The Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’Malley

Tracy O'Malley

The Enneagram Edge with Tracy O’Malley is where power meets personality. This is not your fluffy Enneagram talk—this is the real deal. Hosted by Enneagram expert, keynote speaker, and multi-million-dollar entrepreneur Tracy O’Malley, this show is your no-BS guide to using the Enneagram as a tool for transformation, leadership, and legacy. Whether you're a high-performing founder, purpose-driven leader, or just tired of repeating the same damn patterns—this podcast gives you the edge you’ve been missing. Each week, Tracy brings powerful solo episodes, real-life coaching insights, and deep-dive interviews that show you how to lead yourself, lead others, and lead like a legend. This is Enneagram with teeth. Let’s go.

  1. 15小时前

    EP439: Is it a Fck Yes...Or Fear In Disguise. How to Discern the Difference Using The Enneagram

    You’ve been circling a decision—you can feel it in your body. One moment you see yourself freer and bigger on the other side. The next, fear pulls the brake and whispers what if you blow up your life? You stall, wait for clarity, and call it timing, but deep down you’re not stuck because you don’t know the answer—you’re stuck because you don’t trust yourself to choose it. In this episode, Tracy breaks down how to tell the difference between fear in disguise and a true fuck yes—and gives you the five-step practice to move forward with clarity, courage, and compassion. What You’ll Learn in This Episode:The difference between contracting fear and an expansive f**k yes.How each Enneagram center (instinct, heart, head) processes decisions.The one question each type must ask before leaping.Why fear can have a voice but not a vote.A five-step practice to check your motives and move forward aligned.Key Takeaways (by Center): Instinct Types (8, 9, 1)Hangup: Mistake reaction for clarity; resist discomfort.Edge: Ask if you’re grounded—or just avoiding vulnerability, peace disruption, or being wrong.Heart Types (2, 3, 4)Hangup: Say yes for applause or no to avoid rejection.Edge: Ask—if no one clapped, would I still want this?Head Types (5, 6, 7)Hangup: Overanalyze, overprepare, or chase shiny things for certainty.Edge: Ask—am I chasing safety/options, or trusting my true yes?Quotes That Landed in My Bones:“Fear can have a voice, but it does not get a vote.”“A fuck yes will feel alive—even in the presence of fear.”“Your fear doesn’t get the final word. Your clarity does. Your calling does.” Pause. Take inventory with compassion. Cross-check your yes or no through another center of intelligence. Then ask—if fear wasn’t driving, what would I choose? And finally—move. Action builds confidence. Decide with grace and conviction, and then take the leap. Resources & LinksGet your Enneagram Blueprint: https://tracyomalley.com/work-with-meBook a 90-Minute Deep Dive Session: https://tracyomalley.com/work-with-meConnect with Tracy on Instagram: https://instagram.com/tracy_omalley

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  2. 9月9日

    EP438: Marketing Hangups by Enneagram Type - Why You're Stuck (And How to Break Thru)

    You believe in your work with every cell in your body—until it’s time to market it. Then you freeze, overthink, stall, water it down, or avoid it altogether…and beat yourself up later. You’re not broken, bad at business, or missing the magic strategy. Marketing feels so personal because it is personal—it brushes up against identity, worth, and your deepest fear of being misunderstood or dismissed. In this episode, I call out the specific hangup for each Enneagram type and give you the exact edge to move through it—so you can finally show up in a way that lands. What You’ll Learn in This Episode:Why marketing doesn’t “break” you—it exposes you (and your wiring).The core marketing hangup for each of the nine Enneagram types.The velvet-hammer truth that cuts through perfectionism, second-guessing, and hiding.Your personalized EDGE move—the contrary action that builds confidence and consistency.How to market with clarity, courage, and precision without sanding down your magic.Key Takeaways (by Type):Type 1 – The Reformer Hangup: Won’t release until it’s flawless; polish past the moment. Edge: Progress beats perfection—ship it messy. Your “subpar” is most people’s excellent.Type 2 – The Helper Hangup: Hides offers behind serving; fears marketing is selfish. Edge: Marketing is service. If they don’t know, you can’t help.Type 3 – The Achiever Hangup: So polished you feel untouchable; performing > connecting. Edge: Humanity builds trust. Share the story behind the success—real, not manipulative.Type 4 – The Individualist Hangup: Resists structure; waits for the muse; inconsistent output. Edge: Structure is the container that lets your creativity breathe. Put a system around your art.Type 5 – The Investigator Hangup: Over-research, hoard, “not ready yet”—the work never leaves your head. Edge: Share before you’re ready. Clarity comes through action, not more data.Type 6 – The Loyalist Hangup: Second-guesses every word; over-proofing dilutes the message. Edge: Anchor in your why, not guarantees. Hit publish while you still feel the tremble.Type 7 – The Enthusiast Hangup: Starts 100 ideas; doesn’t stick; trust erodes in the chaos. Edge: Discipline creates freedom. Choose one lane and finish the arc.Type 8 – The Challenger Hangup: Holding back power so you’re not “too much”; or refusing to promote at all. Edge: Lead boldly with intention and integrity. Don’t pull your punches—direct lands.Type 9 – The Peacemaker Hangup: Softens edges to avoid standing out; tries to please everyone and reaches no one. Edge: Your voice matters. Take up space; be specific and a little polarizing on purpose.Quotes That Landed in My Bones:“Marketing doesn’t break you—it exposes you.”“Perfect content that never gets shared changes zero lives.”“What protects you can also paralyze you if it runs the show.”Try This This Week (Your EDGE Move): Notice your hangup the moment it shows up—and take the opposite action in real time. Hit publish at 80%. Make one clear ask. Choose one offer and promote it for seven days straight. Your courage—not another template—is what converts. Call to Action:Don’t guess your wiring. Get your Enneagram BlueprintWant hands-on help applying this to your message and marketing? Book a 90-minute intensive with me. Let’s get your voice clear, consistent, and unapologetic—on purpose.

