wellbeing4mothers

Dr Dunni
wellbeing4mothers

Motherhood is beautiful yet it comes with its challenges as we combine it with our many roles. Trying to get through the day can be overwhelming and leave you feeling exhausted. This can have a significant impact on your overall well being- physically, mentally, and emotionally but this does not have to be the case. The Wellbeing 4 Mothers show brings to life the realities of motherhood, its impact on your wellbeing and what you can do about it.  You will hear from everyday mums, world experts on health, wellbeing, business, finance about practical tools and strategies that you can use daily to enhance your wellbeing of body, mind, soul and spirit.

  1. 2 DAYS AGO

    Stress management In social situations

    Dr Dunni shares insights on managing stress in social situations, particularly during social gatherings linked to motherhood, work, or family life. She explores the challenges introverted mothers face, the complexities of balancing childcare, work events, and family dynamics, and offers practical strategies for maintaining emotional and mental well-being amidst these demands. Through relatable anecdotes, she emphasizes the importance of gratitude, simplifying expectations, open communication, delegating tasks, and nurturing connections to navigate the stress of social situations. KEY TAKEAWAYS - Use gratitude to shift perspectives on challenging or awkward social dynamics. - Stay open-minded, preparing for a range of positive or negative interactions. Use silence effectively as a form of non-verbal communication to maintain composure. Please just check in with yourself to make sure your well-being is prioritised amidst the demands of family and social obligations. BEST MOMENTS Create "sacred spaces" to recharge and protect your mental clarity. Mothers can thrive in social situations by embracing gratitude, delegating tasks, and fostering meaningful connections while preserving their peace and setting boundaries. These strategies reduce stress and enhance their overall well-being and family dynamics. CONNECT ON SOCIAL MEDIA Ig- ⁠https://www.instagram.com/drdunni.lifecoach/⁠ YouTube- ⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9C1oJwHyISEuqiX8USaYKg⁠ CH- ⁠https://www.clubhouse.com/@drdunni-druwa⁠ FB- ⁠https://www.facebook.com/druwaacademy⁠ Twitter- ⁠https://twitter.com/drdunni⁠ Patreon - ⁠https://patreon.com/wellbeing4mothers⁠  HOST BIO Your host, Dr Dunni, is the award-winning mum empowerment coach, Family doctor, International speaker, Best-selling author of the book ‘Every Mum is a Super Mum’ and a mum herself who is passionate about health and wellbeing. She is proficient in using natural, scientific, and medical well-being concepts to explain in simple terms practical ways and strategies to avoid ill health and promote the overall well-being of body, mind, soul, and spirit. This is made available by the provision of online courses, books, coaching and regular events where well-being strategies and tactics are shared to enhance holistic well-being. Learn more at https://www.drdunni.com

    32 min
  2. DEC 4

    Mothers as teachers, leaders and influencers

    In this episode, Dr. Dunni explores mothers' profound role as teachers and influencers in shaping their children’s lives. We also discuss how mothers are often a child's first educator, imparting foundational skills like communication, empathy, and problem-solving, often through simple, everyday interactions. The episode also highlighted how their influence extends beyond practical knowledge, instilling values, ethics, and resilience that guide children through life's challenges. We emphasised the ripple effect of a mother’s guidance, shaping not just individual lives but entire communities. Whether through active teaching, modelling behaviour, or providing emotional support, mothers create environments where children can thrive. Lastly, the episode celebrated the diversity in mothering approaches, acknowledging that every journey is unique, shaped by culture, circumstances, and personality, yet unified by the universal impact mothers have on personal growth and societal well-being. KEY TAKEAWAYS Children learn by observation before learning by instruction. Take some time to be involved in the play of our children BEST MOMENTS Life is meant to be enjoyed, not endured CONNECT ON SOCIAL MEDIA Ig- https://www.instagram.com/drdunni.lifecoach/ YouTube- https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9C1oJwHyISEuqiX8USaYKg CH- https://www.clubhouse.com/@drdunni-druwa FB- https://www.facebook.com/druwaacademy Twitter- https://twitter.com/drdunni Patreon - https://patreon.com/wellbeing4mothers  HOST BIO Your host, Dr Dunni, is the award-winning mum empowerment coach, Family doctor, International speaker, Best-selling author of the book ‘Every Mum is a Super Mum’ and a mum herself who is passionate about health and wellbeing. She is proficient in using natural, scientific, and medical well-being concepts to explain in simple terms practical ways and strategies to avoid ill health and promote the overall well-being of body, mind, soul, and spirit. This is made available by the provision of online courses, books, coaching and regular events where well-being strategies and tactics are shared to enhance holistic well-being. Learn more at https://www.drdunni.com

