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True Connections is a journey within to discover that you are a part of everything. Life can often feel disjointed, but you and I are actually connected to one another, to nature, animals, even thoughts and dreams. It’s my desire to bring spiritual insight to these true connections. Host: Weston Jolly

  1. 10/14/2025

    The Secrets of Out-of-Body Experiences – Weston Jolly Ep. 84

    Hi, I’m Weston After providing over 15,000 hours in session and speaking, I recognize that… “You’re much stronger and more empowered than you think you are…” My Story The Secrets of Out-of-Body Experiences A Spiritual Channel Explains All My personal experience is matched by one billion people who who claim to have had at least one out-of-body experience. This estimate is about 12% of the world’s population. Out-of-body experiences (OBEs) are powerful events where your awareness exists outside your body without dying. Anyone can have one, and they often happen through dreams, meditation, or deep relaxation. Many people connect OBEs to near-death experiences, but the truth is you don’t need to die to have one. Around 12% of people worldwide say they’ve had an OBE, making it a common and natural phenomenon. These experiences can help you see your life from a new perspective, feel a sense of unity with everything, and understand more about your true self beyond the mind and body. If you want to try an out-of-body experience, there are four easy ways to start: dreams, meditation, salt water floats, and automatic writing. In dreams, you can set an intention before sleep to explore outside your body. Meditation teaches you to quiet the mind so your soul can move freely. Floating in salt water creates a feeling of weightlessness, helping you naturally detach from the body. Automatic writing lets you connect spiritually while your body writes without thinking, allowing your awareness to go beyond. These methods all focus on letting go of control and opening yourself to the experience. OBEs are not about fear or danger—they are about openness and connection. By stepping away from the ego and trusting your soul, you can explore new realities and deepen your sense of peace and love. The journey outside your body is a way to discover who you truly are and to reconnect with something greater than yourself. Click on the above media player or read the full transcript below. (HIT PLAY and LISTEN to True Connections with Weston Jolly podcast) Thank you for joining us for this podcast Episode 084 of True Connections with Weston Jolly Transcription: The Secrets of Out-of-Body Experiences: A Spiritual Channel Explains All The truth about out-of-body experiences is that you don’t have to die to have one. Since the beginning of time, explorers continue to be driven by curiosity to discover new worlds. This same desire fuels the journey beyond the body. For nearly three decades, I’ve channelled as a spiritual teacher sharing hidden truths about the Universe. Yet, my first out-of-body experience was not something I sought or even understood—it arrived unexpectedly, and it changed everything -it changed my life. This can be frustrating for those who seek to have their first out-of-body experience and it might stir an even greater fear for those who might think it could just randomly happen. I will help anyone wanting to experience an out-of-body experience (OBE), as well as offer reassurance for those who may have experienced an OBE unexpectedly. Out-of-body experiences are exactly what you might think that they are. You find yourself consciously outside of your physical body. This may include “looking down” at your body or just flying or hovering around. While out-of-body, there is a sense of lightness and unity with everything, along with the simultaneous ability to see physical details of the room or surroundings—this is the normal. It doesn’t matter if you don’t believe in such concepts – as I didn’t when it happened to me. I was sleeping on the second story of our first house with the master bedroom window overlooking the backyard. One night, in my 20’s, I left my body and hovered parallel to my physical body still sleeping in bed, as I flew right out the closed window. I recall feeling scared and upset because I didn’t believe in any such things. This event was simple and timeless. Nothing happened beyond me silently starting to float about three feet above my body and then slowly out the bedroom window, 45 feet above the back porch, and then return back to my body again. The experience can be likened to learning how to swim. First, it’s like swimming in the small kiddie pool, as you get more comfortable then you jump into the “big pool,” eventually venturing into the deep end. Hovering, untethered outside my body two stories above the backyard felt like the deep end. It took my breath away. Honestly, the experience itself wasn’t at all scary—just unexpected. My personal experience is matched by one billion people who who claim to have had at least one out-of-body experience. This estimate is about 12% of the world’s population. Certainly, people are talking about their out-of-body experiences making the topic less woo woo. Out-of-body experiences are extraordinary opportunities of discovery. You can leave your body through sleep, dreams, meditation, accidents or through death. From an academic perspective, studies of out-of-body experiences share also have had a Near-Death-Experience or NDE. Some scientific investigations suggest that almost 80% of those who have a NDE experience also have a out-of-body experience. This is why there is such a strong connection between the experience of dying or coming close to death and subsequently returning to life in a body. Studies are filled with details of individuals seeing or hearing things in a room while they leave their bodies. No one wants to die trying something new but many life changing opportunities come at challenging the fear of dying. This is why it’s important to understand that you don’t have to die to have an OBE. I didn’t die, I was just sleeping when I left my body. This raises the question of whether it is possible to experience an out-of-body experience (OBE) without facing actual death. The topics of out-of-body experiences, as well as NDE, confound; biologists, neuroscientists, medical doctors and psychologists. But it doesn’t confound honest spiritualists. There’s little controversy about death; the heart stops as does breath. Biologically, death has occurred. The shell, or the body, stops living and so does the ego. The ego is that part of the human body that nobody can seem to locate physically. This extends in trying to find where conscious and the soul reside in the body. The best guess is that ego, consciousness and the soul are associated with the body. But where? The most educated minds don’t have a clue. And I’ll tell you why, because this information isn’t available to the mind. The human mind is impressive but very limited. For example, we can’t fully grasp concepts like eternal or unconditional. To cope, the mind uses shortcuts and relies on our senses, which are even more restricted—this creates challenges for true understanding. In the physical world, there is great emphasis, if not even a conditioned prejudice, that if you can’t see it, hear it, or measure it — then the thing you’re trying to observe or categorize isn’t real. This is a conundrum as the body and the mind have clear boundaries to what it can sense or process. Any scientist would agree, but what is hard to grasp is how this condition, or prejudice, actually blocks stuff the mind can’t understand. This to your brought to your attention so you can appreciate that an OBE can happen as a result of NDE and it goes beyond the mind, and the body that supports it. When the body dies, so does the brain and it’s ability to sense, record or remember anything. A dead battery has no energy and cannot supply electricity for any use. A dead body, hosts a dead mind, and yet still things are being processed but where? Deductively, it can’t be physical because the body and the mind are dead. This is where the controversy surrounding OBE begins. Yet, it’s all pretty simple. The reason I’ve introduced NDE in conjunction with OBE is to create an understanding that being out-of-body is literally outside the body. The proof is shared by someone who is dying or dead, as they look down at their dead body -hearing or seeing things in the room that a dead body can’t process. And that’s just the physical things. You don’t have to die to have an out-of-body experience, but this raises doubts about whether the experience is truly an OBE. In reality, a genuine OBE doesn’t need to be questioned. People who have OBEs aren’t just imagining it—they are going beyond the mind. This should reassure anyone who experiences an OBE unexpectedly. Let’s focus on how to create an out-of-body experience. When you go out-of-body there are patterns that create the definition of the practice. You’ll feel sensations of complete and utter openness and oneness. These two parts go hand and hand. c You would do well, to allow me to repeat this, being open is the key to oneness to experience being outside of your body. There are feelings of unity, peace and love in the purity of being at one. This esoteric state is exactly how you would describe your soul before it incarnated into a body. The subtile difference in being out-of-body, is you still have an association to the body. However, it’s a very loose association compared to the idea that this body is who you are. There is consciousness without ego. The only egoic piece that you have is a slight connection that the body you’ve left is yours. You know it’s your b

