Tell Me I’m Sorry

Maggie Dillow & Marin Harrington
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Tell Me I’m Sorry

Join writers/friends Maggie (a Millennial) and Marin (a Gen Z-er) as they muse on depictions of girlhood in film, literature, and other media. Tell Me I’m Sorry is a celebration of pop culture, the audacity of youth, and the ways we grow away from and into our bodies and dreams for ourselves and each other. New episodes every other Tuesday.

  1. OCT 8

    13. Scream

    We’re prepping for Halloween by subjecting ourselves to the most stomach-churning sight of the 90s: Skeet Ulrich’s greasy hair tendrils. Marin’s pick this week is SCREAM (1996), the first horror movie that actually scared her. And while Skeet’s hair IS an abomination, this film has plenty of other horrors for us to dissect: teenage misogynists, extreme fandom, and weaponized self-awareness. We also praise Drew Barrymore (naturally) and discuss how her one scene really is as affecting—in both its terror and its sadness—as everyone remembers.  Email your own musings and questions to tellmeimsorry@gmail.com Follow us: The podcast’s Instagram: @tellmeimsorry Maggie’s Instagram: @_saint_margaret_ Secondary texts referenced: “The fandom menace: People, get a life!” by Roger Ebert  Ghosts of You by Cathy Ulrich

    1h 27m

  2. SEP 24

    12. The Virgin Suicides

    It’s the movie that launched Sofia Coppola’s directing career and awakened Young Maggie to the beauty of Kirsten Dunst’s armpits: the dreamy, detailed, and devastating THE VIRGIN SUICIDES (1999). We wrestle with the male narration, Marin details falling out of love with the novel upon which the film is based (and appreciating the film more as a result), and we talk about the knottiest of conundrums: how to protect adolescent girls from the world without totally depriving them of it.   Email your own musings and questions to tellmeimsorry@gmail.com Follow us: The podcast’s Instagram: @tellmeimsorry Maggie’s Instagram: @_saint_margaret_ Secondary texts referenced: Girl, Interrupted by Susanna Kaysen “No” by Anne Boyer (from A Handbook of Disappointed Fate) “Our Sisters Shall Inherit the Sky” by Alana Massey (from All the Lives I Want: Essays About My Best Friends Who Happen to Be Famous Strangers)

    1h 39m

  3. SEP 10

    11. Cruel Intentions

    We’re investigating a supremely entertaining work of garbage this week and, honestly, thank goodness—we needed some laughter around here. CRUEL INTENTIONS (1999) has it all: one of the most despicable romantic heroes in teen film history, ~tension~ between step siblings, a perfect Sarah Michelle Gellar performance, and a Counting Crows needle drop that offends Maggie but reverts Marin into a sentimental tween. We rant, we cackle, we reflect, we put this movie in conversation with some of the most influential art ever made (because this is our show and we do what we want). Enjoy!     Email your own musings and questions to tellmeimsorry@gmail.com Follow us: The podcast’s Instagram: @tellmeimsorry Maggie’s Instagram: @_saint_margaret_ Marin’s Letterboxd: @marinharrington  Secondary texts referenced: Wuthering Heights by Emily Brontë Hannah Gadsby: Nanette (2018) dir. Madeleine Perry and John Olb “Introduction to Les Liaisons Dangereuses” by Alfred Mac Adam (Barnes & Noble Classics edition)  “Pure Heroines” by Jia Tolentino (from Trick Mirror: Reflections on Self-Delusion)

    1h 42m

  4. AUG 27

    10. Miller's Girl

    MILLER’S GIRL (2024) was panned by critics and didn’t recoup even a fourth of its budget at the box office, so, naturally, we had to talk about it and dare to ask, “Is it really that bad?” The movie is fundamentally about a student being groomed by her teacher, so there’s a lot at stake in terms of how it addresses victimhood, villainy, and power—and our feelings about the outcome are complicated. Email your own musings and questions to tellmeimsorry@gmail.com Follow us: The podcast’s Instagram: @tellmeimsorry Maggie’s Instagram: @_saint_margaret_ Marin’s Letterboxd: @marinharrington  Secondary texts referenced: Bunny by Mona Awad My Dark Vanessa by Kate Elizabeth Russell The Room (2003) dir. Tommy Wiseau  Jade Halley Bartlett interview with Forbes: “Miller’s Girl As a Villain Origin Story”

