The Happy Family Coach Podcast - Break Generational Cycles of Dysfunction, Heal Past Wounds, Transform Your Faith, Learn Rela

Danielle Alvarez Greer - Biblical Counselor, Family Coach & Conflict Resolution Guide
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The Go-To Podcast for Christian Families Who Want to Rewrite Their Legacy! Do you ever wonder why you parent the way you do? Why, no matter how hard you try, you still lose your patience, react instead of respond, or fall into the same family conflicts you swore you’d avoid? Do you see patterns of dysfunction, chronic stress, or unhealthy relationship dynamics in your home? ✨ You don’t have to stay stuck. There is hope, healing, and a new way forward. ✨ I’m Danielle Alvarez Greer, Certified Biblical Counselor, Family Life Coach, and creator of The Happy Kid Toolkit™, and I’m here to help you break generational cycles and build a strong, faith-filled family. Inside The Happy Family Coach Podcast, you’ll discover how to: ✔ Heal past wounds and parent with wisdom, grace, and discernment ✔ Strengthen your marriage and family relationships through biblical principles ✔ Set healthy boundaries and navigate conflict with love and respect ✔ Resolve conflict biblically—without blame, shame, or avoidance ✔ Communicate effectively with your spouse and children ✔ Equip your kids with the tools to handle emotions and disagreements in a Christ-centered way ✔ Recognize the “Unhappy Kid Triangle™” and step into healthier relationships using The Happy Kid Toolkit™ ✔ Walk in confidence, knowing God is guiding your family’s growth. Join me as we explore faith-based family transformation with practical tools, real-life strategies, and biblical truth—trusting God’s wisdom to lead the way. 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Ready to create a home filled with peace, joy, and purpose? Hit subscribe and let’s dive in! 📲 Connect with me in my Facebook group and on social media for even more family resources!

  1. 2D AGO

    74. Faith Over Fame: Living with Grace in a Performance-Driven World

    What happens when you’ve reached the top of your game — but realize fame and performance don’t fill the ache in your soul? This week, I’m joined by Belinda Halloran, a retired professional athlete, native Australian, and now a sports psychologist and mental performance coach living in Sonoma, California. Belinda’s story is one of grit, grace, and transformation. As a child prodigy, she was thrust into the spotlight — appearing on magazine covers, commercials, and rising to the professional ranks at just 18. But behind the medals and recognition, she wrestled with the emptiness of a performance-driven world. In her 20s, Belinda encountered Jesus — and everything changed. She learned how to anchor her identity not in winning or accolades, but in Christ. In this episode, Belinda opens up about: Growing up in the world of elite sport and what it cost her childhood Finding Jesus in the midst of fame, pressure, and temptation Living boldly as a Christian in the professional sports arena (when it wasn’t popular) Transitioning from Pro Athlete to Sports Psychologist & Mental Performance Coach Why faith is the foundation for balance, resilience, and joy in competition Her powerful mantra: Grace over glory And parents — don’t miss her incredible advice for raising athletic kids. Belinda encourages moms and dads to make home a refuge: “Your kids already feel immense pressure from school and their coaches. At home, let them be kids. Give them chores, play board games, go to church, talk about life outside of sports, and remind them they are your son or daughter before they are an athlete.” If you are raising a young athlete or walking through the pressures of performance as a family, Belinda’s wisdom will bless and inspire you. 💡 Connect with Belinda Belinda now works with athletes of all ages — from high school to college to professionals — as a sports psychologist and mental performance coach. She helps athletes strengthen their mindset, stay balanced, and can integrate their faith into performance. 👉 To learn more or book a consultation for your son or daughter, reach out to Belinda directly: Website: coachbperformance.com Instagram: @coachbelindahalloran Podcast: Plan B - Athletes Supporting Athletes Email: CoachB@coachbperformance.com WhatsApp: 415-583-3783 Don’t wait until the pressure breaks your athlete — give them the gift of a coach who understands both high-level performance and the deeper need for faith and balance. 🎧 Listen now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or happyfamilycoach.com/podcast #FaithOverFame #ChristianParenting #RaisingAthletes #GraceOverGlory #SportsPsychology #HappyFamilyCoach #MentalPerformanceCoach

