#teakink with Dominatrix Eva Oh Dominatrix Eva Oh

Eva Oh dived head first into a BDSM dungeon with no kink or sex work experience - but she wouldn’t be where she is today if she hadn’t paid attention to the many kind (and not so kind) individuals along the way. In this episode of the #teakink Podcast Eva introduces us to a few key people who have helped her develop her place in the industry, her opinion on Dominatrix Schools and Workshops and why she offers her Mentoring Calls and Training Sessions at this stage of her career.

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(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - A Question on Mentorship(01:18) - My Mentor Calls and Training Sessions(02:30) - My Mentors(07:20) - Elders in the Dominatrix Community(09:05) - My Opinion on Dominatrix Schools and Workshops(11:39) - Finding Mentors(14:20) - Personal vs Professional Mentorship(17:39) - Leatherfolk, Families and their Value(21:40) - Booking a Mentoring Call or Training Session

Eva Oh’s naivety shielded her from the initial realities of competition and sabotage in the sex industry, but she had to learn some hard lessons eventually. In this episode of the #teakink Podcast Eva answers a question on how rivalry in the industry exists, revealing a slightly rough journey from competition within the brothel styled system of the Dungeon, to gossip over social media; and how she continues to navigate how to best align herself with those who share her values in the present day.

More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com

(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - A Question on Rivalry in the Sex Industry(00:45) - How I See “Stolen” Clients(02:00) - How I See “Competition”(03:00) - The Influence of Sibling Rivalry(04:50) - My Naivety(05:00) - The Competitiveness of the Dungeon(05:20) - Sabotage(11:45) - Competition vs Camaraderie, and Social Media’s Role(17:00) - Rivalry within Deeper Relationships(18:40) - The Potential Intensity of Sex Worker Friendship(20:03) - Aligning Your Values(21:20) - Some People Adore Drama

Welcome to Season 4 of the #teakink Podcast, where Eva Oh answers all the questions! Responding to your voice notes, Eva will lead us into insights on her work as a Dominatrix in the sex industry including episodes on rivalry, mentorship, boundaries, gender fluidity, the importance of play, and loneliness. She also reveals a few mishaps of the last season of the #teakink Podcast, including a slightly touchy update on slave m; and some plans for future seasons ahead.



More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com



(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink

(00:18) - Season 3 Ends, Season 4 Begins

(00:58) - Highlights of Season 3

(01:30) - Season 4, Your Questions Shall be Answered

(02:15) - Mishaps

(02:40) - Changes with slave m

(03:58) - Thinking About Future Seasons, Interviews Maybe?

When Eva Oh inched her way onto social media, she didn’t quite imagine the titles that would soon be getting used on her. Not the titles that she was used to, of Dominatrix or Mistress, but Educator, Mentor and Influencer. In this episode of the #teakink Podast Eva walks us through her mild disgust with some of the terms, the gossip that she catches wind of about them, and a few theories as to why things are the way that they are.

Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote

More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com

HIGHLIGHTS:
Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:18) - Educator? Mentor? Influencer?
(01:56) - Playing the Influencer Game, A Mild Disgust?
(03:20) - My Mentoring Calls
(06:00) - Not As Intimidating as I Look?
(09:00) - Great Feedback from Isabella Sinclaire
(10:30) - When Gatekeeping is Better or Worse?
(11:15) - Desperation for Power Amongst Those Stripped of It
(12:15) - Educational Courses?
(14:40) - How I Became How I Am

When people ask Eva Oh how her dates or partners “handle” her job and industry, it’s a frustrating time. Although she has come to understand the societal shortcomings that inspire this question, she has also learned of the incredible skills that sex work can offer the individuals who choose to work in it - and so perhaps the more important question is, ‘Would a Sex Worker Date You?’. Listen to this eye opening episode of the #teakink Podcast to find out.

Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote

More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com

HIGHLIGHTS:
Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:18) - Would a Sex Worker Date You?
(01:00) - Unfortunate Case Studies
(05:11) - Sex Work and Elevated Communication Skills
(06:30) - Do You Deserve the Empathy?
(08:55) - How Sex Work Has Changed Me
(14:49) - Understanding Society’s Shortcomings
(16:25) - A Better Case Study
(18:00) - “I Never Thought I Could Have a Relationship Like This”
(19:50) - How and Why Monogamy Was Constructed?
(22:14) - Why I’ve Become So Picky, What I Deserve

What is a sex party? How do you find one? Do you have to have sex there? Eva Oh dishes out her international sex party experience in a #teakink episode with a lot of valuable information gathered through deep, hard and extensively serious research.

Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote

More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com

HIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - The Ultimate Sex Party Episode(01:09) - What is a Sex Party?(03:00) - How Do You Find Out What Kind You’ll Liked?(03:55) - My First “Sex” Party, Hellfire(05:24) - I Discover Swingers Clubs(06:30) - Consent(07:30) - Safeguards(09:15) - My Sex Party Evolution(11:20) - Sex Clubs, Membership Spaces and Saunas(12:15) - Sex Club Nights and Meet-ups(14:00) - BDSM Clubs(15:20) - Travel Weekenders and Conventions(18:10) - The Orgy Dome at Burning Man(18:30) - From Berlin to Bali, Sex Parties Worldwide(20:40) - All Women Play Parties(22:00) - I Probably Need a Second Episode on This, At Least!