    33 min
  3. Navigating Life's Uphill Battles: Strategies for Persistence and Determination

    NOV 13

    Navigating Life's Uphill Battles: Strategies for Persistence and Determination

    In this episode, Dr. Dunni explores the concept of drive and what keeps us moving forward, especially in the face of challenges. She shares personal anecdotes, including a relatable analogy of driving a manual car uphill, to illustrate the persistence required in life. Dr. Dunni emphasizes the importance of setting clear, SMART goals and understanding the deeper emotional "why" behind them. She discusses the significance of building positive habits, cultivating self-discipline, and celebrating small wins as essential components of maintaining motivation.  KEY TAKEAWAYS It's crucial to have a clear and specific goal to work towards. This helps in maintaining focus and prevents distractions from multiple objectives. Knowing the "why" behind your goals is essential. This emotional connection can provide the motivation needed to pursue your aspirations, even in challenging times. Developing positive physical, mental, and emotional habits is key to maintaining drive and persistence. These habits can help you navigate challenges and keep you aligned with your goals. Cultivating self-discipline is necessary for achieving long-term goals. It involves doing what may not be enjoyable now to reap the benefits later. Acknowledging and celebrating every small achievement can boost motivation and reinforce positive behavior, making it easier to stay committed to your goals. BEST MOMENTS "When we portray to ourselves, we're able to show our children and they are able to become better people." "Having that clear goal is so important. If you have too many goals, it divides your attention." "Sometimes those deep, dark, painful emotions can be amazing ways to bring out your authentic why." "Life is meant to be enjoyed, not endured." "Your children don't do what they're told to do. They do what they see you do." VALUABLE RESOURCES The burnout checklist- https://forms.gle/Re3E2FeEjuLEMvWJ6 The Working Mothers handbook: 8 keys - www.drdunni.com/handbook bit.ly/w4mclub https://patreon.com/wellbeing4mothers  Ig- https://www.instagram.com/druwa.lifecoach/ YouTube- https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9C1oJwHyISEuqiX8USaYKg CH- https://www.clubhouse.com/@drdunni-druwa FB- https://www.facebook.com/druwaacademy Twitter- https://twitter.com/Druwa8 Patreon - https://patreon.com/wellbeing4mothers  HOST BIO Your host Dr Dunni is the award-winning mum empowerment coach, Family doctor, International speaker, Best-selling author of the book ‘Every Mum is a super mum’ and a mum herself who is passionate about health and wellbeing. She is proficient in using natural, scientific, and medical well-being concepts to explain in simple terms practical ways and strategies to avoid ill health and promote the overall well-being of body, mind, soul, and spirit. This is made available by the provision of online courses, books, coaching and regular events where well-being strategies and tactics are shared to enhance holistic well-being. Learn more athttps://www.drdunni.com

    35 min
  4. Building Bonds: How Emotional and Psychological Safety Shapes Our Children's Development

    NOV 6

    Building Bonds: How Emotional and Psychological Safety Shapes Our Children's Development

