Why Divorce: 5 Reasons to Leave

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Why Divorce: 5 Reasons to Leave

Abuse. Adultery. Addiction. Abandonment. Angst. Are these good enough reasons to leave a marriage? Through case studies and advice from experts, this book by journalist Hope Katz Gibbs explores the complex landscape of ending a relationship and offers insight into what's next after a profound breakup. Learn more at www.WhyDivorce.us.

Episodes

  1. 01/16/2022

    Today on the “Why Divorce” show: Meet Couples Financial Coach Adam Kol

    A Note from Hope Katz Gibbs, author, “Why Divorce: 5 Reasons to Leave” — Welcome to today’s episode of the Why Divorce Show — a podcast and video show dedicated based on my book project that is on a mission to helping people understand the 5 reasons to leave a marriage, and when to stay. The published book is coming soon. In the meantime, we are collecting case studies of the 5 reasons (abuse, adultery, addiction, abandonment, and angst) and interviewing experts on topics that will help traverse the process of divorce. We know you are going to learn a lot from today’s guest: The Couples Financial Coach, Adam Kol. He’ll talk today about the #1 mistake couples make when it comes to managing their money and the top myths around relationships and money. Our interview questions include What is the #1 mistake couples make when it comes to love and money? What are some top myths around this issue? Is there a better choice: joint accounts or separate accounts? And the age-old challenge: My partner and I have different values and experiences with money, so what do we do about this? And, the big question of the day — what should couples do with their through the coronavirus pandemic? About Adam: “I help couples make sure that the money conversation doesn’t get in the way, leading to more peace, love, and cash,” says the Financial Advisor who received his law degree from Duke and his MA in tax from NYU. “My mission is to bring an equity and social justice lens to my work.” Learn more: CouplesFinancialCoach.com.

    28 min
  2. 04/10/2019

    Going through a Divorce and Need Guidance? Meet the Women’s Realtor: Adrienne Green

    A Note from Hope Katz Gibbs, author, Why Divorce — Hello, and welcome to today’s episode of the “Why Divorce” Show, where we interview experts who are here to help us through one of the most challenging transitions in our lives. Today’s guest: Realtor Adrienne Green, who specializes in helping women buy their first home. About Adrienne: This truly amazing woman started her career working in the financial investment world after graduating from the University of Southern California with a B.S. in Business Administration in 2007. She performed financial analysis and accounting for mutual funds at Western Asset Management in Pasadena, California. Craving more opportunities to interact with and help people directly, she earned a teaching credential (and eventually a Master’s in Education) to apply her aptitude for numbers to teaching high school math. Again, she enjoyed the hands-on opportunities to engage and assist students, allowing her to utilize her spirit of service. In 2011 Adrienne and her husband moved cross-country from Southern California to Northern Virginia, where they have happily resided ever since. While taking time off from teaching to have two children, Adrienne started real estate investing by buying and managing rental properties in Loudoun County, Virginia. She enjoyed applying her financial skills and people skills in this manner and realized a career in real estate would be the perfect fit for her skills and abilities. Now. Adrienne is a Realtor with Samson Properties in Northern Virginia. Her passion is to help people utilize real estate to meet their family and financial needs. She leverages her financial, analytical, problem solving, and interpersonal skills to optimize client results. Her clients appreciate her passion for doing the right thing and going above and beyond. Adrienne resides on a farmette near the historic town of Leesburg in Loudoun County, VA, where she helps as many women as possible find the home of their dreams. Now let’s launch into our Q&A with this Inkandescent Woman! (more…)

    17 min
  3. 04/10/2019

    Dealing with Divorce: Attorney Rachel Virk Shows Us "The Four Ways of Divorce"

    Rachel L. Virk has been in practice since 1989 litigating, negotiating, collaborating, and mediating divorce cases throughout Northern Virginia. She is Certified as a Mediator by the Virginia Supreme Court at the Circuit Court Family level, and is a trained collaborative law practitioner and author of Four Ways of Divorce. Whether sitting down to work it out, or standing up to fight it out, she provides information to help shape and control your new future, and to control the costs in her book, provides a concise guide to what you need to know about divorce using Litigation, Negotiation, Collaboration and Mediation. Virk explains: “You may need to journey down the warpath to stand up for what you must. Or if you and your X2B don’t hate each other just because you are getting a divorce, you may work together to custom design your new, separate lives, or your new two-home family. This book tells you in detail exactly what you need know to make informed decisions, describes how you can write up your decisions in a legally binding document, or what will happen if you go to court. The back of the book contains a chart for the easy comparison of the litigation, negotiation, collaboration and mediation processes, along with many helpful financial worksheets. You will also find an explanation of the Informative Mediation Process, and an extremely useful General List of Topics to be Resolved.” Don’t miss our podcast interview, which will be featured in the book project: Why Divorce: 5 Reasons to Leave. About Rachel Virk: President of Rachel L. Virk, P.C., she is a member of several local, state, national and international professional associations addressing divorce dispute resolution, as listed in detail on her website www.virk-law.com. Virk has made presentations to attorneys, to mediators, to mental health professionals, and to the general public on the subject of divorce and family law. Her writings, articles and commentary have appeared in various state and national publications. Her various publications are listed on her website. With offices in Fairfax County, Virginia, for 10 years, and in Loudoun County, Virginia, for five years, before opening her own practice in 2005.  Rachel L. Virk, P.C. is located in Sterling, Virginia. Education: Virk obtained a Bachelor of Science degree with majors in marine science and biology and a minor in chemistry from the University of Miami, Florida in 1982; a Masters of Science degree in biology from the University of Miami, Florida in 1985; and her law degree from the George Mason University School of Law in 1989. Additional credentials for Rachel Virk: Recognized as a “Top 10 Family Law Attorney for Virginia” by the Attorney and Practice Magazine for 2018 Voted #1 Attorney in for Loudoun County in the 2017 Loudoun Now Annual Loudoun Favorites Poll Recognized as a “Ten Best Attorney for Client Satisfaction” by the American Institute of Family Law Attorneys for 2015, 2016, and 2017 Recognized as a “Top Lawyers in Virginia” by The Legal Network for 2016 Recognized as a “Top 10 Family Law Attorney for Virginia” by the American Jurist Institute for 2016 The Law Firm of Rachel L. Virk, PC has been recognized as a “Ten Best Law Firm” by the American Institute of Family Law Attorneys for 2018 Scroll down to read chapter 1 of “The Four Ways of Divorce: Litigation, Negotiation, Collaboration, Mediation.” By Rachel L. Vick, Attorney at Law Chapter One: I’M HEADING FOR A DIVORCE– WHAT SHOULD I DO, WHERE DO I START? You want out. You no longer love or need your spouse. The kids are older, and you are now earning a living wage. You are tired of your spouse’s drinking, untreated mental instability, abusiveness or emotional problems manifested in part by destructive spending habits or other addictions. Or your spouse has informed you that he or she wants a divorce, or no longer loves you. You find the cell phone records, emails, credit card receipts, hotel re

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Abuse. Adultery. Addiction. Abandonment. Angst. Are these good enough reasons to leave a marriage? Through case studies and advice from experts, this book by journalist Hope Katz Gibbs explores the complex landscape of ending a relationship and offers insight into what's next after a profound breakup. Learn more at www.WhyDivorce.us.

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