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  3. 9月2日

    EP437: From Lone Wolf to Soul Fam - Using the Enneagram to Find True Belonging

    You can be surrounded by people—friends, colleagues, even family—and still feel completely alone. If you’ve ever worn the “lone wolf” badge like a crown, only to realize one day it’s really a cage, this episode is for you. I know this story because I’ve lived it. For years, I prided myself on being self-sufficient, strong, unstoppable—and I was. But I was also starving for connection. In this episode, I break down the true cost of living as the lone wolf, how each Enneagram type isolates in their own way, and how you can finally trade that cage for the belonging you’ve been craving all along. What You’ll Learn in This Episode:The myth of the lone wolf: why what looks like strength on the outside is often suffering on the inside.The hidden cost of self-reliance: how independence can slide into isolation that robs you of joy, connection, and purpose.How each Enneagram type “lone wolfs”—and the motives behind the walls we build.Practical steps to open the door to connection without swinging to extremes or losing yourself.Why vulnerability is strength, not weakness, and how practicing it builds the “soul fam” you were made for.Key Takeaways:The lone wolf isn’t strong—it’s scared.We all isolate in different ways: Eights build walls of steel, Fives retreat, Fours spiral in uniqueness, Threes power through goals, Ones micromanage, Sixes mistrust, Sevens avoid depth, Twos give without receiving, Nines withdraw to keep peace.Protection feels safe in the moment, but it eventually costs you the very thing you need most—connection and belonging.Practicing vulnerability—one text, one voice note, one brave share—is how you flex the muscle that brings the right people closer.Your Enneagram type is a roadmap to show you where you block belonging—and how to compassionately open the door again.Quotes That Landed in My Bones:“Strength without connection isn’t strength at all—it’s suffering.”“The lone wolf badge of honor is really a cage.”“You don’t find your soul family by accident—you find them by choosing to show up without the armor.”Call to Action:Get your Enneagram Blueprint → tracyomalley.comJoin me inside The Enneagram Edge Foundations Program—four weeks live with me where we’ll walk the roadmap of all nine types so you can stop lone wolfing, start belonging, and finally lead, love, and live with your full edge. https://tracyomalley.com/certification

