Welcome to our deep dive on first dates - those exciting yet nerve-wracking experiences that can feel a lot like a high-stakes job interview.
In today's episode, we're tackling the common mistake of oversharing. While honesty is valuable, revealing too much, too soon can tip the scales in the wrong direction.
Here's why:
1. Oversharing takes away your bargaining power and leaves nothing for the other person to discover.
2. It can lead to your date drawing early, often inaccurate conclusions about you. We draw parallels with poker, emphasizing the importance of not revealing your cards too soon or too fully. This concept directly applies to both dating and career scenarios.
Key takeaways include:
1. **Limit your reveal:** Understand when to share information. Keep some mystery in dating and let your skills and experience talk in job interviews, without relying on past salaries.
2. **Project positives:** Present your past in a positive light, showing growth rather than baggage, in both personal and professional settings.
3. **Know your worth:** Set your own standards and expectations. You deserve respect, kindness, and fair compensation. We also discuss the concept of information asymmetry, where revealing too much can put you at a disadvantage.
However, if you play the game right, you can turn the tables and regain your leverage. We wrap up the episode with an introduction to The Duchess Academy® and our signature program, The Duchess Method™. This program aims to empower women to stack the deck in their favor, fostering success and self-confidence.
Remember, in the world of information asymmetry, it's all about how well you play the game. Because if men are speaking the language of power, maybe it's time we become fluent in it too. Play well or get played, mon ami.
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- 發佈時間2023年9月14日 上午9:00 [UTC]
- 長度15 分鐘
- 年齡分級兒少適宜