The Dervish and the Mermaid

Pace & Kyeli
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The Dervish and the Mermaid

Pace (the Dervish) is a Sufi, a Pathfinding coach, a pansexual polyamorous transgender Dance Dance Revolution (DDR) player, and an Enneagram 3. Kyeli (the Mermaid) is a wildhearted witch, a self-love advocate, disabled, adventurous, and an Enneagram self-pres 4. Together, we fight crime! ...as well as curiously explore how the world works, build bridges of compassion by working to understand people who are different, investigate how to be effective activists when we're both highly sensitive, and generally explore life through the lens of mystic feminist queer gamer geeks. We live our lives wholeheartedly and we're here to help you do the same. We publish a new episode every Thursday morning, so tune in to join us for these and all sorts of other shenanigans! p.s. This is the podcast formerly known as Wild Crazy Meaningful Life (and also the podcast formerly known as Wild Crazy Meaningful Enneagram); listen to episode 121 to find out why.

  1. 09.03.2017

    WCML 120: Peaceful Productivity 5: Peaceful Mind Management

    Productivity? Ehh, maybe later. Procrastination makes you crater. Thrashing can stop you, Overwhelm drops you. What if you had a translator? * procrastination * this could be because you’re overwhelmed, thrashing, or unmotivated. We’ll cover the first 2 of these today. (Motivation was covered in WCML 118: Peaceful Productivity 3: Peaceful Motivation, episode 3 in this series.) * What about resistance? resistance is misguided attraction * Last resort: Productive Procrastination (structured procrastination) * thrashing * noticing, e.g. on the days when i stick to some kind of structure I feel better, I feel more productive, I don’t have that flailing around thrashing feeling * separate planning from doing * batch it or batshit * overwhelm * underwhelm * open loops * trusted systems * post-it notes: How to get organized, part one: coffee table + post-it notes = business plan! and WCML 094: MasterHeart: Like a mastermind but, you know, heartier. Thanks for listening to Wild Crazy Meaningful Life! If you enjoyed this episode, please review us on iTunes and send your friends to WildCrazyMeaningfulLife.com. That’s also where you can download my free eBook, Find Your Path Now. It’ll help you stop living on autopilot and start living the wild, crazy, meaningful life you were meant to live!

    57 мин.

  2. 23.02.2017

    WCML 119: Peaceful Productivity 4: Peaceful Time Management

    “Productively manage your time.” Sounds like a steep uphill climb. But that is fallacious! You can feel spacious, And slacking need not be a crime. * “not enough time” is a polite lie * aligning your time with your priorities * WCML 068: Wild Crazy Meaningful Death, with Caitlin Doughty * pathfinding * reminder: boil shoulds and have-to’s down to wants * It’s better to make tough “this can wait” decisions than to feel overwhelmed. * choice * tyranny of choice (“It’s bread, in crumb form”) * manufacturing happiness only works when you’re locked in * perfectionism * “I need to be perfect because…” * you are enough * Turn it around and remember your new mantra in the moment. * tiers or tears: Tier 1 “must-do”, Tier 2 “would be awesome”, Tier 3 “would be nice” (http://pacesmith.com/tiers/) * The Leonie Effect * practicing (e.g. no backspace in email) Thanks for listening to Wild Crazy Meaningful Life! If you enjoyed this episode, please review us on iTunes and send your friends to WildCrazyMeaningfulLife.com. That’s also where you can download my free eBook, Find Your Path Now. It’ll help you stop living on autopilot and start living the wild, crazy, meaningful life you were meant to live!

    51 мин.

