The Connected Leadership Podcast

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The Connected Leadership Podcast

Speaker and author on professional relationships, Andy Lopata, explores great connections with experts and high achievers worldwide.

  1. Designing Authentic Connection with Melva Lajoy Legrand

    5 DAYS AGO

    Designing Authentic Connection with Melva Lajoy Legrand

    This episode of Connected Leadership Bytes features a revisit of Andy's conversation with Melva Lajoy Legrand, a leading event planner. Andy and Melva discuss the art of creating authentic connections, not just at large-scale events but also within teams and with individual relationships. Melva emphasises the importance of designing experiences that make people feel seen, valued, and heard. She shares practical strategies for event organisers, including using icebreakers that encourage storytelling, and creating spaces catering to diverse personality types (introverts and extroverts). The conversation then extends beyond event planning, exploring how to foster authentic connections in the workplace and personal life. Melva reveals the significance of vulnerability and humility in building genuine relationships, both professionally and personally. They also touch upon the evolving landscape of events, with an emphasis on interactive experiences over traditional lecture formats, and pre-event engagement strategies for creating lasting connections with audiences.  In this episode, Andy asks Melva to share a podcast episode in which she tells her personal journey. Melva recommends listening to her podcast interview with Elizabeth Smart Foundation. Melva asked to stress that, "This post contains sensitive information which is meant to heal not harm. Read with care. Consider with compassion. Protect your peace." This episode of Connected Leadership Bytes offers a deep dive into the art of creating authentic connections, whether through events, leadership, or everyday interactions, and provides valuable insights for anyone looking to foster genuine relationships in their personal or professional life. Key Takeaways: Design for Connection: Creating events (or any interaction) should prioritise making people feel seen, valued, and heard. Authenticity is Key: Genuine connections are built on vulnerability, humility, and a willingness to share both successes and challenges. This fosters trust and deeper engagement. Know Your Audience: Recognise the diverse personality types within any group and design experiences that cater to introverts and extroverts alike. Avoid a one-size-fits-all approach. Beyond Job Titles: Encourage interactions based on shared experiences and stories rather than solely professional roles. This fosters a sense of community and belonging. Pre- and Post-Event Engagement: Extend the connection beyond the event itself through pre-event communication and post-event follow-up, creating a more lasting impact. The Power of Vulnerability: Openly sharing personal struggles can build stronger connections with others, fostering empathy and trust. It's important to do the personal work before sharing to ensure authenticity.   SELECTED LINKS FROM THE EPISODE Connect with Andy Lopata: Website | Instagram | LinkedIn | X/Twitter | Youtube Connect with Melva Lajoy Legrand: Website | Instagram | LinkedIn

    21 min
  2. Building Effective Professional Relationships: Interview with Andy Lopata