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  2. 07/31/2025

    Moving Past Your Lower Self – Weston Jolly Ep. 83

    Hi, I’m Weston After providing over 15,000 hours in session and speaking, I recognize that… “You’re much stronger and more empowered than you think you are…” My Story Moving Past Your Lower Self The Lower Self is the ego or the Shell and “IT” is not you.  Learn more about how to move past your lower self and your mind. Many of us have faced moments when others hurled hurtful words—like “Who do you think you are?” I remember this so well after having channeled my first book Is God With Us? My stepfather jeered and mockingly asked me this question and I fell silent in shame -as if I had done something wrong. I want you to know that those words don’t define you, even if they’ve unconsciously shaped your lower self over time. It’s common to carry such wounds and to feel stuck, but you’re not alone—and you can break free. In Moving Past Your Lower Self I want to acknowledge how common and damaging these patterns are, yet also remind you that you’re not alone or defined by the past. Now is the perfect time to reconnect with your true self and inspire those around you to do the same. Click on the above media player or read the full transcript below. (HIT PLAY and LISTEN to True Connections with Weston Jolly podcast) Thank you for joining us for this podcast Episode 083 of True Connections with Weston Jolly Transcription: Moving Past the Lower Self Weston Jolly: Let’s talk about how to move past your lower self. As human beings, we’re rooted in our physical form. Biologically, we’re conditioned to fear things—snakes, tigers, any threat that could harm us. This survival instinct passes into how we’re raised—by our parents and our communities. Quickly, the idea that “nobody is safe” becomes a deep, primal resonance for all of us. This isn’t new. It’s used everywhere, especially in marketing. I remember learning in college how companies like Michelin would put a baby inside a tire in an advertisement. The message is clear: fear sells! As long as people believe that fear is real. Today, I want to show you how to go beyond the attachment of your lower self. [00:03] Understanding the Ego and Separation Weston Jolly: We must be compassionate with ourselves and recognize that as souls, we chose to incarnate in physical bodies. Our bodies protect us, but our minds—specifically the ego—can amplify that fear. The ego acts as a shell that creates not just real, but imagined threats. At its core, the ego is about separation. When constant messages tell us we’re not safe, this strikes at our root chakra and threatens feelings of security—whether it’s about having a job, a home, or food. The body and mind trigger a predictable protective response. You can’t force yourself to move forward just by fighting this state. Trying to love or support someone mired in fear doesn’t work; fear always wins out and the lower self takes over. The ego drives the car, creating drama and separation. Mere intellectual understanding isn’t enough; mastery requires living beyond this perspective. [00:05] Patterns of Protection and Separation Weston Jolly: Let’s delve into how the lower self operates in daily life. When you constantly hear that nobody is safe—either in the news or in your world—that triggers feelings of separation. This isn’t just about society; it seeps into our personal habits and barriers. Sometimes, even when you are safe, you don’t feel that way. This happens because your subconscious, “reptilian” brain, has been activated. When you let the lower self have too much control, you create cycles of separation and start to believe you have no choices. This leads to an internal sense of powerlessness. If you’re grappling with uncomfortable emotions or trying to control your mind, it may seem virtually impossible. Trying to prevent yourself from feeling fear rarely works. Instead, give yourself permission to see the truth and connect to your Higher Self. [00:08] Choosing Connection Over Fear Weston Jolly: Operating from your Higher Self means there’s no fight or struggle—no drama over “who’s in charge.” Your spirit or Higher Self will never argue with your lower self. You must simply choose whom you serve. If you opt for your Higher Self, there’s no reason to submit to separation and fear. This isn’t just about hearing these words. Pay attention to how these energies feel in your body and life. You might go through your day, hear a song, feel a certain way, and suddenly an old fear—an attachment from your past—gets triggered. That’s the moment when the lower self wants to steer the car. If you let it, you attract more situations of separation. It’s a cycle—when you don’t feel safe, your energy looks for more spaces that match it. When you try to protect yourself at all costs, you can’t receive what life wants to give you. This behavior impacts not just your personal life and health, but your relationships as well. [00:11] Letting Go of Patterns Weston Jolly: Imagine waking up next to a loved one and feeling unsafe for no clear reason. Without realizing it, you may put up emotional walls, create conflict, or distance yourself from that person—even if you love them deeply. This pattern can repeat not just in romantic relationships but also between parents and children. To move forward, focus your attention on who you really are. The feeling of “not being safe” is something learned and chosen—not a permanent truth. We become stuck, orbiting these issues like a moon around Earth, never breaking free. But the moment you realize the fear isn’t real, the pattern breaks. That’s what letting go means: recognizing the cycle, putting your focused attention on your true self, and automatically moving past your lower self. It’s something to practice, not just understand. [00:14] Breaking Conditioned Fear Weston Jolly: We all have biological protection, but we also have learned layers of ego and fear. Being aware of this is crucial. If you let your physical fear of harsh environments become a justification for further protection, it actually creates deep separation. Then, you never find peace within yourself. Sometimes, our need to present ourselves a certain way—through appearance, status, or behavior—becomes deeply ingrained. This isn’t about age; it’s about the choice to exist as we truly are. That choice is powerful—and not a sign of vulnerability, despite what the lower self or family conditioning may tell us. For many, this fear is passed down from generation to generation. Breaking free from it is a profound act. You do not need to remain limited. [00:17] The Power of Choice and Affluence Weston Jolly: Let’s look at how you can release yourself from the past and connect with your true self. There are many ways—no single right one. Remember, having options (affluence) is the opposite of the poverty mindset, which makes you feel like you have no choice at all. Even if strong feelings of fear or separation have been repeated all your life—through upbringing, culture, or social roles—you can become conscious of these patterns. Giving attention to the lower self, acknowledging it, and then choosing differently is how you move forward. When you’re stuck, it’s because you’re holding onto these patterns. You don’t have to. Practicing mindfulness and gratitude brings your focus back to your true self, helping you move beyond old cycles. [00:20] Shifting Into Gratitude and Abundance Weston Jolly: Gratitude is a powerful tool. It connects you to your Higher Self and source. While many use gratitude for minor things—a meal, a parking spot—true gratitude comes from realizing you are supported simply by being alive. Society may reinforce separation through class or category, but these are learned beliefs. When you let go of them, you step into your power. Even immense wealth can’t guarantee a feeling of safety if separation and fear still rule within. Affluence and abundance come from a connected state. Practicing gratitude and letting go of limiting beliefs allow you to receive more. Your Higher Self is always available—no need to wait until death to access it. The feeling of connection is always there for you. [00:23] Connecting with Divine Truth Weston Jolly: Tap into your Higher Self through gratitude and understanding that separation isn’t real. Divine truth never changes; it’s eternal. Connecting with this truth is not about individual perspective but reaching something universal. As you access your Higher Self, you transcend many earthly fears. You allow yourself to move beyond manipulation—no longer controlled by fear, illusions, or a sense of unworthiness. Clear thinking keeps you connected and avoids the traps of limitation. Sometimes, calming the mind feels like quieting a fussy baby. Gently remind yourself—the ego is not in charge. Let your true self lead. [00:25] Lighting Up Your True Self Weston Jolly: When you open yourself to love, without protection or fear, all of your energy centers or chakras light up. This energy isn’t limited to security at the base or root—it expands out through your whole being. Test this for yourself. Temporary security from money, relationships, or physical strength can all be disrupted. True security comes from within. When you feel that inner connection, you live in a more powerful and peaceful way. Moving

