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This podcast is here to help inspire you in your life and better understand your relationships so you can maximize the potential of your love life along with your personal life. What you will find here is dating, relationship, and life advice from your host along with some amazing interviews with some pretty amazing experts!

The Elevated Man Apollonia Ponti

    • Education
    • 4.9 • 194 Ratings

This podcast is here to help inspire you in your life and better understand your relationships so you can maximize the potential of your love life along with your personal life. What you will find here is dating, relationship, and life advice from your host along with some amazing interviews with some pretty amazing experts!

    9 SECRETS To Attract Women Without Compromising Your Standards! (ADVICE Men Need To Hear)

    9 SECRETS To Attract Women Without Compromising Your Standards! (ADVICE Men Need To Hear)

    Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti 
    9 SECRETS To Attract Women Without Compromising Your Standards! (ADVICE Men Need To Hear)
    Do you attract the woman who only uses you? 
    Do you often feel that you must put your values aside to approach a woman? 
    If you must compromise your values to date or attract a woman, you are going about dating wrong. In today’s podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti shares nine essential secrets for attracting women without compromising your standards. 
    Apollonia understands that men often alter their behavior to attract women, unknowingly attracting low-quality or even toxic women.
    With her expert advice, she will guide you in attracting high-quality women by setting boundaries, ensuring she treats you right, and, most importantly, staying true to your values. 
    So, if you’re ready to start attracting a woman who matches your values and finds a lifelong partner, this episode is for you!
    Key points in this episode:
    0:48 - How to attract women without compromising your standards. 2:00 - Compromising your standards usually happens when trying to attract a woman because of her appearance. 3:07- Beauty is not everything. Just because she is attractive doesn’t mean she is high-quality. 5:03 - Sustainable needs vs superficial needs. Apollonia explains the difference. 6:01 - Remember, having a purpose in life is key. Don’t involve your life around women; instead, focus on what truly drives you and gives your life meaning. 7:50 - Dont limit yourself. Go on multiple dates and see different types of women. 9:41 - Do not compare yourself to men who constantly date women. Men who often date women but end up in short-term relationships usually attract the wrong type of woman. 11:04 - When you attract the right woman, choosing is harder. Apollonia tells you how she can help. 13:16 - Stop looking at the outside of things. When you open Instagram, what do you see? Models? Bikini models? Change this. 14:23 - The difference between disrespect and ego. Apollonia explains how it is important to know the difference. 16:34 - Show her a piece of your life. Suppose she is willing to invest to be part of or show some interest in your life. This might be the woman for you.   "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review.  
    Book a free Agthormion of Attraction call! 
    Free eBook:  7 Common Mistakes Men Make When Attracting a Woman
    Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: 
    Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en
    Facebook; https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach
    YouTube; https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCYqdbnuvx-jJZByotoNW-5Q
    Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/
    Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.

    • 20 min
    The Type Of Men Toxic Women Bait! (TRIGGER WARNING For Men)

    The Type Of Men Toxic Women Bait! (TRIGGER WARNING For Men)

    Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti 
    The Type Of Men Toxic Women Bait! (TRIGGER WARNING For Men)
    Do you feel you’re always attracting toxic women? 
    Do you sometimes think you are dating the right woman and then find out later she is using you? 
    If you’re stuck in a loop of dating toxic women or falling for their tricks, you’re not alone. It’s time to understand why this might be happening. If this sounds like your dating life, then this podcast episode is just what you need! In today’s episode, Apollonia Ponti dives into the types of men toxic women often target.
    Apollonia knows when men who are often inexperienced, wealthy, or possess a savior complex unknowingly attract toxic women. 
    But with her help, she will help you identify these toxic women, recognize red flags, spot the early signs when dating, and learn how to stop attracting such individuals.
    So, if you’re ready to start dating a highly valued woman, this podcast episode is for you!
    Key points in this episode:
    0:33 - There is a specific man that Toxic Women Bait! 1:54 - High, successful man. Toxic women will see that these men have a lot of money and, in return, will love to bomb them to get what they want. 3:14 - Usually, when the man is much older than the woman they date, they lead by money. Apollonia explains why it is. 4:02 - Fixing her problems. A savior complex, advocating for her problems, thinking if you can save her, she will love you. 6:08 - Men aren’t willing to set their boundaries. Men who are too passive attract toxic women. 7:33 - Apollonia provides a real-life example of how to approach stating your boundary with a woman. 11:39 - The “yes” man. Saying yes to everything, plans, purchases, and giving her everything she wants. 13:56 - Apollonia provides examples. 16:27 - A man who is inexperienced and doesn’t have options. It can come down to age, looks, or relationship experience. You need to have some exposure to dating women.  "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review.  
    Book a free Agthormion of Attraction call! 
    Free eBook:  7 Common Mistakes Men Make When Attracting a Woman
    Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: 
    Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en
    Facebook; https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach
    YouTube; https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCYqdbnuvx-jJZByotoNW-5Q
    Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/
    Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.

