The Divorce Course Podcast

Laura & Lyn
The Divorce Course Podcast

This Mother and Daughter duo discuss and cover the legal stages and steps that you will face on your way to freedom through divorce. These are practical and real discussions with Lyn Galvin a family lawyer of 35 years experience and her daughter Laura a divorced mother of three. Laura helps turn her mother's lawyer jargon into something everyone will understand. Lyn shares all her tips and practical advice on separating. Through this podcast they aim to help you through your Australian divorce or de-facto separation to make it more cost effective and less stressful. instagram @thedivorcecourse

  1. HACE 5 H

    Mediation or Manipulation: How to Handle Divorce Mediation When Settlement Isn’t their Goal

    Mediation is meant to be a pathway to resolution, but what happens when one party has no intention of settling? In this episode we explore the troubles and solutions of mediation, offering practical tips on how to navigate manipulative tactics and protect your mental health. Whether it’s property or parenting arrangements, this is an informative guide on what you can potentially expect before, during, and after mediation to stay one step ahead. If you’ve ever worried about being stuck in a mediation that feels like a game rather than a genuine effort to resolve issues, this episode is for you. Disclaimer: This podcast episode provides general legal education for Australians and is not a substitute for legal advice. Every situation is unique, so seek personalised legal advice tailored to your circumstances. Listen to This Episode If You: 🌟 Want to prepare for an upcoming mediation session. ❓ Are unsure how to handle a manipulative ex during mediation. 💡 Need strategies to make mediation as productive as possible. 🛡 Are concerned about wasting time and money in mediation.  📚 Want tips to protect your legal and emotional boundaries. Key Ideas Discussed in This Episode: The Purpose of Mediation: Understanding its role in the divorce process and when it works best.  Manipulative Tactics to Watch For: Recognising red flags during mediation. Preparation Tips: How to gather evidence and set boundaries before mediation.  Strategies During Mediation: Getting small wins, staying focused, and not falling into traps. Post-Mediation Steps: Following up with offers and using mediation outcomes in court, even if no agreement is reached.  Common Pitfalls:  “Don’t be surprised if” scenarios, including last-minute walkouts and wild demands.  Emotional Management: How to stay calm and avoid frustration when things don’t go as planned. Links & Resources Mentioned: Course Enrolment: Join our Divorce Blueprint Course www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/enrol before the deadline to get personalised guidance, legal education, and emotional support from Laura and Lynette. Platinum spots are limited—sign up now to secure your place. 4VOICES https://www.4voices.org.au/ Christmas Appeal https://4voiceschristmasappeal.raiselysite.com/  Episodes Mentioned in this 8 Ways to Protect yourself from DARVO and your Narcissistic Ex during Family Court https://youtu.be/pRMOfozwBKs?si=tDmJwHO3ch-uYhTg Mediation and negotiation tips for divorcing an ex with narcissistic behaviors / Ep. 99 https://youtu.be/JYqqDyWa5ns?si=k7G6OfpMwPP1Hqgg Costs, Family Court and Calderbank Offers / Ep. 65 https://youtu.be/0OKhDB8s3As?si=54omWq46LHn_Eb6R Do I really need a lawyer for divorce mediation or family dispute resolution? https://youtu.be/GB2lJftxdh4?si=BgdkYJrQTeokTlSK Master Your Divorce Negotiations: The Iron Fist Within the Velvet Glove Technique / Ep. 109 https://youtu.be/JSYc-yun-jM?si=VCefzLZb-ie-f1m9   Emergency Contacts: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline: 13 11 14 Mensline Australia: 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line: 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline: 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police: 000 DVConnect Womensline: 1800 811 811 DV Connect Mensline: 1800 600 636 National DV line: 1800 737 732 (1800 RESPECT)   Thank you for tuning in to this episode. We hope these strategies empower you to handle mediation with confidence and clarity. If you found this episode helpful, please rate, review, and subscribe. Every share helps others find support during difficult times. Stay strong—you’ve got this.   Disclaimer: This podcast episode provides general legal education for Australians and is not a substitute for legal advice. Every situation is unique, so seek personalized legal advice tailored to your circumstances. 00:00 Introduction and Overview 01:06 The Importance of Mediation in Divorce 02:23 Recognising Manipulative Tactics during divorce 03:53 Pre-Med

