Transforming Families with Randy and Lesli

Dr Randy Bixby and Lesli Lamb-Bixby
Transforming Families with Randy and Lesli

Transforming Families with Randy and Lesli is a groundbreaking podcast hosted by renowned authors and family experts, Dr. Randall Bixby and his wife, Lesli Lamb-Bixby aimed at helping families transform their lives and in the process, transform culture. Drawing inspiration from their bestselling book, "The Family Legacy: Shaping Culture from the Inside Out" written by Dr. Randall Bixby, this podcast delves deep into the core problems facing families today, offering practical tools for parents to quickly put into practice that will transform their family as they learn to do family the way God designed. Randy and Lesli, a dynamic husband-and-wife team, bring their vast knowledge and experience to guide listeners on a transformative journey to build stronger, healthier, and more connected families. They understand what families are facing today. They have a blended family and have experienced the highs and lows that family has to offer. They have experienced serious brokenness and verifiable healing that gives them the authority to share what they’ve learned with others. They understand the hopelessness, the fear, the grief of thinking, “It’s too late for my family” or “How am I ever going to change this…” With their warm and relatable personalities, they create a safe and engaging space where listeners can learn, reflect, and take practical steps towards positive change. Each episode of Transforming Families with Randy and Lesli is a treasure trove of wisdom, infused with personal anecdotes, research-backed insights, practical tools, and expert interviews. The podcast covers a wide range of topics essential to modern families, including effective communication, parenting, marriage, creating family traditions, growing in emotional intelligence, teaching true identity, resolving conflict, forgiveness, divorce, single parent families, blended families, family legacy, Family Coat of Arms, and creating a healthy family culture. All from a Biblical worldview. They employ experiential learning exercises from a Biblical worldview that give families an experience that drives the learning deep and equips children to use these same exercises with their children and grandchildren resulting in a generational impact and lasting legacy. At the heart of the podcast is the transformative power of doing family by God’s original design. Randy and Lesli firmly believe that doing family God’s way builds not only individual lives but also the broader culture. They explore how the values, beliefs, and traditions passed down from generation to generation can profoundly impact society as a whole. Through thought-provoking discussions, they inspire listeners to intentionally build their families as God designed, empowering them to be agents of positive change in their communities and the world. Transforming Families with Randy and Lesli goes beyond theory, offering practical tools and strategies that listeners can implement in their daily lives. Each episode concludes with actionable takeaways and challenges designed to encourage listeners to apply the insights shared. From simple communication exercises to creative ways of teaching identity and fostering connection, from a blueprint for navigating family crises to maximizing the legacy imprint on a regular family venture (vacation), Randy and Lesli provide a roadmap for families to thrive in an ever-changing world. Guest experts and real-life stories are an integral part of the podcast. Randy and Lesli bring in thought leaders, authors, coaches, ministers, educators, and other specialists to share their expertise and shed light on various family-related challenges. Listeners gain valuable insights from these conversations, expanding their perspectives and finding inspiration in the experiences of others. Transforming Families with Randy and Lesli is a podcast that transcends traditional family discussions. It is a Global movement called, The Family Reformation Project th