    • 19 min
    Why Men Should Pay On The First Date! ( Don't JUDGE This)

    Why Men Should Pay On The First Date! ( Don't JUDGE This)

    Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti 
    Why Men Should Pay On The First Date! ( Don't JUDGE This)
    Do you constantly have to second guess whether or not to pay on the first date? 
    If so, how do you do it without offending her? 
    If you constantly have to rethink why you should or shouldn’t pay on the first date, then this is a podcast episode for you! In today’s episode, Apollonia Ponti will discuss why men should pay on the first date.
    Apollonia understands that men may be unsure about this tradition, worrying that it might undermine a woman's independence.
    However, Apollonia will provide insights into why paying on the first date is essential. She will also offer advice on demonstrating genuine interest through thoughtful gestures and showing her that you are more than just a gentleman but a potential partner for her. 
    So, if you are ready to pay on the first date, this podcast episode is for you!
    Key points in this episode:
    0:34 - Why Men should pay on the first date. 1:15 - Will offering to pay for the dinner offend them? Apollonia explains further. 2:25 - Why is it a tradition for the man to pick up the bill on the first date? Apollonia provides context and examples of when the man pays on the first date. 4:32 - Apollonia knows the struggles of men being confused about paying on the first date. 5:35 - An independent woman still wants chivalry and a touch of old fashion. It’s about the intention behind the gesture of paying first. 6:49 - Let your actions speak louder than your words. Picking up the bill is a sign of mutual respect. 8:28 - The first date is crucial, so go the extra mile. It sets the tone for the relationship. 9:02 - Paying the bill on the first date is critical, but only sometimes. A red flag in a woman is when she demands you pay for every date you guys go to. 10:09 - Not only pay for the bill. Small gestures like opening the door, pulling the seat out for her, see her reaction if she is invested.



    "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review.  
    Book a free Agthormion of Attraction call! 
    Free eBook:  7 Common Mistakes Men Make When Attracting a Woman
    Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: 
    Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en
    Facebook; https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach
    YouTube; https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCYqdbnuvx-jJZByotoNW-5Q
    Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/
    Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.

    • 12 min
    7 Secret Behaviors That Women Do That Are Red Flags (You Would Never Know These!)

    7 Secret Behaviors That Women Do That Are Red Flags (You Would Never Know These!)

    Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti 
    7 Secret Behaviors That Women Do That Are Red Flags (You Would Never Know These!)
    Do you think you often overlook her outbursts or nagging behaviors? 
    Do you sometimes feel overwhelmed just by being in a relationship with her? 
    If you are unsure whether or not her behaviors are healthy or unhealthy in the relationship, this podcast episode is for you. In today's podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti will reveal seven secret behaviors women exhibit that are red flags, which are often difficult to detect.
    Apollonia understands that identifying these red flags can be challenging, especially when they appear normal in a relationship. 
    Her expertise will guide you through these seven behaviors to help you recognize potential warning signs. And understand why she might have these red flags and why she uses them to her advantage. 
    So, if you are ready to know if your relationship is healthy or if her behaviors are justified, this podcast episode is for you!
    Key points in this episode:
    0:32 - Secret Behaviors Women Do that are Red Flags! 1:43 - Woman who loves bombs. If she constantly shows you love bombs at the start of the relationship, this is a red flag. 2:54 - Apollonia tells you examples of what she will say that is lovebombing. 4:07- She constantly nitpicks you, from your clothes to your life choices. If she persistently criticizes your decisions, this is a crucial warning sign to be cautious of. 5:30 - Remarks she will make if you try to tell her to stop nitpicking you. 5:53 - Her bad habit of cutting you off during the conversation. 6:18 - Apollonia’s story of her client dating a woman constantly cutting them off during conversations. 7:19 - When she pressures you to drink. This lack of boundaries is one of many men’s mistakes when dating a woman, and it is a red flag.  8:35 - Uses her body or sex appeal to get what she wants. This is a manipulation tactic (ex, Withholding sex when you dont give her what she wants). 9:47 - Avoiding communication. Avoiding specific topics that can be a deal breaker in the relationship and preventing serious ones without having these talks can complicate the relationship more. 11:33 - Woman thinks all men are evil. 12:21 - Never put in any of the work and expect you to do it. This is an unhealthy balance; she will need to be emotionally and physically invested in the relationship. "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review.  
    Book a free Agthormion of Attraction call! 
    Free eBook:  7 Common Mistakes Men Make When Attracting a Woman
    Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: 
    Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en
    Facebook; https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach
    YouTube; https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCYqdbnuvx-jJZByotoNW-5Q
    Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/
    Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.

