The Connected Community: Exploring Possibility

Nicky Yazbeck
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The Connected Community is a place to explore possibility through mindfulness, movement, and self discovery. Our intention is to deliver inspiration, insight, and authenticity, while fostering conversations that are genuine, unfiltered, and deeply human.

  1. 2d ago

    Beyond Ego: The Journey Into Authentic Self

    In this episode of The Connected Community Podcast, Nicky and Adam Yazbeck explore the deeper meaning of ego, identity, and the journey of becoming fully human. Rather than viewing ego as something inherently negative, they unpack its essential role in developing a grounded sense of self and why true spiritual growth requires a healthy, integrated ego rather than bypassing it.   Together, they discuss how childhood experiences shape identity, the tension between authenticity and social conditioning, and the often uncomfortable process of individuation. The conversation explores the relationship between ego and consciousness, the importance of shadow work and self-awareness, and how midlife can become a powerful invitation into deeper self-exploration.   Nicky and Adam also reflect on the loss of depth and true connection in modern culture, the difference between surface-level interaction and genuine community, and the importance of remaining rooted in reality while navigating spiritual development. Throughout the episode, they emphasize that personal growth is not about transcending our humanity, but about integrating all parts of ourselves with greater awareness, presence, and compassion.     Key Points: Ego is often misunderstood and has a negative connotation. A healthy ego is essential for a strong self-identity. You can't transcend something that you haven't developed. Childhood experiences shape our ego and personality. Self-love is crucial for integrating different parts of ourselves. Narcissism indicates a lack of development in the ego. Cultural influences impact how we develop our sense of self. Questioning societal norms is essential for personal growth. The journey to self-awareness often begins in midlife. Social media connections lack the depth of true community. Individuation is a challenging and uncomfortable process. Ego serves as a vehicle for self-discovery and growth. Transcendence requires a balance between ego and self. Presence and authenticity are powerful teachers. Integration of spiritual experiences into daily life is essential. Maintaining a healthy ego is crucial for spiritual development.     Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Ego and Its Importance 03:46 Understanding Ego: Definitions and Perspectives 07:04 The Development of a Healthy Ego 09:41 Stages of Ego Development: Pre-Personal to Personal 12:42 Challenges in Ego Development: Narcissism and Caretaking 15:50 The Journey to Self-Love and Integration 18:57 Accessing the Shadow: The Unconscious Material 19:21 The Role of Age in Ego Development 22:03 Cultural Influences on Ego Development 25:15 Encouraging Free Thinking and Community Engagement 26:13 The Depth of Connection in Modern Relationships 28:22 The Uncomfortable Journey of Individuation 29:36 Understanding Limitations and Groundedness 33:55 Ego, Identity, and the Path to Self-Discovery 38:08 Transcendence and the Role of Ego 41:17 Transpersonal Relationships and Integration 44:39 The Role of the Elder and Service to Others     Connect with me: https://nickyYyoga.com https://www.youtube.com/@TheConnectedCommunity nickynamaste@gmail.com https://www.instagram.com/kambo_mama/     Keywords: ego, self-development, spirituality, Jungian psychology, personal growth, self-love, shadow work, identity, community, psychological development, individuation, ego, self-discovery, spiritual development, shamanism,

