The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver

Lori Sims & David Sims
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The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver

Stepfamilies and blended families are very challenging. With a failure rate of over 70%, it's clear that blended families need help. Nacho Kids founders and blended family coaches, Lori and David Sims, are here to help blended families save their sanity and relationships. You'll hear the hosts and guests discuss the struggles and successes of blended family life and learn how the Nacho Kids Method is changing lives and saving relationships around the world.

  1. 2일 전

    298: Three Things Not To Say To A Stepparent

    Welcome back to the Nacho Kids Podcast! In today's episode, Lori and David dive into a critical conversation about the challenges and misconceptions faced by stepparents. They explore three common phrases that should never be uttered to a stepparent. First, the hosts debunk the idea that stepparents knew what they were getting into when joining a blended family, emphasizing the unexpected trials involved. Next, they tackle the unrealistic expectation that stepparents should love their stepchildren like their own, highlighting the unique dynamics and relationships within a family. Finally, Lori and David clarify the misconception that stepparents are "parents too," discussing the complexity of roles within a blended family. Join us as we uncover some hard truths and foster understanding and empathy for stepparents navigating these complex relationships. So, stay tuned for an enlightening episode filled with candid discussions and relatable insights! In this episode, we discuss: General Discussion on Expectations in Life and Relationships Clarification and Healthy Expectations in Stepparent-Child Relationships Understanding Unrealistic Expectations The Complexity of Roles Guarding Against Harmful Assumptions: Nacho Kids Academy Success Story: "I thought since I had kids of my own and grew up in a stepfamily that I knew how to be a stepdad. Wrong. My wife and I fought constantly about discipline, boundaries, and how we should treat all the kids ‘equally.’ Nacho Kids Academy helped me realize that ‘equal’ isn’t always ‘fair’ and that my role in my stepkids’ lives wasn’t to be their dad. Once I stopped trying to force things, our home became so much calmer. The biggest surprise? My stepkids actually started coming to me on their own! We owe you so much, Lori & David!" - James T.

    16분

  2. 2월 7일

    297: Couples Communication ~ Raffi Bilek

    In today's episode, host Lori welcomes Raffi Bilek, a marriage counselor based in Baltimore and the author of "The Couple's Communication Handbook: The Skills You Never Learned for the Marriage You Always Wanted." Raffi shares his experiences working with couples and emphasizes the importance of effective communication in relationships. He discusses cultural differences in communication, how childhood influences our communicative skills, and the challenges couples face when navigating conversations about money, expectations, and parenting in stepfamilies. Throughout the conversation, Raffi offers insights into improving dialogue and understanding within relationships, underlining the significance of empathy and active listening as keys to resolving conflicts and building stronger connections. Join us as we dive into these essential topics and learn how to enhance communication in our personal lives. In this episode, we discuss: Communication Skills Expectations and Conflict Empathy and Understanding Emotional Regulation Nacho Kids Academy Success Story: Stepmom and Bio Mom "Blending families is HARD. I didn’t understand why my husband treated my kids differently than his, and I was constantly frustrated that his kids got away with things mine never would. Nacho Kids Academy completely changed my perspective. Instead of comparing, I started focusing on what I could control—my own parenting and my relationship with my husband. The difference has been incredible. My stress level has dropped, and I don’t feel like I’m constantly walking on eggshells anymore!" - Rachel M.

    41분

  3. 1월 31일

    296: 3 Things To NOT Do As A Stepparent

    Join hosts Lori and David as they share three very important tips for the stepparent! Listen as they dive into essential strategies for creating a harmonious stepfamily environment. Lori and David discuss the common pitfalls stepparents might be falling into without even realizing it. They explore three crucial behaviors to avoid if you're looking to reduce stress and build stronger relationships within your blended family. From understanding the implications of negative comments about the stepkids to recognizing the importance of not taking things personally and knowing when to step back from disciplining your stepchildren, this episode is packed with valuable insights and practical advice. Tune in to learn how to navigate the complexities of step-parenting and foster a peaceful, loving home. In this episode, we discuss: Tit-for-tat behavior Avoiding negative comments to family members Adulting versus parenting Expectations Nacho Kids Academy Success Story: Childless Stepdad "I thought stepping in as a father figure was what my stepkids needed. Instead, it caused tension between me and my wife, and the kids resented me. Nacho Kids Academy helped me see that I was overstepping. Once I let go of trying to parent, my relationship with my wife improved, and the kids actually warmed up to me over time. Now, we get along naturally without me feeling like an outsider or a disciplinarian. We enjoy being around each other now!" - Mark D.  “Proud Nacho Stepdad”

    16분

  4. 1월 24일

    295: Emotional Resilience in the Stepfamily

    The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver

    57분

  5. 1월 23일

    294: Emotional Turmoil in the Stepfamily

    Welcome to the Nacho Kids Podcast. In this episode, Lori sits down with our guest to delve into the intricate dynamics of blended families. Our guest shares poignant experiences from her life, starting with her father's remarriage and extending to her journey as a stepmother. We explore the early stages of blending families, the delicate process of introducing her two children to her new husband, and the joys and challenges of family traditions. The guest opens up about the emotional turmoil and boundaries set with her stepdaughter and the tension caused by the stepdaughter's biological mother. We'll also hear reflections on parenting after loss, navigating financial entanglements, and the significance of maintaining boundaries for personal growth. Tune in as we unpack the complexities of family, love, and resilience in this intimate discussion about building a cohesive family unit amidst life's ever-changing landscapes. Let's dive right in! In this episode, we discuss: Emotional Turmoil Managing Social Media and Family Privacy Emotional and Logistical Complexities Parental Alienation Nacho Kids testimonial: Transforming Our Family "The Nacho Kids Method completely changed our blended family. By stepping back and letting my partner parent, I found peace and clarity. Our home is calmer, and I’ve built stronger relationships without the constant stress. It truly saved us!" - Sarah T.

