400 episodes

A trail blazing relationship podcast promoting unconventional monogamy and marriage--where we teach you how to fight well, master communication, and take your marriage to the next level without compromising your business, family, or integrity

The Relationship School Podcast Jayson Gaddis

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.8 • 867 Ratings

A trail blazing relationship podcast promoting unconventional monogamy and marriage--where we teach you how to fight well, master communication, and take your marriage to the next level without compromising your business, family, or integrity

    A Frank Conversation With A Divorce Lawyer - Evan Schein - 401

    A Frank Conversation With A Divorce Lawyer - Evan Schein - 401

    Have your thoughts been circling around prenups before you get married? Or, are you on the edge of a separation or divorce Want to learn a bit more about meditation, child support, spousal support, alimony, asset division and schedule collaboration?
    Take a listen to my recent conversation with family lawyer Evan Schein.
    Useful Links:
    https://relationshipschool.com/relationshipmastery/ https://relationshipschool.com/rct/ https://relationshipschool.com/community/ https://relationshipschool.com/getcoachingnow https://www.gettingtozerobook.com

    • 58 min
    Family Check-In - Jayson and Ellen - 400

    Family Check-In - Jayson and Ellen - 400

    This week we celebrate our 400th episode with a special “Fam Jam” episode. Join Ellen and I as we chat with our kids, about what it’s like in our family and what they notice about other families. 
    Useful Links:
    https://relationshipschool.com/relationshipmastery/ https://relationshipschool.com/getcoachingnow https://www.gettingtozerobook.com

    • 26 min
    AMA: Societal Trauma, Sacrificing Everything For Someone, & Shared Values

    AMA: Societal Trauma, Sacrificing Everything For Someone, & Shared Values

    What do you do if you and your partner don’t have a baseline (a place of ease and security to which you can return post-conflict)? Have you ever felt you’ve ‘given up everything’ for a partner? Do you and your partner have shared values? Have you made a fierce, deep commitment to one another? 
    Jayson and Ellen tackle some of your questions in this AMA episode, drawing on their knowledge and experiences of ups, downs, and reconnects that go hand in hand with long-term relationships.
     
    Useful Links:
    https://relationshipschool.com/relationshipmastery/ https://relationshipschool.com/getcoachingnow https://www.gettingtozerobook.com

    • 37 min
    Navigating “You Make Me Feel” and “I” Statements To Build Trust, Resilience, and Security - Jayson and Ellen - 398

    Navigating “You Make Me Feel” and “I” Statements To Build Trust, Resilience, and Security - Jayson and Ellen - 398

    Do you ever feel defensive, blamed, angry, or hurt when someone says, “you make me feel….”? Have you heard of “spiritual cock-blocking?”

    This week Ellen and I talk about the potent and simple “I feel” statements and howwe impact one another and influence each other’s feelings and experiences by simply co-existing in the same space, both positively and negatively.
    Learn how to navigate these difficult conversations by sharing ‘Impact Statements’ (a communication technique that leads with empathy while advocating for your experience) instead of pointing the finger and blaming/shaming someone for making you feel a certain way or using an impact statement if you’re on the receiving end of such a statement. Try to remember that conflict is essential in any healthy relationship because it offers the opportunity to repair, to get to know each other better, to be collaborative, all key elements in building security, resilience and trust.
    Useful Links:
    Sharing Impact 2.0 Episode https://relationshipschool.com/rmasterclass/ https://relationshipschool.com/getcoachingnow https://www.gettingtozerobook.com

    • 21 min
    School Shootings & How We Raise Kids - Jayson Gaddis - 397

    School Shootings & How We Raise Kids - Jayson Gaddis - 397

    Here are my thoughts on the latest school shootings. This one hit me hard.
    Useful Links:
    https://relationshipschool.com/masterclass/ https://relationshipschool.com/getcoachingnow

    • 19 min
    AMA: I'll Never Leave You, Developing Trust, Looking Through Your Partner's Phone, And More

    AMA: I'll Never Leave You, Developing Trust, Looking Through Your Partner's Phone, And More

    This week my wife Ellen and I tackle a couple of your questions that got a lot of heat online.
    Sarah wrestles with how to realistically reassure her partner that she’s not going anywhere when she doesn’t actually know this for a fact (she’s no psychic).
    Linda wonders about how to reinstall trust and move forward after her partner breaks into her phone and reads a private text conversation.
    We discuss how our relationships are the strength that can help us deal with the unknowns of tomorrow and appropriate ways of relating in order to steer your relationship toward a secure partnership.


    Useful Links:
    https://relationshipschool.com/masterclass/ https://relationshipschool.com/getcoachingnow https://www.gettingtozerobook.com https://relationshipschool.com/group/

    • 32 min

Customer Reviews

4.8 out of 5
867 Ratings

867 Ratings

z-myster ,

Hooked

I was introduced to Jayson’s work a couple of years ago. Recognizing my lack of skills, i was interested in his approach to relationships. I dove in and just completed my training to be a coach. This stuff helps with all of your relations and most importantly the relationship with yourself. Keep on growing, keep on pushing to be a better person… the world needs more caring & loving! Jayson and Ellen’s work is a BIG part of the solution for a healthy planet…

katieramboAZ ,

Helpful podcast

This podcast has helped me immensely. I have learned how to deal with conflict. With partners and my own family. I bought the book and i want to give a copy to everyone i know. Listen to the podcasts. And watch your life change!

ShelleyWatson ,

Great content!

I’m a therapist in Alpharetta, GA and listen to this podcast often while exercising. I just finished listening to episode 395 on the anxious-avoidant couple. Such great content! I loved the opportunity to hear the way another therapist works. It is so helpful to hear how knowledge gets translated into practice. Thank you for your work!

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