    53 min

  2. May 14

    Ego Death and Rebirth: Dark Night of the Soul

    In this episode of The Connected Community Podcast, Nicky Yazbeck sits down with Melissa Kim Corter for a deeply reflective conversation on the dark night of the soul and the role of shadow work in personal transformation. Together, they explore how periods of darkness, often marked by loss, illness, or identity collapse, can become catalysts for profound healing when approached with awareness and surrender.   Melissa brings a unique perspective shaped by decades of work with the hidden dimensions of the psyche. As the author of Apothecary for the Afflicted: Shadow Work for Invisible Wounds, a certified death investigator, and a scholar completing her PhD in depth psychology and Jungian archetypal studies, her approach blends psychology with symbolism drawn from fairy tales, film, and the macabre. Her work centers on the misunderstood and often avoided aspects of the personality, offering a creative and unconventional lens into shadow integration.   Throughout the conversation, Melissa and Nicky share personal experiences of navigating their own dark nights, unpacking themes of ego death, surrender, and the discomfort of facing what has been buried or avoided. They clarify what the dark night of the soul is, and what it is not, while offering insight into how to recognize when someone is moving through this kind of internal transformation.   The episode moves beyond theory into lived experience, exploring how shadow work can support individuals in meeting these moments with curiosity rather than resistance. Melissa speaks to the importance of engaging with the darker aspects of the psyche, not as something to fix, but as something to understand, integrating even the most difficult experiences into a more complete sense of self.     Chapters   00:00 Introduction and Connection 04:28 Understanding the Dark Night of the Soul 09:37 Experiencing the Dark Night: Personal Stories 13:47 Defining the Dark Night of the Soul 17:54 Recognizing Personal Dark Nights 24:02 Navigating the Experience 32:01 Finding Support and Healing 32:25 The Crisis of Identity and Ego 40:13 Navigating Loss and Identity 47:33 The Importance of Feeling and Integration 51:46 Surrendering to the Process 56:18 Looking Ahead: Collaboration and New Beginnings     Connect with me: https://nickyYyoga.com https://www.youtube.com/@TheConnectedCommunity nickynamaste@gmail.com   Connect with Melissa: https://www.melissacorter.com https://www.instagram.com/melissakimcorter/ https://melissakimcorter.substack.com/     Keywords:  Dark Night of the Soul, Shadow Work, Ego Death, Transformation, Healing, Psychology, Spirituality, Personal Growth

    58 min

  3. Apr 30

    Ayahuasca, Yage, and Crudo: Dieta, Integration, Law of Reciprocity

    In this episode of The Connected Community Podcast, Nicky Yazbeck sits down with Ania Halama for a conversation on working with ayahuasca in a way that is responsible, informed, and deeply intentional. After eight years living in Colombia and a decade in relationship with the medicine, four of those in service, Ania shares what most people don’t hear: the real preparation, the risks, the differences in ceremonies across regions, and why not all ayahuasca is the same.   She explains variations like crudo ayahuasca, a gentler preparation method that supports the nervous system, and speaks to how lineage, sourcing, and facilitation shape the experience. The conversation moves beyond the ceremony itself and into what actually creates change—preparation before, and integration after. Ania emphasizes that this work isn’t about a single night, but a longer process that can span months if someone wants lasting results.   They also explore the ethics behind plant medicine, including the law of reciprocity and the responsibility to give back to the indigenous communities who have carried these traditions. Ania offers practical guidance on choosing a retreat, what to ask, and how to discern safety and integrity in a space that’s rapidly growing in popularity.   This episode cuts through the noise around ayahuasca and brings the focus back to what matters: respect for the medicine, responsibility for your own process, and the understanding that the real work happens in how you live afterward.   Key Topics: Types of Ayahuasca (Crudo, Yaje, Traditional) Preparation and Diet (Dieta) Safety and Medical Precautions The Experience and Effects of Ayahuasca The Importance of Integration and Follow-up Cultural and Ethical Considerations in Plant Medicine Differences Between Ceremonies in Peru, Colombia, Brazil, and Hawaii Sourcing and Sustainability of Medicinal Plants Personal Journey and Transformation with Ayahuasca Guidelines for Choosing a Reputable Retreat Center     Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Ayahuasca and Ania's Journey 03:22 Understanding Ayahuasca: The Basics 09:44 The Experience of Ayahuasca: Healing and Clarity 14:15 Integration: The Key to Lasting Change 20:30 Safety and Misconceptions about Ayahuasca 22:30 Understanding Ayahuasca and Supplement Interactions 22:57 The Importance of Dieta Before Ayahuasca 25:14 The Law of Reciprocity in Ayahuasca Ceremonies 27:43 Sustainable Harvesting of Ayahuasca 29:04 The Impact of Ayahuasca Vine Age on Experience 30:41 Risks of Tobacco in Ayahuasca Preparations 31:42 Key Questions for Choosing a Retreat Center 33:28 Differences in Ayahuasca from Various Regions 36:10 Finding the Right Ayahuasca Experience 37:28 Setting Intentions and Expectations 40:34 Navigating the Depths of Ayahuasca Experiences 42:23 Connecting with Ania and Future Retreats     Connect with me: https://nickyYyoga.com https://www.youtube.com/@TheConnectedCommunity nickynamaste@gmail.com   Connect with Ania: https://aniahalama.com/ https://facebook.com/ania.e.halama https://www.instagram.com/ania.halama/ http://linkedin.com/in/aniahalama     Keywords: ayahuasca, plant medicine, integration, jungle retreat, ceremonial preparation, medicinal plants, spiritual awakening, healing, reciprocity, safety, yage, crudo, jungle medicine, law of reciprocity, dieta