    DEC 9

    Building Effective Professional Relationships: Interview with Andy Lopata

    In this episode of Connected Leadership Bytes, Lisa Fane, CEO of the Center for Mentoring Excellence, and her colleague Michelle Hancock interview Andy Lopata. They discuss the importance of professional relationships, networking, and mentoring. Focusing on building authentic connections, understanding the difference between networking and professional relationships, and the concept of a personal board of advisors. Andy shares strategies for maintaining professional networks, the role of vulnerability in mentorship and the impact of remote work on mentoring and professional relationships. He emphasises the importance of consistency and frequency in building connections and offers insights into evolving mentoring practices in the modern workplace.   Key Takeaways Reframing Networking: Shifting the perception of "networking" to "professional relationship strategy." Focus on building genuine, long-term relationships based on mutual respect and trust. The Power of Personal Boards of Advisors (Mastermind Groups): Crucial for leveraging diverse expertise and perspectives, this peer-to-peer mentoring approach offers invaluable support, guidance, and problem-solving capabilities. Regular meetings are key. The Seven Stages of Professional Relationships: Andy highlights a model (detailed in his book Connected Leadership) outlining seven stages of relationship development. Focusing on strengthening relationships in the middle stages (where rapport and trust exist but advocacy hasn't fully developed) is more effective than constantly seeking new connections. Vulnerability and Trust: Authentic professional relationships require vulnerability from both the mentor and mentee. Sharing struggles, mistakes, and doubts builds stronger connections and increases the resonance of the mentorship. Avoiding Common Pitfalls: Common networking mistakes: prioritising quantity over quality, asking for help too soon, and treating relationships transactionally. Instead look for consistent, frequent engagement, and fostering genuine connections without an immediate expectation of return. The Evolution of Mentorship: Andy notes the shift in mentorship due to remote work and changing career paths. This necessitates a more inclusive approach, embracing virtual mentoring, cross-organisational collaborations, and adapting to the needs of younger generations who prioritise long-term development over short-term project-based coaching.   Connect with Andy Lopata: Website | Instagram | LinkedIn | X/Twitter | YouTube Connect with Lisa Fain: Website |LinkedIn | Listen to the full episode here The Financial Times Guide to Mentoring

    25 min
  3. Ridiculously Easy to Do Business With... David Avrin

    DEC 2

    Ridiculously Easy to Do Business With... David Avrin

    In this month’s premiere episode of the Connected Leadership Podcast, Andy Lopata interviews David Avrin. David is one of the most in-demand Customer Experience speakers and consultants in the world today, He has shared his content-rich, entertaining and actionable presentations with enthusiastic audiences across North America and in 24 countries around the world. David helps organisations better understand and connect with their customers and clients to help future-proof their businesses.  David's insights have been featured on thousands of media outlets around the world. He is also the author of seven books including the acclaimed: It's Not Who You Know, It's Who Knows You! Why Customers Leave (and How to Win Them Back), The Morning Huddle, and his newest book, Ridiculously Easy to Do Business With.  Andy and David explore the crucial differences between customer service and customer experience, highlighting that while good service is essential, it's the overall experience that truly drives customer loyalty in today's competitive market. David argues that while many businesses boast high-quality products and services, the experience they provide is often far from ideal, leading to customer frustration. Their conversation traces the changing landscape of customer interaction, particularly the role of social media and the increasing reliance on AI-powered chatbots. While social media once served as a powerful tool for holding companies accountable, its effectiveness appears to be waning, as organisations struggle to manage the sheer volume of feedback.  They also highlight the significant generational differences in customer expectations and preferences regarding technology. While younger generations are tech-savvy and prefer self-service options, older generations often require more personalised assistance. This necessitates an "omni-channel" approach, offering a variety of ways for customers to engage based on their individual needs and preferences. The overuse of surveys is criticised, with David suggesting that less frequent, shorter, and simpler surveys are more effective. Building relatability and likability within a brand's identity is emphasised, and it's suggested that businesses shouldn't necessarily aim to please everyone, but to be the best choice for their target audience.  Finally, Andy and David reflect on the importance of striking a balance between efficiency and personalisation, prioritising speed and respect for customers' time. They emphasise that while businesses strive for predictability and efficiency, they must not lose sight of the human element and the importance of making the customer experience not just competent, but preferable. What we discussed: 1.     Customer Service vs. Customer Experience: Understand the critical distinction and why customer experience trumps service in today's market. 2.     The Evolving Role of Social Media: Social media's influence on customer feedback is shifting and how businesses can adapt. 3.     AI and Human Interaction: What is the optimal balance between AI-driven efficiency and essential human interaction. 4.     Generational Differences: How to cater to the diverse needs and technological preferences of different generations. 5.     The Power of Feedback (and the Perils of Overdoing It): How to effectively gather and use customer feedback without causing frustration Listen to this episode to gain actionable insights into creating a superior customer experience, leveraging technology effectively, and navigating the complexities of a multi-generational market. Connect with Andy Lopata: Website | Instagram | LinkedIn | X/Twitter | YouTube Connect with David Avrin: Website |LinkedIn |Facebook | YouTube The Financial Times Guide to Mentoring Ridiculously Easy to Do Business With.