  1. Love and Money: Tackling Financial Stress in Families

    NOV 26

    Love and Money: Tackling Financial Stress in Families

    Welcome To Transforming Families with Randy and Lesli.  "Today, we’re discussing one of the leading causes of stress in marriage—money—and how couples can work together to overcome financial challenges." Quick fact or statistic: About 64% of Americans cite inflation as a major challenge, while financial strain often leads to marital discord and higher divorce rates Scott Free Clini Did you know financial issues are one of the top reasons couples argue?" Preview the episode structure: common causes of financial stress, its impact on relationships, and practical solutions for managing money as a team. Join the FRP TRIBE, an online community of families who love Jesus and are committed to doing family as God Designed... together. Segment 1: Understanding Financial Stress in Marriage  Definition and Signs: What does financial stress look like? Examples: frequent arguments, avoiding money talks, or feeling overwhelmed by bills. Why It's Common in Marriage: Differing money habits (spender vs. saver).  Not in agreement, making financial decisions as one. External pressures (student loans, childcare costs, medical bills). Lack of communication about financial goals or priorities. Share a relatable anecdote or listener story illustrating financial stress in action.   Segment 2: The Emotional and Relational Impact of Financial Stress  Emotional Effects: Anxiety, resentment, guilt, or feelings of inadequacy. Lack of trust and security….   FEAR -  Relational Consequences: Increased arguments and tension. Lack of intimacy due to stress or feelings of disconnection. Power dynamics: when one partner earns significantly more or less. Example: “One partner feels controlled because they have to ask for money, while the other feels burdened by financial responsibility.”   Segment 3: Common Money Mistakes Couples Make Avoiding Money Conversations: Ignoring finances until there’s a problem. Living Beyond Means: Overspending on homes, vacations, or lifestyle to "keep up." Not Having a Budget or Plan: Operating without clear boundaries or goals. Individual vs. Shared Accounts Tension: Miscommunication about what’s “yours,” “mine,” and “ours.” Failing to Save or Invest for the Future: Lack of emergency funds or retirement planning.   Segment 4: Solutions for Managing Financial Stress Together  Open and Honest Communication: Regular “money meetings” to discuss goals, bills, and progress. Share feelings about money without judgment. Create a Joint Budget: List income, expenses, and savings goals together. Use budgeting apps or tools to stay organized. Define Financial Roles: Decide who manages which aspects (e.g., paying bills vs. long-term planning). Set Short- and Long-Term Goals: Examples: Paying off debt, saving for a house, or planning a dream vacation. Celebrate small wins together. Emergency Fund and Debt Reduction: Save at least 3–6 months of expenses. Pay down high-interest debts with a snowball or avalanche method. Seek Professional Guidance: Financial advisors or counselors for tailored advice. Use therapy if money issues are deeply affecting the relationship. Agree on Spending Limits: Set a threshold for purchases that require joint approval. Our Solution:  Equipping our family with actual tools on how to steward our hearts and teach our children how to steward there’s.  PI tool, Fact-Story Tool…Social Coveneant.   Conclusion and Call to Action Recap: Financial stress is challenging but manageable with teamwork, communication, and planning. Encourage listeners to take one step today: start a budget, schedule a money meeting, or talk openly about financial goals. Share a success story of a couple who overcame financial stress. Invite listener questions or stories for a future Q&A episode. Tease the next episode topic: “How to Build Wealth Together as a Couple.” Closing message: “Love and money don’t have to clash. With the right tools and teamwork, you can thrive together.”

    39 min
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Transforming Families with Randy and Lesli is a groundbreaking podcast hosted by renowned authors and family experts, Dr. Randall Bixby and his wife, Lesli Lamb-Bixby aimed at helping families transform their lives and in the process, transform culture. Drawing inspiration from their bestselling book, "The Family Legacy: Shaping Culture from the Inside Out" written by Dr. Randall Bixby, this podcast delves deep into the core problems facing families today, offering practical tools for parents to quickly put into practice that will transform their family as they learn to do family the way God designed. Randy and Lesli, a dynamic husband-and-wife team, bring their vast knowledge and experience to guide listeners on a transformative journey to build stronger, healthier, and more connected families. They understand what families are facing today. They have a blended family and have experienced the highs and lows that family has to offer. They have experienced serious brokenness and verifiable healing that gives them the authority to share what they’ve learned with others. They understand the hopelessness, the fear, the grief of thinking, “It’s too late for my family” or “How am I ever going to change this…” With their warm and relatable personalities, they create a safe and engaging space where listeners can learn, reflect, and take practical steps towards positive change. Each episode of Transforming Families with Randy and Lesli is a treasure trove of wisdom, infused with personal anecdotes, research-backed insights, practical tools, and expert interviews. The podcast covers a wide range of topics essential to modern families, including effective communication, parenting, marriage, creating family traditions, growing in emotional intelligence, teaching true identity, resolving conflict, forgiveness, divorce, single parent families, blended families, family legacy, Family Coat of Arms, and creating a healthy family culture. All from a Biblical worldview. They employ experiential learning exercises from a Biblical worldview that give families an experience that drives the learning deep and equips children to use these same exercises with their children and grandchildren resulting in a generational impact and lasting legacy. At the heart of the podcast is the transformative power of doing family by God’s original design. Randy and Lesli firmly believe that doing family God’s way builds not only individual lives but also the broader culture. They explore how the values, beliefs, and traditions passed down from generation to generation can profoundly impact society as a whole. Through thought-provoking discussions, they inspire listeners to intentionally build their families as God designed, empowering them to be agents of positive change in their communities and the world. Transforming Families with Randy and Lesli goes beyond theory, offering practical tools and strategies that listeners can implement in their daily lives. Each episode concludes with actionable takeaways and challenges designed to encourage listeners to apply the insights shared. From simple communication exercises to creative ways of teaching identity and fostering connection, from a blueprint for navigating family crises to maximizing the legacy imprint on a regular family venture (vacation), Randy and Lesli provide a roadmap for families to thrive in an ever-changing world. Guest experts and real-life stories are an integral part of the podcast. Randy and Lesli bring in thought leaders, authors, coaches, ministers, educators, and other specialists to share their expertise and shed light on various family-related challenges. Listeners gain valuable insights from these conversations, expanding their perspectives and finding inspiration in the experiences of others. Transforming Families with Randy and Lesli is a podcast that transcends traditional family discussions. It is a Global movement called, The Family Reformation Project th

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