    • 14 min
    The SECRET To Going From Dating To Exclusivity! (Make Her EMOTIONALLY Hooked)

    The SECRET To Going From Dating To Exclusivity! (Make Her EMOTIONALLY Hooked)

    Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti 
    The SECRET To Going From Dating To Exclusivity! (Make Her EMOTIONALLY Hooked)
    Do you want a long-term commitment to the woman you are dating? 
    Do you want to make your relationship more serious? Without making it feel rushed?
    If you’re looking to elevate your relationship to a more serious stage and want to do it in a way that feels natural and unforced, this podcast episode is a must-listen! In this episode, Apollonia Ponti will share invaluable insights on transitioning from dating to exclusivity, helping you build a deeper emotional connection with your partner. 
    Apollonia understands men’s challenges when seeking a serious relationship without appearing controlling or needy. 
    With Apollonia’s help, she will share valuable tips on how to guide your relationship toward long-term commitment and recognize if she is equally committed. And start to plan the future with her in mind. 
    If you’re ready to commit, take things more seriously, and let her know you’re serious, this podcast episode is for you! 
    Key points in this episode:
    0:33 - Going from dating to exclusivity. 2:30 - The crucial first step in this transition is to be crystal clear about your desires, values, and future goals. This lays the foundation for a serious and committed relationship. 3:46 - The value statement. What are you looking for? Start form here. 5:06 - Don’t tell her right away what you want. Let her know little by little, and be open if she asks. 7:16 - Travel with them. Only do this if you are in a relationship with them. 9:37 - Think of any emotional baggage you might have. Self-reflect on the baggage that you brought to your previous relationship. 13:36 - Apollonia’s personal story on how she went from dating to exclusivity with her husband. 15:48 - Dont make her the center of your attention. Take your time with her, do your life, and let her do hers. 17:43 - Causally dating to exclusively. It is a base of foundation that is built on trust, respect, and values. 



    "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review.  
    Book a free Agthormion of Attraction call! 
    Free eBook:  7 Common Mistakes Men Make When Attracting a Woman
    Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: 
    Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en
    Facebook; https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach
    YouTube; https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCYqdbnuvx-jJZByotoNW-5Q
    Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/
    Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.

    • 21 min
    7 Ways To Be Perceived HOT By Women (Even If You're Not Good-Looking)

    7 Ways To Be Perceived HOT By Women (Even If You're Not Good-Looking)

    Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti 
    7 Ways To Be Perceived HOT By Women (Even If You're Not Good-Looking)
    Do you ever feel you’re not attractive enough for women? 
    Do you always get intimidated by approaching an attractive woman?
    If you ever feel that you aren’t attractive enough for a woman and want to know how. Then this is the podcast episode for you; in today's podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti will share seven tips on how to be perceived as attractive by women. 
    Apollonia understands that it can be challenging for men to be seen as attractive without having the perfect physique or wealth. 
    However, Apollonia will provide practical insights on how you can start being perceived as attractive by women and how to feel genuinely attractive yourself. By only using these simple 7 steps. 
    So, if you are ready to invest in your looks and get the woman you want, tune in to this podcast episode! 
    Key points in this episode: 
    0:33 - Ways To Be Perceived HOT By Women (Even If You're Not Good-Looking) 2:05 - Your looks don’t define you. Pay attention to the clothes you wear; this is key. 3:05 - It’s not just about looks. Confidence and charisma are attractive. Have you noticed the men who always manage to attract women despite not being conventionally good-looking? It’s their character that shines through. 4:45 - Look put togehter. Keep your beard trimmed, clothes ironed down, smelling good. This is what keeps you looking put together. 6:08 - Avoid feeling like the hottest guy in the room. People can catch up to this and sense this ego energy, which is not attractive. 7:00 - Self deprecating comments. Most of these comments can make you look insecure; Apollonia gives an example of one of her clients doing this. 8:40 - Have structure in your life. Have a balanced life. 10:11 - Having a good group of friends. If a woman sees that you have a good group of friends, she will see it as you being more independent and good at maintaining relationships. 11:30 - Good communication skills. Being able to embrace vulnerability is what women find attractive. 



    "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review.  
    Book a free Agthormion of Attraction call! 
    Free eBook:  7 Common Mistakes Men Make When Attracting a Woman
    Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: 
    Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en
    Facebook; https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach
    YouTube; https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCYqdbnuvx-jJZByotoNW-5Q
    Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/
    Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.

    • 14 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
194 Ratings

194 Ratings

ralphvange ,

Worth listening to

I enjoy listening to Apo’s pod cast as they tend to be on point with advice and suggestions.

Taraoke9876543 ,

Keep up the great work!

I love the intro music and intro vocals!! Ponti’s voice — both her literal voice and her figurative voice — is clear, warm and real. Keep up the great work!

JeepinDon ,

Truly A Game Changer

I’m a thankful that I found Apollonia’s podcast. I can tell from the information presented in this podcast she cares for men, our personal relationship with ourselves, and how this filters over to our relationships with women and finding an equally valuable woman to spend our life with.

Every episode has gems of information to learn from and apply. It has already transformed my life and I know will continue to do so as I “elevate” myself to a better man than I have been!

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