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  3. 06/03/2025

    Putting My Face On – Weston Jolly Ep.82

    Hi, I’m Weston After providing over 15,000 hours in session and speaking, I recognize that… “You’re much stronger and more empowered than you think you are…” My Story Putting My Face On Why do we present, and wear, so many different faces when we only have one? In a world where everyone is obsessed with putting on the perfect face, my recent trip to the car wash spirals into a comedy of errors and a journey of self-discovery. If you want to save face from public embarrassment and discover unexpected wisdom, hear what happens next when you drop the mask. Are you ready to laugh, cringe, and maybe see yourself a little more clearly? Tune in and discover the freedom —and power— of embracing your True Self. After all you’re much more than just some face. Click on the above media player or read the full transcript below. (HIT PLAY and LISTEN to True Connections with Weston Jolly podcast) Thank you for joining us for this podcast Episode 082 of True Connections with Weston Jolly Transcription: Putting My Face On [00:51] Why Is It We Put on Different Faces? Putting my face on. If you’re a woman, you know exactly what this means. However, if you’re a man, you might not realize that “putting my face on” refers to applying makeup. Isn’t it fascinating that putting on a face is something we all do? Not necessarily makeup, but a face. Everyone wants to put their best face forward. The young want to appear mature; the old want to look young. We are obsessed with looking good. It’s obvious, but you might be too close to the situation to notice. Let me illustrate. Imagine you’re on vacation, out to dinner with family or friends. I’m your waiter, and someone hands me a phone, asking if I’ll take your picture. I gather everyone, compose the shot with attention to lighting and background, making sure everyone looks their best, and take the photo. Then I say, “I’ve got it,” and hand the camera back. What’s the first thing you do? You can’t help yourself. [02:24] Saving Face At The Car Wash You’re staring at yourself, checking if your eyes are open or closed, if there’s spinach stuck in your teeth, or if you look silly. Maybe you’re worried your neck looks like a turkey. The list goes on. It can be hard to see your inner uniqueness if you’re used to putting on a face. Let me share a personal story. Last Sunday, I asked my wife if I could take her car to get it washed. I thought it was a nice gesture, though I admit I’m obsessed with her car being clean. I took her car to the car wash—she has a membership—so I went into the “members only” lane. There were only a couple of cars ahead, and some behind. I’m familiar with her car, which has an automatic windshield wiper feature: when the windshield gets wet, the wipers come on automatically. [03:46] When Putting Your Face On Goes Bad I knew this, but I felt a bit nervous as I waited my turn as the next car to enter the car wash. I couldn’t quite remember how to turn off the automatic windshield wipers. The car wash attendant, clearly familiar with this feature, sprayed my windshield first. As soon as he did, my wipers, as I feared, automatically engaged. Instinctively, I put my foot on the brake —remember, we’re on a moving track— as I tried twisting and turning the right-hand knob to turn off the automatic wipers. The attendant kept spraying the windshield while I desperately fiddled with the controls, trying to stop the wipers. I felt stressed and anxious, but nothing worked. With no other option, the attendant pressed a red button to stop the car wash, setting off a loud buzzer that alerted everyone in the area that the car wash was down. [05:08] What’s the Real Problem? It was my fault. I looked in the rearview mirror and saw a long line of cars behind me. I tried even harder to turn off the wipers, but with no luck. Finally, as I was about to enter the car wash, another attendant motioned for me to roll down my window and said, “Turn off your automatic windshield wipers.” I won’t repeat what I was thinking in that moment. I replied, “I’m trying, but I don’t know how!” as he continued spraying the windshield and the wipers kept going. Then he suggested I lift the lever up a notch. I did, and the problem was solved. Looking in the mirror, I saw the line was even longer. I was nervous but relieved the issue was fixed. The car wash alarm sounded again, letting everyone know the wash was about to start. [06:36] Trying to Save Face After the Incident As my car was pulled into the first stage of the car wash, I couldn’t believe how anxious I felt about causing such a commotion. I glanced in the rearview mirror again to see how many people were behind me, telling myself it didn’t matter what others thought. Hidden in the car wash, I was overwhelmed with embarrassment. When I reached the end, hearing the air blow-drying the car, I felt some relief and reminded myself that I probably wasn’t the first to have this issue. Pulling out, I made a U-turn to find a stall to dry and vacuum the car, and I ending up parking right next to the front of the car wash —the very spot where my problems began. Now I could really see how backed up the line was because of me. [07:50] If I Didn’t Hear the Alarm the First Time I Did the Second Trying not to attract any more attention, I grabbed my towels to dry the car. As I leaned down, over the front grill, to dry the front bumper, the key fob in my pocket got caught and set off the car’s emergency alarm, creating a loud beeping noise. I jumped, trying to figure out what happened, and then I realized the fob was in my pocket. With wet hands, I struggled to reach into my dry pockets and find the right button. The fob is square with tiny buttons, which are not much bigger than on an iPhone. The car alarm kept going, and I couldn’t tell which button would turn it off, so I pressed them all. [08:49] Reflections on Being Seen – Even When the Alarms Go Off The same attendant who helped with my automatic wipers was standing six or eight feet away. The car alarm finally stopped, and I finished drying the car as quickly as possible. Everything I did was an attempt to save face, but it didn’t work. If you’re a woman, you might start your day by washing your face and putting on makeup. If you’re a man, you’re probably putting on a face too, just without makeup. We all do it, just like we look at ourselves in photos to make sure we look good. What I’m saying is, we all put on a face. Well, not everyone. When Susan Boyle first sang “I Dreamed a Dream” from Les Misérables on Britain’s Got Talent, she didn’t put on a face. She came on stage, told everyone she was 47, unemployed, never married, and had never been kissed. [10:13] Susan Boyle and the Power of Not Wearing a Face Then she sang. Twenty-six million people watched that audition. Her dream of becoming a singer came true with her first album selling ten million copies, and she recorded eight more albums. If you’re wondering how, Susan’s success came from not putting on a face. My car wash wake-up call made me look at myself differently. Metaphysically, something was going on. The car wash, the alarms, the horns, and the attention I drew —what is this message? It’s ironic, symbolic, and even humorous that it took a car wash for me to see myself more clearly. Maybe the car wash was helping me remove my makeup. I find words—and the energy behind them—fascinating. Right now, I’m thinking about the phrase “makeup.” This reminds me of another story from college. I missed a class and called a classmate from the lobby of a girls’ dorm to ask for her notes. We sat together every day in business school, but she wasn’t enthusiastic and sighed saying, “I just took off my makeup.” [11:55] Caught Looking at Only the makeup I said, “I don’t care,” and I kept pleading for her notes for the next day’s test. She finally agreed as she said she’d be down in the lobby in a minute. I sat in the corner of the all-girl dormitory lobby, absent-mindedly watching people come and go. Then a girl walked up, handed me some papers, and said, “Here you go.” I didn’t recognize her and I finally said, “…Sheila?” She frowned, turned around, and walked away in a huff. I begged for forgiveness, but it was clear I was like all the other guys who thought Sheila didn’t wear that much makeup. Nothing had really changed —she was still herself— but something had changed within me. I hadn’t taken the time to really see Sheila without her face on, and it was I who was embarrassed. After a few humble apologies, Sheila forgave me, and we became even better friends. Do we need to present ourselves in a made-up fashion? After my recent car wash fiasco, I decided to open up even more to what else I might be making up. So, I decided to channel about it. [13:35] Channeling: As you look through a dark glass, your vision is obscured. Once the dark lens is removed, you can see clearly. There are many layers you use to protect your sense of self. For example, when you look in the mirror, you wonder, “Who am I?” But really, you’re thinking about how you want to present yourself. It may never occur to you that the reflection isn’t really you. The essence of who you are is found in your energy, your light, and your vibrations. To see yourself, you must look beyond the external

