WOMEN OF FAITH SHOW with ALITA REYNOLDS Alita Reynolds

In this powerful and eye-opening episode, I sit down with Kirsten D. Samuel, a dedicated and compassionate advocate for women dealing with the fallout of their husband's pornography addiction. Kirsten shares her deeply personal journey when her husband confessed to being caught watching porn, a revelation that nearly shattered their 25-year marriage.

Key Points Discussed:

Initial Shock and Emotional Turmoil: Kirsten recounts the moment her husband revealed his addiction and the immediate emotional collapse she experienced. She describes the disbelief, anger, and the overwhelming question, "How did I not know?"

Seeking Help and Finding Hope: Kirsten emphasizes the importance of seeking professional help immediately. She shares how a colleague's name, Kathy, came to her mind, leading to a pivotal counseling session that offered the lifeline phrase, "This does not have to be fatal."

The Journey of Recovery: Kirsten and her husband embarked on a grueling but transformative recovery process. She highlights the importance of authenticity, hard work, and the willingness to change deeply ingrained habits and behaviors.

Kirsten's Ministry and Mission: Today, Kirsten runs a ministry dedicated to helping women who discover their husband's pornography addiction. She provides initial support, helping them breathe and understand that the situation is not fatal. Kirsten's mission is to guide these women through their pain, offering hope and practical steps for recovery.

The Pervasiveness of Pornography: The discussion touches on the widespread nature of pornography, affecting both men and women. Kirsten shares alarming statistics about early exposure and the normalization of porn in society, stressing the need for open conversations and proactive measures.

Practical Advice for Women: Kirsten offers practical advice for women dealing with a partner's pornography addiction, including seeking professional help, understanding their own significance, and focusing on what they can control. She also addresses the difficult scenario where the partner does not want to change, emphasizing the need for safety and professional mediation.

Personal Convictions and Changes: Kirsten shares personal changes she made to guard her heart and mind, such as avoiding certain books and movies. She underscores the importance of being mindful of what we consume through our eyes and ears.

Encouragement and Final Thoughts: Kirsten leaves listeners with a powerful message about eternal significance and the importance of not staying silent. She encourages women to seek help and assures them they are not alone.

I deeply admire Kirsten's courage and dedication to this challenging ministry. Her story is a testament to the power of faith, resilience, and the transformative potential of seeking help and embracing authenticity. If you or someone you know struggles with similar issues, I urge you to contact Kirsten for support and guidance. Thank you for listening, and remember, you are never alone.

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ABOUT KIRSTEN D SAMUEL: Kirsten D Samuel a coach, author, and speaker, understanding first-hand the shock and pain of discovering your spouse’s porn use. She passionately points others to God’s redeeming grace, and empowers women to heal their broken hearts, regain confidence, and create a healthy path forward. A survivor of clinical depression and PTSD, she chooses a life of authenticity, love, faith, fun, and forgiveness. To contact her, visit https:/

In this Women of Faith Show episode, I had the incredible opportunity to interview John Bevere, a seasoned minister, best-selling author with 40 years of experience in serving the Lord. John Bevere, known for his commitment to ministry and his passion for Jesus Christ, shared valuable insights and wisdom during our conversation. The episode began with John Bevere humbly expressing his dedication to serving Jesus and his desire to remain in love with Him throughout his ministry journey. He emphasized the importance of protecting his heart from becoming cynical or jaded, a common pitfall for many in ministry. As the conversation unfolded, John Bevere shared about his ministry, Messenger International, which has impacted lives globally through books, speaking engagements, and the Messenger X app. His bestselling books, including "The Awe of God," have inspired countless individuals to deepen their relationship with God. The discussion delved into the concept of the fear of the Lord, a topic central to John Bevere's teachings. He clarified that the fear of the Lord is not about being scared of God but rather about being terrified of being away from Him. John Bevere highlighted the importance of intimacy with God and the transformative power of walking in the fear of the Lord. John Bevere also touched on the challenges and successes of ministry, emphasizing the need for pastors and leaders to prioritize their relationship with God through prayer and studying His word. He shared his vision for resourcing pastors globally and fostering an inclusive approach to ministry succession. The episode concluded with John Bevere encouraging online ministry leaders to prioritize physical gatherings and community, recognizing the unique impact of in-person fellowship in the Christian journey. Overall, this podcast episode with John Bevere was a profound and insightful conversation that inspired listeners to pursue holiness, deepen their relationship with God, and approach ministry with humility and passion. Time Stamps 00:00:00 - Introduction and Ministry Commitment 00:05:30 - Importance of Speaking Truth in Love 00:09:07 - Impact of "The Awe of God" Book Club 00:10:06 - Understanding the Fear of God 00:19:02 - Promises of God for Those Who Fear Him 00:25:12 - Women of Faith's Mission and Encouragement 00:26:38 - Keys to Success in Ministry 00:32:25 - Prayer Request for Ministry Outreach 00:35:38 - Advice for Online Ministry CONNECT WITH WOMEN OF FAITH & ALITA REYNOLDS ON SOCIAL MEDIA: ▶︎ INSTAGRAM | https://www.instagram.com/womenoffaith/ ▶︎ INSTAGRAM | https://www.instagram.com/alitareynolds/ ▶︎ FACEBOOK | https://www.facebook.com/womenoffaith ▶︎ TIKTOK | https://www.tiktok.com/@womenoffaith? ▶︎ TWITTER | https://twitter.com/womenoffaith ▶︎ WEBSITE | https://www.womenoffaith.com ▶︎ NEWSLETTER | https://www.womenoffaith.com/newsletter ▶︎ YOUTUBE | https://www.youtube.com/c/WomenofFaithtv ABOUT JOHN BEVERE: HUSBAND. FATHER. TEACHER. AUTHOR. SPEAKER. FOLLOWER AND MINISTER OF JESUS CHRIST. John Bevere is a minister known for his bold, uncompromising approach to God’s Word. He is also an international bestselling author who has written more than 20 books that have, collectively, sold millions of copies and been translated into over 130 languages. Along with his wife, Lisa, John is the co-founder of Messenger International, a ministry committed to revolutionizing global discipleship. Driven by a passion to develop uncompromising followers of Christ, Messenger has given over 60 million translated resources to leaders across the globe. To extend these efforts, the MessengerX app was developed, providing digital discipleship resources at no cost to users in more than 120 languages. MessengerX currently has users in over 20,000 cities and over 235 nations. When John is home in Franklin, Tennessee, you’ll find him loving on his g-babies, playing pickleball, or trying to convince Lisa to take up golf. ABOUT ALITA REY

