The EMDR Doctor Podcast

Dr Caroline Lloyd

Dr Caroline is a Mental Health GP who is passionate about helping her clients resolve their difficult memories using EMDR. Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing is an amazingly effective therapy for trauma and difficult memories. This podcast demystifies EMDR. Dr Caroline shares all her knowledge and experience to help you decide if EMDR is for you, and how best to get the most from your EMDR journey.

  1. 6일 전

    32. Permission to be me: Sharon's Journey through EMDR

    In this powerful first guest episode, Dr. Caroline Lloyd sits down with Sharon, a breast cancer survivor whose life changed through EMDR therapy. Sharon opens up about her childhood trauma, the deep loss of identity during cancer treatment, and how EMDR helped her reconnect with herself and rediscover a sense of wholeness. This is a heartfelt and courageous conversation about healing, self-worth, and finding peace after pain. In This Episode, You'll Learn: How trauma can quietly shape our identity over time — and how EMDR can help us rewrite the narrative. What it’s like to go through EMDR therapy from a client’s perspective. The connection between physical illness and emotional trauma. Why reclaiming your voice and identity is possible at any stage in life. How powerful it is to feel truly heard, seen, and understood. Key Highlights: Sharon’s raw and honest reflections on growing up with childhood trauma. How her breast cancer diagnosis and treatment left her feeling invisible and disconnected. The moment she realized she had lost her sense of self — and how EMDR became a turning point. Her experience of the EMDR process, including the emotional releases and key breakthroughs. The power of self-compassion, and what it means to finally feel seen and valued. Why she believes everyone needs a Sharon in their life — and how healing is possible, even after decades. Resources Mentioned: Dr. Lloyd’s Heal Your Past online EMDR program – Register at emdrdoctor.com.au/heal Research on PTSD treatments and why EMDR is faster and more effective than traditional talk therapy for trauma Contact and Feedback: Thinking about trying EMDR for PTSD? Reach out to Dr. Lloyd at emdrdoctor.com.au. Note: This podcast provides general information and is not a substitute for individual medical advice. Always consult your healthcare provider for personalised recommendations. Subscribe & Stay Connected: Don’t miss next week’s episode for a fresh take on therapy and why EMDR might just be the game-changer you’ve been looking for. Follow the podcast to stay updated on the latest insights and expert discussions. Join Dr. Caroline Lloyd as she demystifies PTSD and provides hope for recovery, showing that healing is possible with the right tools and support. Thanks for listening!

    27분
  2. 4월 4일

    31. Perinatal EMDR

    Motherhood is life-changing—but for many, it comes with unexpected challenges, trauma, and emotional struggles. In this episode, we’re diving into the perinatal period, the mental load new mums carry, and how EMDR therapy can help process distressing memories. Plus, I’ll be sharing details about my exciting new collaboration with Mums Matter Psychology and how you can join our upcoming Group EMDR sessions. If you’re a new mum or supporting one, this is an episode you won’t want to miss! In This Episode, You'll Learn: A deeper understanding of perinatal trauma and how it affects mental health. Insight into how EMDR can be a game-changer for new mothers. Information on accessible, low-cost Group EMDR sessions. Practical self-care tips for postpartum mental well-being. Encouragement and hope—reminding struggling mums that healing is possible! Key Highlights: Introducing EMDR in the Perinatal Period: A look at how Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) can help new mothers navigate trauma and distress. Collaboration with Mums Matter Psychology: Announcement of an exciting partnership to offer low-cost online Group EMDR sessions for mums, starting in May. The Emotional Rollercoaster of Motherhood: Exploring the massive emotional and hormonal shifts from conception through the first year postpartum. Birth Plans vs. Reality: A candid discussion on the gap between expectations and actual birth experiences, and how that can impact mental health. The Hidden Toll of Perinatal PTSD: How distressing birth experiences can lead to long-term trauma, anxiety, and feelings of failure in new mothers. Barriers to Seeking Help: Why many mums delay getting support and the consequences of untreated trauma. How EMDR Can Help: The power of processing traumatic memories to improve maternal mental health and family bonding. Practical Tips for Postnatal Mental Health: Simple, effective strategies from Mums Matter Psychology to support new mums. Resources Mentioned: Dr. Lloyd’s Heal Your Past online EMDR program – Register at emdrdoctor.com.au/heal Research on PTSD treatments and why EMDR is faster and more effective than traditional talk therapy for trauma Contact and Feedback: Thinking about trying EMDR for PTSD? Reach out to Dr. Lloyd at emdrdoctor.com.au. Note: This podcast provides general information and is not a substitute for individual medical advice. Always consult your healthcare provider for personalised recommendations. Subscribe & Stay Connected: Don’t miss next week’s episode for a fresh take on therapy and why EMDR might just be the game-changer you’ve been looking for. Follow the podcast to stay updated on the latest insights and expert discussions. Join Dr. Caroline Lloyd as she demystifies PTSD and provides hope for recovery, showing that healing is possible with the right tools and support. Thanks for listening!