    In this episode Dr. Dunni delves into the essential theme of safety for children, exploring the various dimensions of physical, emotional, and psychological safety that are crucial for their development. Drawing from her experiences as a family and lifestyle medicine doctor and an empowerment coach for mothers, she shares practical tips on creating a child-friendly home environment, fostering secure attachments, and promoting emotional well-being.   KEY TAKEAWAYS ul data-pm-slice="3 3 ["aiblock",{"prompt":"","preview":false,"block":{"id":"blk_01JBYAV18DWRR6HT7CJPXW73QZ","status":"succeeded","type":"prompt","selected_variation":0,"variations":["1. **Importance of Safety for Children**: Safety is a fundamental need for both adults and children, encompassing physical, emotional, and psychological aspects. Creating a safe environment allows children to thrive and explore their surroundings confidently.\n\n2. **Physical Safety Measures**: To ensure physical safety at home, parents should child-proof their environment by using furniture padding, electrical socket covers, stair gates, and keeping dangerous items out of reach. Regularly decluttering the space also contributes to a safer environment.\n\n3. **Emotional Safety and Attachment**: Emotional safety is crucial for children as they develop attachments to their caregivers. Open communication, validation of feelings, and being a reliable presence help children feel secure and understood, allowing them to express themselves freely.\n\n4. **Psychological Safety and Mindfulness**: Psychological safety involves addressing children's thoughts and feelings. Encouraging mindfulness practices, such as deep breathing exercises, helps calm their nervous systems and fosters a sense of well-being. Establishing clear rules and routines also supports their mental health.\n\n5. **Encouraging Expression and Gratitude**: Allowing children to express themselves and showing appreciation through gratitude can enhance their sense of safety. Engaging in cooperative play and being proactive about bullying can further create a supportive environment where children feel valued and respected."],"configuration":{"id":"blk_cfg_01H6S7R41A8C3A59CT4BJ5131Q","type":"prompt","name":"Master - Key Takeaways","description":"","markdown_value":null,"prompt_value":"List 5 key takeaways. Do not use the term The Speaker","archived_at":null,"saved":true,"timestamp_configuration":null,"quote_configuration":null},"prosemirror":[{"type":"rootblock","content":[{"type":"orderedList","attrs":{"start":1},"content":[{"type":"listItem","content":[{"type":"paragraph","content":[{"type":"text","marks":[{"type":"bold","attrs":{}}],"text":"Importance of Safety for Children"},{"type":"text","text":": Safety is a fundamental need for both adults and children, encompassing physical, emotional, and psychological aspects. Creating a safe environment allows children to thrive and explore their surroundings confidently."}]}]},{"type":"listItem","content":[{"type":"paragraph","content":[{"type":"text","marks":[{"type":"bold","attrs":{}}],"text":"Physical Safety Measures"},{"type":"text","text":": To ensure physical safety at home, parents should child-proof their environment by using furniture padding, electrical socket covers, stair gates, and keeping dangerous items out of reach. Regularly decluttering the space also contributes to a safer environment."}]}]},{"type":"listItem","content":[{"type":"paragraph","content":[{"type":"text","marks":[{"type":"bold","attrs":{}}],"text":"Emotional Safety and Attachment"},{"type":"text","text":": Emotional safety is crucial for children as they develop attachments to their caregivers. Open communication, validation of feelings, and being a reliable presence help children feel secure and understood, allowing them to express themselves freely."}]}]},{"type":"listItem","content":[{"type":"paragraph","content":[{"type":"text","marks":[{"type":"bold","attrs":{}}],"text":"Psychological Safety and Mindfulness"},{"type":"text","text":": Psychological safety involves addressing children's thoughts and feelings. Encouraging mindfulness practices, such as deep breathing exercises, helps calm their nervous systems and fosters a sense of well-being. Establishing clear rules and routines also supports their mental health."}]}]},{"type":"listItem","content":[{"type":"paragraph","content":[{"type":"text","marks":[{"type":"bold","attrs":{}}],"text":"Encouraging Expression and Gratitude"},{"type":"text","text":": Allowing children to express themselves and showing appreciation through gratitude can enhance their sense of safety. Engaging in cooperative play and being proactive about bullying can further create a supportive env

    34 min
  5. Nurturing Growth: Embracing Pain and Shame as Pathways to Empowerment