    47 min
  2. 18 NOV

    Separation to Settlement: The Essential Steps from Start to Finish

    Facing the journey from separation to settlement can feel overwhelming and uncertain, but you’re not alone. In this episode, Laura and Lynette take you through the seven essential stages of the divorce process, from making the initial decision to separate, all the way to moving forward after your settlement. They share practical tips, emotional insights, and legal education to help you make empowered choices at every step. Whether you're at the beginning of this journey or somewhere in the middle, this episode offers a roadmap to guide you through. Listen to This Episode If You: 🌟 Are just starting your divorce journey and don’t know what comes next. ❓ Need help understanding the steps from separation to settlement. 💡 Want tips on managing property settlements, parenting plans, and legal agreements. 🛡 Are facing challenges with a high-conflict or manipulative ex. 📚 Want to learn how to move forward emotionally and financially after the settlement is done. Key Ideas Discussed in This Episode: Deciding to Separate: Understanding the importance of making the decision and how to document it for legal purposes. Living Under One Roof: Strategies for managing separation when you’re still sharing a home due to financial or housing constraints. Understanding Your Legal Rights: Why seeking legal education or advice early is critical to protect yourself. Property and Financial Settlements: The steps involved in dividing assets, debts, and managing disclosure obligations. Parenting Plans and Agreements: How to create effective parenting arrangements that prioritise the best interests of your children. Finalising Legal Documents: What you need to know about consent orders, mediation, and navigating the court system if necessary. Moving Forward After Divorce: Tips for reclaiming your independence, managing finances, and building a new life. RESOURCES Course Enrolment: Join our Divorce Blueprint Course www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/enrol before the deadline to get personalised guidance, legal education, and emotional support from Laura and Lynette. Platinum spots are limited—sign up now to secure your place. Emergency Contacts: LEGAL AID https://www.legalaid.qld.gov.au/ Lifeline: 13 11 14 Kids Help Line: 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline: 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia 1300 364 277 Police: 000 DVConnect Womensline: 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) DV Connect Mensline: 1800 600 636 National DV line: 1800 737 732 (1800 RESPECT) Mensline Australia: 1300 789 978     Thank you for tuning in to this episode. We hope it gives you clarity and confidence to take the next steps in your journey. Don’t forget to check out our course for step-by-step guidance and support through every stage of your divorce. If you found this episode helpful, please rate, review, and subscribe. Stay strong, and remember—you’ve got this. Disclaimer: This podcast episode provides general legal education for Australians and is not a substitute for legal advice. Every situation is unique, and it’s important to seek independent legal advice tailored to your circumstances. 00:00 Introduction to the 7 Steps from Separation to Settlement 01:34 How to Make the Decision to Separate 03:36 Can you Be Separated Under One Roof in Divorce 06:51 How to find out Your Legal Rights and Obligations in Divorce 10:46 How to Divide Assets, Property, and Debt in Divorce 14:44 How to Create Parenting Plans and Arrangements 19:24 How to Navigate Legal Paperwork and Mediation in Divorce 20:57 How to learn about Divorce Applications and Time Limits 22:35 How to avoid the Emotional Rollercoaster of Divorce 23:48 How to get Empowerment Through Knowledge and Support in Divorce 27:28 How to Move Forward After Divorce 33:29 How to Join Our Supportive Divorce Community

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  3. 5 NOV · CONTENIDO EXTRA