    1h 15m

  2. SEP 3

    73. When the Miracle Hasn't Come Yet: Lessons From the Tomb

    There’s a moment in Mark 15:42–47 that we often rush past—the space between the cross and the resurrection. Jesus’ body is in the tomb, the stone is rolled in place, and to everyone watching, it looks like the end. But I want to remind you—God was still working. In this episode, I’m inviting you into those quiet, in-between seasons of life when the miracle hasn’t come yet. We’ll talk about what it looks like to trust God in the waiting, to keep showing up when nothing seems to be changing, and to believe He’s still writing the story in your marriage, your parenting, your relationships, and your own heart. xoxo, Danielle 📖 Mark 15:42–47 (NIV) 🔗 Subscribe & Stay Connected: 🎧 Listen on: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Podbean | YouTube ➡️ Book a family coaching or biblical counseling session with me: happyfamilycoach.com ➡️ Purchase the Happy Kid Toolkit: happykidtoolkit.com  ➡️ Schedule a FREE on-air family counseling session with me. Click here to learn more and sign-up 👉 Get your FREE e-book, "The Healing Mirror: Turning Pain into Purpose," a guide to self-reflection, boundaries, and spiritual growth. Click here to subscribe and instantly receive your free e-book. ➡️ Discover your go-to position/role on the Unhappy Kid Triangle by downloading the quiz here ➡️ Join us for the “Renew & Restore” Women’s Healing Retreat — September 18–21, 2025 in Chattanooga, TN. For women and young women (ages 17+) who are ready to heal, rest, and reconnect with God. Learn more + Register ➡️ Download the FREE 14-Day Teen Devotional: You Are Not Alone Perfect for teens struggling with anxiety, trauma, or emotional overwhelm. Download here. ➡️ Engage and share your answers in my FB group: The Happy Family Coach Podcast Community 📲 Follow me on Instagram: @thehappyfamilycoach for daily encouragement 💌 Join my email list: Exclusive content, free resources, and updates!

    17 min

  3. AUG 27

    72. The Danger of Loud Crowds and Half-Truths

    In Acts 19:23–41, we see a full-blown riot break out in Ephesus after the gospel disrupts the city’s economy, pride, and idol worship. What started with one man’s complaint turned into hours of shouting — and most people didn’t even know why they were there. In today’s episode, I’m unpacking what really happened in Ephesus that day and why mob mentality still spreads so quickly in our culture. I’ll show you how this same pattern shows up in our families, churches, and even online — and how you can use the Happy Kid Toolkit and the Reality Mat to stay grounded in truth when emotions run high. Whether it’s online outrage, workplace drama, or family tension, my prayer is that this conversation will help you think critically, lead with wisdom, and model truth-first living for the next generation. xoxo, Danielle 🔗 Subscribe & Stay Connected: 🎧 Listen on: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Podbean | YouTube ➡️ Book a family coaching or biblical counseling session with me: happyfamilycoach.com ➡️ Purchase the Happy Kid Toolkit: happykidtoolkit.com  ➡️ Schedule a FREE on-air family counseling session with me. Click here to learn more and sign-up 👉 Get your FREE e-book, "The Healing Mirror: Turning Pain into Purpose," a guide to self-reflection, boundaries, and spiritual growth. Click here to subscribe and instantly receive your free e-book. ➡️ Discover your go-to position/role on the Unhappy Kid Triangle by downloading the quiz here ➡️ Join us for the “Renew & Restore” Women’s Healing Retreat — September 18–21, 2025 in Chattanooga, TN. For women and young women (ages 17+) who are ready to heal, rest, and reconnect with God. Learn more + Register ➡️ Download the FREE 14-Day Teen Devotional: You Are Not Alone Perfect for teens struggling with anxiety, trauma, or emotional overwhelm. Download here. ➡️ Engage and share your answers in my FB group: The Happy Family Coach Podcast Community 📲 Follow me on Instagram: @thehappyfamilycoach for daily encouragement 💌 Join my email list: Exclusive content, free resources, and updates!