    OCT 30

    Nurturing Growth: Embracing Pain and Shame as Pathways to Empowerment

    In this episode, Dr Dunni, an award-winning mom empowerment coach and family medicine doctor, shares an inspiring story about a seed that transforms its painful, dark experience into a journey of growth and fulfilment. Drawing parallels between the seed's struggle and the challenges mothers face, she emphasizes the importance of acknowledging feelings of darkness, shame, and pain as opportunities for introspection and personal development. Dr Dunni encourages mothers to communicate their emotions to their children, fostering an environment where both can learn to navigate difficult feelings together.   KEY TAKEAWAYS ul data-pm-slice="3 3 ["aiblock",{"prompt":"","preview":false,"block":{"id":"blk_01JBBW0ZMDAD3W61ZP4X4ADNRV","status":"succeeded","type":"prompt","selected_variation":0,"variations":["1. **Growth Through Darkness**: Just like a seed that experiences darkness and discomfort before it grows, individuals, especially mothers, can find strength and potential in their challenging moments. These experiences can lead to personal growth and fulfillment.\n\n2. **Expressing Emotions**: It's important for mothers to communicate their feelings of pain, shame, or fear to themselves and their children. This openness helps children understand that it's okay to express their emotions and fosters a supportive environment for emotional growth.\n\n3. **Nourishing Oneself**: Mothers often prioritize the needs of their children over their own. Recognizing the importance of self-nourishment is crucial for personal well-being and enables mothers to be more present and engaged with their children.\n\n4. **Resilience and Reflection**: In times of loss or despair, it's essential to reflect on one's identity and potential. Understanding who you are beyond your roles and accomplishments can lead to deeper self-awareness and resilience.\n\n5. **Modeling Healthy Responses**: Children learn by observing their parents. By demonstrating how to process emotions and respond to challenges rather than react impulsively, mothers can teach their children valuable coping skills and emotional intelligence."],"configuration":{"id":"blk_cfg_01H6S7R41A8C3A59CT4BJ5131Q","type":"prompt","name":"Master - Key Takeaways","description":"","markdown_value":null,"prompt_value":"List 5 key takeaways. Do not use the term The Speaker","archived_at":null,"saved":true,"timestamp_configuration":null,"quote_configuration":null},"prosemirror":[{"type":"rootblock","content":[{"type":"orderedList","attrs":{"start":1},"content":[{"type":"listItem","content":[{"type":"paragraph","content":[{"type":"text","marks":[{"type":"bold","attrs":{}}],"text":"Growth Through Darkness"},{"type":"text","text":": Just like a seed that experiences darkness and discomfort before it grows, individuals, especially mothers, can find strength and potential in their challenging moments. These experiences can lead to personal growth and fulfillment."}]}]},{"type":"listItem","content":[{"type":"paragraph","content":[{"type":"text","marks":[{"type":"bold","attrs":{}}],"text":"Expressing Emotions"},{"type":"text","text":": It's important for mothers to communicate their feelings of pain, shame, or fear to themselves and their children. This openness helps children understand that it's okay to express their emotions and fosters a supportive environment for emotional growth."}]}]},{"type":"listItem","content":[{"type":"paragraph","content":[{"type":"text","marks":[{"type":"bold","attrs":{}}],"text":"Nourishing Oneself"},{"type":"text","text":": Mothers often prioritize the needs of their children over their own. Recognizing the importance of self-nourishment is crucial for personal well-being and enables mothers to be more present and engaged with their children."}]}]},{"type":"listItem","content":[{"type":"paragraph","content":[{"type":"text","marks":[{"type":"bold","attrs":{}}],"text":"Resilience and Reflection"},{"type":"text","text":": In times of loss or despair, it's essential to reflect on one's identity and potential. Understanding who you are beyond your roles and accomplishments can lead to deeper self-awareness and resilience."}]}]},{"type":"listItem","content":[{"type":"paragraph","content":[{"type":"text","marks":[{"

    21 min
  6. From Sleepless Nights to Restful Slumbers: Practical Sleep Strategies for Mothers

    OCT 22

    From Sleepless Nights to Restful Slumbers: Practical Sleep Strategies for Mothers