    43 min
  4. Complete Guide To Effective Mentoring with Andy Lopata

    NOV 25

    Complete Guide To Effective Mentoring with Andy Lopata

    In this episode of the Connected Leadership Bytes, we feature Andy Lopata’s guest interview on the Authority Podcast with Ross Romano. Andy is a specialist speaker on professional relationships and co-author with Dr Ruth Gotian, of the Financial Times Guide to Mentoring. Mentoring in its various forms and benefits for both mentors and mentees is discussed. Andy explains that mentoring isn't just a hierarchical senior-junior relationship; it can be reverse mentoring (junior mentoring senior), peer-to-peer and formal/informal approaches. He emphasises the importance of having a "mentoring team," drawing support from various individuals. Andy and Ross agree that the qualifications for being a mentor are experience and expertise rather than formal qualifications. Andy explains the distinctions between mentoring, coaching, role models, and sponsors. The podcast also discusses what mentors should expect from mentees (commitment, accountability, openness to challenge) and vice versa. Andy also advocates for an abundance mentality in mentoring, both at an individual and organisational level, arguing that investment in mentorship yields significant returns in terms of staff retention, upskilling, and creating a positive work environment. Key Takeaways: Diverse Mentoring Models: Andy shared that mentoring extends beyond the traditional hierarchical model to include reverse mentoring, peer-to-peer mentoring, and informal mentoring teams, catering to diverse needs and situations. Clarity of Objectives: He emphasised the crucial role of clearly defined goals and objectives for both mentor and mentee to ensure the relationship's effectiveness and to prevent it from stalling. Honest and Supportive Guidance: The balance between honest feedback and supportive encouragement is critical. Mentors should challenge mentees while providing the support needed to succeed. Accountability and Commitment: A successful mentoring relationship requires both parties' commitment and willingness to be held accountable for agreed-upon actions and goals. Organisational Mentorship Programmes: To be successful these programmes require strategic planning, senior management buy-in, and peer-level support to ensure effectiveness and prevent resentment within teams.   SELECTED LINKS FROM THE EPISODE Connect with Andy Lopata: Website | Instagram | LinkedIn | X/Twitter | YouTube Connect with Ross Romano: Website |LinkedIn |X/Twitter The Financial Times Guide to Mentoring

    33 min
  5. The Happiness Revolution featuring Paul McGee

    NOV 18

    The Happiness Revolution featuring Paul McGee

    This week, Connected Leadership Bytes dives into a conversation with Paul McGee, author and speaker known for his book “SUMO (Shut Up, Move On) and his latest release “The Happiness Revolution”. Andy and Paul explore the complexities of happiness in a world filled with technological advancements and social media pressures. Paul emphasises that happiness is not a destination but a byproduct of living life well, embracing challenges, and fostering meaningful connections. He highlights the importance of embracing a holistic approach to well-being, taking care of our physical, mental, and emotional health. Social media, while offering connection, can also contribute to aims of social perfectionism and unrealistic comparisons, leading to unhappiness. Paul advocates for a mindful approach to social media, using it as a tool for connection and inspiration while recognising its potential pitfalls. There is a tendency to postpone happiness until we achieve certain goals. Paul suggests finding happiness in the present moment and not solely relying on external factors. The episode concludes by exploring the connection between happiness and professional relationships. Paul argues that happier individuals create a more positive work environment and foster stronger professional connections Key takeaways from the episode ·       Happiness is a byproduct, not a destination: This resonates with the idea of finding joy in the journey, not just the destination, which is a key principle for successful and sustainable leadership. ·       Holistic well-being is crucial: Happiness is not solely about emotions. Take a holistic approach that encompasses physical, mental, and emotional well-being. ·       Social Media: A tool, not a master:. Use social media mindfully as a tool for connection and inspiration, but avoid letting it define your worth or happiness. This emphasises the need for leaders to be aware of how social media impacts their own well-being and the well-being of their team members. ·       Authenticity is key: Authenticity and vulnerability are essential for strong leadership. Sharing your struggles and challenges alongside your successes builds trust and connection with your team, creating a more human and supportive environment. ·       Embrace imperfection: Aim for excellence, but recognise that perfectionism is unrealistic and can be detrimental to your well-being. Embrace your flaws and failures as opportunities for growth. This encourages leaders to be more relatable, create a culture of learning, and foster a sense of psychological safety within their teams. ·       Happy people build strong connections: Happiness has a positive impact on professional relationships. Be kind, grateful, and focus on building genuine connections. This highlights the importance of emotional intelligence and creating a positive work environment for successful leadership. Connect with Andy Lopata: Website | Instagram | LinkedIn | X/Twitter | YouTube Connect with Paul Mcgee: Website |LinkedIn |X/Twitter The Financial Times Guide to Mentoring