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  4. 04/07/2025

    Get Up and Go Beyond -Weston Jolly Ep81

    Hi, I’m Weston After providing over 15,000 hours in session and speaking, I recognize that… “You’re much stronger and more empowered than you think you are…” My Story Get Up and GO BEYOND. Get Up and Go Beyond, means raising your vibration and being One. We are the only species that has the conscious ability to rise up. And the power of being united is the essence of all manifestation. “If a dog can learn to walk you then can rise up.” Get Up and Go Beyond is raising your vibrations. In this podcast, we explore the power of raising our vibrations through deep connections with ourselves and others. Discover a secret superpower that’s more than just a warm fuzzy feeling—it’s a true game changer that helps us break free from isolation and celebrate our unity. While simply coexisting is good, genuine empowerment comes from working together and acknowledging our interconnectedness. All wealth is born from a state of oneness. As the only mammals with this incredible potential for unity, we also have the unique ability to deny it. When we get trapped in our egos, we create separation and division, which keeps us in a state of fear and lack—ultimately leading to our downfall. Get Up and Go Beyond offers powerful messages that will help you transcend the limitations of duality, helping you move far beyond fear, control, doubt, and uncertainty. Let’s rise together! Click on the above media player or read the full transcript below. (HIT PLAY and LISTEN to True Connections with Weston Jolly podcast) Thank you for joining us for this podcast Episode 081 of True Connections with Weston Jolly Transcription: Get Up and Go Beyond Get Up and Go Beyond [00:54] – Weston Jolly I know a lot of people who have been really wondering what’s going on. Perhaps you’ve been experiencing issues that have to do with your past, like you’ve never been asked before. Things like; health issues, maybe economic changes, changes with your job or personal relationships. Certainly, there’s a great deal happening in the world, and how we’re all interconnecting. And maybe, just maybe, this is a time for you and me to rise up and to go beyond—a time to really find your empowerment. And this is that message for you to Get Up and Go Beyond. The Power of Personal Accountability [01:43] – Weston Jolly So if you have been feeling unsafe, fearful, or upset by anything outside of you, it’s because you’ve created it. I know this can be really hard to hear, and most people will automatically resist, not wanting to be personally accountable. But this is the point, isn’t it? Because if we’re going to make a change, if we’re going to rise up and go beyond, we have to do that by reestablishing our individual and collective connection. [02:17] – Weston Jolly Raising your vibration is a message of unlimited opportunity. In the opposite state, it’s really easy to see how blaming everyone with absolutely no personal accountability is so common. [02:41] – Weston Jolly The rising up has to start with you. If you’re feeling unsure or defeated, this is the exact intention of any person or group who wants to steal, lie, or control—whether it’s by power, money, or positioning. If you’ve felt or still feel like you don’t matter, or that you don’t have enough, or that your voice isn’t worth hearing, this conditioning and its effects started a long time ago. Unity as a Pathway to Empowerment [03:31] – Weston Jolly So what’s the point? Raising your vibration up means literally being at one. Be reminded that this power is within you. This is why you are being asked to rise up. Some people may call this a spiritual up-leveling. An opportunity to raise your vibrations —as the creator that you are— so that you can banish slavery. Now, slavery is a strong word and very personal. But you can’t get up disempowered as a slave. This is super important. So as you claim your empowerment to be strong and free, beware that you don’t need permission. You don’t need permission to speak or rise up; you know the power is in unity. The power is in oneness. The power of the universe is found in oneness. [04:32] – Weston Jolly This is found in nature as it is in the potential of humans. There’s absolute power in unity. If you are rich by any definition, there is no other way except through unity. This one thought will increase your vibrations as you go up. This simple truth will actually remain forever. Lessons from History: The Importance of Unity [06:29] – Weston Jolly Have you ever wondered why human evolution continues to rise and fall? Why have so many people—some of the greatest communities, empires or governments in history—gone extinct? Consider these very clear points of the past that created extinction or the expiration of a people or government: Climatic shifts Economic strain Lack of unity, Invasion Loss of identity. Does any of that sound familiar? Perhaps we’re going through a climate shift, economic strain, lack of unity, invasion desires by us or others and certainly perhaps we’re at a loss in terms of our identity. The Transformative Power of Gratitude [08:01] – Weston Jolly Let’s quickly unwrap the Secrets of Gratitude as a singular tool. What is gratitude? Gratitude is an opportunity to be at one, to actually raise your vibrations and reestablish a reconnection to this energetic base. Being in gratitude is an opportunity to be at one with all things. This includes events like a fire or a flood, or even more personal challenges, such as a disease. Sometimes when these things happen, our first instinct is to fight them. Let’s be honest—gratitude during tough times is challenging. It’s easy to feel grateful when life is bountiful, but it feels much harder when we’re in the midst of a trial or a challenge. This is why gratitude is such a powerful tool—a superpower for connection. Think of the term Nameste. [09:42] – Weston Jolly Everything about life exists in a state of connection. Nothing is separate. Denying this connection puts individuals, families, and even civilizations at peril. While differences of opinion are natural and healthy, they don’t have to lead to disconnection or division. Connection Beyond Drama and Trauma [11:15] – Weston Jolly It’s not about being in lockstep with everyone but about appreciating and honoring our shared humanity. Interestingly, humans often create the most connection through drama or trauma. While these moments can bring people together, they represent lower vibrational states. We don’t need war, economic collapse, or political division to foster connection. To rise vibrationally, we must let go of thoughts that create separation and division because we are all one. [12:56] – Weston Jolly Unity doesn’t mean thinking alike; it means coexisting with respect and moving beyond separation. Abundance flows from unity—this is foundational to all creation. Rising up takes practice and consistency, but it can also be joyful and fulfilling. Hope alone isn’t enough; we must actively choose connection every day. Rising Beyond Duality [14:45] – Weston Jolly As we rise into higher vibrations, we step into prosperity through collaboration and unity. Wealth itself depends on participation and interconnectivity—it cannot exist in isolation. Humans possess a unique ability among mammals: the conscious choice to raise their vibrations. While animals like dolphins or chimpanzees collaborate harmoniously, humans can intentionally elevate their energy through awareness. [16:12] – Weston Jolly Creation is a double-edged sword as it can foster either unity or division. When we raise our vibrations and connect as one, we transcend duality and limitations imposed by the ego or mind. The mind is finite; it dies with the body. However, the soul transcends this limitation, offering us the opportunity to connect deeply with our true essence. Choosing Unity Over Separation [17:49] – Weston Jolly Unchecked ego creates separation—feelings of loneliness, abandonment, or superiority over others—all of which lower our vibrations. Even small examples of separate thinking can highlight this issue, like comparing ourselves to others unnecessarily. Going beyond involves tapping into the infinite genius within us and embracing unity with the universe. [19:20] – Weston Jolly Rising up doesn’t mean losing individuality; it means recognizing ourselves as integral parts of a greater whole. This perspective enhances our power rather than diminishing it. By choosing connection over separation, we unlock infinite opportunities for growth and prosperity. Ego and Separation: Understanding the Pitfalls [16:11] – Weston Jolly Every mind has an ego, and if unchecked, it continuously creates separation. This unchecked ego leads to feelings of; loneliness, abandonment, unhappiness, and that of a constant struggle, often positioning oneself for personal gain at the expense of others. This state is indicative of being stuck in lower vibrations. When we judge or create classifications that elevate ourselves above others, regardless of the scale, we lower our vibration and move in the opposite direction of unity. [17:49] – Weston Jolly This concept extends to extreme thoughts of separation. For instance, I recall when our son was born and our baby was in bed with my wife a day after the event. My brother-in-law, who also just had his sec