    In this episode, Dr. Dunni, a family and well-being coach, delves into the critical topic of sleep and its impact on mothers and their children. Dr Dunni shares her experiences with sleep deprivation during medical school and motherhood, offering practical strategies to optimize sleep for mothers and their little ones. Dr. Dunni discusses the various stages of a child's development—from newborns to teenagers—and provides tailored advice for each phase, including establishing routines, managing screen time, and creating a calming bedtime environment.   KEY TAKEAWAYS ul data-pm-slice="3 3 ["aiblock",{"prompt":"","preview":false,"block":{"id":"blk_01JASP3S94CMGZ3F8VVEH0CKAD","status":"succeeded","type":"prompt","selected_variation":0,"variations":["1. **Prioritize Sleep**: Sleep is crucial for both mothers and their children. Establishing a consistent sleep routine can significantly improve overall well-being and energy levels.\n\n2. **Express Breast Milk**: For new mothers, expressing breast milk can allow for better sleep. This enables partners or caregivers to help with nighttime feedings, giving mothers the opportunity to rest.\n\n3. **Create a Calming Environment**: Ensuring that the bedroom is dark, quiet, and equipped with soothing sounds (like white noise) can help both mothers and children sleep better.\n\n4. **Teach Self-Soothing**: As children grow, it's important to encourage them to self-soothe. This fosters independence and helps them learn to settle down on their own, which can lead to better sleep for everyone.\n\n5. **Limit Screen Time**: Reducing exposure to screens, especially in the evening, is essential for promoting good sleep hygiene. This helps regulate the body's natural production of melatonin, making it easier to fall asleep."],"configuration":{"id":"blk_cfg_01H6S7R41A8C3A59CT4BJ5131Q","type":"prompt","name":"Master - Key Takeaways","description":"","markdown_value":null,"prompt_value":"List 5 key takeaways. Do not use the term The Speaker","archived_at":null,"saved":true,"timestamp_configuration":null,"quote_configuration":null},"prosemirror":[{"type":"rootblock","content":[{"type":"orderedList","attrs":{"start":1},"content":[{"type":"listItem","content":[{"type":"paragraph","content":[{"type":"text","marks":[{"type":"bold","attrs":{}}],"text":"Prioritize Sleep"},{"type":"text","text":": Sleep is crucial for both mothers and their children. Establishing a consistent sleep routine can significantly improve overall well-being and energy levels."}]}]},{"type":"listItem","content":[{"type":"paragraph","content":[{"type":"text","marks":[{"type":"bold","attrs":{}}],"text":"Express Breast Milk"},{"type":"text","text":": For new mothers, expressing breast milk can allow for better sleep. This enables partners or caregivers to help with nighttime feedings, giving mothers the opportunity to rest."}]}]},{"type":"listItem","content":[{"type":"paragraph","content":[{"type":"text","marks":[{"type":"bold","attrs":{}}],"text":"Create a Calming Environment"},{"type":"text","text":": Ensuring that the bedroom is dark, quiet, and equipped with soothing sounds (like white noise) can help both mothers and children sleep better."}]}]},{"type":"listItem","content":[{"type":"paragraph","content":[{"type":"text","marks":[{"type":"bold","attrs":{}}],"text":"Teach Self-Soothing"},{"type":"text","text":": As children grow, it's important to encourage them to self-soothe. This fosters independence and helps them learn to settle down on their own, which can lead to better sleep for everyone."}]}]},{"type":"listItem","content":[{"type":"paragraph","content":[{"type":"text","marks":[{"type":"bold","attrs":{}}],"text":"Limit Screen Time"},{"type":"text","text":": Reducing exposure to screens, especially in the evening, is essential for promoting good sleep hygiene. This helps regulate the body's natural produ

