Why Do Leaders Feel Lonely

"We don't get better when we're under stress, we get worse. We get quiet and we get isolated and nobody sees us. The success came when I changed the way I was dealing with my problems and became a more empathetic leader."

Early in my career, I was known as “the Doberman.” I managed with an iron fist and thought fear was the way to get things done. Meanwhile I was feeling isolated, stressed out, and disconnected. I was raising my voice, intimidating staff, and constantly feeling the weight of leadership alone. It was like being lost. I was being buried by insecurity. After a while I had a realization that changed the way I lead. Read about it in my blog. 

Notable Moments

04:24 Creating a positive, supportive work environment.

07:23 Stress and pressure can lead to isolation and anxiety.

10:18 Handle problems promptly to avoid overwhelming stress.

14:58 Success grows when leaders treat people well.

18:55 Seek help if the pressure of leadership leads to loneliness and isolation. 

22:01 Encourage conversation through engagement and resources

Resources

The Cockerell Academy

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