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  5. 02/04/2025

    Managing Fear/Anxiety Doesn’t Work (this does) -Ep80

    Hi, I’m Weston After providing over 15,000 hours in session and speaking, I recognize that… “You’re much stronger and more empowered than you think you are…” My Story Why You Cant Manage Your Fears It’s a popular notion that you can control, overcome, and even manage your fears, but there are undeniable reasons why this will never work! What you’ll learn In this dialogue on why you can’t overcome or manage your fears, we take a close look at the nature of our beliefs and fears. Remarkably, over 90% of the fears that haunt us are actually unfounded. Join me as we explore how to break free from fear—and why you can’t manage or overcome fear. The first step toward true transformation is to confront our fears directly, observing their presence instead of fleeing from them. In this podcast, we will examine the compelling connection between love and fear, shedding light on why fear grips us and how it significantly diminishes our capacity to receive. This journey is not merely about personal growth; it’s about transforming the energy of every situation we encounter. Today, we are called to release our beliefs in fear, embrace the irrefutable truth of love, and harness the immense power we all possess to shape our experiences through awareness and intention. (HIT PLAY and LISTEN to True Connections with Weston Jolly podcast) Thank you for joining us for this podcast Episode 080 of True Connections with Weston Jolly Transcription: Managing fear and anxiety doesn’t work, but this approach does [00:10] – Weston Jolly Managing fear and anxiety doesn’t work, but this approach does. Right now, there’s a significant amount of fear being propagated. The reason is simple: fear sells. In moments of fear, there’s an instinct within you that drives action. Understanding Fear [01:13] – Weston Jolly We observe this in advertising campaigns. You’ve likely seen an egg breaking into a hot skillet, followed by the sound of sizzling. The tagline reads, “This is your brain on drugs,” creating a stark connection between frying the egg and frying your brain. This makes you think, “This is real.” [01:41] – Weston Jolly A lot of people want you to feel afraid. [01:46] – Weston Jolly They aim to sell you their agenda, product, service, or idea. This allows them to control or manipulate you through fear. Fear is Addictive [02:02] – Weston Jolly Let’s be clear about the essence of fear: it is addictive. It feeds on itself. Just one word, idea, or thought can start to grow, and soon you can feel it emanating from your solar plexus and spreading throughout your body. [02:25] – Weston Jolly Like any addiction, fear cannot be managed effectively. People who seek help in rehab programs, for example, may try to overcome alcohol addiction by counting days, weeks, or even years to manage their success. But ultimately, this approach fails. [02:55] – Weston Jolly We have plenty of examples illustrating this. So, while managing fear and anxiety doesn’t work, what does? Biologically-Why You Can’t Manage Fear [03:05] – Weston Jolly Let’s delve into something important for your understanding. Biologically speaking, if I were close enough to you and blew in your face, you’d instinctively blink. This reaction is beyond your control and cannot be managed. [03:22] – Weston Jolly This is simply how your body is designed. When you recognize that all animals, including humans, have biological systems for self-protection, you’ll understand that you cannot manage these instinctive biological responses. [03:44] – Weston Jolly These include our eyelids, designed to protect our eyes, our skin, which envelops the entire body to maintain integrity, our nose, which filters impurities from the air, and our liver and kidneys that function to protect us and ensure safety. [04:11] – Weston Jolly If you think you can manage fear, consider the act of someone blowing air into your eyes. Trying to control your instinctive blink response is biologically impossible, regardless of your intentions. [04:41] – Weston Jolly When your brain’s amygdala perceives a threat, it reacts instinctively. The prefrontal cortex assesses whether the threat is real or how serious it is. Meanwhile, the hippocampus stores related memories, allowing us to draw on past experiences when future threats are perceived. [05:14] – Weston Jolly This creates a cycle of fear, sometimes about things we may not genuinely fear. Understanding your body’s protective design demonstrates the futility of trying to control fear or anxiety. Fear and Anxiety: The What If? [05:40] – Weston Jolly Let’s clarify what anxiety is. Anxiety is the fear of an anticipated threat. It arises from the hippocampus, drawing on past memories to project future fears. Think of anxiety as stemming from the two words, “What if?” [06:16] – Weston Jolly For example, consider getting on a plane. [06:20] – Weston Jolly What if the plane is late? What if I can’t find a seat? What if I miss my flight? What if ticket prices go up? What if I have to sit next to an unpleasant person? [06:40] – Weston Jolly Those “what ifs” encapsulate the very nature of anxiety. It’s essential to recognize that you can’t control fear any more than you can control anxiety, but you can choose to observe them. Observing our fears or anxieties can be a transformative experience, yet it’s something we often neglect. [07:05] – Weston Jolly Instead, we allow our brains to cycle through fears, often stuffing them into a metaphorical trash can until they grow overwhelming. It’s crucial to understand that approximately 90% of our fears never come to fruition. [07:29] – Weston Jolly So, even from a probability standpoint, trying to manage fear is ultimately a waste of time. I’m not sure I can emphasize enough how much energy we expend trying to protect ourselves from threats that are unlikely to occur. Just as it’s biologically futile to try to control your blinking reflex, the same applies to managing fear. Getting Free of Fear [07:57] – Weston Jolly When we engage our primitive, reptilian brain—the part responsible for basic survival functions such as fear—it’s easy to feel stuck. This part of our brain activates the sympathetic nervous system, triggering our familiar fight-or-flight response. [08:22] – Weston Jolly Our endocrine system releases adrenaline and cortisol into our bodies, preparing us for an anticipated threat. This includes norepinephrine, which heightens our alertness and prepares our motor reflexes. You’ve likely experienced this when, for instance, a car backfires unexpectedly, causing you to startle. [08:48] – Weston Jolly This is known as the startle reflex. Your body moves into high alert mode—your senses are keenly tuned to possible threats, which is even more pronounced in highly sensitive individuals. [09:13] – Weston Jolly It’s crucial to grasp that you cannot control fear. This realization can be liberating. Now let’s discuss what you can do about fear and anxiety. Starting with the obvious: if over 90% of your fears are unfounded, then facing that thought directly—and acknowledging that anxiety often accompanies this fear—can simplify your understanding of what you are dealing with. Transformative Power of Facing a Fear [09:47] – Weston Jolly Recognizing that many fears and anxieties are derivative of non-real threats can be intellectually enlightening. However, it may not feel easy in practice. [10:05] – Weston Jolly It can be straightforward to talk about, but when fear manifests physically in your body, shaking it off isn’t always simple. Let’s do a little experiment to help dislodge that fear from your system. [10:27] – Weston Jolly I want you to take a fear—any fear you might have—and visualize it as if it’s on a table before you. Really focus on it. Now, affirm out loud, “I don’t believe in fear.” Acknowledge that fear is present, observe it, but reinforce that statement: “I don’t believe in fear.” [11:09] – Weston Jolly It’s remarkable how transformative that simple declaration can be, helping you recognize that you don’t have to be bound by something that isn’t real. This is the power of the statement, “I don’t believe in fear.” [11:25] – Weston Jolly Personally, this realization offered a significant opportunity for growth and effectiveness in handling my own fears. Since both our brains struggle to differentiate between real and false fears, why should we believe in anything less than the truth? The Importance of Observation [11:55] – Weston Jolly In a deeper analysis, it’s fascinating how the body operates—it cannot discern if a fear is valid or not. For example, consider a barking dog. Your brain might react instinctively, alerting you without requiring conscious thought. Your biological reflexes kick in automatically. [12:31] – Weston Jolly When you choose to observe “I don’t believe in fear,” it interrupts that automatic fight-or-flight response. It’s akin to recognizing invalid data in a computer program, rendering it irrelevant—pretty cool, right? [12:52] – Weston Jolly Now, I urge you to notice your mind before it spirals into the fear response. Your body is designed to engage perfectly with biological fears, but you can get ahead of this. [13:09] – Weston Jolly If you affirm that you don’t believe in

