The Path is Always Evolving

Eva and Tenya

Welcome to The Path Is Always Evolving — a grounded, soul-nourishing podcast blending science and spirituality with warmth and truth. For the woman who’s done it all and still feels off, the healer needing healing, and the ambitious soul craving alignment over hustle. No fluff, no bypassing—just real, regenerative conversations that speak to your nervous system and your soul. Come as you are. Leave a little lighter, a little braver, and a lot more seen.

Episodes

  1. AUG 13

    #11 - “Should-ing” On Yourself: Releasing Expectations & Finding Your Own Path

    This week, Eva and Tenya dive deep into the oh-so-familiar trap of “should-ing on yourself.” If you’ve ever felt weighed down by expectations—your own, your family’s, or society’s—this one’s for you. The hosts get real about what it means to carry around all those “I should be…” thoughts, and how they often hold us back from joy, self-acceptance, and true alignment. They discuss: The difference between genuine desire and obligation How “shoulds” sneak into adulthood, work, family, health, and relationships Why “should” is really just an energetic misalignment (and what to do about it) Ways to reframe your self-talk with phrases like “I get to,” “I choose to,” or “it would be helpful if…” How to use journaling, self-inquiry, and even a “why friend” to untangle what’s really driving your sense of obligation Why shadow work, energy work, and conscious mindset practices can all play a role (and why there’s no “right order”) The connection between people-pleasing, boundaries, and the things we think we have to do Plus, you’ll get practical tools to shift out of shame and guilt, including: How to reframe movement and self-care Playful tips like starting to practice saying “no” (telemarketers count!) Why “should” is often your soul’s way of telling you something’s out of alignment Favorite Quotes: “Stop shoulding on yourself!” “When we create the should, it’s our own way of letting ourselves know that what follows is not in alignment with us.” “Find yourself a ‘why friend’—someone who will lovingly ask you why until you get to the root of what’s really going on.” Resource Mentioned: Alternative phrases to replace “should”: It would be helpful to…, I choose to…, I’m invited to…, You might benefit from… Ready to stop shoulding on yourself? Reach out to Tenya or Eva, or share your story in the comments. Your path is always evolving—and so are you. Next Episode Teaser: We are going to start talking about the Chakras!!  🎧 Subscribe & leave us a review if you’re evolving too. 🔗 Follow us @designyourexistence and @evazobianwolf 🌐 www.designyourexistence.com  🌐www.evazeewellness.com Disclaimer: The views shared are personal stories and opinions. This content is not a substitute for therapy or professional advice.  #ThePathIsAlwaysEvolving #MarriageTalk #BlendedFamilies #RelationshipHealing #CommunicationIsKey #SelfCareInMarriage #EnergyHealing #ConsciousRelationships

    25 min
  2. JUL 30

    #10 - Energetic Boundaries Say No Without Guilt, Shield Yourself Without Shame

    In this episode, Tenya and Eva take a deep dive into the real talk behind energetic boundaries—what they are, how they’re crossed, and how to reclaim them without guilt. From the power of saying “no” to the unspoken energy exchanged in gossip or judgment, this conversation gets to the heart of protecting your energy in a world that constantly pulls at it. They explore: The difference between boundaries and barriers Why saying "no" is so hard—and how to practice it anyway How the stories we make up in our heads create suffering The energetic toll of people-pleasing and boundary leakage Tools to protect and reset your energy (hello, diamond hazmat suit ✨) How to recognize when your energetic boundaries have been crossed Why dry brushing, shaking it out, and loving detachment matter All sprinkled with laughter, dog drama, and deeply human moments. Key Quotes  💬 “Saying no is a full sentence—and one of the hardest ones to speak.”  💬 “Energetic boundaries start with being impeccable with your word—even when no one is listening.”  💬 “We don’t always need to know why someone said no. Healing means we stop making it about us.”  💬 “Every time you say ‘yes’ when you mean ‘no,’ your energy pays the price.” Resources Mentioned Shielding Meditation on The Metamorphosis Project Podcast https://www.buzzsprout.com/2489131/episodes/17286070 The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz https://a.co/d/bjEPwfD Feeling drained or foggy? That might be a sign your boundaries need a tune-up. Start with one simple question: Do I have the bandwidth for this right now? And if not, it's okay to say so. We give you full permission. ✨ Come back next week when we explore the next juicy topic: Stop the Shoulding! 🎧 Subscribe & leave us a review if you’re evolving too. 🔗 Follow us @designyourexistence and @evazobianwolf 🌐 www.designyourexistence.com  🌐www.evazeewellness.com Disclaimer: The views shared are personal stories and opinions. This content is not a substitute for therapy or professional advice.  #EnergeticBoundaries #ThePathIsAlwaysEvolving #SelfCareIsAShield #PeoplePleasingRecovery #SayNoWithLove #EnergyHealing #PodcastForHealers

    38 min
  3. JUL 23

    #9 - What Does a Successful Marriage Really Look Like?