  3. 09.02.2017

    WCML 118: Peaceful Productivity 3: Peaceful Motivation

    Productivity? Self-flagellation. But only if you feel stagnation. Begin at the root And the rest follows suit: Help yourself feel motivation! * we do what we most want to do (triple soul) * why this is helpful – e.g. resistance to habit, procrastination, thrashing * goals vs. intentions. does “goal” mean strict and rigid? if so then set an intention instead. * is this a “should” or “have to” goal? * the paradox of change * all-love Mondays * 1. not inspired? you need taste * the “just 5 minutes” trick – give yourself permission * futureme.org * visualize the process, not just the end result * 2. inspired but not motivated? you need energy * 3. motivated but not taking action? you need the right environment * smoothness * pickling Thanks for listening to Wild Crazy Meaningful Life! If you enjoyed this episode, please review us on iTunes and send your friends to WildCrazyMeaningfulLife.com. That’s also where you can download my free eBook, Find Your Path Now. It’ll help you stop living on autopilot and start living the wild, crazy, meaningful life you were meant to live!

    55 мин.

  4. 26.01.2017

    WCML 117: Peaceful Productivity 2: Peaceful Habits

    Productivity isn’t traumatic If you make it less vague and erratic. Don’t push and don’t force, Instead, set the course, Then accomplish things on automatic! * when it’s good to be on autopilot and when it’s dangerous. habits vs. practices (autopilot vs. mindful) * habits got a bad rap * “morning routines, morning autopilot, was what I have used, ever since high school, to get from nice comfy bed to horrible morning school or job. Autopilot doesn’t take me anyplace good.” – a past student * “good” habits vs. “bad” habits * let go of “should” * motivation to form a habit (see also next week) * Gretchen Rubin’s habit types: * Upholders wake up and think, “What’s on the schedule and the to-do list for today?” * Rebels wake up and think, “What do I want to do today?” * Obligers wake up and think, “What must I do today?” * Questioners wake up and think, “What needs to get done today, and why?” * What Kind of Person Are You? The Four Rubin Tendencies. * “Better Than Before” * The 6 keys to forming a habit: * 30-day trial * little changes * one at a time * trigger * accountability * celebrate! * 2 special cases: * when your routine changes, either find a trigger that will stay the same, or plan to reinstate your habit later * you can’t quit, you can only replace. Thanks for listening to Wild Crazy Meaningful Life! If you enjoyed this episode, please review us on iTunes and send your friends to WildCrazyMeaningfulLife.com. That’s also where you can download my free eBook, Find Your Path Now. It’ll help you stop living on autopilot and start living the wild, crazy, meaningful life you were meant to live!

    59 мин.

  5. 12.01.2017

    WCML 116: Peaceful Productivity 1: Peaceful Self-Care

    Productivity? Better beware. I’ll compare, which will lead to despair. Instead of this struggle, How ’bout a nice snuggle? Let’s start off with peaceful self-care. * making peace with productivity * “I am hard on myself when I feel unproductive.” survey question. half the class agreed and the other half… strongly agreed. * tapes * rewriting tapes. you can’t erase them. * “I get more done in one hour when I’m well-rested than I get done in eight hours of pushing through.” * “I would rather be a peaceful failure than a stressed-out success.” * “Taking care of myself is important, valuable, and necessary.” * “I’m worthy of love for who I am, not for what I do.” * self-trust * we are heart people in a brain world * Help Wanted story * structure * resistance to structure, like “you have to go to bed now” as a kid * I used to think “structure meant a lack of freedom” * structure = “I have to get up at 8am” but it doesn’t have to be like that. It can be semi-flexible * acceptance and compassion. whatever you choose, even if it’s not the productive option, choose it wholeheartedly * resisting the things that are the most important – it’s actually a good sign * Spiritual practice is the magic bullet for maintaining peace. * Rest and play * Give yourself permission to be where you are and take care of yourself * Spaciousness inside out. Heart first, calendar second. * Stay-at-home retreat * Even a little time is enough to be kind to yourself * Put your own oxygen mask on first. “If your compassion does not include yourself, it is incomplete.” -Jack Kornfield * capacity management – schedule recovery days, don’t oversocial yourself before a big social thing * What even is self-care? How to know what is effective self-care for yourself. Thanks for listening to Wild Crazy Meaningful Life! If you enjoyed this episode, please review us on iTunes and send your friends to WildCrazyMeaningfulLife.com. That’s also where you can download my free eBook, Find Your Path Now. It’ll help you stop living on autopilot and start living the wild, crazy, meaningful life you were meant to live!