In this episode of the Women of Faith Show, host Alita Reynolds engages in a heartfelt conversation with special guest Christie Meldrim. Together, they explore the power of encouragement, the importance of mentorship, and the beauty of blended families. Alita, a seasoned speaker, coach and mentor, sets the stage for an inspiring discussion by highlighting Christie's incredible ability to uplift and empower others. She describes Christie as an amazing woman who radiates encouragement, making everyone around her feel valued and inspired. Christie, a dedicated member of Westridge Church in Atlanta, shares her passion for investing in the next generation of women. With 15 years of experience at the church, she serves as the Guest Services Director, welcoming and connecting people. However, her role extends beyond her job title, as she has developed a deep desire to mentor and support younger women in their journeys. Reflecting on her own experiences, Christie emphasizes the importance of believing in others before they even believe in themselves. She shares how every leader she has encountered throughout her career has seen her potential and encouraged her to step into her calling. Now, she feels compelled to do the same for others, regardless of their age or background. The conversation takes an intimate turn as Christie opens up about her personal story of growing up in a blended family. She shares how her stepmom, Olivia, became a pivotal figure in her life, demonstrating the power of belief and support. Inspired by Olivia's example, Christie now embraces her role as a stepmom herself, pouring love and encouragement into her stepchildren's lives. Recognizing the challenges that come with blended families, Christie and her father have launched a ministry called "Blended Not Broken." Through this initiative, they aim to provide resources and support for blended families, helping them navigate the complexities and create a thriving, united household. Throughout the episode, both Alita and Christie offer valuable insights and practical advice for women seeking to mentor and empower others. They emphasize the importance of prayer, being a student of the people we mentor, and creating intentional moments of connection. They also encourage women to step into their calling without fear or worry, trusting that God will guide their paths. With their genuine and relatable approach, Alita and Christie create an engaging and inspiring atmosphere that leaves viewers feeling encouraged and empowered. Their wisdom and personal experiences serve as a reminder that every woman has the power to make a difference in the lives of others, regardless of their age or circumstances. Tune in to this captivating episode of the Women of Faith Show to witness the transformative power of encouragement, mentorship, and embracing one's calling. Prepare to be inspired and equipped to make a lasting impact in the lives of those around you. CONNECT WITH WOMEN OF FAITH & ALITA REYNOLDS ON SOCIAL MEDIA: ▶︎ INSTAGRAM | https://www.instagram.com/womenoffaith/ ▶︎ INSTAGRAM | https://www.instagram.com/alitareynolds/ ▶︎ FACEBOOK | https://www.facebook.com/womenoffaith ▶︎ TIKTOK | https://www.tiktok.com/@womenoffaith? ▶︎ TWITTER | https://twitter.com/womenoffaith ▶︎ WEBSITE | https://www.womenoffaith.com ▶︎ NEWSLETTER | https://www.womenoffaith.com/newsletter ABOUT CHRISTIE MELDRIM: Christie Meldrim has been in church ministry for 15 years and currently works as the Guest Services Director at West Ridge Church in Dallas, GA. She is a graduate of Colorado Christian University with a degree in Student Ministry. Christie and her husband Mark live in Dallas, GA where she is stepmom to Alexis, Dillon, Libbie and Leeann. Christie is co-authoring the book, Blended Not Broken to be released later in 2023. To learn more visit: www.blendednotbroken.org ABOUT ALITA REYNOLDS: Alita Reynolds is the President of Women of Faith, Host of the Women of Fait

