses a danger?

How can I maintain a strong, supportive relationship with my teen during this phase?

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