    59 мин.

  6. 29.12.2016

    WCML 115: Pace and Kyeli’s words of the year for 2017

    2017 is nigh here; Let’s shift to a much lower gear. We’ve always preferred To choose just one word To set our intent for the year. * Pace’s previous words of the year: acceptance, annihilation, surrender, pantry, easy mode * Kyeli’s previous words of the year: courageous, open, mermaid, epic * How easy mode has shaped Pace’s 2016 * How epic has shaped Kyeli’s 2016 * Pace’s word of the year for 2017 * Kyeli’s word of the year for 2017 * WCME 022: A conversation with Danielle, a 5 (Investigator) * Previous podcasts * WCML 077: Pace and Kyeli’s words of the year for 2016 * WCML 039: Pace and Kyeli’s words of the year for 2015 * Soul Mantras by Liz Lamoreux Thanks for listening to Wild Crazy Meaningful Life! If you enjoyed this episode, please review us on iTunes and send your friends to WildCrazyMeaningfulLife.com. That’s also where you can download my free eBook, Find Your Path Now. It’ll help you stop living on autopilot and start living the wild, crazy, meaningful life you were meant to live!

    45 мин.

  7. 15.12.2016

    WCML 114: Living a wholehearted life

    If to thine own self you are true, If there’s nothing you wish to undo, You won’t fall apart. You’ll have your whole heart, And that means you’ll have your whole you. * all 9 limericks” * “God doesn’t care about the size of your cookies.” -Kyeli * WCML 087: “If you’re not going to devote yourself to it 24/7/365, why bother?” * a kyriarchical memeplex! Thanks for listening to Wild Crazy Meaningful Life! If you enjoyed this episode, please review us on iTunes and send your friends to WildCrazyMeaningfulLife.com. That’s also where you can download my free eBook, Find Your Path Now. It’ll help you stop living on autopilot and start living the wild, crazy, meaningful life you were meant to live!

    42 мин.

  8. 01.12.2016

    WCML 113: Caging the Beast Within: What if you’re secretly a bad person who fakes being a good person?

    I must keep the beast under guard, In a cage always minded and barred. If the beast were set free, I fear I would be As awful as Jean-Luc Picard. * A bad person + a conscience = a good person * A selfish person + a filter = a considerate person * A selfish person is a kind person who is not getting their needs met * Praetor Shinzon from Star Trek: Nemesis (it was a movie, Kyeli was right) * The upward spiral Thanks for listening to Wild Crazy Meaningful Life! If you enjoyed this episode, please review us on iTunes and send your friends to WildCrazyMeaningfulLife.com. That’s also where you can download my free eBook, Find Your Path Now. It’ll help you stop living on autopilot and start living the wild, crazy, meaningful life you were meant to live!

    40 мин.
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Pace (the Dervish) is a Sufi, a Pathfinding coach, a pansexual polyamorous transgender Dance Dance Revolution (DDR) player, and an Enneagram 3. Kyeli (the Mermaid) is a wildhearted witch, a self-love advocate, disabled, adventurous, and an Enneagram self-pres 4. Together, we fight crime! ...as well as curiously explore how the world works, build bridges of compassion by working to understand people who are different, investigate how to be effective activists when we're both highly sensitive, and generally explore life through the lens of mystic feminist queer gamer geeks. We live our lives wholeheartedly and we're here to help you do the same. We publish a new episode every Thursday morning, so tune in to join us for these and all sorts of other shenanigans! p.s. This is the podcast formerly known as Wild Crazy Meaningful Life (and also the podcast formerly known as Wild Crazy Meaningful Enneagram); listen to episode 121 to find out why.

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    Pace & Kyeli
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    2013 - 2017
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