    46 min
  7. From 'Just a Mom' to a Confident Achiever: Reclaiming Your Worth

    OCT 8

    From 'Just a Mom' to a Confident Achiever: Reclaiming Your Worth

    In this episode, Dr. Dunni, the Mom Empowerment Coach, encourages mothers to stop diminishing their achievements and embrace their successes, no matter how small. She discusses the detrimental effects of using the word "just" to downplay one's identity and accomplishments and emphasizes the importance of celebrating wins to boost mental, emotional, and physical well-being. Dr. Denise shares insights on overcoming risk aversion, permitting oneself to take action and the significance of finding supportive communities that foster growth.   KEY TAKEAWAYS ul data-pm-slice="3 3 ["aiblock",{"prompt":"","preview":false,"block":{"id":"blk_01J9NRHRQMGDVM8T00TJWEBJ9N","status":"succeeded","type":"prompt","selected_variation":0,"variations":["1. **Stop Diminishing Achievements**: Mothers should avoid using the word \"just\" to downplay their accomplishments. Recognizing and celebrating achievements, no matter how small, is crucial for mental and emotional well-being.\n\n2. **Embrace Risk-Taking**: Taking calculated risks can lead to significant rewards. It's important to assess personal risk tolerance and push beyond comfort zones to achieve goals.\n\n3. **Give Yourself Permission**: Mothers often feel the need to seek permission from others before taking action. It's essential to prioritize personal needs and decisions, allowing oneself the freedom to act.\n\n4. **Plan and Take Action**: Writing down goals and creating a structured plan helps in organizing thoughts and actions. This process allows for delegation of tasks and ensures that efforts are directed efficiently.\n\n5. **Join Supportive Communities**: Engaging with growth-minded communities can provide encouragement and recognition for achievements. Sharing successes in a supportive environment fosters motivation and helps combat feelings of inadequacy."],"configuration":{"id":"blk_cfg_01H6S7R41A8C3A59CT4BJ5131Q","type":"prompt","name":"Master - Key Takeaways","description":"","markdown_value":null,"prompt_value":"List 5 key takeaways. Do not use the term The Speaker","archived_at":null,"saved":true,"timestamp_configuration":null,"quote_configuration":null},"prosemirror":[{"type":"rootblock","content":[{"type":"orderedList","attrs":{"start":1},"content":[{"type":"listItem","content":[{"type":"paragraph","content":[{"type":"text","marks":[{"type":"bold","attrs":{}}],"text":"Stop Diminishing Achievements"},{"type":"text","text":": Mothers should avoid using the word \"just\" to downplay their accomplishments. Recognizing and celebrating achievements, no matter how small, is crucial for mental and emotional well-being."}]}]},{"type":"listItem","content":[{"type":"paragraph","content":[{"type":"text","marks":[{"type":"bold","attrs":{}}],"text":"Embrace Risk-Taking"},{"type":"text","text":": Taking calculated risks can lead to significant rewards. It's important to assess personal risk tolerance and push beyond comfort zones to achieve goals."}]}]},{"type":"listItem","content":[{"type":"paragraph","content":[{"type":"text","marks":[{"type":"bold","attrs":{}}],"text":"Give Yourself Permission"},{"type":"text","text":": Mothers often feel the need to seek permission from others before taking action. It's essential to prioritize personal needs and decisions, allowing oneself the freedom to act."}]}]},{"type":"listItem","content":[{"type":"paragraph","content":[{"type":"text","marks":[{"type":"bold","attrs":{}}],"text":"Plan and Take Action"},{"type":"text","text":": Writing down goals and creating a structured plan helps in organizing thoughts and actions. This process allows for delegation of tasks and ensures that efforts are directed efficiently."}]}]},{"type":"listItem","content":[{"type":"paragraph","content":[{"type":"text","marks":[{"type":"bold","attrs":{}}],"text":"Join Supportive Communities"},{"type":"text","text":": Engaging with growth-minded communities can provide encouragement and recognition for achievements. Sharing su

    31 min
4.9
out of 5
8 Ratings

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Motherhood is beautiful yet it comes with its challenges as we combine it with our many roles. Trying to get through the day can be overwhelming and leave you feeling exhausted. This can have a significant impact on your overall well being- physically, mentally, and emotionally but this does not have to be the case. The Wellbeing 4 Mothers show brings to life the realities of motherhood, its impact on your wellbeing and what you can do about it.  You will hear from everyday mums, world experts on health, wellbeing, business, finance about practical tools and strategies that you can use daily to enhance your wellbeing of body, mind, soul and spirit.

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