Who Gets Love?? (Hosted by: Christal Clear & BJ)

Who Gets Love
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Who Gets Love?? (Hosted by: Christal Clear & BJ)

Who Gets Love is a platform hosted by Christal Clear and BJ. Here, we ask one question that can be answered from two completely different perspectives. The question addresses your understanding and privilege within love. Two things we don't check within ourselves. This platform changes our minds and our relationships.

  1. The Outcry (Final Draft)

    04/18/2023

    The Outcry (Final Draft)

    The Outcry is a conversation about the expressions and communication of people in relationships. And those communications and expressions have traits that read in ways we don't comprehend correctly. This draft discusses that, and how our judgements impact the poor communications your partner doesn't even know they have. Perception is the weapon we use against our partner's lack of self awareness. So Christal and BJ discuss this. As The Outcry comes to an end, let us know what you thought about this conversation. This was a great dialogue.

    27 min
  2. The Outcry (Rough Draft 2)

    04/11/2023

    The Outcry (Rough Draft 2)

    The Outcry (Rough Draft 2) speaks about the softness of two people in a relationship. As well as how those soft sides can mislead your partner, based on how THEY perceive softness. There are many parallels to this idea...so WGL decided to discuss it openly. Typically, when we experience softness most is in the bedroom. And whether you know it or not, there are acts in the bedroom that act as examples to the very things people desire from the relationship overall. Softness is not a given. It's an activity we share in love. We discuss what it is, and what it means to us. We also demonstrate this concept, in and out of intimacy. Listen as we uncover the outcry for me softness with one another in The Outcry. Hope you all enjoy!

    28 min
  3. The Outcry (Rough Draft 1)

    04/04/2023

    The Outcry (Rough Draft 1)

    Here we have a conversation built around the discovery of Christal's intuitive abilities to see the undetected traits of people around her. And what she has noticed is the methods people are using to express the needs they currently have. In this conversation, titled The Outcry, we break down what a need sounds like today. The details that you now see when an expectation is made known. And how the actions we see from men and women don't line up with the request at hand. Let's get to the bottom of this one. Tune In!!!!

    30 min
  4. Why Can't You Hit Your Target (Final Draft)

    03/28/2023

    Why Can't You Hit Your Target (Final Draft)

    Today is the finale of Why Can't You Hit Your Target. Christal and BJ discuss updating. Which has a duality to the average serial dater. Most commonly it means to reach higher than your current status or dealings. But almost never does it mean reevaluate yourself during and after each experience you have. Here we discuss how important updating is to nailing the targets you've been aiming at. Think of dating as a resume. The only way to gain better opportunities with this resume is to keep it updated with as much useful experience as you can. And today, dating prompts us to use this same theory as well. Consistent awareness to your growth and changes keeps your loved one in the know. Tune in to the final draft of Why Can't You Hit Your Target.

    38 min
  5. Why Can't You Hit Your Target (Rough Draft 3)

    03/21/2023

    Why Can't You Hit Your Target (Rough Draft 3)

    Have you ever considered the possibility of having too many options being the reason you can't make a choice? We examine the idea, as well as question the listener about whether or not you've solidified your standards. These, among other things, could be the reason that you can't hit what you are aiming at. This draft focuses on the discipline, decisiveness, and devotion you have to your personal wants and needs. Tune in to the latest draft of Why Can't You Hit Your Target?

    28 min

  6. 03/07/2023

    Why Can't You Hit Your Target (Rough Draft 2)

    Rough Draft 2 of Why Can't You Hit Your Target deals with your aim and accuracy when it comes to hitting your mark. We subtitle this conversation From First Love to First Love...which discusses the vast changes that occur from when you were introduced to your first love. As well as how much of a different person you are by the time you fall in love as an adult. Do you account for all the changes you have made for yourself when proclaiming your standards? And how is it that despite all the adjustments you've made as an individual...your standards weren't updated with your personal change? How does that even work? We examine the causes and effects in this conversation. Tune in!!!

    31 min
  7. Why Can't You Hit Your Target (Rough Draft 1)

    02/28/2023

    Why Can't You Hit Your Target (Rough Draft 1)

    Have you ever considered the possibility that the reason why love seems to suck so much is because you really don't know what you like? Today's draft examines this possibility. Titled Why Can't You Hit your Target?, Christal and BJ discuss the issues with adults making informed and concise decisions in who they pick. Are your standards based on who you truly find attractive? Or are you going for the opposite of who hurt you? Listen and find out how this even happens!

    30 min
  8. Push The Button (Final Draft)

    02/21/2023

    Push The Button (Final Draft)

    We are finally here at the finale for Push The Button. Here we discuss the support you give for the friend who looks crazy, stupid, or plain dumb based on your standards, when it comes to cheating or betrayal. We don't see support often being shown in moments where our own beliefs don't align with the choices being made. So we discuss what it looks like to support someone for something you disagree with. Christal is more willing to sympathize here in this instance. Feeling like there has to be a shoulder to lean on for such a hard choice to stay with someone who betrays you. BJ, on the other hand, feels like you should have an understanding that this road is often less traveled. As well as taking full responsibility for the hard choice. Simply put...most of us, if not all of us, feel like we deserve more from our partners when it comes to infidelity. So to think that you should expect your support system to be dishonest with their beliefs just to support your decision is difficult to ask someone. And can sometimes create a tension amongst your support system, while the focus should be on your partner. How would you handle an instance like this where the odds are against you...and the only person who may understand you is YOU? because even your partner is removed from what you feel simply because they are hurting from actually hurting you. Very tough conversation to have. tune in and let us know what you think!

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Who Gets Love is a platform hosted by Christal Clear and BJ. Here, we ask one question that can be answered from two completely different perspectives. The question addresses your understanding and privilege within love. Two things we don't check within ourselves. This platform changes our minds and our relationships.

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  • Creator
    Who Gets Love
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2023
  • Episodes
    51
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © Who Gets Love

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