    Three Things I Wish I Knew Before Divorce + Free Webinar Invite

    BONUS mini episode: Divorce is a challenging journey, and there are so many things we wish we’d known before starting out. In this special episode, I share three key insights I learned along the way—insights that could save you time, stress, and money. From setting firm boundaries to creating a clear plan and building a strong support system, these lessons are invaluable for anyone facing separation or divorce. And there’s more! Next week, we’re hosting a free, live webinar designed to support you wherever you are in your divorce journey. This session will cover everything from practical advice on setting boundaries and protecting your finances to tips for handling high-conflict communication. Join us for actionable insights and a live Q&A session with my mum, a family law expert. Webinar registration link https://www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/divorcewebinarregistration Listen to This Episode If You: 🌟 Are beginning your divorce journey and need a roadmap to help guide your decisions. ❓ Want to hear practical, first-hand tips from someone who’s been through it. 💡 Need insights on handling emotional and financial boundaries during divorce. 🛡 Are curious about what our free webinar will cover and how it can help you. 📚 Want to learn how to build a strong support system to get through challenging times. Key Ideas Discussed in This Episode: Setting Firm Boundaries: The importance of defining clear emotional and practical boundaries. Creating a Plan: How having a roadmap can help you feel more in control and prepared. Building a Support System: Why having friends, family, or a professional by your side is invaluable. DIVORCE Webinar Details: What to expect from our upcoming live webinar, including actionable insights and a live Q&A with a family law specialist. Webinar Highlights: Topics Covered: Boundaries, financial protection, handling high-conflict communication, and more. Live Q&A: Ask your specific questions and receive advice from a family law expert. Privacy Guaranteed: Participate as much or as little as you like in a safe, confidential space. Limited Spots: Click the link in our show notes or visit thedivorcecourse.com.au to save your seat! Emergency Contacts: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline: 13 11 14 Mensline Australia: 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line: 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline: 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police: 000 DVConnect Womensline: 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) DV Connect Mensline: 1800 600 636 National DV line: 1800 737 732 (1800 RESPECT)     Thank you for tuning in to this episode! We hope these insights make your journey a little easier and empower you to take control of the process. And remember, don’t miss out on our final free webinar of the year next week—it’s an incredible opportunity to learn, ask questions, and find support. See you there! Disclaimer: This podcast episode provides general legal education for Australians and is not a substitute for legal advice. Every situation is unique, and it’s important to seek independent legal advice tailored to your circumstances. 00:00 Introduction and Setting Expectations 00:03 Three Things I Wish I Knew Before Divorce 00:17 Importance of Setting Boundaries with your ex 00:31 Having a Plan when going through the divorce process 00:52 Power of a Support System when facing divorce 01:08 Exciting Divorce Webinar Announcement 01:15 Webinar Details and Benefits 02:05 Addressing Concerns and Privacy 03:07 Final Thoughts and How to Register

