The YouSchool Podcast

Scott Schimmel
The YouSchool Podcast

Go to our YouTube channel to watch the episodes (just search The YouSchool) My nightmare at 20 years old was that I would wake up at 40 and feel deep regret that I lived the wrong life- a really nice, predictable, and boring story belonging to someone else. If you had told me back then that there was actually a roadmap, a step-by-step curriculum to walk through that would help me put all the pieces of my life together and set me on a path to build an authentic, meaningful life- I would’ve done anything to get it. It matters now more than ever. Right alongside planning for your future is living well now. We’re at an urgent time in our world: mental health / unemployment and The Great Resignation... Building a Meaningful Life isn’t something you just close your eyes and wish for. It’s not something only a few people get lucky enough to experience. You can’t just put your head down, do what you’re ‘supposed to’ and try hard, and expect it all to work out. It’s something you can design. And everyone deserves the opportunity to build a meaningful life. The thing about life, though, is there are no black and white answers. What we’ve discovered over a decade of working with more than 20,000 students, hundreds of educators, over 1,500 military service members through their transition to the civilian world, and countless conversations with parents, elite athletes, therapists, neuroscientists, and researchers are: There are 30 Critical Questions everyone must answer for themselves so their identity is defined, their purpose is clear, and they have what they need to build healthy relationships. Those are the pillars, and answering those questions will give you the foundation you need so you can make wiser choices about your career, feel alive as you pursue a mission and contribute to a cause bigger than yourself, experience inner peace as your inner and outer lives become more congruent, navigate the complexity of friendships so you can find the belonging you long for, and feel grateful for the life you get to live. I’m not exaggerating, this is the reality you can experience. So here’s the plan: every week we’ll release a new episode. In one episode we’ll dig into the question- why it’s critical, how to go about discovering an answer. Go to theyouschool.com/store to sign up. The following episode we’ll invite a guest and talk through that question with them- so you can see what it looks like to dig in and do the deeper reflection work. Maybe this is something you’ll want to go through for yourself. Perhaps you have a friend or small group and you want to have these deeper conversations with them. Or you’re a parent, and you’ve been struggling to find the right conversations and context to engage your kid- follow along, listen to these episodes in the car or watch them together online. If you’d like, you can sign up and follow along with some curriculum to guide you, too. These episodes are free, please share. To access the curriculum that goes with the episodes is simple- signup for only $5/month and we’ll send you the videos as well as a downloadable worksheet you can use to go deeper for yourself or with a friend or your kids or students.

  1. Curiosity as a Compass: Helping Your Kid Discover Their Path in Life

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    Curiosity as a Compass: Helping Your Kid Discover Their Path in Life

    Summary In this episode of the YouSchool podcast, Scott Schimmel discusses the importance of guiding children towards clarity in their interests and career paths. He reflects on his personal experiences as a parent and the insights gained from his research on adolescent development. The conversation emphasizes the need to identify children's interests through their digital activities and encourages parents to foster curiosity and exploration in their kids. Takeaways The norm is that kids often feel lonely and disconnected after college.Clarity about interests and values is crucial for youth.Narrowing down options can help in decision-making.Digital footprints can reveal children's true interests.Curiosity is a strong indicator of intrinsic motivation.Parents should think like algorithms to understand their kids' interests.Encouraging exploration can lead to unexpected discoveries.It's important to create a supportive environment for kids.Conversations about interests should be engaging, not interrogative.Fostering curiosity can lead to a more fulfilling career path. Sound Bites "I want my kids to become happy and successful.""I feel really lonely and disconnected.""Narrowing things down is actually a really, really helpful way." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to YouSchool and Its Purpose02:54 The Importance of Clarity in Career Paths05:49 Identifying Interests Through Digital Clues09:13 Encouraging Curiosity and Shared Interests

    11 мин.
  2. Helping Your Kids Find Clarity in a Foggy World: Episode 126 by Scott Schimmel

    17 ОКТ.

