Spoiled Girlie Support Group Elle Ray

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In this episode of Big Sis Advice, Elle guides listeners on embracing the mantra of "let them, let go, and let God". She emphasizes the importance of maintaining peace and not letting others disturb it. She explains the concept of karma and encourages women to support each other, stating that women are a source of good karma. Elle shares her personal experiences of dealing with hate from other women and the importance of not letting others upset you. She stresses the need for selective social interaction to protect one's energy. The concept of letting God, irrespective of one's religious beliefs, is discussed as a healing process. Elle talks about honoring other women as a form of worshiping God, referring to the divine feminine energy. The podcast concludes with Elle expressing that practicing these principles can lead to inner happiness and joy, thereby encouraging her listeners to let go and let God handle things beyond their control.

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In this podcast episode, Elle delves into the downfall of dating apps, focusing on Bumble. She discusses the controversy surrounding Bumble's recent billboard ads and the backlash primarily from women. Elle then delves into the history of Bumble, founded by Whitney Wolfe Herd, and its evolution from being a female-friendly dating app to one which is criticized for shaming women. Elle also explores how dating apps are part of the sharing economy. She asserts that women, in this context, are treated as underused assets that are used for their time and attention. Drawing on Andrea Dworkin's book "Right Wing Women", Elle explores the idea that both left and right-wing men are guilty of “using” women, with left-wing men often being worse. She suggests that the so-called seggsual liberation movement did not lead to women's freedom, but rather to their further subjugation.

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In this episode, Elle discusses the rising trend amongst influencers like Nara Smith, Ballerina Farm aka Hannah Neeleman, and Emily Mariko who are wealthy, educated women showcasing domesticity and simple living rather than luxurious lifestyles. Elle argues this reflects the current societal value of time, peace, and an abundance of fresh food, which many people do not have. She also discusses how health and wealth are intertwined, with the wealthy having the privilege of better food, housing, and medical care, which contributes to better health. Elle emphasizes that knowledge is a critical privilege, particularly in understanding how to balance macronutrients, where to find affordable groceries, and how to cook. She concludes by highlighting the need for community and shared knowledge in these challenging times.

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In this episode, Elle discusses the stereotypes and societal expectations placed upon women, focusing on the concepts of the candid girlfriend, cool girl, manic pixie dream girl, and brain rot core. She ponders whether women are required to perform their inner lives to validate their existence. The discussion includes a review of social media's role in these stereotypes, with the candid girlfriend being portrayed as an airheaded muse by her boyfriend. Elle criticizes the objectification and commodification of women in these roles.

She also explores how the perception of an "inner life" can vary greatly, positing that there is no single acceptable framework for self-actualization. Elle emphasizes that women can cultivate rich inner lives through various activities that honor their desires and contribute to their well-being. The episode ends on the topic of the manic pixie dream girl, a stock character type often used in fiction.

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In this episode of her podcast, Elle dives into the discussion around women's fear of men, triggered by a social media trend where women were asked to choose between being trapped in the woods with a man or a bear. Elle unpacks the universal fear women have towards men, supported by various anecdotal evidence, literary examples, published scientific studies, news articles, and personal experiences. She also discusses the societal gaslighting that occurs when women express this fear. Elle highlights the importance of understanding that men are aware of this fear, often using it to their advantage. She further criticizes men's lack of empathy and the victim-blaming that occurs when women are attacked. Throughout the podcast, Elle advocates for women's safety and empowerment, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and caution when interacting with men.

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On this episode, Elle discusses the rise of loser men and how this phenomenon is less a consequence of women's liberation and more men's entitlement to women. Elle reacts to a video of a woman taking her baby father to a job interview at a fast food chain which he refuses to go to and how this scenario encapsulates the very real problem of men nowadays refusing to work. Elle shares a video of a creator who says "the real reason the modern young male does not want to work is because his paycheck no longer affords him power and control over women." This reminds Elle of the movie "Don't Worry Darling" which features an unemployed man who turns into a provider husband in a simulation. Elle closes the episode with reminding women to wake up to the world around them.