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  4. 29 OCT

    When Divorce isn't the End: Handling Legal & Post-Separation Abuse

    If you’ve ever felt that your ex is using the legal system to keep you trapped or that you’re facing ongoing harassment, this episode provides the support and strategies you need.  Divorce may mean separation, but sometimes, for those dealing with high-conflict exes, the abuse continues well after the split. In this episode, we discuss five key strategies to manage and escape post-separation abuse purgatory. From court misuse to constant control tactics, this episode offers crucial help for protecting yourself legally, emotionally, and financially.  Listen to This Episode If You: 🌟 Are experiencing legal harassment or ongoing control tactics post-divorce. ❓ Want to know how to protect yourself from manipulative use of the court system. 💡 Need strategies for setting firm boundaries against a high-conflict ex. 🛡 Are navigating the court process with an ex who refuses to cooperate on settlements. 📚 Want insights on how recent Family Law changes impact post-separation dynamics. Key Ideas Discussed in This Episode: Understanding Post-Separation Abuse: What it is, how it manifests, and why it’s so pervasive. Central Practice Directions: How this court directive aims to reduce misuse of the legal system. Section 117C Offers: Leveraging financial penalties to discourage frivolous court actions. Legal Documentation: Keeping a record of your ex’s actions and the importance of filing timelines. Emotional Boundaries: Techniques to mentally distance yourself from ongoing harassment. Disclaimer: This podcast episode provides general discussion for Australians and is not a substitute for legal advice in any way at all. Every situation is unique, and it’s important to seek personalised legal advice tailored to your circumstances. When Divorce isn't the End: Handling Legal & Post-Separation Abuse Related Episodes that may be helpful: Post Separation Abuse Wheel Episode https://youtu.be/YALj5wsoe6k?si=OZp5WhOwyR7Omkyf How to divorce a statue https://youtu.be/tM75QvgjM_0?si=9tAnY9EXLu7JjcOS Family Court Vs Settling https://youtu.be/gYpW3znoY28?si=NvrUKsGVIlMt8WNC When your ex files in court - response to initiating application https://youtu.be/qTHDgWTjF1A?si=rETvrOrpMKf_IwzZ Navigating Community Legal Services https://youtu.be/4sEUhu6r07Q?si=Qjla_vk0NAZ2eS_U Decoding a word salad letter like a lawyer https://youtu.be/k0AhA3MIjM0?si=onpRY7wU7DTeC63Q Free Resources & Links: CENTRAL PRACTICE DIRECTIONS https://www.fcfcoa.gov.au/fl/pd/fam-cpd Section 117c  of the Family Law Act https://classic.austlii.edu.au/au/legis/cth/consol_act/fla1975114/s117c.html Free Webinar registration link https://www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/divorcewebinarregistration Emergency Contacts: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline: 13 11 14 Mensline Australia: 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line: 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline: 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police: 000 DVConnect Womensline: 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) DV Connect Mensline: 1800 600 636 National DV line: 1800 737 732 (1800 RESPECT)     Thank you for tuning in to this episode on managing post-separation abuse. We hope these strategies offer you the tools and confidence to protect yourself and find peace beyond the courtroom. If you found this episode helpful, please rate, review, and subscribe. Every rating helps others find support during difficult transitions. Stay strong and take care. Disclaimer: This podcast episode provides general discussion for Australians and is not a substitute for legal advice in any way at all. Every situation is unique, and it’s important to seek personalised legal advice tailored to your circumstances. 00:00 Introduction to Post Separation Abuse 00:23 Trigger Warnings and Support Resources 01:06 Podcast Introduction and Goals 01:26 Understanding Post Separation Abuse 03:26 Legal Protec

    42 min
  5. 22 OCT

    Divorce Decisions: Settling vs Family Court

    When going through a divorce or de facto separation, one of the biggest questions you’ll face is: Should I settle, or should I go to court? In this episode, we take an in depth look into the reasons why people choose to settle and why others decide to hold out for court. We discuss the risks, costs, and personal factors that play into this decision, while also highlighting potential pitfalls and traps that could influence you to settle too early or too late. Whether you’re in the early stages of property settlement or nearing mediation, this episode will help you think critically about your own situation. Listen to This Episode If You: 🌟 Wish you could speak to others about their decisions to settle or go to court. ❓ Want to understand the risks and costs involved in going to court versus settling. 💡 Need insights on how to others have avoided settling for a bad offers or been pressured into an agreements. 🛡 Are navigating a high-conflict divorce and worried about making the right financial decisions and want to listen to what others have done in the past. 📚 Want to better understand how lawyers play a role in helping you decide when to settle. Key Ideas Discussed in This Episode: Reasons to Settle: When taking your lawyer’s advice, financial risks, and emotional well-being make settling the best option. Risks of Going to Court: The potential for additional costs, including paying for your ex’s legal fees, and how this can impact your decision. Understanding Costs: How court costs and lawyer fees add up, and why it’s crucial to factor in these expenses when making your decision. Section 117 Offers: What they are, how they work, and why you should think carefully before rejecting a reasonable offer. Emotional Factors: How guilt, pressure, or anger can cloud judgement and lead to poor settlement decisions. Disclosure Issues: Why it’s essential to have financial disclosure before settling and how to handle situations where your ex isn't sharing all the information. Post-Separation Abuse: How ongoing manipulation and control can affect your or their decision to settle, and strategies to protect yourself from further harm. Links & Resources Mentioned in the Podcast: Related Episodes: Understanding Legal Costs and Risks COSTS & CALDERBANK OFFERS https://www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/blog/costscourtcalderbankoffer Divorce Myths https://open.spotify.com/episode/33mBdotbKK4yLH586ZaWko?si=czer_l9VRIOVWxWxGSiJjg   The Premature Pitfalls of Percentage Negotiations ​​https://open.spotify.com/episode/6bxTgrdymCeW16Q7z5njUe?si=UPG5F5vtSNuHWCKwWWg32g Choosing your lawyer https://open.spotify.com/episode/0XQOMoxqaSpf5YrxTc50eR?si=KUq4BzFPQaeIndch9p-3QA   Red Flags when choosing a lawyer https://open.spotify.com/episode/6fR3jP75Z4amMlRCsEOAhJ?si=66f50b888bb44784 Emergency Contacts: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline: 13 11 14 Mensline Australia: 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line: 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline: 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police: 000 DVConnect Womensline: 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) DV Connect Mensline: 1800 600 636 National DV line: 1800 737 732 (1800 RESPECT)     Thank you for listening to this episode. We hope it helps you think critically about when to settle and when to go to court, while also providing the knowledge you need to protect yourself during your divorce journey. If you found this episode helpful, please rate, review, and subscribe. Your support helps others find the guidance they need. Stay strong and take care. Disclaimer: This podcast episode provides general legal education for Australians and is not a substitute for legal advice. Every situation is different, and it is important to seek independent legal advice tailored to your specific circumstances. 00:00 Introduction to Settling in Divorce 01:43 Understa