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  6. 11/07/2024

    I’m Dead Now What? -Weston Jolly Ep79

    Hi, I’m Weston After providing over 15,000 hours in session and speaking, I recognize that… “You’re much stronger and more empowered than you think you are…” My Story The secret isn’t how you’ll die or when you’ll die. The secret to death, is what happens next… Learn the process of what happens when you die.  What is the Tunnel of Light? Is there a judgement day? How does a life review work?  How can I communicated with with spiritual world? What’s it like to die?  What happens when you die can be tremendously helpful in eliminating all the fears associated with death and dying.  BE WARNED, watching this video or listeing to this podcast can be life alterning. (HIT PLAY and LISTEN to True Connections with Weston Jolly podcast) Thank you for joining us for this podcast Episode 079 of True Connections with Weston Jolly Transcription: I’m Dead Now What? Immediately upon leaving your body your spirit returns to its natural form. It’s something that you can absolutely feel. I remember vividly holding our dog who was about to be given a lethal does of Sodium Pentobarbital compassionately because of his health problems. I had my left hand was on his collar and my right hand on chest as the Veterinarian administered the shot. Almost immediately, I could feel our pet’s heart stop concurrent with his breathing. A long two seconds later, I felt something infinitesimal light – much much lighter than any feather could ever be – leave his body. It was incredible. As I felt his spirit lift all I could do was cry. I wasn’t crying because of fear or even the loss, but the beauty of the spirit leaving the body of our family pet to return to Source. It was incredible. When someone dies, they first enter into a space, you can also call it a place if helps you at first to understand, but it is really a space… a space where transition begins. At the exact moment of death there’s a transition. The transition is obvious as there’s no longer a need for a beating heart, breathing, eating or thinking. This portal, which is the same one I mentioned in Ep 78 of True Connections with Weston Jolly called I Talk To Dead People. If you haven’t listened or read that podcast, when you are born, and when you die, there’s a portal. This portal is entry in coming back to the light. When your mother was fully dilated, her body opened to give space for her to give you birth. During this exact time, which is called “The Transition Phase,” your mom’s body involuntarily started to push you, as her baby, into the light. This is the same portal for birth as it is death. Obviously, you don’t return to your mother’s womb upon death, but you are returned to Source which is the Mother Of Us All. So in one sense you are returned to the Divine Mother. The mother of Source. This space, or portal, is the same in the beginning as it is in the end. This too is why Source has accurately stated, that “I am Alpha and Omega, the beginning and the end.” In childbirth, it’s obviously called the transition phase because your mother is transitioning from one place to the next. The transition from life to death is the same frequency as when you were born. It’s the same doorway or portal or opening in which life starts or in which life ends. Another way of conceiving this concept, pun intended, is for you to picture a rocket about to liftoff. As a rocket thrust’s itself away from Earth’s gravity -about two minutes after the launch- there is a transition. This is the place where the thrusters give way to the new smaller capsule inside the mothership. During transition, and for the first time, this smaller capsule begins its journey under its own power. Regardless of how death occurs, the soul is instantly returned via the transition phase back to Source. The very first thing that is addressed is identity. When there’s been a sudden death there is some strong likelihood that the soul still holds the thought resonance that they are still embodied. They’re not, as this is why people who have died and come back into their body, say that they were disembodied or that they were out-of-body. What’s it like to be out of your body? Pretty much the same as when you dream. Certainly, you can remain, heavy, or in your body while you dream. But most of us leave our body during the dream state. This is why I’ve shared two important blogs for you to consider on the subject of dreaming; What is the Spiritual Meaning of Your Dreams and more importantly Are Flying Dreams Real?. You could describe being out-of-your-body as flying, but it’s more accurate to say, that you’ve returned to your spiritual essence. After realizing that you are no longer alive, or physically embodied, the transition continues. This is where you find yourself aware that you’re in what many have called a “tunnel of light.” This tunnel, is much like riding in a vehicle goes through a hole at the bottom of a mountain to come out the other side. During the transition period of death, this tunnel of light has an emmence light that draws you towards it. I guess you could say the tunnel of light is also like a long hallway, with countless doors that connect to events within your life span. The tunnel of light also has similarities to your human umbilical cord. The tunnel of light umbilical cord tethers you to every part of the life that you experienced. I guess you could say the length of the tunnel of light would equate to the length of your life, although time doesn’t exist. Immediately after death, and after the understanding that you’re no longer alive, then you begin what’s called a life review. Because of world religious influence or conditioning, there are ideas that a life review is some sort of judgement. There is absolutely no judgement. There is no judgement day. And if you’re really listening, that means there is no judgement while you’re alive or when you die. This is even logically reasoned, as Source, which is THE author of Unconditional Love there can be no judgement. Ever. If you’ve been baptized into this thinking, pun intended, then this too is part of your reawakening to return to your true spiritual essence. In your life review, as seen within the tunnel of light, you begin experiencing your life, every millisecond of it, from the perception of those that were around you. Your life review is the most complete, inventory of your experiences ever created. Ultimately, all of “your” experiences are no longer stored in your body or brain, but in the Akashic records. The Akashic records is where all things are stored. Notice, I didn’t say all things of life are stored but ALL things. The Akashic records is also a place where all spiritual things are stored too. If it helps, in this moment, think of the Akashic records as the biggest library every conceived. Every experience, memory, thought, creation, manifesting, happiness, joy or sadness and separation is all stored here in the Akashic records. Most important, after death you begin to process your life experiences through this life review. Before we get any farther down the path of what happens next after you die. I should back track just a little to say that you’re often greeted upon death by others who are familiar to you. This can be a deceased; father, mother, brother, friend or spouse –and it very much includes specific Angels or Spiritual Guides – even if you’ve never believed or embraced them to be real before. Also, since we’re here at the time of physical death, it’s quite common to have people that have “agreed” to support you as you leave your body. This can be; a spouse, brother, sister, father, mother or friend. And this group of physical people helping you transition can very much include the health care workers who may be assisting you -should that be the case. After you start the process of letting go of your identity, your body and your physical self, you start the life review of enjoying how every person, and every thing, recorded your life interaction. This life review is the most comprehensive thing you can possibly imagine. This review isn’t necessarily time sequential from the beginning to the end or from the end to the beginning. The life review is very much related to the being in the tunnel of light and where you find yourself in the tunnel. Since time isn’t real, especially from a spiritual perspective, when going through a life review there is no “normal time” in which someone reviews their life completely. There’s no need to hurry or get through it quickly. This is the perfect time to share about when you can have access to someone after they’ve died. Sometimes, there’s an immediate need for someone who has passed to communicate with you. By far the simplest means for the two parties to connect is via the dream state. This place can act like a bridge to the physical reality and the the spiritual. If someone you know has passed and they need, or you need, to communicate you will have a dream. Dreams can feel wonderful, offering you and the person who died, a state of completion after death. When death suddenly occurs the drastic change of being alive one minute and dead the next can be a challenge that death has occurred. If you compare this to someone who has faced a life long illness, or condition, death in itself can be a relief. Nonetheless, any and all resistance is futile. Even when death is overdue or long pas