    Helping Your Kids Find Clarity in a Foggy World: Episode 126 by Scott Schimmel

    In this episode, Scott Schimmel dives deep into one of the biggest challenges parents face—helping their kids navigate the natural fogginess of adolescence to find clarity in their lives. Scott shares personal experiences with his own children, offering practical, easy-to-implement strategies for parents to guide their kids toward discovering their unique skills, values, and purpose. Key Takeaways: Adolescence and Fog: The teenage years are naturally full of distractions and uncertainty, making it difficult for kids to understand themselves and make confident decisions. The Power of Questions: Asking thoughtful, open-ended questions is a key tactic in helping your kids reflect on their intrinsic interests. Notice and Observe: Scott explains how simply observing your child's behaviors and preferences can provide valuable insights into their personality and passions. Take Notes: Keeping a record of your observations and conversations can help you connect the dots over time and better support your child's development. Practical Tips: Ask questions that encourage your kids to explore their interests and passions. Notice and observe what they’re naturally drawn to—whether it’s a favorite subject in school or hobbies they keep returning to. Take notes on what you see and hear, then use this data to reflect back to your child what makes them unique. Scott’s three-step method—asking questions, observing, and taking notes—will help you play a crucial role in guiding your kids from fogginess to clarity as they move through the critical teenage years. Join the START Newsletter:For more actionable tips and resources to guide your kids toward clarity and purpose, sign up for our weekly START Newsletter! Each week, we’ll send you a new idea to help you be intentional in your parenting journey.👉 Sign up here: theyouschool.com/start

    13 мин.
  3. The Right vs. Wrong Expectations for Your Kid’s Future

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    The Right vs. Wrong Expectations for Your Kid’s Future

    Summary In this episode of the YouSchool Podcast, Scott Schimmel discusses the importance of guiding children towards self-awareness and fulfillment, particularly in the context of social media and identity formation. He emphasizes the need for parents to set the right kind of expectations for their children, distinguishing between harmful pressures and supportive guidance. The conversation highlights the role of authoritative parenting, where high expectations are paired with support, enabling children to thrive and explore their intrinsic interests. Takeaways The primary mission of YouSchool is to guide kids to become self-aware and self-driven adults.Social media poses significant challenges to children's identity formation.Parents should avoid pressuring kids into specific career or college paths.Research shows that pressure from parents can lead to lower success and fulfillment.Parents should focus on helping kids feel seen, heard, and validated.Intrinsic interests should be explored and affirmed by parents.High expectations can be beneficial when paired with support.Authoritative parenting is effective in fostering children's growth.Parents should encourage kids to take initiative and be responsible.Open communication about expectations can lead to better outcomes for children. Sound Bites "How do we prepare them for it?""Your kids do not need you to pressure them.""Do not put pressure on them instead." Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Purpose of YouSchool03:00 Understanding Expectations in Parenting05:59 The Role of High Expectations and Support

    10 мин.
  4. Teaching Your Kids Critical Thinking on Social Media

    25 ИЮЛ.