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  6. 15 OCT

    10 Essential Boundaries for a Healthier Divorce

    This is a legal and emotional boundary check episode for you where we discuss 10 critical legal and emotional boundaries that are essential to maintain during this process. From communication and financial boundaries to setting clear limits on social media and handling high-conflict exes, this episode is packed with practical tips to help protect your emotional well-being and legal standing. Whether you're in the early stages of divorce or deep into the process, setting boundaries is crucial for navigating the journey with more clarity and peace of mind. Listen to This Episode If You: 🌟 Are dealing with communication challenges with your ex and need to set boundaries. ❓ Want to understand the importance of legal boundaries, such as avoiding pressure to sign documents. 💡 Are struggling with emotional boundaries and need tips on protecting your mental health. 🛡 Are co-parenting and need strategies for managing handovers or avoiding conflict. 📚 Want to learn how to set clear financial boundaries to protect your income and assets. Disclaimer: This podcast episode provides general legal education and is not a substitute for legal advice. Every situation is different, and it is important to seek independent legal advice tailored to your specific circumstances and your country. Key Ideas Discussed in This Episode: Communication Boundaries: How to manage communication with your ex, especially in high-conflict situations. Task Boundaries: Why it's important to divide responsibilities post-separation and avoid falling into old habits. Digital Boundaries: Protecting your privacy online, managing social media, and securing your email and iCloud accounts. Living Boundaries: Setting clear rules if you're still living under the same roof or need to protect your space post-separation. Financial Boundaries: The importance of separating accounts, handling child support, and protecting your finances from coercive control. Legal Boundaries: How to avoid being pressured into signing agreements and managing legal deadlines. Emotional Boundaries: Finding ways to protect your mental health and limiting the emotional toll of the divorce process. Physical Boundaries: Strategies for handling custody handovers and protecting your safety with restraining orders, if necessary. Family and Friend Boundaries: Setting limits on how involved your family and friends are in your divorce, while maintaining support. Children’s Boundaries: Keeping your kids out of adult matters and ensuring they are not used as messengers or spies. Links & Resources Mentioned in the Podcast: Related Episodes: The Pitfalls of Percentage Arguements https://open.spotify.com/episode/6bxTgrdymCeW16Q7z5njUe?si=Bl0w1opYQHKk6UVHSZr6Qg Co-Parenting & Communication with Our Children Creator https://open.spotify.com/episode/3Nz2etsYgdMVym8BdcaLwE?si=O7mqw42aT6GZVF58tBopBw Separated Under One Roof Do’s & Don’ts  https://open.spotify.com/episode/2IXSOZ8vVadbcrq10DuxG0?si=_bVJyhtBS5edyJhjf10H1A What about their stuff dealing with your ex’s belongings in Divorce https://open.spotify.com/episode/2bPd3wWLQh3pzQmL2KCR0v?si=nqVtorlkTxq39fRZbm0L1g Overcoming Sleep Struggles during divorce https://open.spotify.com/episode/6klNAJWd2vMAl0LWJq8XCC?si=o0seCI1IQK-od5eAevRXcA When amicable goes wrong https://open.spotify.com/episode/1aK3dni8maqPLOx9vKQDG4?si=IFa7dV5yTkyw76LUXFf0Aw Power Dynamics Balancing Power and Progress https://open.spotify.com/episode/5I3WfPNkXncss2EI5jJwD1?si=S-8buOZNRa2wu2DW--0-JQ Financial Fairness in Divorce  https://open.spotify.com/episode/3S73M140m759WcOrrKms2k?si=YzpyqEpPT4iJ8EWeLbyuXg Disclosure  https://open.spotify.com/episode/07olqt4NN0MQQ0Y5KiHkP2?si=ojEdwxpgSWyg2pBb3EhWRA Handover Hell https://open.spotify.com/episode/6Pskjns3vZkLyv9FCefvxm?si=pfZ4ctZbS1CsjWJdoHifgw Navigating Parental Trash Talk https://open.spotify.com/episode/7bxqn5I6B1HCzO9r0zKnxY?si=kP__OnksRxivMCK8k8bMbw Links to other things https