    10분
  3. 3월 28일

    30. Body Memories

    This episode builds on last week's discussion about the body's response to trauma and the Five F’s—Fight, Flight, Freeze, Fawn, and Flop. This time, we’re diving deeper into how memories are stored in the body and the powerful connection between body sensations and past experiences. In This Episode, You'll Learn: How memories are made up of multiple sensory components beyond just images. The role of bodily sensations in recalling memories—both positive and traumatic. Why some sensations can trigger past experiences and even contribute to chronic pain. How EMDR therapy can help "unstick" painful memories from body sensations to reduce discomfort. Key Highlights: Memories are stored with multiple layers – thoughts, emotions, bodily sensations, and sensory details (sight, sound, smell, taste, and touch). Example of memory recall: A roller coaster ride can bring back excitement or fear, depending on the past experience, through sensations like cold air, dizziness, or the scent of popcorn. Trauma memories can feel real – The body doesn’t distinguish between past and present when recalling a traumatic event, leading to intense physical responses like tension, nausea, or even pain. Chronic pain and memory loops – Repeated trauma or pain can lead to Central Sensitisation Syndrome, where even minor sensations trigger amplified pain responses due to memory associations. EMDR Therapy and Pain – EMDR helps disconnect pain from memory, just as it helps process emotional trauma. Other strategies like physiotherapy, movement therapy, medication, and behavioral approaches can complement EMDR for better recovery. Not all physical symptoms are trauma-related – The human body is complex, and while some pains link to memories, others have purely physical causes. Always consult a doctor for medical concerns. Resources Mentioned: Dr. Lloyd’s Heal Your Past online EMDR program – Register at emdrdoctor.com.au/heal Research on PTSD treatments and why EMDR is faster and more effective than traditional talk therapy for trauma Contact and Feedback: Thinking about trying EMDR for PTSD? Reach out to Dr. Lloyd at emdrdoctor.com.au. Note: This podcast provides general information and is not a substitute for individual medical advice. Always consult your healthcare provider for personalised recommendations. Subscribe & Stay Connected: Don’t miss next week’s episode to hear how memory and the body are deeply connected and how EMDR therapy can help break the cycle of pain and trauma! Follow the podcast to stay updated on the latest insights and expert discussions. Join Dr. Caroline Lloyd as she demystifies PTSD and provides hope for recovery, showing that healing is possible with the right tools and support. Thanks for listening!