In this episode, host Alita Reynolds had the privilege of interviewing Ryan McGraw, a guest with a powerful faith story. Ryan, who is currently working at NetWell, shared his journey of coming to know the Lord later in life and the impact it has had on his perspective, relationships, and career.

Ryan's Faith Journey: Ryan grew up without a strong religious background, but he always felt a calling from God. However, it took him some time to open the door and fully embrace his faith. He shared how a personal trainer who had strong faith and persistent conversations planted seeds in Ryan's heart and led him to open the door and embark on a life-changing journey with God.

The Impact of Faith: Once Ryan started his relationship with Jesus, his life took a transformative turn. He gained a deeper understanding of his priorities and the impact he wanted to have on others. Ryan's own experience of growing up in a broken family and reconnecting with his earthly father through his faith allowed him to extend forgiveness and find peace. This influenced his relationships, career choices, and how he wanted to raise his own family.

NetWell: A Community of Faith: Ryan also discussed his work at NetWell, a healthcare sharing ministry. NetWell brings together like-minded individuals who share medical expenses and support one another in times of need. Inspired by the early church's concept of caring for one another, NetWell fosters a sense of community, prayer, and holistic support for its members.

Ryan McGraw's faith journey and his work at NetWell exemplify the power of faith, family, and community. His story serves as a reminder to be intentional in our relationships, to invest in others, and to seek opportunities to support and encourage those around us. Through his experiences, Ryan demonstrates the transformative impact of faith and the importance of extending love and care to others, just as God has done for us.

00:03:16 God's timing is never coincidental.

00:05:50 Importance of listening to God.

00:11:49 The power of fatherhood.

00:17:36 Finding purpose in coaching kids.

00:24:20 God speaks in unexpected ways.

00:29:52 Be intentional and help others.

ABOUT RYAN MCGRAW: 

Ryan McGraw, Sr. Director of Ministry Business Development for netWell, a faith-based Healthcare Sharing Ministry, boasts a history of success across fitness, banking, ministry, fuel, and landscaping. Armed with a Bachelor of Arts in Corporate Communication from Walsh University, he consistently excels and garners numerous accolades. 

Ryan's experience spans multiple leadership roles, overseeing over $2 billion in revenue and impacting 400+ employees over his career. Notably, his athletic background in college football and continued involvement in youth sports showcases his passion for competition and community engagement. 

Ryan is a dedicated family man, happily married, and raises three exceptional boys who excel both in sports and academics. Ryan's commitment to excellence and service inspires all who know him.

ABOUT ALITA REYNOLDS:

Alita Reynolds is the President of Women of Faith, Host of the Women of Faith Show with Alita Reynolds, Founder of the Women of Faith Group Coaching program, a Certified Master Christian Life Coach (CMCLC), and a sought-after trainer and speaker. She and her husband, GJ, are the Visionaries of this global ministry equipping women to live victoriously with Jesus. In addition, she serves the International Christian Coaching Institute (ICCI) by leading the Women’s Life Coaching model, where she trains and mentors women’s life coaches.

Alita’s life purpose is as simple as her upbringing on a Nebraska farm. She passionately inspires others to find Jesus by bringing out God's beautiful story in their lives. Alita encourages everyone to find their own God-given purpose and to live a life of excellence.

This all starts at home for Alita in Lincoln, Nebraska, with her husband and three adult children, Logan, Rees, and

Seasons of Friendship | Alita Reynolds & Kytia L'amour

In this episode, host Alita Reynolds, president of Women of Faith, sits down with special guest Kytia L'amour to discuss two important topics: seasons of friendship and God's purpose for your life.

The conversation begins with Alita expressing her admiration for Kytia's work on YouTube and the impact she has had on the kingdom through her ministry. They reflect on their friendship, which has developed over the past two years, and the importance of having friends who share the same purpose and values.

Kytia shares her personal experience of moving around a lot as a child and not having lifelong friends. She emphasizes the importance of finding common ground and purpose in friendships, particularly in her own life, where her faith in God is a central aspect. She also discusses the ebbs and flows of close relationships and the need to let go of fear and expectations in order to build genuine connections.