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  4. 8月26日

    EP436: How the Enneagram Can Give You a Million Dollar Business

    You’ve chased the hacks, the funnels, the scripts, the formulas—and maybe they gave you a little traction. But not the kind of impact or income you know you’re capable of. Here’s the truth: strategy will only take you so far. Success doesn’t come from saying more, it comes from being heard. And people don’t hear you because you’re louder or smarter. They hear you when they feel seen, understood, and safe enough to trust you. That’s the real million-dollar edge—and it’s not in another hack, it’s in how you connect. In this episode, I’m showing you how the Enneagram unlocks the language of trust, influence, and impact—and how I used it to build a multi-million-dollar business from the ground up. What You’ll Learn in This Episode:Why people aren’t buying your passion—they’re buying trust. How the Enneagram reveals the nine motivational currencies that drive decisions.How I went from rehab to my first million in 26 months—with no social network, no sales experience, and a tool I once rejected.The difference between attraction vs. promotion—and how the Enneagram helps you move from transactional sales to transformative conversations.The role of leverage, duplication, and retention in building not just income, but legacy.Four areas where the Enneagram makes you money: sales, leadership, conflict resolution, and scaling beyond yourself.Key Takeaways:Success isn’t about saying more, it’s about being heard. The Enneagram gives you the roadmap to speak in a way people can receive.People will buy, join, and commit when they feel seen, understood, and valued—not when you push.I built my first million-dollar business not by enrolling hundreds of people but by going deep with 82 people and leading them with integrity.In today’s “trust recession,” the ability to speak someone’s language is more valuable than any hack or formula.The Enneagram can transform your leadership by customizing motivation, resolving conflict, and creating duplication that scales.Quotes That Landed in My Bones:“You’re having one-night stands with your people. It’s time to date them.”“When people feel seen, they’re more willing to buy, join, or commit.”“Million-dollar businesses aren’t built on one big sale. They’re built on keeping people engaged.”Call to Action:Get your Enneagram Blueprint → tracyomalley.comJoin me inside The Enneagram Edge Foundations Program starting September 3. Four weeks of live coaching where I’ll teach you the exact language, strategies, and integration tools I used to build a multi-million-dollar business. Link in show notes.

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  5. 8月19日

    EP435: When Good Enough is Gutting You: And How the Enneagram Can Fill You Back Up

    We’ve all been there—you’ve built a life that looks good on paper. The job works, the bills are paid, the people around you love you. If someone asked, you’d say you’re fine. But deep down, you know better. Fine is the counterfeit. It mimics peace, but it steals your fire. It’s just comfortable enough to keep you from risking what’s actually waiting for you. In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on my own 18-month spiritual sabbatical and the moment I finally declared “I can’t do this anymore.” We’ll talk about the real cost of settling for “good enough,” the way the Enneagram reveals where you get trapped in it, and how to make room for the miracle that’s already on its way. What You’ll Learn in This Episode:Why “fine” is the counterfeit. Good enough mimics peace, but it steals your fire, your joy, and your clarity.The hidden cost of settling for fine: the mental, emotional, and physical toll of living in “I’m fine” mode.The power of declaration. How saying out loud “I can’t do this anymore” makes room for alignment and miracles.How the Enneagram reveals your personal trap with “good enough”—and how to use it as a roadmap out of settling.Why alignment doesn’t come from hustling harder—it comes from refusing to settle for counterfeit and making space for the real thing.Key Takeaways by Enneagram Type:Types 8, 3, and 1 (motion-driven): Your “good enough” looks like achievement—climbing ladders that don’t even matter anymore just to distract yourself from emptiness.Types 4, 6, and 9 (comfort-driven): Your “good enough” looks like safety—choosing predictable pain over uncertain possibility. It feels responsible, but it’s really fear dressed as loyalty.Types 2, 5, and 7 (distraction-driven): Your “good enough” looks like over-giving, over-researching, or over-indulging—filling the space so you never have to stop and face what’s gutting you.Quotes That Landed in My Bones:“Fine is not harmless. It’s a slow bleed.”“Gratitude is sacred. Settling isn’t.”“Your miracle is already waiting for you, but as long as you’re settling for fine, there’s no room for it to land.”Call to Action:Get your Enneagram Blueprint → tracyomalley.comJoin me inside The Enneagram Edge Foundations Program (starts Sept 3). Four weeks of live coaching where you’ll learn how to spot your “fine,” declare what you’re actually here for, and build the muscle to act as if it’s already happening.

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  6. 8月12日

    EP434: The Edge of Forgiveness: How the Enneagram Unlocks What’s Holding You Back