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  7. 10/08/2024

    I Talk To Dead People -Weston Jolly Ep78

    Hi, I’m Weston After providing over 15,000 hours in session and speaking, I recognize that… “You’re much stronger and more empowered than you think you are…” My Story I Talk To Dead People. I boarded a plane and as I sat down the woman next to me asked, “What Do You Do?” and I responded, “I Talk To Dead People!”  As a spiritual medium, I’m asked a lot of questions about talking to the deceased.  Find out how mediumship works what it’s like talking to the dead people. Twenty-five years later, and I’m still having incredible conversations with those who have crossed over. What keeps me engaged? The wealth of wisdom they can share! Among the many questions that loved ones seek answers to, two stand out: “Why did this happen?” and “How did it all unfold?” Tuning into the voices of the departed is not just a journey; it’s a fascinating exploration that uncovers profound lessons. Some spirits bring invaluable spiritual insights, while others may struggle to lift themselves to a place of clarity. The experience is as unique as the individuals involved, and the revelations can be both enlightening and transformative. Join me as we delve into the mysteries of the afterlife, and unlock the secrets that those beyond the veil are eager to share! Click on the above media player or read the full transcript below. (HIT PLAY and LISTEN to True Connections with Weston Jolly podcast) Thank you for joining us for this podcast Episode 078 of True Connections with Weston Jolly Transcription: I Talk To Dead People [00:55] – The Identity Shift After Death Weston Jolly: When you’re dead, you face an immediate change of perspective, which is your identity. A voice whispers in a tunnel: Who do you think you are? [01:23] – Reflecting on Your Existence Weston Jolly: Relax. I’m not talking about you, or maybe I am? But not in the way that you may be thinking about it, but you’ll have to decide that later. [01:34] – The Breakfast Scenario Weston Jolly: Imagine you’re having breakfast with your best friend. You casually check your watch and realize you’re late. You interrupt: Shoot, I’ve got to go! You bolt out of the restaurant, happy to have spent time with your friend, but you check your watch again on your way to the car, but you’re 15 minutes late. [01:59] – The Dilemma of Speed Weston Jolly: You do what most of us do…you have to drive fast! Pulling out of the parking lot, you hit the gas. Some part of you really thinks you can make up the time by driving faster, but you know it’s impossible. You consider your options: * Let the other party know you’re running late, * Drive at a normal speed and arrive when you can, or * Drive faster. [02:26] – The Distraction of a Phone Call Weston Jolly: Without thinking, you accelerate. Just as you enter the freeway, your cell phone rings. You glance over and see it’s the person you’re supposed to meet. You feel bad as you reach for the phone, which is sliding toward the passenger door. [02:52] – A Fractured Moment in Time Weston Jolly: That’s it. That’s all you can remember. Yet, strangely, you see perfectly below you. You wonder: Where is your cell phone? [03:13] – What Just Happened? Weston Jolly: You don’t feel anything, but you ask yourself, What happened? As you float about 20 feet above the scene, you realize your car was hit by a cement truck that was in your blind spot. The driver didn’t see you, and now he’s slowing down, startled by what just occurred. [03:21] – A Bird’s-Eye View Weston Jolly: Your car went flying, rolling several times, now a wreck with wheels facing the sky. You see a small Hispanic man in a yellow baseball cap running to the guardrail, murmuring to himself, I hope they?re okay. He thinks, It’s way too far for me to climb down. [04:34] – Horror Strikes Weston Jolly: Oh, God, I hope that they’re not dead. At once, you feel the panic of the cement truck driver. [04:45] – Seeking to Communicate Weston Jolly: You know it wasn’t his fault. You were driving too fast and reaching after your phone…it was your fault. You want to tell him, but you can’t. You hear other drivers thinking, They can’t be okay. [05:21] – The Slowdown Weston Jolly: Another driver begins to brake hard, causing a massive traffic jam. You hear him say, They’re dead. The way that cement truck hit… no one could have survived that. [05:41] – The Reality of the Situation Weston Jolly: Another vehicle near you has a driver commenting, I knew that guy was going to get hit. He was driving way too fast. [05:56] – The Close-Up Reveal Weston Jolly: Your viewpoint shifts; you’re now closer to the destroyed car. Dust settles, and you can taste it. You instinctively try to remove the sand from your mouth, but there’s nothing there. [06:24] – The Unmoving Body Weston Jolly: You look down at the twisted wreck…you see yourself . It’s not moving, and it seems it never will again. How can this be? You remember the taste of your breakfast just moments ago. [07:02] – The Grasp of Reality Weston Jolly: Your perspective changes again; you peek through the passenger window of your overturned car. There’s your phone, ringing beneath the seat, and you see the caller’s name flashing. Suddenly, it hits you: you’ll never be able to answer that phone again. [07:28] – The Unsettling Question Weston Jolly: A voice from above asks, Who do you think you are? Instinctively, you respond with your name. The voice repeats, Who do you think you are? You wonder if this is a dream, feeling lost in time as you replay the whole incident in your mind. [08:08] – The Revelation Weston Jolly: Am I dead? You feel quiet. You don’t know what to say. What does that voice mean? Silence fills you as you process everything. [08:27] – Talking to the Forgotten Weston Jolly: I talk to dead people. When a person dies, especially suddenly, they often have no idea they’ve passed on. Today, I’ll share insights from my 25 years of communicating with the deceased, including an experience I’ve never shared before. So pay attention. [08:52] – The Shift After Death Weston Jolly: When someone dies, there’s an immediate change of perspective. Your beliefs may not matter in that moment. Instead, there’s an intense identity shift. This brings us back to the question: Who do you think you are? Initially, your personality remains intact-the way you spoke, processed thoughts, and perceived reality is all still there, but everything is about to change. [09:20] – Perspectives on Death Weston Jolly: This change can profoundly affect your viewpoint. I want to discuss three perspectives today: 1. What it’s like from the dead’s viewpoint. 2. The desire to communicate with someone who’s died. 3. The experience of interacting with someone on the ‘living’ side. [09:43] – The Concept of Time Weston Jolly: There is absolutely no time with death. This is why it’s hard to associate time when connecting with someone who has passed away. [09:56] – The Tunnel of Light Weston Jolly: Another immediate sensation upon dying is often described as entering a tunnel of light. I want to explain what this tunnel signifies, its purpose, and how one might transition out of it. [10:09] – Entering the Tunnel Weston Jolly: When people die, they frequently describe entering a tunnel–like a passageway. At the end of the tunnel is an incredibly bright light, symbolizing the transition for someone who has just passed. [10:34] – The Levels of Transition Weston Jolly: There are many different levels of transition within the light tunnel-nothing to be seen as bad. Because there isn’t the notion of time, when someone passes, it may seem they should be immediately available for conversation. This can be true, but sometimes it’s not. For instance, if someone just passed last week and isn’t available, it’s not because I can’t connect; they’re simply swamped, going through the tunnel of light. [11:01] – What Happens in the Tunnel? Weston Jolly: I want to discuss what they’re doing in this tunnel. Some individuals die and return, experiencing what we call a near-death experience, which is something to appreciate. [11:19] – The Certainty of Death Weston Jolly: There’s a saying that “Nothing is certain except for death and taxes.” While death is inevitable, it’s not always certain as people can die and come back. Free will extends on both sides of life. This concept remains relevant when connecting with those who have passed; free will is significant in the tunnel of light as we begin to process who we are. This leads us back to the question: Who do you think you are? [12:04] – Who Greets the Deceased? Weston Jolly: Who greets the newly departed? This process can take place right in the tunnel of light. Some people may perceive the presence of angels or recently departed loved ones like parents or grandparents, even animals. This environment is meant to invite and comfort. [12:28] – A Personal Experience Weston Jolly: Reflecting back on the tunnel of light, there was an experience very real to me, reminiscent of the portal into death. Though I didn’t die, I felt something like that sensation. When we pass through the tunnel, there’s a euphoria, beauty, calmness, and connectedness. [13:00] – The Transformative Sunset Weston Jolly: Strangely, there was a sunset whil