    17 min

  4. AUG 20

    71. From Rules to Relationship: How Dying to the Law Brings Life to Your Faith, Marriage, and Parenting

    Are you living in “Law Mode” without even realizing it? In this episode, we unpack Romans 7:1–6 in plain language and explore how legalism can quietly creep into your faith, your marriage (yes, even intimacy), and your parenting. You’ll hear real-life stories, practical examples, and biblical wisdom to help you move from rule-driven to Spirit-led living. We’ll talk about the difference between measuring your worth by your performance vs. resting in your worth at the cross, how to replace invisible scorecards with real connection in marriage, and why Spirit-led parenting produces lasting fruit. Plus, I’ll share how the Happy Kid Toolkit can help you disciple hearts, not just manage behavior, and walk your family into freedom. If you’ve been feeling burned out, resentful, or disconnected, this conversation will give you hope, direction, and the reminder of Romans 8:1 — there is no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. xoxo, Danielle 🔗 Subscribe & Stay Connected: 🎧 Listen on: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Podbean | YouTube ➡️ Book a family coaching or biblical counseling session with me: happyfamilycoach.com ➡️ Purchase the Happy Kid Toolkit: happykidtoolkit.com  ➡️ Schedule a FREE on-air family counseling session with me. Click here to learn more and sign-up 👉 Get your FREE e-book, "The Healing Mirror: Turning Pain into Purpose," a guide to self-reflection, boundaries, and spiritual growth. Click here to subscribe and instantly receive your free e-book. ➡️ Discover your go-to position/role on the Unhappy Kid Triangle by downloading the quiz here ➡️ Join us for the “Renew & Restore” Women’s Healing Retreat — September 18–21, 2025 in Chattanooga, TN. For women and young women (ages 17+) who are ready to heal, rest, and reconnect with God. Learn more + Register ➡️ Download the FREE 14-Day Teen Devotional: You Are Not Alone Perfect for teens struggling with anxiety, trauma, or emotional overwhelm. Download here. ➡️ Engage and share your answers in my FB group: The Happy Family Coach Podcast Community 📲 Follow me on Instagram: @thehappyfamilycoach for daily encouragement 💌 Join my email list: Exclusive content, free resources, and updates!

    34 min

  5. AUG 13

    70. From Chattanooga to London: Worshipping with My UK Family

    While traveling through the UK with my daughter Reese in July 2025, we had the incredible privilege of worshipping at Hillsong Church Central London. The praise was powerful, the Word was rich, and the Spirit of God was moving in a way that reminded me — His Kingdom truly has no borders. In this special mini episode (recorded on my phone as a voice memo while in London — so forgive the less-than-perfect audio quality!), I’m sharing my heart with my UK listeners — who, after the U.S., are the second largest audience for this podcast. You’ll hear about the joy of worshipping with our global family, why unity in the Body of Christ matters for our homes and legacy, and how you can pray with your kids for believers around the world. Whether you’re listening from the UK, the U.S., or anywhere else, you are part of this Kingdom family. Thank you for being here. If you’re a UK listener, I’d love to hear from you! Send me a DM on Instagram at @thehappyfamilycoach and let me know where you’re tuning in from. And if this episode encouraged you, share it with a friend who needs to be reminded that God’s family is truly worldwide. xoxo, Danielle 🔗 Subscribe & Stay Connected: 🎧 Listen on: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Podbean | YouTube ➡️ Book a family coaching or biblical counseling session with me: happyfamilycoach.com ➡️ Purchase the Happy Kid Toolkit: happykidtoolkit.com  ➡️ Schedule a FREE on-air family counseling session with me. Click here to learn more and sign-up 👉 Get your FREE e-book, "The Healing Mirror: Turning Pain into Purpose," a guide to self-reflection, boundaries, and spiritual growth. Click here to subscribe and instantly receive your free e-book. ➡️ Discover your go-to position/role on the Unhappy Kid Triangle by downloading the quiz here ➡️ Join us for the “Renew & Restore” Women’s Healing Retreat — September 18–21, 2025 in Chattanooga, TN. For women and young women (ages 17+) who are ready to heal, rest, and reconnect with God. Learn more + Register ➡️ Download the FREE 14-Day Teen Devotional: You Are Not Alone Perfect for teens struggling with anxiety, trauma, or emotional overwhelm. Download here. ➡️ Engage and share your answers in my FB group: The Happy Family Coach Podcast Community 📲 Follow me on Instagram: @thehappyfamilycoach for daily encouragement 💌 Join my email list: Exclusive content, free resources, and updates!