    Ever had someone hurt you so deeply it made you want to slam the door, burn the bridge, and never look back? I’ve been there — more than once. And for a long time, I thought strength meant holding the wall high and making damn sure they’d never get another shot. But a few years ago, a betrayal tested every ounce of “walk your talk” I claimed to live by. This episode isn’t about fluffy, kumbaya forgiveness. It’s about the kind that keeps you from bleeding out emotionally, professionally, and spiritually. It’s about forgiving yourself for the role you played, knowing the cost of holding onto anger, and choosing to protect without hardening your heart. We’re going deep into: Why forgiveness is a growth hack for leaders, high-achievers, and anyone who wants to live unshackled.The three sneaky traps high-level people fall into when they won’t forgive — and how they leak into your leadership, relationships, and influence.How each Enneagram type’s root fear blocks forgiveness (and the exact unlock for all 9 types).My personal stories — from a gut-punch betrayal three years ago to a recent moment with my partner — and how I moved from hurt to healing without bypassing the process.The 4-step framework: Feel. Heal. Grow. Move Through.Key Takeaways by Enneagram Type: Type 1 – The Reformer: Your forgiveness block is seeing hurt as a moral failure—either in yourself or others. The unlock? Embrace imperfection as human, not a character flaw.Type 2 – The Helper: Hurt triggers feelings of being unwanted or unworthy of love. The unlock? Recognize your worth isn’t tied to being needed, appreciated, or loved by someone else.Type 3 – The Achiever: Pain threatens your identity and public image. The unlock? Detach your worth from performance and perception.Type 4 – The Individualist: Pain can become part of your identity, making it hard to let go. The unlock? See that releasing hurt doesn’t erase your depth or magic.Type 5 – The Investigator: Betrayal shakes your trust in your ability to see things coming. The unlock? Accept that vulnerability is strength—not a liability.Type 6 – The Loyalist: Broken trust feels like your whole foundation is gone. The unlock? Anchor yourself in self-trust and resilience instead of chasing external certainty.Type 7 – The Enthusiast: You avoid hurt to dodge feeling trapped, which delays real release. The unlock? Face the pain now—true freedom comes from moving through it.Type 8 – The Challenger: Hurt feels like a threat to your autonomy and control. The unlock? Know that forgiveness is reclaiming your power, not surrendering it.Type 9 – The Peacemaker: You minimize hurt to keep the peace, but resentment simmers underneath. The unlock? True peace comes from addressing the hurt, not sweeping it under the rug.Quotes That Landed in My Bones: “Forgiveness doesn’t erase the past. It unhooks you from it.”“Forgiveness is not weakness. It’s one of the greatest growth-hacks you can flex.”“It doesn’t mean they get to stay in your life. But it does mean you get to be free.” Call to Action: Get your Enneagram Blueprint—you need the correct map to navigate forgiveness with precision: tracyomalley.comJoin the Enneagram Edge Foundations Program, launching live Sept 3—four weeks of group coaching where we turn forgiveness and wiring into practice, not theory. #WalkYourTalk

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  7. 8月5日

    EP433: You Can’t Automate Your Awakening: What AI Gets Wrong About the Enneagram—and What You Deserve Instead

    In this powerful episode, Tracy O'Malley dives into a hot topic: the intersection of AI and the Enneagram. With the rise of AI tools like ChatGPT, many are turning to these platforms for quick answers about their Enneagram type and personal growth. But Tracy is here to set the record straight—your transformation isn’t programmable, it’s personal.She unpacks why AI often gets the Enneagram wrong, how it mirrors the masks we wear instead of revealing our truth, and why the Enneagram is a sacred map meant to be lived, not downloaded. Tracy shares her own journey with the Enneagram, the pitfalls of seeking fast answers, and how true growth requires devotion, disruption, and integration.If you’ve ever felt mistyped, misled, or misunderstood by AI or other Enneagram tools, this episode will help you reclaim your edge with real truth, not templated data. What You’ll Learn in This Episode:Why AI can’t accurately type you and often mirrors your coping mechanisms instead of your core motives.The difference between surface-level insights and the deep, transformative work the Enneagram requires.How to use AI as a reflection tool without letting it lead your journey.Why the Enneagram is not a quick fix but a sacred map for sustainable growth.The importance of integration over information in your transformation process.Key Takeaways:AI Isn’t Your Guide: AI can mimic awareness, but it can’t mentor your transformation. It reflects the masks you wear, not the truth underneath.The Enneagram Is a Sacred Map: It’s not just a personality label or a quick fix—it’s a tool for deep, ongoing evolution.Transformation Takes Time: True growth doesn’t happen on your timeline, it happens on truth’s timeline.Use AI Wisely: AI can generate reflection prompts and highlight patterns, but it’s not a replacement for human connection and mentorship.Integration Is Key: Knowing your type is just the beginning. Real transformation happens when you integrate the Enneagram into your daily life.Next Steps with Tracy:Ready to go deeper? Join Tracy’s Enneagram Edge Foundations Program starting September 3rd. This live, four-week program is designed to teach you the full, accurate framework of the Enneagram with Tracy as your guide.Explore your own Enneagram Blueprint or book a private session with Tracy to uncover your truth and accelerate your growth.Connect with Tracy:Instagram: @Tracy_O'MalleyWebsite: TracyOMalley.com If this episode resonated with you, please take a moment to leave a review and share your thoughts. Your feedback helps more people discover the transformative power of the Enneagram taught the right way. Your transformation isn’t about faster answers or prettier language—it’s about remembering who you are and walking through the fire with integrity. The Enneagram is your sacred map, and Tracy is here to guide you every step of the way.Tune in now and take the first step toward reclaiming your edge!

