“The Safe Space” with Deon Stafford Formally "Cafe Conversations‪"‬ Deon Stafford

If a person doesn’t believe as you do, does this make them wrong and you right? I say no. This is a multifaceted world we live in. The intent of your heart matters more to me, than what you believe. I know how to listen, hear, learn, and dump what doesn’t serve me. Who am I to deem you wrong in your belief? And the catch 22 is, this can be flipped around like everything else is often done. The world is filled with duality. Almost everything has an opposite, yet almost every thing is connected. We see what we see, but do we always understand what we are looking at? Do we even question it. No we simply accept what we are told… and because it’s been told multiple times, despite the variations in the tale it’s self, we believe it. But who decides ultimately who's right and who's wrong?


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This show is a piggy back show off of my previous show entitled “Who Broke The Baby” and dedicated to a young man who touched more people than he may have know. Although this show is random, the intent is genuine. Thanks for listening

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There is no one more innocent than a newborn baby. This is the only time in their life, where they are blameless, pure, most protected and emotional and mentally stable. Unless, trauma is experience by the mother during the fetal incubation period. If this happens, that trauma can potentially be felt by the unborn child, therefore resulting in trauma being induced before birth. Other thank these mentioned factors, this new born has it made... that is until life begins at birth, and the chance for potentially life changing trauma arises. Trauma is based on life's circumstances, the parents and other people they may encounter in their life. Not to mention, environment, and life's events outside the womb. 

Here's what I have found, we all have suffered, dealt with or dealing with some form of trauma or trauma response (Triggers). Many times trauma can go unnoticed, and even unidentified and even ignored. Only to have that same trauma to show up once it's triggered. Trauma can have a negative effects on the body, your mental health, emotional health and your social wellbeing. Trauma can potentially affect your sleep patterns, the memory, self-esteem, and may even cause learning disabilities. 

If your or someone you know or think, they may be dealing with or suffering from any type of mental/emotional issues, please seek professional help.




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In this episode Tee and I discuss how our creative attributes played a part in our healing process. For both Tee and I, we are lovers of music, art, and poetry, hence why we are friends. Ironically, music was a keep component in our healing journey. I know you've heard the saying, "Music soothes the savage beast" right? Well, this is partly because of the frequency the music is in. Music has the ability to not only sooth, but aid in healing as well. Music tuned to 432 Hz is softer and brighter and is said to be easiest on the ears and great for meditation. (repetionsfitness.com)

Creativity aids in self discovery or self rediscovery, because it cause you to channel your energies into creating something new or different or it may spark an interest in something you never thought about before. This was another great show that I know you will enjoy.    


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Note: This episode is (Part 3) and a continuation of "Surviving The Pain Body" (Part 1) & "Releasing The Pain Body" (Part 2). If you have not had a chance to listen to these to awesome information packed episodes, when time permits, please do. 

In this episode, Tee and I discuss how important healing from emotional trauma is for our overall health and how meditation played a huge part in the healing process. We talk about how journaling frees the mind and the spirit and helps with releasing the unspoken pain that we went to. We also share all the tools that helped us to release, to heal, to grow and move forward in our lives. This conversation is a five parts from one conversation. Tee and I also share, our own personal testimonies and  talk a little about the power that we flow in now and how much our lives have changed for the better, because we change our outlook on life and how we see life. If you have been going through anything, and you're needing some encouragement and tools to help you get through a dark time in your life, "We got you", please press play. 

Disclaimer: The information provided within this podcast should not be considered as medical advise. If you are someone you know is dealing with severe anxiety & severe depression or severe anxiety & severe depression related health issues, please seek professional medical help. Thank You


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