    23 min
  6. From Wham! To Woo featuring Janey Lee Grace

    NOV 11

    From Wham! To Woo featuring Janey Lee Grace

    Get ready to raise a glass... of sparkling water! In this episode of Connected Leadership Bytes, Andy Lopata revisits his episode with Janey Lee Grace, a familiar voice from BBC Radio 2 and a passionate advocate for alcohol-free living. Janey shares her personal journey from pop star to radio presenter, revealing how she navigated a world obsessed with alcohol and ultimately decided to embrace a sober lifestyle. She discusses how alcohol is deeply ingrained in our culture, and the challenges of politely declining a drink without feeling like you're missing out. Janey and Andy discuss the crucial role of connection in overcoming addiction, highlighting the power of community and finding a sense of belonging. She talks about the Sober Club, a space she created to support individuals on their alcohol-free journeys, and emphasises the importance of having people you can connect with and rely on as you navigate a sober life. Andy and Janey conclude with a call to action, urging listeners and leaders to challenge the assumption that alcohol is essential for building relationships. They offer insights on how to create more inclusive environments where everyone feels comfortable, regardless of their choices around alcohol. Janey's new book, "From WHAM! to WOO: A Life on the Mic," is a must-read for anyone who loves music, radio, and behind-the-scenes stories. She takes us back to her early days in the music industry, from singing backup for Mari Wilson and the Wilsations to touring the world with WHAM! ·       It's time to challenge the "alcohol is essential" myth. There are plenty of ways to build strong relationships without relying on a drink. ·     You're not alone. There are countless people who have embraced a sober lifestyle and have discovered incredible benefits. ·       Don't be afraid to say "no" to alcohol. It's your right to choose what you put in your body. ·       Connection is key. Find a supportive community, online or offline, to help you stay motivated and on track. ·       Leaders, it's your job to create inclusive work cultures. Make sure everyone feels welcome, regardless of their choices around alcohol. Connect with Andy Lopata: Website | Instagram | LinkedIn | X/Twitter | YouTube Connect with Janey Lee Grace: Website |LinkedIn |X/Twitter Listen to the full episode of this podcast The Financial Times Guide to Mentoring From WHAM! to WOO: A Life on the Mic by Janey Lee Grace