    Teaching Your Kids Critical Thinking on Social Media

    In this episode, we explore the critical issue of guiding your kids to become thoughtful, self-aware individuals in the age of social media. Join Scott Schimmel, President and Chief Guide of The YouSchool, as he shares insights and practical advice on how to help your children navigate the digital world wisely. Key Takeaways: - Is keeping your kids away from social media the answer?- The real impact of social media on both adults and children.- Personal story: How a dream vacation led to an eye-opening realization about FOMO.- The hidden threats of social media on kids' identity formation.- Practical steps to cultivate critical thinking and conscious living in your children.- Introduction to our Tech Healthy Parenting course. Timestamps:00:03 - Is keeping kids off social media the answer?01:00 - Introduction to guiding kids through social media.02:00 - The distraction and distortion caused by social media.03:00 - Personal story: Experiencing FOMO on a dream vacation.04:30 - The impact of social media on adults vs. children.05:30 - The existential threat of social media's hidden messages.06:30 - Practical steps for parents to help kids navigate social media.07:30 - Introduction to the Tech Healthy Parenting course. Resources Mentioned: Tech Healthy Parenting CourseJonathan Haidt's ResearchJean Twenge's Insights Connect with Us: Visit our website: theyouschool.comFollow us on Instagram: @TheYouSchoolLike us on Facebook: The YouSchool About Scott Schimmel:Scott Schimmel is the President and Chief Guide of The YouSchool. With over two decades of experience guiding young adults into intentional, conscious living, Scott shares his expertise on helping parents and children navigate the complexities of the modern world. Subscribe for More Content:If you found this episode helpful, make sure to subscribe to our channel, give this video a thumbs up, and hit the notification bell so you don’t miss any future episodes. Share your thoughts and questions in the comments below—we’d love to hear from you! Transcript Highlights: Scott Schimmel (00:03.06): Is keeping your kids away from social media the answer? Absolutely for a while, but eventually they're going to have to operate in this world. The whole point of parenting is to guide your kids to become critical thinkers as they participate in the world through social media so that they're not distracted and their life isn't distorted by the messages that are coming through. Scott Schimmel (02:00): Advertisers have used scare tactics and scarcity to sell throughout time, and it's really no different in social media. I’m a grown man, and yet I am so distracted by the messages that come through media, particularly social media. Scott Schimmel (03:00): I remember being in Maui, the absolute vacation of our dreams for my wife and I. One day, I scrolled through social media and saw another family on a trip in Zion National Park. Suddenly, I felt bad that we weren't there instead, even though I was in my favorite place in the world. Scott Schimmel (04:30): If I, with my achievements and stability, can feel worse because of social media, how much more will this happen to a kid who hasn't formed a life yet? Scott Schimmel (06:30): Eventually, your kids will have access to social media. The key question is whether they will be mindful and self-aware, able to think critically, or if they will be victims of the false messages telling them they're not enough. Scott Schimmel (07:30): At The YouSchool, we've designed the Tech Healthy Parenting course to help parents navigate these issues. By consuming media with your kids and discussing the underlying messages, you can guide them to be thoughtful and wise. Remember to check out our Tech Healthy Parenting course to help you and your kids navigate the digital world effectively!

    8 мин.

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Go to our YouTube channel to watch the episodes (just search The YouSchool) My nightmare at 20 years old was that I would wake up at 40 and feel deep regret that I lived the wrong life- a really nice, predictable, and boring story belonging to someone else. If you had told me back then that there was actually a roadmap, a step-by-step curriculum to walk through that would help me put all the pieces of my life together and set me on a path to build an authentic, meaningful life- I would’ve done anything to get it. It matters now more than ever. Right alongside planning for your future is living well now. We’re at an urgent time in our world: mental health / unemployment and The Great Resignation... Building a Meaningful Life isn’t something you just close your eyes and wish for. It’s not something only a few people get lucky enough to experience. You can’t just put your head down, do what you’re ‘supposed to’ and try hard, and expect it all to work out. It’s something you can design. And everyone deserves the opportunity to build a meaningful life. The thing about life, though, is there are no black and white answers. What we’ve discovered over a decade of working with more than 20,000 students, hundreds of educators, over 1,500 military service members through their transition to the civilian world, and countless conversations with parents, elite athletes, therapists, neuroscientists, and researchers are: There are 30 Critical Questions everyone must answer for themselves so their identity is defined, their purpose is clear, and they have what they need to build healthy relationships. Those are the pillars, and answering those questions will give you the foundation you need so you can make wiser choices about your career, feel alive as you pursue a mission and contribute to a cause bigger than yourself, experience inner peace as your inner and outer lives become more congruent, navigate the complexity of friendships so you can find the belonging you long for, and feel grateful for the life you get to live. I’m not exaggerating, this is the reality you can experience. So here’s the plan: every week we’ll release a new episode. In one episode we’ll dig into the question- why it’s critical, how to go about discovering an answer. Go to theyouschool.com/store to sign up. The following episode we’ll invite a guest and talk through that question with them- so you can see what it looks like to dig in and do the deeper reflection work. Maybe this is something you’ll want to go through for yourself. Perhaps you have a friend or small group and you want to have these deeper conversations with them. Or you’re a parent, and you’ve been struggling to find the right conversations and context to engage your kid- follow along, listen to these episodes in the car or watch them together online. If you’d like, you can sign up and follow along with some curriculum to guide you, too. These episodes are free, please share. To access the curriculum that goes with the episodes is simple- signup for only $5/month and we’ll send you the videos as well as a downloadable worksheet you can use to go deeper for yourself or with a friend or your kids or students.

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