Healthy Conflict for Caretakers with Donna Jones

Summary:

In this episode, host Carole Leathem interviews Donna Jones about healthy conflict. They discuss the impact of conflict on caretakers and how to deal with conflict in a healthy way.

Donna emphasizes the importance of taking one conflict at a time and understanding and listening to the care receiver. They also explore the challenges of conflict with aging parents and siblings, as well as caring for someone with mental illness.

Donna shares the mistake of being dismissive and the importance of listening and understanding. She highlights the value of collaborating and working together, and the need for humility and dependence on God in approaching conflict. The episode concludes with a discussion on self-care.

Takeaways:

• Conflict is a major contributing factor to the stress and burnout experienced by caretakers.
• Taking one conflict at a time can help prevent conflicts from escalating and becoming overwhelming.
• Listening and understanding are key in resolving conflicts and making the care receiver feel loved.
• Approaching conflict with humility and dependence on God can lead to personal growth and healthier relationships.

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction and Background

01:25 The Impact of Conflict on Caretakers

06:25 Taking One Conflict at a Time

07:22 Understanding and Listening to the Care Receiver

08:41 Recognizing and Managing the Weight of Conflict

10:05 Conflict with Aging Parents and Siblings

13:22 The Challenges of Caring for Someone with Mental Illness

15:43 The Importance of Listening and Understanding

19:02 Escalating or Ending Conflict

20:00 Collaborating and Working Together

23:18 Approaching Conflict with Humility and Dependence on God

25:11 Praying for Personal Change

26:21 Closing Remarks and Self-Care

Connect with Donna -

Website: https://donnajones.org/

Podcast: https://donnajones.org/podcast/

Book: https://donnajones.org/books/

Connect with Carole:

Website - https://www.thecaretakersjourney.com/

Social Media - 

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Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/carolesjourney

Book - https://www.carolesjourney.com/book