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A podcast dedicated to undressing the truth about sex, intimacy and lifelong love. The concerns and questions most couples have in marriage often go unspoken, until now. Hosts Dave and Ashley Willis bring wisdom, vulnerability, and humor to even the toughest marriage topics. Together, they reach millions of couples through their social media, books, videos, articles, and XO live events. They have four sons and live in Evans, GA.

The Naked Marriage with Dave & Ashley Willis XO Podcast Network

    • Religion & Spirituality
    • 4.8 • 2.7K Ratings

A podcast dedicated to undressing the truth about sex, intimacy and lifelong love. The concerns and questions most couples have in marriage often go unspoken, until now. Hosts Dave and Ashley Willis bring wisdom, vulnerability, and humor to even the toughest marriage topics. Together, they reach millions of couples through their social media, books, videos, articles, and XO live events. They have four sons and live in Evans, GA.

    Cultivating Love and Sex in Marriage

    Cultivating Love and Sex in Marriage

    We are so excited to continue in our intimacy series here on the Naked Marriage Podcast. In this episode, we delve into the essential ways to rekindle romance and amplify intimacy in your marriage..... yes we mean SEX. We discuss the pivotal role of physical touch and its immense benefits for a couple’s emotional and physical bond. We also explore how engaging all five senses can significantly enhance your sexual intimacy, and we’re thrilled to share a special bonus sex tip with you! Join us as we emphasize the importance of making intimacy a priority and the power of open communication to fulfill each other's needs and desires. Get ready to take actionable steps to deepen your connection and enjoy a more fulfilling marital relationship.
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    Chapters
    00:00 Introduction and Setting the Stage
    10:24 The Importance of Physical Touch: Building Trust and Connection
    26:17 Prioritizing Intimacy: Breaking the Cycle of Mismatched Sex Drives
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    • 32 min
    Can I Save My Marriage from Addiction? // Hump Day Q&A

    Can I Save My Marriage from Addiction? // Hump Day Q&A

    Welcome back to our favorite day of the week, HUMP DAY Q&A!! Today's question: what do I do when I think my spouse has an addiction
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    • 6 min
    Trust in Marriage: Are We as Strong as We Think?

    Trust in Marriage: Are We as Strong as We Think?

    Welcome to the Naked Marriage Podcast! We are Dave and Ashley Willis, and we are thrilled to continue our intimacy series. In this series, we are diving deep into the essentials of intimacy—emotional, physical, and spiritual—and explore the vital role of communication and trust in fostering a healthy marriage. Each episode is designed to help couples build unbreakable trust and deepen their connection through transparent and open dialogue. We share insights from our own marriage and biblical principles to guide you through common challenges and improve your relationship. Join us as we help you remove barriers and embrace a fully intimate, "naked" marriage free from secrets and full of lifelong love. Tune in to grow closer to your spouse and strengthen your marital bond as we dive in on what trust adds to your marriage.
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    Chapters
    00:00 - Introduction to Intimacy Types 
    Overview of emotional, sexual/physical, and spiritual intimacy.

    02:50 - The Importance of Communication and Trust 
    How active communication and trust are foundational to intimacy.

    04:33- The Digital Dilemma: Presence Over Screens 
    Challenges of digital distractions and the importance of mindfulness.

    06:58 - Secrets: The Enemy of Intimacy 
    Why secrecy sabotages intimacy and how transparency can rebuild it.

    09:22 - Restoring Trust After It’s Broken 
    Strategies for rebuilding trust with honesty and frequent check-ins.

    11:37- Healing and Forgiveness Post-Betrayal 
    The process of healing, the necessity of forgiveness, and managing challenging emotions.

    13:55 - Practical Steps to Rebuild Trust 
    Guidance on restoring trust through consistent and transparent actions.

    16:15 - The Role of Apology and Repentance 
    The importance of genuine apologies and repentance in trust restoration.

    18:34 - Navigating Recovery and Rebuilding Intimacy 
    Gradual rebuilding of intimacy, akin to healing a physical injury, including setting boundaries.

    20:58 - Support Systems and Counseling 
    Using counseling and support systems to aid the recovery process.

    23:22 - Grief and Emotion Management 
    Handling emotional and grief processes in relationship rebuilding.

    25:34 - Empowering the Wronged Spouse 
    Supporting the wronged spouse through emotional expression and prayer.

    27:57 - Forgiveness and Re-Earning Trust 
    Distinguishing between forgiveness and trust, and methods for re-earning trust for enhanced intimacy.

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    • 32 min
    Should We Orgasm Together? // Hump Day Q&A

    Should We Orgasm Together? // Hump Day Q&A

    Welcome back to our favorite day of the week, HUMP DAY Q&A!! Today's question: Should We Orgasm Together
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    • 7 min
    The Keys to Rebuilding Intimacy in Your Marriage

    The Keys to Rebuilding Intimacy in Your Marriage

    We are so excited to be starting our new intimacy series on the Naked Marriage Podcast, and we can't wait to embark on this journey with you! In this episode, Dave and Ashley Willis explore the intricate layers of intimacy within marriage. From emotional to physical, spiritual, and sexual intimacy, we delve into the essential components that strengthen the bond between partners. Join us as we offer practical insights and tips for nurturing intimacy in your marriage. Let's dive in together and build deeper connections!
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    Chapters
    00:00 Introduction and Overview
    02:23 Defining Intimacy
    05:31 Emotional Intimacy
    16:22 Spiritual Intimacy
    27:27 The Key to Better Intimacy: Vulnerability and Consistency
    29:48 The Power of Praying Together in Marriage
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    • 32 min
    I'm Starting To Resent My Spouse // Hump Day Q&A

    I'm Starting To Resent My Spouse // Hump Day Q&A

    Welcome back; it's our favorite time of the week; it's HUMP DAY Q&A TIME! Today's question:How do I stop resenting my spouse after everything we've been through?
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    • 9 min

Customer Reviews

4.8 out of 5
2.7K Ratings

2.7K Ratings

Voice fan. ,

Best podcast ever

You guys are amazing. The advice and how you present it is so thought provoking. You have such a keen insight into things and you’re lessons and stories are inspiring. I love how authentic you are. You’ve been there and aren’t afraid to let us know and share the deep stuff. I’ve been listening for about a month now. I binge listen every day. I get so much of your episodes. I truly feel they help me strive to be a better husband and Christian. I find your words of wisdom invaluable.

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Authentic and practical

I love this podcast- I try to listen to every one. It has been such an encouragement and inspiration for my marriage. I recommend it to every married couple. Although I fully believe in counseling, this is like free counseling in your ear buds. Thank you guys for all that you do!

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