    13 min

  6. AUG 6

    69. Planks, Specks, and Real Change: What Jesus Really Meant About Judgment and Healing

    What if the person you’re blaming in your life right now is actually the mirror God is using to heal you? In this episode, we’re diving deep into Jesus’ words in Matthew 7:1–5—about planks, specks, and the kind of heart work that leads to real change. I share part of my personal story, including how I spent years blaming others for how I felt, how I didn’t know Jesus during most of my first marriage, and how I eventually came to understand that healing begins with me. Through the lens of The Peacemaker by Ken Sande, the Unhappy Kid Triangle, and the power of biblical counseling, we explore how judgment, blame, and control keep us stuck—and how Jesus sets us free. You’ll learn how to: Recognize your default role in conflict (Blaming Bully, Bossy Helper, or Helpless Baby) Own your part in emotional and relational breakdowns Take the plank out of your own eye first (and what that really means) Heal core beliefs and lies that keep you trapped in cycles of pain Use confession, humility, and gospel-centered wisdom to restore peace This episode is for anyone navigating conflict in marriage, parenting, friendships, or church life—and ready to grow in emotional and spiritual maturity. 📘 Mentioned in this episode: The Peacemaker by Ken Sande + Relational Wisdom 360 (RW360.org) Take the free "Discover Your Go-To Position On The Unhappy Kid Triangle" quiz here 💛 Ready to go deeper? 🎧 Listen on: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Podbean | YouTube ➡️ Book a family coaching or biblical counseling session with me: happyfamilycoach.com ➡️ Purchase the Happy Kid Toolkit: happykidtoolkit.com  ➡️ Schedule a FREE on-air family counseling session with me. Click here to learn more and sign-up 👉 Get your FREE e-book, "The Healing Mirror: Turning Pain into Purpose," a guide to self-reflection, boundaries, and spiritual growth. Click here to subscribe and instantly receive your free e-book. ➡️ Join us for the “Renew & Restore” Women’s Healing Retreat — September 18–21, 2025 in Chattanooga, TN. For women and young women (ages 17+) who are ready to heal, rest, and reconnect with God. Learn more + Register ➡️ Download the FREE 14-Day Teen Devotional: You Are Not Alone Perfect for teens struggling with anxiety, trauma, or emotional overwhelm. Download here. ➡️ Engage and share your answers in my FB group: The Happy Family Coach Podcast Community 📲 Follow me on Instagram: @thehappyfamilycoach for daily encouragement 💌 Join my email list: Exclusive content, free resources, and updates!

    51 min

  7. JUL 30

    68. Called, Not Qualified: Parenting with Purpose When You Feel Unequipped

    Ever feel like you’re not cut out for parenting? Like someone else would do a better job raising your strong-willed, emotional, or struggling child? In this episode, we look at Luke 6:12–16 and the unexpected team Jesus chose to change the world—and how that speaks directly to your role as a parent. Jesus didn’t pick the most qualified. He picked the willing. The messy. The emotional. The overlooked. And He’s doing the same with you. This episode will encourage and equip you to: Lead your family with prayer, not pressure See your child’s struggles as raw material for calling Speak identity over your kids like Jesus did with His disciples Parent from a place of legacy—not just survival If you’ve ever wondered why you were chosen to lead your family, this conversation will renew your confidence and restore your vision. You are called, not qualified—and that’s exactly the point. I can't wait for you to hear it! xoxo, Danielle 💛 Ready to go deeper? 🎧 Listen on: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Podbean | YouTube ➡️ Book a family coaching or biblical counseling session with me: happyfamilycoach.com ➡️ Purchase the Happy Kid Toolkit: happykidtoolkit.com  ➡️ Schedule a FREE on-air family counseling session with me. Click here to learn more and sign-up 👉 Get your FREE e-book, "The Healing Mirror: Turning Pain into Purpose," a guide to self-reflection, boundaries, and spiritual growth. Click here to subscribe and instantly receive your free e-book. ➡️ Discover your go-to position/role on the Unhappy Kid Triangle by downloading the quiz here ➡️ Join us for the “Renew & Restore” Women’s Healing Retreat — September 18–21, 2025 in Chattanooga, TN. For women and young women (ages 17+) who are ready to heal, rest, and reconnect with God. Learn more + Register ➡️ Download the FREE 14-Day Teen Devotional: You Are Not Alone Perfect for teens struggling with anxiety, trauma, or emotional overwhelm. Download here. ➡️ Engage and share your answers in my FB group: The Happy Family Coach Podcast Community 📲 Follow me on Instagram: @thehappyfamilycoach for daily encouragement 💌 Join my email list: Exclusive content, free resources, and updates!