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  8. 7月29日

    EP432: Sales With an Edge: How the Enneagram Scaled My Empire (and Can Save Yours)

    In this episode of The Enneagram Edge, Tracy O’Malley takes you behind the scenes of her journey from building a multi-eight-figure sales organization to becoming a master Enneagram strategist. If you’ve been feeling stuck in your business—working harder but seeing fewer results, struggling to connect with your team or audience, or frustrated by sales that just won’t convert—this episode is your wake-up call. Tracy reveals how the Enneagram isn’t just a personality tool but a game-changing framework for understanding the people you lead, sell to, and serve. Learn how to move beyond surface-level strategies and scripts to create soul-driven sales, authentic leadership, and a legacy that lasts. What You’ll Learn in This Episode:Why Your Business Feels Stuck:The disconnect between your vision and your results isn’t about doing more—it’s about understanding deeper.People don’t buy because of perfect pitches, they buy because they feel seen, understood, and valued.The Secret to Sustainable Sales and Leadership:Tracy shares how she quietly used the Enneagram for over a decade to scale her business, build trust, and create a ripple effect of impact.Sales isn’t about scripts—it’s about relationships. When you understand what motivates people at their core, you unlock their potential and your own.How the Enneagram Transforms Sales and Leadership:The Enneagram gives you a lens into someone’s internal operating system: their fears, desires, and decision-making patterns.It’s not about labeling people—it’s about leveraging their unique drivers to build trust, connection, and results.The EDGE Formula for Enneagram Mastery:E - Examine Operating Systems: Understand the internal drivers of yourself, your team, and your audience.D - Discern and Direct Energy: Balance soul and strategy to lead with alignment and purpose.G - Ground Yourself: Stay rooted in your “why” and lead from authenticity, not fear or ego.E - Express and Enforce Boundaries: Lead with clarity, integrity, and intention.Why the Enneagram is the Ultimate Sales Tool:It helps you move beyond behaviors to understand the motives underneath.It bridges the gap between soul and strategy, creating resonance instead of repetition.It’s not just about making money—it’s about multiplying impact, trust, and legacy.Key Quotes:“People don’t buy because of your perfect pitch—they buy because they feel seen, understood, and valued.”“Sales isn’t about scripts—it’s about relationships. And relationships are built on trust.”“The Enneagram isn’t about labels—it’s about leverage. It’s the key to unlocking the soul behind the sale.”“When soul and strategy work together, you don’t just grow—you rise.”Call to Action:Ready to transform your sales, leadership, and legacy? Join Tracy’s Enneagram Foundations Course, starting September 3rd. This live, four-week program will teach you how to use the Enneagram to unlock your edge and lead with precision and purpose. [Link in show notes]Want personalized guidance? Apply for Tracy’s VIP coaching to accelerate your growth and impact. [Link in show notes]Share this episode with someone who’s ready to stop spinning their wheels and start leading with soul and strategy.If you’re tired of surface-level strategies and ready to lead with depth, alignment, and authenticity, the Enneagram is your map. It’s time to stop guessing and start understanding. When you lead from this place, there’s no ceiling to your impact or income. Let’s honor your edge and create a legacy that lasts. Stay sharp, stay true, and keep rising.

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The Enneagram Edge with Tracy O’Malley is where power meets personality. This is not your fluffy Enneagram talk—this is the real deal. Hosted by Enneagram expert, keynote speaker, and multi-million-dollar entrepreneur Tracy O’Malley, this show is your no-BS guide to using the Enneagram as a tool for transformation, leadership, and legacy. Whether you're a high-performing founder, purpose-driven leader, or just tired of repeating the same damn patterns—this podcast gives you the edge you’ve been missing. Each week, Tracy brings powerful solo episodes, real-life coaching insights, and deep-dive interviews that show you how to lead yourself, lead others, and lead like a legend. This is Enneagram with teeth. Let’s go.

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