    46 min

  4. Apr 16

    Step Fully Into Your Authenticity

    In this episode of The Connected Community Podcast, host Nicky Yazbeck chats with transformational coach Ben Milston for a deeply honest conversation about breaking free from conditioning, healing emotional wounds, and reconnecting with your authentic self.   Ben shares his powerful journey from childhood struggles and depression into a path of self-discovery, emotional healing, and personal empowerment. Together, Nicky and Ben explore how internalized beliefs shape identity, self-worth, and relational patterns, and what it actually takes to unravel those patterns in a real, embodied way.   This conversation moves beyond surface-level self-development into the deeper work of sitting with discomfort, questioning long-held narratives, and allowing space for vulnerability and truth. It speaks directly to those who are self-aware but feel stuck repeating old cycles, offering both insight and grounded reflection on how to begin living in alignment with who you truly are.   The episode also touches on the loneliness that can arise during self-discovery, the courage required to set boundaries, and the ongoing process of transforming inner criticism into self-compassion. Through this dialogue, listeners are invited to reconnect with their inherent value and begin creating a life that feels genuinely aligned rather than externally driven.     Key Topics Explored    •   Ben Milston’s personal journey from depression to self-empowerment    •   How childhood conditioning and internalized beliefs shape identity    •   Emotional healing through awareness, presence, and self-inquiry    •   The role of discomfort in transformation and growth    •   Authentic self-expression and the courage to be seen    •   Boundary setting and redefining relationships    •   Shedding old identities and embracing vulnerability    •   Navigating the loneliness that can come with personal evolution    •   Transforming inner criticism into self-compassion    •   Reconnecting with self-worth, truth, and inherent value    •   Listening to the body’s wisdom and intuitive guidance       Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Personal Transformation 02:29 Ben’s Journey: From Struggles to Self-Discovery 09:43 The Impact of Conditioning and Internalized Beliefs 13:36 Stripping Away Conditioning: A Journey into Nature 19:59 Embracing Discomfort and Authenticity 24:41 Reconnecting with Self-Worth and Value 28:44 Understanding Self-Worth and Perception 29:48 Challenging Deeply Ingrained Beliefs 33:17 Redefining Good, Bad, and Selfishness 36:11 Navigating Relationships and Boundaries 38:45 The Loneliness of Self-Discovery 41:54 Transforming Inner Criticism into Self-Compassion 44:17 Authenticity in Relationships 47:32 Listening to Your Body’s Wisdom   ⸻     Connect with me: https://nickyYyoga.com https://www.youtube.com/@TheConnectedCommunity nickynamaste@gmail.com   Connect with Ben https://linktr.ee/ben.milston.coaching_all.links https://BenMilstonCoaching.as.me/60MinComplimentarySession     Keywords :   self-development, authenticity, inner child healing, emotional healing, self-worth, personal growth, mental health, self-love, spiritual awakening, overcoming trauma, subconscious beliefs, breaking patterns, identity transformation, nervous system awareness, shadow work, self-discovery, healing journey, boundary setting, vulnerability, aligned living, personal empowerment