    1h 26m

  5. AUG 13

    09. Shirkers

    We wade into the world of documentary filmmaking with Sandi Tan’s SHIRKERS (2018), which reflects on Tan’s teenage experience of making a movie with her friends and losing the footage after their teacher steals it. The movie’s “layers of aboutness,” as we writerly types love to say, are plentiful—and get into as much as we can wrap our heads and hearts around: magical realism, punk spirit, youthful determination, and how to live a life that is in service to your art.  Email your own musings and questions to tellmeimsorry@gmail.com Follow us: The podcast’s Instagram: @tellmeimsorry Maggie’s Instagram: @_saint_margaret_ Marin’s Letterboxd: @marinharrington  Secondary texts referenced: “Lessons of the Line: Charles Simic and Me” by Dana Levin (from the Yale Review, spring 2024 issue) “After the World-Breaking, World-Building” by Vanessa Angélica Villarreal (from Magical/Realism: Essays on Music, Memory, Fantasy, and Borders)

    1h 28m

  6. JUL 30

    08. Make Up

    The day has arrived: Maggie vibes with a movie much more than Marin does. The movie in question? Claire Oakley’s MAKE UP (2019), a surreal and sparse story about a teen girl’s coming-to-desire on the Cornwall coast. Maggie offers a compelling analysis of characterization which invokes the spirits of Dashiell Hammett and RHW Dillard (our beloved former professor), Marin argues that the film is at least horror-adjacent, and we discuss the symbolism of the sea (original, we know), the implications of “straight-baiting,” and the staying power of memes about men who don’t furnish their apartments. Email your own musings and questions to tellmeimsorry@gmail.com Follow us: The podcast’s Instagram: @tellmeimsorry Marin’s Letterboxd: @marinharrington  Secondary texts referenced: The Awakening  by Kate Chopin Syzygy, Beauty by T. Fleischmann The Glass Key by Dashiell Hammett  Magical/Realism: Essays on Music, Memory, Fantasy, and Borders by Vanessa Angélica Villarreal Claire Oakley interview with Little White Lies Claire Oakley interview with AnOther Magazine

    1h 14m

  7. JUL 16

    07. Support the Girls

    Did you ever work a soul-crushing service job that sometimes sent you to the bathroom crying? Then we have the episode for you! Andrew Bujalski’s SUPPORT THE GIRLS (2018) is a lovely and loving film which follows a restaurant manager and her all-female staff as they try to make it through the day. We talk about its authentic approach to solidarity, the dynamic ensemble of characters, our own hellish work experiences, and the significance of the film’s male writer-director.  Email your own musings and questions to tellmeimsorry@gmail.com Follow us: The podcast’s Instagram: @tellmeimsorry Maggie’s Instagram: @_saint_margaret_ Marin’s Letterboxd: @marinharrington  Secondary texts referenced: Alice Doesn’t Live Here Anymore (1974) dir. Martin Scorsese “Grip” by Joy Castro (from Island of Bones)

    1h 8m

  8. JUL 9

    06. The Starling Girl

    We’re tackling religious upbringing this week with Laurel Parmet’s THE STARLING GIRL (2023), a phenomenal film about a teenage girl’s coming-of-age in her Christian fundamentalist community—and we’re having necessary conversations about modesty culture (and the violence it inflicts), predatory relationships, and the work of protecting each other whilst living within systems that thrive precisely by not protecting our livelihoods.  Email your own musings and questions to tellmeimsorry@gmail.com Follow us: The podcast’s Instagram: @tellmeimsorry Maggie’s Instagram: @_saint_margaret_ Marin’s Letterboxd: @marinharrington  Secondary texts referenced: Holiday Country by Inci Atrek The Dream of a Common Language by Adrienne Rich Interview with Laurel Parmet

    1h 19m
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Join writers/friends Maggie (a Millennial) and Marin (a Gen Z-er) as they muse on depictions of girlhood in film, literature, and other media. Tell Me I’m Sorry is a celebration of pop culture, the audacity of youth, and the ways we grow away from and into our bodies and dreams for ourselves and each other. New episodes every other Tuesday.

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    Maggie Dillow & Marin Harrington
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