    11분
  4. 29. The Five F’s - how trauma affects the brain and body

    3월 21일

    29. The Five F’s - how trauma affects the brain and body

    Welcome back to The EMDR Doctor Podcast! In this episode, Dr. Caroline Lloyd dives into the fascinating world of trauma and the body’s instinctive responses. From the fight-or-flight reaction to the lesser-known ‘Flop’ response, she breaks down how our brains and bodies work in high-stress situations. She also unpacks how EMDR therapy helps rewire the brain—moving traumatic memories out of the fear center and into long-term storage, making them less distressing. If you've ever wondered why certain triggers set off intense emotions or how EMDR actually works on a biological level, this episode is for you! In This Episode, You'll Learn: The 5 trauma responses (Fight, Flight, Freeze, Fawn, Flop) and how they affect the body. How trauma impacts brain function and can impair memory storage. Why dissociation happens and why some people have memory gaps after trauma. The physiological impact of EMDR—how it moves traumatic memories from the amygdala to long-term storage. How EMDR therapy helps people feel safer, more present, and less triggered in daily life. Key Highlights: Fight or Flight kicks in before we’re even aware of danger—our brain reacts before we consciously register a threat! Trauma changes the way we hear sound—our ears become more attuned to survival noises like growling and screaming while filtering out normal speech. The “Please & Appease” response (aka Fawn)—why some trauma survivors struggle with people-pleasing behaviors. Flop is the brain’s emergency shut-off switch—when all else fails, the body shuts down completely as a last survival mechanism. EMDR actually changes the brain—brain scans show trauma memories lighting up different areas before and after EMDR therapy.  After EMDR, life feels lighter—stress hormones decrease, emotional reactions soften, and triggers lose their power. Resources Mentioned: Dr. Lloyd’s Heal Your Past online EMDR program – Register at emdrdoctor.com.au/heal Research on PTSD treatments and why EMDR is faster and more effective than traditional talk therapy for trauma Contact and Feedback: Thinking about trying EMDR for PTSD? Reach out to Dr. Lloyd at emdrdoctor.com.au. Note: This podcast provides general information and is not a substitute for individual medical advice. Always consult your healthcare provider for personalised recommendations. Subscribe & Stay Connected: Don’t miss next week’s episode to gain fresh insights into the world of therapy and why EMDR might just be the "bee's knees" for fostering real, lasting change. Follow the podcast to stay updated on the latest insights and expert discussions. Join Dr. Caroline Lloyd as she demystifies PTSD and provides hope for recovery, showing that healing is possible with the right tools and support. Thanks for listening!

    19분
  5. 28. Triggers

    3월 14일

    28. Triggers

    In this episode, Dr. Caroline dives into a term that's often thrown around but not always fully understood — triggers. We hear it all the time: “That was so triggering!” — but what does being triggered really mean? Spoiler alert: it’s not just about feeling annoyed or disagreeing with someone. Dr. Caroline breaks down the true definition of a trigger, why using the term incorrectly can trivialize serious mental health conditions like PTSD, and how to spot the difference between feeling upset and experiencing a trauma response. In This Episode, You'll Learn: What a trigger actually is — a stimulus (sight, sound, smell, or sensation) that instantly pulls you back into a traumatic memory and the intense emotions tied to it. What a trigger is NOT — it’s not a disagreement, an unpleasant feeling, or simple anger. Misusing the word can minimize the seriousness of trauma. How to cope with real triggers — practical tools like emotional first aid, grounding techniques, and the butterfly hug to calm your nervous system. Why EMDR therapy works — how it can help desensitize triggers and reduce the emotional intensity of traumatic memories. Key Highlights: Why language matters: Mislabeling everyday frustrations as “triggers” can undermine the severity of trauma and mental health struggles — just like calling a sniffle “the flu” or a bug bite “cancer.” Long-term healing: EMDR therapy can desensitize triggers by reducing the emotional intensity of traumatic memories. Extra support: Grab Dr. Caroline’s free guide — 10 Ways to Feel Better Now — for practical tools to manage anxiety and stress. Resources Mentioned: Dr. Lloyd’s Heal Your Past online EMDR program – Register at emdrdoctor.com.au/heal Research on PTSD treatments and why EMDR is faster and more effective than traditional talk therapy for trauma Contact and Feedback: Thinking about trying EMDR for PTSD? Reach out to Dr. Lloyd at emdrdoctor.com.au. Note: This podcast provides general information and is not a substitute for individual medical advice. Always consult your healthcare provider for personalised recommendations. Subscribe & Stay Connected: Don’t miss next week’s episode to gain fresh insights into the world of therapy and why EMDR might just be the "bee's knees" for fostering real, lasting change. Follow the podcast to stay updated on the latest insights and expert discussions. Join Dr. Caroline Lloyd as she demystifies PTSD and provides hope for recovery, showing that healing is possible with the right tools and support. Thanks for listening!

