Work it, Live it, Own it!

SaCola Lehr
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Are you tired of the constant pressure to hustle harder, to be a "Boss Babe," to rise and grind until you burn out? Do you feel like you're stuck on a treadmill, chasing a version of success that doesn't feel like your own, while your personal life, passions, and well-being take a back seat? If you're a woman who is ready to say "no more" to burnout and "yes" to a life of authentic achievement and joy, you're in the right place. Welcome to Work it, Live it, Own it!, the podcast for women who are done with sacrificing their sanity for success. This is your home for finding work-life harmony. Join your host and work-life harmony strategist, SaCola Lehr, as we dive into practical, real-world concerns and strategies to help you: Rediscover Your Priorities: Get clear on what you truly want in your career and life, not what you've been told you should want. •Truly Rejuvenate: Learn sustainable practices for restoring your energy that go far beyond bubble baths, so you can move from constantly drained to deeply renewed. •Organize Your World: Move from chaos to clarity by designing a life architecture that honors your priorities and creates space for what matters most. •Navigate Boundaries with Confidence: Master the art of saying "no" without guilt, protecting your time and energy as an act of self-respect. • Step into Your Power: Reclaim your inner authority, trust your own judgment, and take empowered action to create the life you've always wanted. It's time to stop living on autopilot and start living with intention. It's time to work it, live it, and own it. Subscribe now and start your journey from burnout to brilliance, on your own terms.

  1. When Your Partner Doesn't Get Why You're Unhappy: How to Talk About it Without Pushing Them Away

    FEB 25 · BONUS

    When Your Partner Doesn't Get Why You're Unhappy: How to Talk About it Without Pushing Them Away

    Have you ever felt like you're speaking a completely different language from your partner? You're going through this huge internal shift, realizing that the successful life you've built together feels... empty. But when you try to share this vulnerable feeling, you're met with a blank stare, confusion, or even defensiveness. Suddenly, you feel lonelier than ever, right inside your own home. In this bonus mini-episode, we're diving deep into one of the most challenging parts of this journey: what to do when your partner doesn't understand why you're unhappy. This isn't about blame or pointing fingers. It's about learning how to bridge that gap, turn confusion into connection, and invite your partner into your next chapter instead of accidentally pushing them away. We'll give you the exact words to use to start this conversation with love, compassion, and clarity. This episode is for any woman who has ever felt misunderstood in her relationship while navigating personal growth. If you're feeling successful but unhappy and struggling to communicate it, this is for you. In This Episode, You Will Learn:• The profound reason your partner’s confusion isn’t rejection (this single shift in perspective will change everything!). • Why vague feelings of unhappiness can sound like a threat to your partner, and how to be specific without being scary. • Four concrete, actionable strategies to talk about your feelings in a way that invites your partner in, instead of shutting them down. • How to reframe the conversation from "my problem that you need to fix" to "our next adventure that we get to design together." Episode Timestamps: (0:00) - Welcome & The Loneliest Feeling in a Relationship (1:30) - The Problem: When Your Partner Just Doesn't Get It (3:00) - The Real Reason for Their Confusion (It's Not What You Think) (4:30) - A Relatable Story: How Well-Intentioned Communication Goes Wrong (6:00) - Your 4-Step Toolkit for a Better Conversation (8:00) - Your Invitation: From a Difficult Problem to a Shared Project Resources Mentioned:• Main Episode: Successful But Empty: Why Your Perfect Life Doesn't Feel Perfect • Free Resource: Download the Energy Audit Worksheet • The Book: Get your copy of Harmony Hustle for Women Connect with Us:• Website: https://SaColaLehr.com •Instagram:  https://instagram.com/workitliveitownit   If this episode resonated with you, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with another woman who needs to hear this. Your support helps us reach more women who are ready to move from burnout to brilliance! Email for business inquiries: info@workitliveitownit.com

    13 min
  2. The Hidden Pain of a Picture Perfect Life

    FEB 9

    The Hidden Pain of a Picture Perfect Life

    In this episode of "Work It, Live It, Own It," SaCola Lehr discusses the concept of the success paradox, where individuals may feel empty despite achieving societal-defined success. She explains that this paradox occurs when people have followed a prescribed script for success but now need to create their own path. She emphasizes the importance of aligning one's priorities with authentic desires rather than assigned ones. She shares a personal story to illustrate this point and provided a practical strategy, the "energy audit," which involves tracking energy levels in response to daily activities over a week. Download your free energy audit worksheet and stay tuned deeper discussion on the success paradox in two weeks, focusing on how to align your personal journey with the one you love. Click here to get access to your Energy Audit worksheet. If today’s conversation hit home, don’t just stop here. I created a free PRONE to Power Worksheet that will help you put these strategies into action. You can grab it now at https://bit.ly/PRONEtoPowerwksht Check out SaCola's new book: Harmony Hustle for Women: Master the Art of Thriving in Life & Career Follow SaCola on Instagram:  https://instagram.com/workitliveitownit   Email for business inquiries: info@workitliveitownit.com