    In this heart-centered and humorous conversation, Tenya and Eva peel back the layers of what truly defines a “successful” marriage — and spoiler alert: it’s not what society taught us. Together, they explore: Outdated definitions of marriage success (hello, 1950s gender roles 👋)How cultural, religious, and family modeling shaped their early beliefsWhy communication, compassion, and co-creation matter more than perfectionThe power of being seen as yourself in a relationshipHow blended families, therapy, and even forgotten anniversaries can still lead to thriving partnershipsThe truth about shifting responsibilities and honoring each other’s strengths 💬 “Our marriage isn’t 50/50 — sometimes it’s 70/30, 100/0. It’s about showing up for each other when it matters most.” Top Takeaways: Mutual Respect > Old ScriptsCommunication as a tool for growth, not attackShared responsibilities based on strengths, not genderCelebrate one another often, not just on anniversariesMake the relationship a priority, not an afterthought ✨ Next Week’s Episode Teaser:  Energetic Boundaries — what they are, how to create them, and how to avoid crossing someone else’s. 🎧 Subscribe & leave us a review if you’re evolving too. 🔗 Follow us @designyourexistence and @evazobianwolf 🌐 www.designyourexistence.com  🌐www.evazeewellness.com Disclaimer: The views shared are personal stories and opinions. This content is not a substitute for therapy or professional advice.  #ThePathIsAlwaysEvolving #MarriageTalk #BlendedFamilies #RelationshipHealing #CommunicationIsKey #SelfCareInMarriage #EnergyHealing #ConsciousRelationships

    34 min
  4. JUL 10

    # 7: Generational Wounds — The Pain We Inherit, The Healing We Choose

    What if the anxiety, perfectionism, or disconnection you feel… isn’t even yours? In this deeply vulnerable and eye-opening episode, Tenya and Eva explore generational trauma, the pain and programming passed through families, cultures, and systems, and how we can begin to break the cycle. 🔥 In this episode: What generational wounds are and how they're passed on emotionally, energetically, and physicallyThe nervous system's role in inherited trauma and how trauma shows up in the bodySomatic practices that help release ancestral pain (massage, Yoga Tune-Up Balls, breathwork, embodied journaling)Personal stories of growing up in silence, survival, or emotional invisibilityCreating chosen family when healing means outgrowing biological tiesRituals for calling in ancestors to help guide healing workWhy this generation (Gen X and Millennials) are becoming the “cycle breakers” 🎯 Plus: Death Cafes, menopause taboos, and the societal silence around grief, rage, and womanhoodEnergy healing insights: how we can carry trauma from 20+ generations backTools to identify, understand, and clear inherited beliefs using energy work and body wisdom 💡 Key Quote: “You are always your divine self. It never stopped existing—there’s just a lot of crap piled on top. Our work is to peel it away.” — Eva ZobianWolf 🌐 Connect with us: 🌐DesignYourExistence.com 🌐EvaZeewellness.com  🔗 Resources & Mentions: My Grandmother’s Hands by Resmaa MenakemYoga Tune-Up Balls Therapy Ball Tools #ThePathIsAlwaysEvolving #GenerationalHealing #CycleBreakers #EnergyHealing #AncestralHealing #SomaticHealing #SpiritualGrowth #DesignYourExistence #EvaZewellness #MetamorphosisPodcast

    47 min
  5. JUL 1

    #6 - The Energy Behind Our Words

    The Energy Behind Your Words: How Language Shapes Your Reality Hosts: Tenya Eickenberg & Eva ZobianWolf In this episode of The Path Is Always Evolving, Tenya and Eva dive into the vibrational power of language. From everyday phrases like “I’m tired” to sneaky energy-drainers like “I’m just a…”—your words are not just noise, they’re spells you're casting into your life. 🔮 In this episode, we explore: ●How words carry vibrational energy (and your body feels it) ●Why saying “I need strength” might be summoning struggle ●The subtle difference between “I hate this” vs. “Not for me” ●Common energy-draining phrases like “It is what it is”, “I’m just…”, and “Yeah, but…” ●The power of reframing with intention: “I choose…” Why kindness and truth can—and should—coexist in our communication 💬 Plus: Eva shares the "Love Bubble" trick that transformed how she drives, and Tenya reflects on how comedy changed for her once she raised her vibration. ✨ Takeaway: Your words shape your energy, and your energy shapes your life. Be intentional. Speak kindly. Especially to yourself. 🌐 Connect with us: https://designyourexistence.com https://evazeewellness.com/ 🎧 Subscribe & share: If this episode shifted your awareness, send it to someone who needs a reminder that words matter. 📢 Call to action: What’s one phrase you say often that needs a reframe? Drop it in the comments or message us—we’d love to hear how you’re shifting your language to shift your life. #ThePathIsAlwaysEvolving #EnergyHealing #SelfCare #WordsMatter #ConsciousLanguage #DesignYourExistence #LoveBubbleVibes #LaughterYoga #MetamorphosisPodcast #EvaZeewellness #EnergyBoundaries