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  8. 07/18/2024

    Know Thyself (Yourself)- Weston Jolly Ep77

    Hi, I’m Weston After providing over 15,000 hours in session and speaking, I recognize that… “You’re much stronger and more empowered than you think you are…” My Story Know Thyself Sometimes the hardest thing in the world is to actually see yourself. You may have taken personality tests, apptitude tests, and maybe you’ve wondered if your neudivergent?  But if you were to know anybody, it would seem logical that you’d know everything about yourself. How you think, process, socialize, rationalize may not be nearly as important as getting in touch with your Higher Self. Almost everyone THINKS they know themselves.  But you don’t. Have you ever had a close friend tell you something about yourself that you didn’t know?  There’s a lot to uncover in getting to know your real self. Click on the above media player or read the full transcript below. (HIT PLAY and LISTEN to True Connections with Weston Jolly podcast) Thank you for joining us for this podcast Episode 077 of True Connections with Weston Jolly Transcription: Know Thyself [00:50.370] – Weston Jolly Hi there. Thank you for joining me for True Connections with Weston Jolly. This is our 77th episode. Today, I want to talk about you. Our topic which is Know Thyself. [01:05.480] – Weston Jolly The biggest treasure you’ve yet undiscovered. [01:09.120] – Weston Jolly Now, you would think with the topic as knowing yourself, that if anyone in the world were to know who you are, it would be you, right? So isn’t it logical that you would know quite a bit about yourself? So if I asked your name, of course, you would give me that. Your height? Sure. What about your weight? Without looking at a scale. Can you tell me what your weight is? [01:36.140] – Weston Jolly Now, again, our whole intention is to have an understanding of who we are, to know ourselves. And we use all kinds of means to do that. When we think of, for example, becoming aware of who we are, sometimes we’ll use maybe something like a personality test. A personality test can tell us different kinds of things. It can tell us maybe that we have that we’re a conscientious person, or maybe that you’re agreeable, maybe neurotic, or open, or extroverted, or introverted. Do you associate with any of these top characteristics of having a big personality? [02:23.910] – Weston Jolly Does anything resonate within you? [02:26.300] – Weston Jolly But why would we need to have a personality test? Because, again, you would know who you are. [02:31.990] – Weston Jolly If we shifted our attention over to an aptitude test, which, of course, is showing us what strengths and weaknesses that we have, wouldn’t it be logical, again, that you would know that you are very good, athletically, and maybe smart as a whip, intellectually, and yet maybe have some other pieces that aren’t necessarily strengths as would be determined or measured by other people? [02:58.440] – Weston Jolly Now, in a work environment, being tested for your aptitude is quite common, right? Where a prospective employer wants to have an understanding of how you work, basically how you process and how you’ll work within their organization. And so they offer aptitude tests such as; numerical reasoning or verbal reasoning or situational judgment, cognitive abilities and spatial awareness and mechanical reasoning and abstract reasoning and verbal reasoning and on and on it goes to find out, again, what your strengths and weaknesses are. But my point is, do you know these things about yourself? Again, we’re just talking about the physical. [03:33.920] – Weston Jolly If we talk about your mind, how your mind processes, would you consider yourself to have a normal mind? That sounds like a leading question, right? [03:45.550] – Weston Jolly But maybe you have a neurodivergent mind. Now, that means that maybe you think differently. Sometimes ithe term neurodivergent we give consideration to other categories such as; autism spectrum disorder, or maybe even other categories such as attention deficit hyper activities for ADHD. And yet that’s not really what I’m asking. But if that’s something that is appropriate to who you are, that’s something to know. [04:15.750] – Weston Jolly As a quick side note, there is someone that shared with me actually a neurodivergent synopsis of who they are. They literally handed out a little a brief of how they think, socialize and process. Now, not many of us have done that. I don’t know if you walked into your job recently and handed them a little document, a little manifest in terms of how you operate. [04:41.700] – Weston Jolly I’m not talking about how much you weigh. I’m talking about how you think or how you get along with other people, what people you like, what energies that you bring to the office and what energies that aren’t necessarily great energies. [04:51.900] – Weston Jolly Are these things that you’re able to see of your own self? Now, we’re still talking about the physical. If we talk about, again, your body type, that should be easy, right? [05:03.290] – Weston Jolly How would you describe your body type? Are you an ectomorph or mesomorph or an endomorph? And of course, these are just very interesting terms for someone that is maybe thinner as an ectomorph to someone maybe that is a little bit thicker in the endomorph category. But again, these body types, just those three categories, should be easy for you to determine where you fit. [05:26.500] – Weston Jolly But then there’s the shape of your body, right? You could be triangular shaped or rectangular-shaped or oval-shaped, hourglass, etc. Do you know that about yourself? Have you given consideration to that? [05:39.310] – Weston Jolly And if I ask a question about your blood type… Do you know your blood type? Are you “A” or a “B” or “B-”? [05:50.790] – Weston Jolly Let’s continue shifting this discussion, of knowing yourself, a little bit towards the spiritual. What if I asked you your birth date? Clearly everyone knows their birth date, but maybe you don’t know what time you were born. And that could make a difference when you were looking at your astrological sign. [06:06.730] – Weston Jolly And so if we looked at different astrological signs, such as Aries, Taurus, Gemini, Cancer, Leo, Virgo, etc, we want to give you an opportunity through these categorizations to have an understanding of who you are. [06:21.550] – Weston Jolly This is all about knowing who you are. But if you have used tools such as maybe Astrology to to reflect back to who you are, there’s something else to give consideration to, and that is, are you accepting what is being shared? That’s really big. That’s something we’re going to talk about in a half a moment. [06:39.190] – Weston Jolly As an example, if you are… I’ll use myself –a Gemini. When I first read the about my astrological sign, and I’m talking about when I did this upteen years ago, some pieces of it made sense to me, and the other pieces I felt like it was an over generalization. Now, that was my initial consideration. I wasn’t trying to be prejudiced against the process. I just didn’t necessarily see the depth of things that were being shared. [07:07.570] – Weston Jolly Some of the concepts about my personality or how I process or how I view things made sense. And yet I was curious. And so I shared this, my astrology synopsis about the whole Gemini Kingdom, if you will, with others around me, especially with those close to me to see what they thought. [07:33.170] – Weston Jolly And of course, my children and even my partner confirmed that, “Oh, yeah, these things are really you!” And I was like, “Really? I’m really having a hard time seeing that about myself.” [07:42.740] – Weston Jolly This is really what we want what I want to focus on with you today. And while we’ve been talking about things from body to mind to aptitudes, and how you process, we haven’t talked about how you socialize, blood types, astrological signs, these are all beautiful characteristics of you. [08:01.370] – Weston Jolly You becoming aware of who you are and what you’ve come here to express. Yet there’s so much more. And really, what I want to put our emphasis is on getting to know or maybe even rediscovering. This is why I’m sharing that this is the biggest treasure yet you’ve undiscovered, is getting in touch with your True Self or your Higher Self. And what does this mean? Sometimes that language is thrown about a little bit in terms of what is your Higher Self. So let’s discuss that. Your Higher Self is indeed this soul, that’s you, on the highest plane, coming into this embodiment and participating here. So if we tap into that, your Higher Self, should we say that’s the true essence? [08:39.340] – Weston Jolly That part of you is filled with knowledge, and I’ll use the term perfect knowledge of who you are way beyond your DNA, your family tree, your body type, your blood type, etc. Again, all of these pieces physically are, I like to use the term Hansel and Gretel-like-breadcrumbs, leading you to an understanding of you are. [09:05.150] – Weston Jolly So, to know yourself, is to really become aware of who you are – instead of just trying to give consideration to what you may or may not be. So, you getting to know yourself beyond the physical is intentiona

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True Connections is a journey within to discover that you are a part of everything. Life can often feel disjointed, but you and I are actually connected to one another, to nature, animals, even thoughts and dreams. It’s my desire to bring spiritual insight to these true connections. Host: Weston Jolly

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    Weston Jolly - Spiritual Channel
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