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  7. 8 OCT

    Income, Expenses, and Savings During Divorce: What You Need to Know

    What happens to your income, expenses and savings in the time between breaking up and official separation and getting final property orders? In this episode we take a look into what happens to your income, expenses, and savings during this in-between period. We discuss how the Family Court of Australia usually treats savings, the importance of documenting expenses, and how your wages may be considered. Whether you’re squirrelling away savings, managing a joint account, or figuring out how to navigate expenses after separation, this episode provides crucial insights to help you protect yourself during property settlements. They also tackle the concept of "ad backs" and when they might apply. Please note that this is a general discussion and everyone’s situation is different so please do not make any legal decisions based on this podcast discussion, always see a lawyer who knows the full facts of your case before making any decisions. Listen to This Episode If You:  🌟 Are confused about how savings are treated during the divorce process. ❓ Want to know how to manage expenses and income between separation and property settlement. 💡 Need to understand what happens to wages after separation. 🛡 Are unsure about how to protect yourself from your ex draining joint accounts or going on spending sprees. 📚 Want to learn how to document expenses and safeguard your assets in case of high-conflict situations. Key Ideas Discussed in This Episode: Savings and Property Settlements: How savings accumulated between separation and final property orders are sometimes handled. Income and Wages Post-Separation: What can happen to your wages after separation and why it’s sometimes crucial to separate your accounts. Reasonable Expenses: What the family court may consider as reasonable expenses during this period, from bills to childcare and beyond. Ad Backs Explained: Understanding what an "ad back" is and how it might affect your settlement if your ex has spent joint money. Documentation Is Key: The importance of tracking and documenting all financial transactions during the divorce process. Handling Joint Accounts: Ways to protect yourself from joint accounts being drained and what you can do if this happens. High-Conflict Tips: Strategies for protecting yourself financially when your ex is manipulative or controlling. Links & Resources Mentioned in the Podcast:  Related Episodes: Navigating the Mortgage Minefield in Divorce https://open.spotify.com/episode/4wPp... Help My Ex is spending all the money https://open.spotify.com/episode/32WS... Record Keeping: Protecting Yourself https://open.spotify.com/episode/4tNr... Protecting yourself from Darvo https://open.spotify.com/episode/0Jyf... Debt Episode https://open.spotify.com/episode/074h... Free Resources: Go to www.thedivorcecourse.com.au   Emergency Contacts: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline: 13 11 14 Mensline Australia: 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line: 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline: 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police: 000 DVConnect Womensline: 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) DV Connect Mensline: 1800 600 636 National DV line: 1800 737 732 (1800 RESPECT) Thank you for tuning in to this episode about managing your income, expenses, and savings during the separation period. We hope this episode provides the knowledge and tools you need to protect yourself during the often tricky period before property settlement. If you found this episode helpful, please rate, review, and subscribe. Your support helps others find the guidance they need. Stay strong and take care. Disclaimer: This podcast episode provides general legal education for Australians and is not a substitute for legal advice. Every situation is different, and it is important to seek independent legal advice tailored to your specific circumstances.  00:00 Introduction to Divorce & Money 01:31 Understanding Savings During Separation 03:08

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  8. 1 OCT

    What they don't tell you before divorce (but they should)!

