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The Place We Find Ourselves podcast features private practice therapist Adam Young (LCSW, MDiv) and interview guests as they discuss all things related to story, trauma, attachment, and interpersonal neurobiology. Listen in as Adam unpacks how trauma and abuse impact the heart and mind, as well as how to navigate the path toward healing, wholeness, and restoration. Interview episodes give you a sacred glimpse into the real-life stories of guests who have engaged their own experiences of trauma and abuse. Drawing from the work of neuroscientists such as Allan Schore, Dan Siegel, and Bessel van der Kolk, as well as Christian thought leaders Dan Allender and John Eldredge, this podcast will equip and inspire you to engage your own stories of harm in deep, transformative ways.

The Place We Find Ourselves Adam Young | LCSW, MDiv

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The Place We Find Ourselves podcast features private practice therapist Adam Young (LCSW, MDiv) and interview guests as they discuss all things related to story, trauma, attachment, and interpersonal neurobiology. Listen in as Adam unpacks how trauma and abuse impact the heart and mind, as well as how to navigate the path toward healing, wholeness, and restoration. Interview episodes give you a sacred glimpse into the real-life stories of guests who have engaged their own experiences of trauma and abuse. Drawing from the work of neuroscientists such as Allan Schore, Dan Siegel, and Bessel van der Kolk, as well as Christian thought leaders Dan Allender and John Eldredge, this podcast will equip and inspire you to engage your own stories of harm in deep, transformative ways.

    Uncovering Intentionality: Did My Parents Really Mean To Harm Me? Part 2

    Uncovering Intentionality: Did My Parents Really Mean To Harm Me? Part 2

    This is Part 2 of my conversation with Cyndi Mesmer. As you begin to name the ways your parents harmed you, it is very common to think, “Okay, I’ll acknowledge that my Dad harmed me, but I don’t think he really meant to do it. I don’t think my Dad was trying to be cruel, he was just pretty oblivious and clueless.” Cyndi invites you to reconsider this stance. What would it cost you to believe that your father hurt you on purpose?

    • 25 min
    Uncovering Intentionality: Did My Parents Really Mean To Harm Me? Part 1

    Uncovering Intentionality: Did My Parents Really Mean To Harm Me? Part 1

    Cyndi Mesmer and I tackle the question of, “Did the people who harmed me really mean to do it?” Answering this question is more important than you may realize. If you are unsure about the answer to this question—or if you are convinced that your parents didn’t mean to hurt you—it will be very difficult for you to access grief and anger about your wounds, both of which are necessary for healing. 

    • 28 min
    The Bible, Racial Injustice, and Individual Responsibility

    The Bible, Racial Injustice, and Individual Responsibility

    Today I want to look at the Bible’s take on how Christians are called to respond when racial injustice is occurring in our land. This episode is primarily for White Christians who have a sense inside of “I acknowledge that racial injustice exists in America, but since I am not personally committing acts of injustice, I am therefore not personally responsible for the injustice that is occurring.”

    • 26 min
    Racial Trauma and My Story With Racism

    Racial Trauma and My Story With Racism

    Today I talk about racial trauma, and, in particular, the racial trauma that African Americans experience. One central tenet of all story work is that in order for healing to occur there has to be an honest naming of what has been true. This is true in your individual story and it is no less true in our collective story as a nation.

    • 34 min
    Judging Others: Is It Okay To Judge Those Who Have Harmed Me?

    Judging Others: Is It Okay To Judge Those Who Have Harmed Me?

    One of the things that prevents people from engaging the ways they have been harmed is the simple objection, “Who am I to judge my parents?” The premise of the objection is simply, “It’s wrong for me to judge my parents. That’s God’s job, not my job.” In today’s episode, I take a look at what the Bible says about judging other people.

    • 25 min
    What If I Don't Remember Much Of My Childhood?

    What If I Don't Remember Much Of My Childhood?

    Many people look back on their growing up years and simply don’t remember very much. In today’s episode I offer some suggestions on what to do when you are having a difficult time remembering your stories. If you want a summary of today’s episode, you can go to adamyoungcounseling.com and get a free resource called “What If I Don’t Remember Much Of My Childhood?” This document also outlines several written exercises you can do to help you remember your stories. 

    • 34 min

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AJS St. Clair ,

When your world has been turned upside down and you can’t quite figure out WHAT happened!

Then I found THIS! ❤️
Listen to EVERY SINGLE ONE & when it applies to your situation, listen to it again.
Adam you have offered brilliant work here. Thank you for offering clarity for me in every area, mentally, spiritually, and even with the science.

birdswife2006 ,

Exactly what I’ve needed to hear I’m order for healing!

From the bottom of my heart, thank you for this Podcast! What a God send you are to me! Right before I found this Podcast I was in prayer begging God to help me understand what to do with all this pain that I carry around everyday all the time! And telling my husband that I want desperately for God to show me and speak to me on how to heal, how to handle all these different emotions, thoughts, and being connected with all of it and handle it all with the correct thoughts and emotions. So thank you for helping me do just this!

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THANK YOU and Keep Up The AMAZING Work

This podcast has been a Godsend to my life at a time when not only did I feel like my life was falling apart, but my story was creating me an enormous amount of pain and suffering. So THANK YOU for the work that you do and for helping me to begin working on my story, identifying my wounds and validating/embracing my inner/younger self who was so desperately in need of healing.

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