The conversation then shifts to the topic of God's purpose for our lives. Both Alita and Kytia emphasize the significance of surrendering every area of our lives to the Lord and seeking His guidance in decision-making. They discuss the fulfillment and joy that come from living out God's purpose and the importance of surrounding ourselves with friends who support and encourage us in our calling.

Throughout the episode, Alita and Kytia share personal anecdotes and insights, highlighting the importance of deep, meaningful friendships and the role they play in living out God's purpose. They encourage listeners not to give up on their purpose and to hold on to their faith, even in the face of challenges.

Overall, this episode provides valuable insights into the seasons of friendship and the significance of living into God's purpose for our lives. It serves as a reminder to seek genuine connections and surround ourselves with friends who uplift and support us in our journey.

[00:02:48] Seasons of friendship.

[00:04:30] Purpose in healthy friendships.

[00:07:31] Prayer and aligning desires.

[00:10:30] Dreams and visions.

[00:14:21] Seasons of friendships.

[00:16:55] Needing Jesus vs. needing friends.

[00:21:19] Friendship and expectations.

[00:23:05] Purpose and shared passion.

[00:26:38] Surrendering to Jesus in all areas.

[00:30:03] Don't give up.

 

ABOUT KYTIA L’AMOUR:

Kytia L’amour is the founder of L’amour in Christ, a ministry started in 2016 that encourages women to find their true identity in Christ and pursue their God-given purpose. Visit www.lamourinchrist.com to keep up with her latest content and to learn about her latest books.

ABOUT ALITA REYNOLDS:

Alita Reynolds is the President of Women of Faith, Host of the Women of Faith Show with Alita Reynolds, Founder of the Women of Faith Group Coaching program, a Certified Master Christian Life Coach (CMCLC), and a sought-after trainer and speaker. She and her husband, GJ, are the Visionaries of Women of Faith, a global ministry equipping women to live victoriously with Jesus. In addition, she serves the International Christian Coaching Institute (ICCI) by leading the Women’s Life Coaching model, where she trains and mentors women’s life coaches.

Alita’s life purpose is as simple as her upbringing on a Nebraska farm. She passionately inspires others to find Jesus by bringing out God's beautiful story in their lives. Alita creates opportunities to encourage everyone to find their own God-given purpose and to live a life of excellence.

This all starts at home for Alita in Lincoln, Nebraska, with her husband and three adult children, Logan, Rees, and Lexi. When she’s not working, you may find her pruning her flowers, pickling cucumbers, throwing a sushi-making party, or simply enjoying the long summer days.

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Overview:

Worry is a common experience that many people face in their lives. It can consume our thoughts, drain our energy, and hinder our ability to live in the present moment. However, there is a way to transform this negative emotion into something positive and empowering. In this show episode titled "Overcoming Worry," our friend and guest, Gary Meacham, shares her journey of overcoming worry and finding a new perspective.

 

Gari Meacham is supportive and a treasured friend. She offers guidance and points others toward Jesus when they struggle with worry. Gary runs a ministry and is a gift to those she serves. Gary admits that she has struggled with worry, which she finds embarrassing, considering she has written books on the topic. She shares that she used to confuse praying with worrying, merely adding God's words at the beginning and end of her worries. However, she had a realization and began to understand that true prayer involves belief and trust in God rather than being consumed by worry.

 

The message of turning worry into a vision is powerful and applicable to anyone who struggles with worry. It reminds us that worry is a natural response to challenging situations but doesn't have to define our lives. By shifting our focus from fear and anxiety to hope and faith, we can transform our worries into a vision for a better future.

 

Gary Meacham's journey of overcoming worry serves as an inspiration for others facing similar struggles. Through her story, we learn that shifting our perspective and trusting God's plan for our lives is possible. By envisioning a positive future and letting go of worry, we can find peace and live a life free from anxiety. We hope this episode gives you the inspiration and courage to give all your worries to Jesus. 

 

I am wildly cheering you on,

 

🤍Alita 🤍

Timestamp Points to Listen for:

[00:03:06] Season of suffering.

[00:06:23] Praying with vision, not worry.

[00:11:41] Worry and living in truth.

[00:13:12] Worry and infidelity towards God.

[00:15:33] Cheerleading and personal growth.

[00:20:49] Listening prayer and guidance.

[00:23:10] Life-saving encounter with clay.

[00:26:42] Women as thermostats of the home.

 

About Gari Meacham

A popular speaker and writer, Gari travels the globe speaking at conferences, retreats, and events for women. She’s written eight books, a television pilot and produced a documentary film called God Loves Broken. Her highly acclaimed books, workbook, and DVD series are used in book groups and churches across the country.

Gari is President and Founder of The Vine—an organization that helps vulnerable children and women in Uganda. She’s married to former New York Yankees Bobby Meacham, and together they have three children. Bobby and Gari have been in professional baseball for over thirty-five years and still get excited to see each other after a long road trip! They call Houston their home.