Why Approval & Validation Are Moving Targets with Bill Kalivas

What happens when the search for approval from others no longer defines you—and you finally let go?On this episode, I sit down with Bill Kalivas, a Spokane-based leader, mentor, and connector who’s built a career—and a life—on showing up for others.From a turbulent childhood marked by instability and rejection to finding strength through sports, mentorship, and faith, Bill’s story is a powerful reminder that YOU don’t have to be defined by where you start.Now, through his nonprofit Launchpad—a Spokane-based organization that connects entrepreneurs, community leaders, and changemakers—he’s tackling some of the Pacific Northwest’s most pressing challenges head-on.Get ready for a conversation full of truth, transformation, and the quiet kind of leadership that leaves a lasting legacy—only on Navigating No.00:00 Reflecting on Life's True Needs00:53 Introducing Bill Kalivas: A Journey of Resilience02:11 Bill's Early Life and Family Struggles03:31 Overcoming Adversity Through Community Support05:21 Navigating Identity and Family Dynamics07:11 Finding Strength in Sports and Mentorship09:56 High School Challenges and Triumphs16:02 Meeting My Biological Father36:37 Understanding and Empathy37:09 Family Dynamics and Secrets37:51 Confrontations and Rejections40:24 Funeral and Family Revelations42:00 Finding Closure and New Beginnings45:30 Personal Growth and Mentorship48:58 The Power of Community and Connection52:57 Final Thoughts