    12분
  6. 27.  4 Things I Hate About Therapy

    3월 7일

    27. 4 Things I Hate About Therapy

    In this deeply personal episode, Dr. Caroline Lloyd reflects on her own experiences as a therapy client and a therapist. She explores what makes a great therapist, critiques outdated methods like the "all-knowing" distant therapist and the "silent treatment" approach, and shares why she prefers EMDR over traditional CBT. Dr. Lloyd passionately explains how EMDR fosters change without conflict, allowing clients to process trauma at their own pace. In This Episode, You'll Learn: The qualities that make a therapist truly effective and compassionate. Why outdated therapeutic methods can sometimes harm rather than help clients. How CBT's thought-challenging techniques may not suit everyone — and why that's okay. The unique benefits of EMDR therapy, including how it promotes lasting change without creating conflict. The difference between weekly talk therapy and EMDR's more solution-focused approach. Key Highlights: The "Super Therapist" Ideal: Dr. Lloyd's early ambition to become a compassionate, effective therapist — balancing empathy, knowledge, and care. Therapeutic Approaches She Critiques: The distant, formal therapist who offers little feedback beyond a "hmm." The silent treatment approach, which she likens to gaslighting and finds counterproductive. Conflict in Therapy: How growing up in a conflict-avoidant household shaped her discomfort with CBT's "thought-challenging" techniques, making it feel like an argument rather than support. Why She Prefers EMDR: EMDR creates a non-confrontational space for clients. Change happens at the client’s pace — without forced thought corrections. Sessions often bring about a sense of resolution and progress, whether small or large. Therapy Models: She contrasts the slow progress of traditional psychotherapy with the often immediate, tangible changes experienced in EMDR sessions. Resources Mentioned: Dr. Lloyd’s Heal Your Past online EMDR program – Register at emdrdoctor.com.au/heal Research on PTSD treatments and why EMDR is faster and more effective than traditional talk therapy for trauma Contact and Feedback: Thinking about trying EMDR for PTSD? Reach out to Dr. Lloyd at emdrdoctor.com.au. Note: This podcast provides general information and is not a substitute for individual medical advice. Always consult your healthcare provider for personalised recommendations. Subscribe & Stay Connected: Don’t miss next week’s episode to gain fresh insights into the world of therapy and why EMDR might just be the "bee's knees" for fostering real, lasting change. Follow the podcast to stay updated on the latest insights and expert discussions. Join Dr. Caroline Lloyd as she demystifies PTSD and provides hope for recovery, showing that healing is possible with the right tools and support. Thanks for listening!

    11분
  7. 26. Getting EMDR "Right"

    2월 28일

    26. Getting EMDR "Right"

    In this episode, Dr. Caroline Lloyd addresses a common question — How do I prepare for EMDR and get it right? She reassures listeners that there is no "right" way to do EMDR, debunking the pressure to perfect the process. Instead, she emphasizes the importance of allowing thoughts to flow freely and trusting your therapist to guide you through each step. In This Episode, You'll Learn: No "Right" or "Wrong" Way to Do EMDR: EMDR is not about mastering a skill or "getting it right." Each session is unique and cannot be replicated — your experience may shift from one session to the next. Why People Want to "Get It Right": Many feel pressure to heal quickly or fear they might do something "wrong." Perfectionism and anxiety about making mistakes can drive this worry. The Real Preparation for EMDR: The best way to prepare is to practice allowing your thoughts to flow freely — not controlling or avoiding them. This is not mindfulness but a process of letting your brain go where it needs to go. If Letting Thoughts Flow Feels Too Hard: That’s okay! It’s not a failure — it’s simply a reflection of your trauma response. Your therapist will tailor the process to meet you where you are. EMDR Preparation Exercises: Common exercises like the container exercise, calm place, or protective figure can help with regulation. However, there is no mandatory homework — these are optional tools for in-between sessions. Dissociation and EMDR: EMDR can still be effective if you experience dissociation. Your therapist will work gradually, starting with smaller, less intense memories to build your capacity. Key Highlights: Why there's no "perfect" way to prepare for EMDR. How to release the pressure of getting it "right." Practical tips for allowing your thoughts to flow. The role of preparation exercises and why they’re optional. How EMDR adapts to your unique experience — even if dissociation is part of your trauma response. Resources Mentioned: Dr. Lloyd’s Heal Your Past online EMDR program – Register at emdrdoctor.com.au/heal Research on PTSD treatments and why EMDR is faster and more effective than traditional talk therapy for trauma Contact and Feedback: Thinking about trying EMDR for PTSD? Reach out to Dr. Lloyd at emdrdoctor.com.au. Note: This podcast provides general information and is not a substitute for individual medical advice. Always consult your healthcare provider for personalised recommendations. Subscribe & Stay Connected: Don’t miss next week’s episode, where Dr. Lloyd will explore Complex PTSD (C-PTSD) and how it differs from PTSD. Follow the podcast to stay updated on the latest insights and expert discussions. Join Dr. Caroline Lloyd as she demystifies PTSD and provides hope for recovery, showing that healing is possible with the right tools and support. Thanks for listening!