    51 min

  5. Apr 2

    Neurodiversity: Beyond Labels and Stereotypes

    Dr. Joel Schwartz is a licensed clinical psychologist based in San Luis Obispo, California, with a private practice focused on complex and often misunderstood cases. He has worked across a wide range of settings, including colleges, clinics, a federal prison, and residential treatment centers, bringing depth and real-world experience to his work with diverse populations.   Joel is a thought leader in the neurodiversity movement, having coined the term Neurodiversity Affirmative Therapy and the identity-forward term “ADHDer,” offering a way for individuals to claim ADHD as a valid and meaningful part of who they are. His work challenges traditional, pathology-based models and instead centers on understanding, acceptance, and a more expansive view of human cognition.   In this episode of The Connected Community: Exploring Possibility, we explore neurodiversity, ADHD, autism, and the importance of understanding and embracing neurological differences. Joel shares insights on the impact of language and identity, the experience of masking, and the emotional toll that can come from trying to fit into systems not designed for neurodivergent individuals.   We discuss how differences in brain functioning are often misunderstood, and how shifting from a deficit-based lens to one of curiosity and acceptance can be profoundly healing. Joel also speaks to the importance of creating environments that support authenticity, where unmasking is not only safe but encouraged.   This conversation offers a humanizing perspective on neurodiversity, inviting listeners to move beyond labels and stereotypes and toward a deeper understanding of themselves and others.     Key Topics: Neurodiversity and its meaning Terminology and identity in neurodiversity Brain differences in ADHD and autism Masking and unmasking experiences Support needs and accommodations for neurodiverse individuals       Chapters: 00:00 Understanding Neurodiversity 07:21 The Complexity of Identity and Labels 13:22 Neuroscience Behind Neurodiversity 17:58 Empathy and Communication in Neurodivergent Individuals 23:58 The Impact of Masking on Neurodivergent Lives 29:48 Empowering Neurodivergent Children 31:38 Understanding ADHD and Learning Styles 35:14 The Role of Physical Activity in Managing ADHD 39:49 Navigating Social Situations with Neurodiversity 43:28 The Importance of Testing and Diagnosis 48:01 Trauma and Its Impact on Neurodiverse Individuals 50:02 Respecting Neurodiversity and Individual Needs     Connect with me: https://nickyYyoga.com https://www.youtube.com/@TheConnectedCommunity nickynamaste@gmail.com   Connect with Joel: Website: neuro-pathways.org  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joel-schwartz-psyd-40181614/ Links to courses: https://tcsppofficeofce.com/courses/challenging-myths-about-autism-what-assessors-and-therapists-need-to-know-lessons-from-the-neurodiversity-movement/   https://tcsppofficeofce.com/courses/neurodiversity-affirming-understanding-and-care-for-adhd/       TAGS: neurodiversity, ADHD, autism, neurodivergent, masking, support, brain differences, neurodiversity movement, self-acceptance, accommodations, traum, neurodiverse