    27 min
  7. The Power of Tough Questions With Nathan Farrugia

    NOV 4

    The Power of Tough Questions With Nathan Farrugia

    In this episode of the Connected Leadership Podcast, host Andy Lopata welcomes Nathan Farrugia, leader of the Vistage Group. Nathan is an experienced business coach with more than 20 years’ experience across technology, construction, healthcare, education, and hospitality, as well as a TEDx speaker, philanthropist and record-breaking adventurer. Nathan's impressive resume includes setting a world record for running 27 marathons in 27 countries in 27 days. Andy and Nathan examine the art of asking tough questions, a skill vital for leaders. Nathan believes many leaders, particularly those grappling with burnout and change, are not being asked the crucial question, "Is what you're doing aligned with your purpose in life?" This existential query, often avoided in everyday interactions, becomes a cornerstone of Nathan's coaching approach, prompting introspection and reflection. Exploring the delicate balance between assertiveness and vulnerability in coaching, Nathan emphasises the importance of earning trust before delving into deeper, potentially uncomfortable questions. He shares how his own experiences, coupled with strategic storytelling, help him build rapport and encourage clients to open up.  The episode highlights the importance of understanding emotional responses to tough, challenging questions, specifically drawing on the concept of the "chimp brain"—the instinctive, reactive part of our minds. Nathan explains how he recognises these reactions through body language and seeks to create a safe space for individuals to move beyond emotional defences and engage with their rational minds. Andy and Nathan explore the distinction between coaching and mentoring, with Nathan underscoring that while he may offer insights based on his experience, he never prescribes solutions. He prioritises empowering clients to discover their own answers through a process of exploration and self-discovery. What we discussed: 1.     Are you asking the right questions? 2.     Beyond the surface. Nathan's experiences highlight the importance of diving deep to understand the emotional drivers behind a client's challenges. How much are you truly listening to your team? 3.    The power of vulnerability. How can you create a space where open dialogue and authentic conversation flourish? 4.    Unlocking the "chimp brain." Learn how to recognise and navigate emotional reactions to challenging questions. 5.     The magic of group dynamics. Learn how to leverage the power of collective wisdom in your team? Connect with Andy Lopata: Website | Instagram | LinkedIn | X/Twitter | YouTube Connect with Nathan Farrugia: Website |LinkedIn |X/Twitter The Financial Times Guide to Mentoring

    41 min
  8. How to Find Mentors in Unexpected Places with Deborah Heiser

    OCT 28

    How to Find Mentors in Unexpected Places with Deborah Heiser

    This episode of Connected Leadership Bytes examines the concept of lateral mentoring, a powerful yet often overlooked form of support. Deborah Heiser, PhD, founder of The Mentor Project, introduces the idea that mentoring doesn't always have to be hierarchical. It can be a dynamic exchange of knowledge and experience between peers, even those in different departments or industries. Deborah emphasises the importance of embracing vulnerability and asking for help, even from unexpected sources. She shares real-life examples of how individuals have leveraged lateral mentoring to achieve breakthroughs and launch their careers. Andy and Deborah highlight the benefits of both formal and informal mentoring relationships and how they can complement each other. She also sheds light on the critical role of reverse mentoring, where younger generations mentor older individuals on emerging trends and technologies. Deborah underscores the need for organisations to embrace cross-company and cross-sector mentoring, fostering collaboration and knowledge. The episode concludes with a call to action for listeners to actively seek out mentoring opportunities and recognise that everyone, regardless of their position, can benefit from both giving and receiving mentorship. Key takeaways from the episode: ·       Lateral mentoring is a powerful form of support that can come from peers, even those in different departments or industries. ·       Embrace vulnerability and ask for help from unexpected sources. Every connection is useful. ·       Formalise lateral mentoring relationships to make them more effective and focused. ·       Don't underestimate the value of reverse mentoring, where younger generations mentor older individuals on emerging trends. ·       Embrace cross-company and cross-sector mentoring to foster collaboration and knowledge sharing. ·       Recognise theimportance of both giving and receiving mentorship. Connect with Andy Lopata: Website | Instagram | LinkedIn | X/Twitter | YouTube Connect with Deborah Heiser: Website |LinkedIn |X/Twitter Listen to the full episode of this podcast The Financial Times Guide to Mentoring

    24 min
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Speaker and author on professional relationships, Andy Lopata, explores great connections with experts and high achievers worldwide.

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