    36 min
  6. #2 Self-Care Isn’t Selfish: Releasing Guilt & Embracing Worth

    MAY 28

    #2 Self-Care Isn’t Selfish: Releasing Guilt & Embracing Worth

    In this soul-nourishing episode, Tenya and Eva officially introduce The Path Is Always Evolving podcast as a shared platform for heart-led conversations on healing, self-care, and personal growth. They dive deep into the generational guilt surrounding women’s self-care, how perfectionism steals joy, and why caring for yourself is a radical—and necessary—act of self-love. Together, they unpack: Why women feel guilty for resting or taking up spaceThe ancestral and societal conditioning that taught us to serve before selfHow Eva’s yoga journey—and the Yamas & Niyamas—helped her reframe guiltTenya’s mantra: “You are worth spending your time on”How to recognize when you’re operating from a half-empty cupSimple shifts to release perfectionism and reclaim your energyThis episode is part reminder, part reclamation, and all heart. If you've ever felt guilty for not being everything to everyone, this one’s for you. ✨ Key Takeaways: Self-care is not selfish. It’s how we replenish so we can show up fully.Guilt is a sign of conditioning, not truth. Let it go.You are your first client. Your well-being is sacred.Healing is ongoing. The path—and you—are always evolving.Your worth isn’t tied to productivity. Rest is not a reward.📚 Mentioned in This Episode: The Yamas & Niyamas by Deborah AdeleYogic principles of non-stealing, non-attachment, and self-disciplineThe importance of regulating your nervous system to cultivate compassion 💬 Share in the comments: When do you feel the most guilty around self-care? What stories or beliefs are you ready to release? 📲 Follow us on Instagram:  @designyourexistence | @evazeewellness 🌐 Visit us online:  DesignYourExistence.com Evazeewellness.com 🚫 Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational and inspirational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical or therapeutic advice. Reposting without permission is prohibited. 🔖 Hashtags: #ThePathIsAlwaysEvolving #SelfCareIsNotSelfish #EnergyHealing #YamasAndNiyamas #BreakTheGuiltCycle #HolisticHealing #GenerationalHealing #SelfWorth

    36 min
  7. #1 - From Parent to Grandparent: Navigating the Metamorphosis of Family Roles

    MAY 27

    #1 - From Parent to Grandparent: Navigating the Metamorphosis of Family Roles

    In this heartfelt and hilarious episode, co-hosts Eva ZobianWolf and Tenya Eickenberg dive into the ever-evolving dynamics of family, especially what happens when your kids become adults and parents themselves. From grandparent nicknames like “Yaya” and “Gamma” to learning how and when to offer advice, this episode unpacks the delicate dance of honoring boundaries, evolving relationships, and embracing a new chapter without overstepping.Key Topics We Explore:🎉 Grand-parenting joys: new babies, furry grand-babies, and chosen nicknames🧠 Trauma-informed boundaries and how unsolicited advice equals energetic overreach🧘‍♀️ The shift from “Big P” to “Little p” parenting🧾 Why your adult kids don’t owe you a relationship, and why that’s okay🎁 Conscious gift-giving, emotional maturity💬 Communicating with your kids as adults, not children📦 Downsizing, redefining holiday traditions, and creating new family rituals💔 The sting of being excluded, and how to process it without guilt-tripping🧘 How yoga principles like non-stealing and self-inquiry apply to parentingFavorite Mic-Drop Moments:“Unsolicited advice is a form of abuse.”“Your children don’t owe you a relationship. They owe themselves healthy boundaries.”“Shut up unless they're harming the child. Otherwise, let them parent.”🎁 Bonus Tips:Gift your time, not just stuff.Ask before offering advice, especially to adult kids and new parents.If you're hurt, process it before projecting it.💌 Keep the Conversation Going:We want to hear YOUR stories! Are you a grandparent navigating this transition? An adult child setting boundaries? Share your insights, struggles, and wins on Instagram or in our comments.🔗 Connect with Us:🌐 Website: designyourexistence.com📸 Instagram: ⁨@designyourexistence⁩ ; ⁨@evazeewellness⁩ 🎧 Listen on Spotify, Apple, and all major platforms🎉 Don’t Miss the Next Episode:We’re diving even deeper into the topic: How to Foster Relationships with Adult Children—with compassion, clarity, and real-life examples.🔒Disclaimer:This podcast is for informational and inspirational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical, mental health, or therapeutic advice.🚫 Do not repost, reshare, or redistribute without permission.#MetamorphosisProjectPodcast #ParentToGrandparent #TraumaInformedParenting #EnergyHealing #SelfCare #Boundaries #GenerationalHealing #FamilyDynamics #YayaLife #RealTalkHealing #DesignYourExistence #HealingIsEvolution

    1h 1m

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Welcome to The Path Is Always Evolving — a grounded, soul-nourishing podcast blending science and spirituality with warmth and truth. For the woman who’s done it all and still feels off, the healer needing healing, and the ambitious soul craving alignment over hustle. No fluff, no bypassing—just real, regenerative conversations that speak to your nervous system and your soul. Come as you are. Leave a little lighter, a little braver, and a lot more seen.