    57 min

  6. Mar 19

    Meet the Host: Nicky Yazbeck's Healing Journey

    In this special episode of The Connected Community Podcast: Exploring Possibility, the microphone turns toward host Nicky Yazbeck as she is interviewed by Bethany Shipley. The conversation offers listeners a deeper look into Nicky’s personal and professional journey, from her decades of work as a licensed clinical social worker and yoga teacher to her exploration of holistic and alternative healing practices. This episode invites listeners to see another side of Nicky: the healer, the learner, the question-asker, and the human being continually walking her own path of growth.   Bethany Shipley is a writer, speaker, and podcast host who helps people reconnect with themselves and create lives that actually feel meaningful. She’s known for reframing the idea of “personal brand” away from marketing and toward presence, integrity, and the way we live our everyday lives. Through her podcast, Your Personal Brand with Bethany Shipley, Bethany explores what it looks like to romanticize real life realistically, trust your inner cues, and stop treating personal growth like a performance. Her work is grounded, honest, and focused on helping people feel oriented rather than optimized. Bethany believes you don’t need a different life. You just need a deeper relationship with the one you’re already living.     Bethany guides the conversation as Nicky reflects on what inspired her to create the podcast and her desire to move beyond surface-level conversations into meaningful dialogue about healing, personal growth, and the human experience. Nicky shares how her professional training, life experiences, and deep curiosity have shaped the way she approaches therapy and space-holding. She discusses the importance of meeting clients where they are, helping people understand their pain, and creating environments where acceptance can soften defenses and allow genuine healing to begin.   The episode also explores Nicky’s evolving perspective on mental health treatment. She speaks about the balance between Western psychological approaches and alternative modalities, emphasizing that healing is not one-size-fits-all. The conversation touches on the role of medication, the difference between depression rooted in life circumstances versus biological factors, and the importance of considering the whole person when supporting mental health.   Bethany and Nicky also discuss transformative experiences that helped shape Nicky’s path, including travel, personal exploration, and her openness to learning from diverse healing traditions. Nicky shares her thoughts on plant medicine and amphibian medicine, discussing both the potential benefits and the ethical responsibilities involved in these practices. Throughout the conversation, she emphasizes that powerful healing modalities require discernment, preparation, and integration.   At its core, this episode is about curiosity, self-discovery, and the courage to question societal expectations. Nicky reflects on breaking free from the “shoulds” that often shape our lives and embracing a path that aligns with personal truth. She also shares her vision for the future, which encompasses continuing to integrate different healing modalities and helping people reconnect with themselves.     Takeaways The podcast allows Nicky to connect with experts and share their wisdom with the audience. Nicky emphasizes the importance of personal experience in understanding pain and healing Acceptance is crucial in therapy, allowing clients to lower their defenses. Nicky's curiosity drives her to continuously learn and explore new ideas. Breaking free from societal expectations is essential for fulfillment. Transformative experiences often lead to significant life changes. Combining Eastern and Western healing modalities can be beneficial. Medication can be necessary, but it's not a cure-all. Plant medicine offers unique healing opportunities but requires careful consideration. Mental health treatment should be individualized and holistic. Ethics in alternative healing practices are crucial for client safety. Self-acceptance is a continuous journey that requires effort.     Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Podcast Journey 02:59 The Intersection of Personal and Professional 05:49 Understanding Pain and Healing 08:59 The Role of Acceptance in Therapy 11:52 Curiosity and Lifelong Learning 14:44 Breaking Free from the 'Shoulds' 17:39 Transformational Experiences and Self-Discovery 20:32 Integrating Eastern and Western Practices 24:26 Navigating Beliefs and Mental Health 25:39 Understanding Depression: Circumstances vs. Chemical Imbalance 29:27 Exploring Frog Medicine: A Unique Healing Approach 36:50 The Journey of Healing: Personal Growth and Transformation 45:36 OUTRO   Connect with me: https://nickyYyoga.com https://www.youtube.com/@TheConnectedCommunity nickynamaste@gmail.com   Connect with Bethany: www.bethanyshipley.com www.instagram.com/bethanyjshipley   Keywords: podcast, healing, therapy, personal growth, mental health, mindfulness, self-discovery, holistic health, Eastern medicine, Western medicine, mental health, depression,kambo frog medicine, emotional well-being, self-acceptance, holistic health, alternative therapies