    1시간 1분

  6. 1월 10일

    293: Trust-Based Relationship Intervention (TBRI)

    Welcome back to NK Podcast Shared! In today's episode, Lori dives into the intricate world of step-parenting and maintaining a harmonious blended family. Join her as she chats with Jessica, a Licensed Professional Counselor Associate from North Texas, who shares her journey of being a full-time stepmom to a 10-year-old while navigating the complexities of a custody battle and fostering a positive co-parenting dynamic. Jessica emphasizes the power of not taking things personally to reduce stress and negativity and the benefits of using Trust-Based Relationship Intervention (TBRI) to build trust and stability within her family. As she discusses the challenges and strategies involved in blending families, Jessica provides invaluable insights into maintaining a neutral role, fostering empathy, and creating lasting family rituals to strengthen bonds. Tune in for practical advice on intentional parenting, self-awareness, and effective communication, all aimed at providing stability and joy in blended family dynamics. And of course, don’t miss the hosts’ light-hearted closing where they remind us, "Life is good when you nacho." Let's get started! In this episode, we discuss: Not Taking Things Personally Trust-Based Relationship Intervention (TBRI) Supportive Partner in Stepparenting Self-work and Personal Healing Stepparent Boundaries and Support Nacho Kids Academy Success Story: "Joining Nacho Kids Academy was the best decision I’ve made for my stepfamily. I was overwhelmed, frustrated, and feeling like a complete outsider in my own home. I tried everything — and nothing seemed to work. The constant tension with my stepkids and even with my partner was taking a toll on me. But when I found Nacho Kids Academy, everything changed. Lori and David’s guidance helped me understand that I didn’t have to control everything. I learned to step back, take a breath, and let go of things that weren’t my responsibility. The method taught me how to respond instead of react, and I finally started to find peace in my role as a stepparent. I’ve gone from feeling resentful and exhausted to calm, confident, and in control of my emotions. My relationship with my partner has improved drastically, and my home is no longer filled with constant conflict. The support inside the academy has been a lifeline. The resources, Q&A calls, and community have made me feel seen and understood. If you’re a stepparent struggling to find your place, stop searching — Nacho Kids Academy is what you need. It’s not just a method; it’s a life-changer." - Lucy R., Nacho Kids Academy Member

    1시간

  7. 1월 3일

    292: Nacho Parenting In The New Year

    Welcome to another episode of NK Podcast Shared! In today’s engaging discussion, hosts Lori and David navigate the complexities of family life, from the challenges of gift-giving and planning unforgettable vacations to embodying integrity for their children. They dive into humorous yet heartfelt reflections on their kids' awareness (or lack thereof) around finances while considering gifting experiences over physical items. Lori and David also share personal anecdotes about their grandson, Giddy, and emphasize promoting honesty and respect for parents' wishes. Tune in as they tackle the tricky dynamics of holiday preparation, setting family goals, and balancing work-life dynamics. Plus, get the scoop on upcoming events like the Nacho Kids meet and greet and retreats geared towards stepfamily coaching. With practical advice, light-hearted banter, and motivational insights, this episode promises to deliver strategies for reducing stress and fostering harmonious family relationships. Don’t miss out on this fun and insightful episode—let’s make this year the best one yet for your family! In this episode we discuss: Gift-Giving and Past Expenditures Children's Awareness of Costs Modeling Integrity Family and Business Planning Measuring Improvement and Personal Development

    30분

  8. 2024. 12. 27.

    291: Stepkids Taught Stepmom How To Be A Better Bio Parent

    Welcome to another captivating episode of NK Podcast Shared! In Episode 291, we sit down with Eliana, a seasoned stepmother of 11 years, to discuss the intricacies and emotional journey of step-parenting. Initially overwhelmed by cultural adjustments, language barriers, and the challenge of blending into a new family, Eliana shares how she navigated these obstacles with resilience and a heart full of empathy. Our conversation dives deep into the importance of prioritizing the well-being of children, evolving perspectives on family dynamics, and the revolutionary "Nacho Method," which focuses on responding rather than reacting to maintain peace of mind. Lori, our host, explores with Eliana the common pitfalls in traditional upbringing practices, the necessity of self-awareness, and the powerful role of internal ownership of happiness. Eliana candidly reflects on personal growth, the struggles and joys of being a stepparent, and how her relationship with her stepchildren has evolved over time. She also touches on the cultural contrasts she's experienced and how maintaining one's identity while adapting to new environments is crucial, especially in stepfamily dynamics. Join us for an enlightening discussion about the adaptive nature of parenting, self-discovery, and creating new family norms in a blended family. In this episode we discuss: Self-Discovery and Shedding Societal Labels "Nacho" Parenting Concept Step-parenting Challenges Self-Awareness and Internal Focus Importance of Prioritizing Children's Well-Being   Nacho Kids Testimonial: "I was always embarrassed by my dislike for my stepkids. Joining the Nacho Kids Academy, helped me realize why I had those feelings, helped me to understand the dynamics of the blend better and helped me have a happy life!! I will forever be grateful to the Nacho Kids method!"

    56분
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Stepfamilies and blended families are very challenging. With a failure rate of over 70%, it's clear that blended families need help. Nacho Kids founders and blended family coaches, Lori and David Sims, are here to help blended families save their sanity and relationships. You'll hear the hosts and guests discuss the struggles and successes of blended family life and learn how the Nacho Kids Method is changing lives and saving relationships around the world.

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    Lori Sims & David Sims
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    2019년 - 2025년
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