    11분
  8. 25. Untangling the past- EMDR for Complex Trauma

    2월 20일

    25. Untangling the past- EMDR for Complex Trauma

    In this episode of The EMDR Doctor Podcast, Dr. Caroline Lloyd explores Complex PTSD (CPTSD)—what it is, how it differs from PTSD, and how it impacts emotions, self-perception, and relationships. She explains how CPTSD often stems from prolonged trauma, particularly in childhood, and how it shapes beliefs about oneself and others. Dr. Lloyd highlights the effectiveness of EMDR therapy in helping individuals process trauma, reframe harmful beliefs, and heal. She reassures listeners that while healing takes time, transformation is absolutely possible. In This Episode, You'll Learn: The key differences between PTSD and Complex PTSD (CPTSD) How CPTSD affects emotions, self-perception, and relationships Why early relational trauma (especially from caregivers) has a deep impact How coping mechanisms (like dissociation, self-harm, and substance use) develop from trauma How EMDR therapy works to reprocess trauma and shift long-held negative beliefs Why healing from CPTSD is possible, though it takes time and patience Key Highlights: PTSD vs. CPTSD – PTSD is often from a single traumatic event, while CPTSD comes from repeated or prolonged trauma, often in childhood and involving betrayal. Emotional Regulation Issues – Those with CPTSD may feel overwhelmed by emotions or completely shut down, struggling to find balance. Self-Perception Struggles – Many people with CPTSD feel broken, unlovable, or worthless, believing these thoughts as absolute truths. Relationship Challenges – Trust issues, fear of abandonment, and emotional detachment make forming and maintaining relationships difficult. Coping Mechanisms – Behaviors like dissociation, self-harm, eating disorders, and substance use often develop as survival strategies. EMDR Therapy’s Impact – EMDR helps rewire negative beliefs, addressing not just single traumatic memories but also deep-seated emotional patterns. Healing Takes Time – CPTSD treatment isn’t instant, but progress is possible with the right support and therapy. Message of Hope – "You are not broken; you are someone who survived." Healing and thriving are achievable. Resources Mentioned: Dr. Lloyd’s Heal Your Past online EMDR program – Register at emdrdoctor.com.au/heal Research on PTSD treatments and why EMDR is faster and more effective than traditional talk therapy for trauma Contact and Feedback: Thinking about trying EMDR for PTSD? Reach out to Dr. Lloyd at emdrdoctor.com.au. Note: This podcast provides general information and is not a substitute for individual medical advice. Always consult your healthcare provider for personalised recommendations. Subscribe & Stay Connected: Don’t miss next week’s episode, where Dr. Lloyd will explore Complex PTSD (C-PTSD) and how it differs from PTSD. Follow the podcast to stay updated on the latest insights and expert discussions. Join Dr. Caroline Lloyd as she demystifies PTSD and provides hope for recovery, showing that healing is possible with the right tools and support. Thanks for listening!

    10분

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