    45 min

  7. Mar 5

    Shadow Work: Healing the Parts You Were Taught to Hide

    Connect with me: https://nickyYyoga.com https://www.youtube.com/@TheConnectedCommunity       Keywords: Shadow work, inner work, self discovery, transformation, inner healing, deep healing authentic self, self awareness, integration

    2 min

  8. Feb 26

    The Future of Humanity: Human Design Insights

    In this episode of The Connected Community Podcast, Nicky Yazbeck sits down with Human Design analyst and guide Ellen M. Laura for a conversation about the future of humanity, the significance of the year 2027, and how to stay centered in times of collective uncertainty. Trained directly by Human Design founder Ra Uru Hu, Ellen brings decades of experience translating complex systems into practical, usable guidance for everyday life.   Together, Nicky and Ellen explore the widely discussed Human Design prediction that 2027 marks a major evolutionary shift in human consciousness, including the emergence of what are often called “Rave Children”, which a generation believed to carry new forms of awareness and connection. Rather than leaning into fear or sensationalism, the conversation focuses on how to approach these ideas with discernment, curiosity, and emotional maturity.   A central theme of the episode is reframing fear, not as something to eliminate, but as a signal that invites awareness and wise action. Ellen shares how to distinguish between personal fear and collective fear, and how understanding that difference can help people stay grounded instead of overwhelmed. The discussion emphasizes that while global narratives can feel destabilizing, individuals still have agency in how they respond, prepare, and relate to change.   Nicky and Ellen also dive into the importance of emotional regulation, gratitude, and self-care as stabilizing forces during uncertain times. They highlight how community and meaningful relationships become even more essential when navigating large-scale shifts, and how cultivating inner steadiness allows people to show up with greater clarity and compassion. Rather than predicting doom or utopia, the episode invites listeners into a more nuanced perspective, one rooted in awareness, connection, and personal responsibility.   Ultimately, this conversation offers a balanced look at Human Design’s future-oriented ideas while staying grounded in practical tools for living well now. It’s an invitation to move beyond fear-based narratives and into a more empowered relationship with uncertainty…one where discernment replaces panic, gratitude anchors the present, and growth is seen as a shared human journey.     Human Design offers insights into our evolution and future. The year 2027 is seen as a pivotal moment for humanity. Rave Children will possess unique abilities and consciousness. Fear can serve as a signal for awareness and action. Community and relationships are essential for navigating change. Gratitude helps ground us in the present moment. Self-care is crucial in managing stress and fear. Understanding personal fears can help distinguish them from collective fears. Preparation for the future can be practical and empowering. We are all interconnected in our journeys towards growth.   Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Human Design and 2027 02:24 The Rave Children and Their Evolution 06:21 Understanding the Rave Child Phenomenon 11:33 Navigating the Future: Predictions for 2027 14:21 Fear and Collective Consciousness 23:16 Purpose and Community in the Face of Change 26:06 Navigating Relationships and Personal Growth 27:48 Understanding Fear and Its Impact 30:28 The Role of Human Design in Fear Management 30:59 Preparing for Uncertainty with Gratitude 33:15 The Importance of Emotional Regulation 35:26 Finding Balance Amidst Chaos 37:45 Activism and Personal Responsibility 39:29 The Power of Words and Their Frequencies 41:18 Embracing Uncertainty and Living Fully 42:32 Final Thoughts on Navigating the Future 46:48 OUTRO    Connect with me: https://nickyYyoga.com https://www.youtube.com/@TheConnectedCommunity nickynamaste@gmail.com   Connect with Ellen: https://ellenmlaura.substack.com/ https://www.facebook.com/ellen.laura.58/  https://www.amazon.com/stores/Ellen-M.-Laura/author/B001K8IJZO https://ellenmlaura.com/     Keywords: Human Design, 2027, Rave Children, Fear, Community, Self-Care, Awareness, Evolution, Spirituality, Personal Growth, Ra uru Hu

    47 min
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