    18 min

  8. JUL 23

    67. Do You Want to Get Well? Confronting the Comfort of Brokenness with Jesus at Bethesda

    What if the thing keeping you stuck isn’t your circumstances—but the comfort you’ve found in them? In this powerful, Spirit-led episode, we unpack the story of the man at the pool of Bethesda in John 5:1–15 and the question Jesus still asks us today: “Do you want to get well?” Through deep biblical teaching, real-life examples, and personal stories from my own seasons of brokenness—including the years following my divorce and a recent back surgery—I’ll walk you through what it really means to rise, pick up your mat, and walk. You’ll learn: Why healing requires your participation—not just your prayers How to identify the “mats” you’ve been lying on (pride, fear, performance, shame) What Jesus means when He says “Stop sinning or something worse may happen” How your healing shapes the emotional and spiritual future of your children Why the Happy Kid Toolkit is a life-giving resource for walking out healing as a family This episode is for the parent who feels stuck, the woman who’s tired of striving, the believer who’s afraid to ask for help, and anyone longing to step into true freedom. You don’t have to stay by the pool. Jesus is inviting you to get up and walk. xoxo, Danielle ---------- 🔗 Subscribe & Stay Connected: 🎧 Listen on: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Podbean | YouTube ➡️ Book a family coaching or biblical counseling session with me: happyfamilycoach.com ➡️ Purchase the Happy Kid Toolkit: happykidtoolkit.com  ➡️ Schedule a FREE on-air family counseling session with me. Click here to learn more and sign-up 👉 Get your FREE e-book, "The Healing Mirror: Turning Pain into Purpose," a guide to self-reflection, boundaries, and spiritual growth. Click here to subscribe and instantly receive your free e-book. ➡️ Discover your go-to position/role on the Unhappy Kid Triangle by downloading the quiz here ➡️ Join us for the “Renew & Restore” Women’s Healing Retreat — September 18–21, 2025 in Chattanooga, TN. For women and young women (ages 17+) who are ready to heal, rest, and reconnect with God. Learn more + Register ➡️ Download the FREE 14-Day Teen Devotional: You Are Not Alone Perfect for teens struggling with anxiety, trauma, or emotional overwhelm. Download here. ➡️ Engage and share your answers in my FB group: The Happy Family Coach Podcast Community 📲 Follow me on Instagram: @thehappyfamilycoach for daily encouragement 💌 Join my email list: Exclusive content, free resources, and updates!  💛 Ready to go deeper?

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The Go-To Podcast for Christian Families Who Want to Rewrite Their Legacy! Do you ever wonder why you parent the way you do? Why, no matter how hard you try, you still lose your patience, react instead of respond, or fall into the same family conflicts you swore you’d avoid? Do you see patterns of dysfunction, chronic stress, or unhealthy relationship dynamics in your home? ✨ You don’t have to stay stuck. There is hope, healing, and a new way forward. ✨ I’m Danielle Alvarez Greer, Certified Biblical Counselor, Family Life Coach, and creator of The Happy Kid Toolkit™, and I’m here to help you break generational cycles and build a strong, faith-filled family. Inside The Happy Family Coach Podcast, you’ll discover how to: ✔ Heal past wounds and parent with wisdom, grace, and discernment ✔ Strengthen your marriage and family relationships through biblical principles ✔ Set healthy boundaries and navigate conflict with love and respect ✔ Resolve conflict biblically—without blame, shame, or avoidance ✔ Communicate effectively with your spouse and children ✔ Equip your kids with the tools to handle emotions and disagreements in a Christ-centered way ✔ Recognize the “Unhappy Kid Triangle™” and step into healthier relationships using The Happy Kid Toolkit™ ✔ Walk in confidence, knowing God is guiding your family’s growth. Join me as we explore faith-based family transformation with practical tools, real-life strategies, and biblical truth—trusting God’s wisdom to lead the way. 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Ready to create a home filled with peace, joy, and purpose? Hit subscribe and let’s dive in! 📲 Connect with me in my Facebook group and on social media for even more family resources!

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