    Do you ever wish you had a time machine to go back and give yourself advice before starting your divorce journey? In this episode, we share valuable insights and tips from listeners who have gone through it all. Together, we will break down some of the most important things people wish they had known before starting the process, from not rushing into decisions to custody issues. They also discuss some of the key mistakes to avoid, especially in high-conflict or narcissistic divorces. Whether you’re just starting out or deep into the process, this episode will offer practical advice to help guide you through your divorce with more confidence and clarity. Listen to This Episode If You: ❓ Wonder how to gather the right information and evidence to protect yourself. 💡 Need to understand the importance of not rushing into decisions or being pressured by others. 🛡 Are navigating a high-conflict divorce and need strategies to protect yourself from manipulation. 📚 Want to learn how to create a strategy and stay organized during the divorce process. 🌟 Are at the beginning of your divorce and want advice on how to avoid common mistakes. Key Ideas Discussed in This Episode: Don’t Rush: Take your time to gather all your information before making any major decisions. Avoid being pressured into rushing through the process. Collect and Organise Your Information: Get all your documents and information together before starting the legal process to avoid mistakes and delays. Parenting Plans: Don’t force your children into uncomfortable situations—especially when the other parent may not be interested in the relationship. Look Out for Hidden Assets: Learn how to identify secret bank accounts and other financial manipulations that may arise during a divorce. Get a Lawyer Who Understands Narcissistic Behaviour: Make sure your lawyer knows how to handle high-conflict individuals who use manipulative tactics. Court Orders for Sole Occupancy: Understand how to get your ex out of the house if needed, and the risks involved. Don’t Settle Too Quickly: Take your time to evaluate any settlement offers and don’t let anyone pressure you into accepting less than what is fair. Protect Your Mental Health: Treat the divorce process like a part-time job—don’t let it consume your entire life. Links & Resources Mentioned in the Podcast: Related Episodes: How to Document Coercive Control - Communicating Coercive Control in Documents / Ep. 161 Record Keeping: Protecting Yourself https://open.spotify.com/episode/4tNrLiwyDO07jnbzNVxe4m?si=OPR9iwTzQKOKc2HOHvcH-Q Divorce Delay Tactics https://open.spotify.com/episode/2st3qxvJByN981xqZgPRIR?si=l0LL9935S0GAQ6Wx2qJhIg Disclosure Dilemas Overcoming Disclosure Dilemmas: Your Path to Divorce Victory / Ep. 148 Divorce Budgeting 101: Understanding Legal Fees & Six Simple Saving Strategies / Ep. 119   Free Resources: Property Settlement Checklist www.thedivorcecourse.com.au Divorce Documentation Guide www.thedivorcecourse.com.au   Emergency Contacts: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline: 13 11 14 Mensline Australia: 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line: 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline: 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police: 000 DVConnect Womensline: 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) DV Connect Mensline: 1800 600 636 National DV line: 1800 737 732 (1800 RESPECT) Thank you for listening to this episode. We hope these listener-shared insights and practical advice will help guide you through your divorce journey. Remember, you are not alone, and taking the time to understand and plan will make all the difference. If you found this episode helpful, please rate, review, and subscribe. Stay strong and take care. Disclaimer: This podcast episode provides general legal education for Australians and is not a substitute for legal advice. Every situation is different, and it is important to seek independent legal advice t

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This Mother and Daughter duo discuss and cover the legal stages and steps that you will face on your way to freedom through divorce. These are practical and real discussions with Lyn Galvin a family lawyer of 35 years experience and her daughter Laura a divorced mother of three. Laura helps turn her mother's lawyer jargon into something everyone will understand. Lyn shares all her tips and practical advice on separating. Through this podcast they aim to help you through your Australian divorce or de-facto separation to make it more cost effective and less stressful. instagram @thedivorcecourse

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