    12 min
  3. Be the Hero of Your Work Day by Resisting the Overdelivering Trap

    12/10/2025

    Be the Hero of Your Work Day by Resisting the Overdelivering Trap

    If you feel like your hard work is only rewarded with more work, and you're tired of feeling drained and resentful, this episode will give you the clarity and tools to reclaim your time and energy. You'll learn how to break free from the cycle of overdelivering and start building a career and life that truly sustains you. Are you caught in the overdelivering trap? It’s that exhausting cycle where your 200% effort has become the new 100% expectation, leaving you on the fast track to burnout. In this episode of "Work it, Live it, Own it!", work-life harmony strategist SaCola Lehr dives deep into one of the biggest challenges facing women today: how to stop overdelivering without feeling like you're failing. Drawing on powerful research and real-world stories, SaCola uncovers the psychological drivers behind why we overwork, from high-achiever syndrome to people-pleasing, and reveals the true cost of this unsustainable pace. This isn't just about managing your time; it's about reclaiming your life. Learn three actionable strategies to reset expectations, set healthy boundaries, and shift your mindset from proving your worth to owning your worth. This conversation is your first step toward achieving true work-life harmony and building a sustainable path to success. What You'll Learn in This Episode:• The Psychology of Overdelivering: Understand the three key reasons you fall into the trap of overworking, including high-achiever syndrome, people-pleasing, and tying your identity to your job. (03:15) • The True Cost of Burnout: Discover the hidden costs of constantly overdelivering, from career resentment to the physical and mental toll it takes on your life outside of work. (08:45) • Strategy 1: The “Strategic Under-delivery” Experiment: A practical, low-risk way to test your assumptions and recalibrate what a “good job” really means without compromising your career. (12:30) • Strategy 2: Introduce “Friction and Framing”: Learn exact scripts and phrases to use when you get a new request, allowing you to manage your workload strategically instead of defaulting to “yes.” (16:50) • Strategy 3: The “It’s Just a Job” Mindset Shift: Actionable steps to begin untangling your self-worth from your job performance and build a compelling life outside of your career. (21:10) • Redefining Success: How to shift your definition of success from external achievements to internal peace and sustainable work-life integration. (24:00) If today’s conversation hit home, don’t just stop here. I created a free PRONE to Power Worksheet that will help you put these strategies into action. You can grab it now at https://bit.ly/PRONEtoPowerwksht Follow SaCola on Instagram:  https://instagram.com/workitliveitownit   Email for business inquiries: info@workitliveitownit.com

    21 min
  4. Mindset to Movement: Execute with Purpose

    11/19/2025

    Mindset to Movement: Execute with Purpose

    SaCola sits down with Dr. JaNee' Mobley, a wife, mother, coach, and strategist, who rebuilt her life after homelessness, repossession, financial collapse, and public assistance. With vulnerability and strength, Dr. JaNee' Mobley shares how she turned her lowest moment into a launching pad by reshaping her mindset, taking aligned action, and stepping boldly into purpose. She introduces her transformational framework: Mindset → Message → Marketing, and delivers practical strategies you can apply today to turn ideas into momentum. If you've ever felt stuck, afraid to act, or unsure how to turn vision into execution, this episode will remind you what's possible when belief and action collide. Top TakeawaysFeed your faith, starve your fear.Awareness is the beginning of transformation.You don’t need money to start, but you do need a mindset shift.Your purpose is always connected to serving someone else.Consistency comes from intention + clarity + action.Your environment influences your elevation — be selective."Graveyards are filled with brilliant ideas no one ever implemented." — Dr. JaNee’ Mobley If this episode inspired you, tap follow, leave a review, and share it with someone stepping into their next level. Free Gift: 5 Mistakes Women Make That Prevent Them From Profiting From Purpose Ready to join the WLO community to receive exclusive updates? Click the link: https://workitliveitownit.com/ Follow SaCola on Instagram:  https://instagram.com/workitliveitownit   Subscribe to Work it, Live it, Own it! On YouTube: https://bit.ly/2lxB1TS Email for business inquiries: info@workitliveitownit.com

    45 min
  5. Break the Burnout Cycle: Set Boundaries & Reclaim Your Time

    11/05/2025

    Break the Burnout Cycle: Set Boundaries & Reclaim Your Time

    In this final episode of the Suck it Up, Go-it-Alone series, SaCola Lehr addresses the hidden dangers and immense challenges of excessive self-reliance and the habit of 'sucking it up' alone. She revisits three key energy drainers: fear of confrontation, misguided optimism, and persistent availability, and highlights how these combine to create a cycle of burnout and disconnection from what truly matters. The episode is a call to action, providing five practical steps designed to break this cycle and help listeners move from merely surviving to thriving in both their work and personal lives. SaCola offers actionable strategies such as journaling to identify areas of overwhelm, speaking honestly to trusted individuals to break isolation, setting and practicing clear boundaries, and protecting daily energy through intentional self-care. She emphasizes the importance of small consistent actions over time and encourages listeners to be patient and compassionate with themselves throughout this journey. The episode aims to empower women, especially those balancing work, family, and caregiving roles, to reclaim their wellbeing, foster authentic relationships, and live a more energized, supported, and joyful life. Key Problems DiscussedChronic Burnout: The episode tackles the pervasive issue of burnout, especially among self-reliant women who feel the pressure to handle everything on their own.Fear of Confrontation: Listeners will learn how the fear of difficult conversations leads to resentment and emotional exhaustion.Misguided Optimism: The show explores how hoping others will step up without clear communication fuels disappointment and isolation.Constant Availability: The episode highlights the mental drain of being always on and available to others.Key TakeawaysJournal for Clarity: Discover how honest journaling can reveal unsustainable patterns and areas of overcommitment.Speak Your Truth: Learn why sharing your struggles with a trusted person is a powerful step toward breaking the cycle of isolation.Set Small Boundaries: Get practical advice on setting small, manageable boundaries in key areas of your life.Practice Your Scripts: The episode provides guidance on drafting and practicing clear, kind, and firm scripts for setting boundaries.Memorable Quotes"Sucking it up and going alone isn't a badge of honor. It's a recipe for exhaustion, resentment, and burnout." "Thriving means setting loving boundaries that protect your wellbeing. It means speaking up for your needs with confidence and kindness." "You deserve a life where your energy, your presence and your joy is not just afterthoughts, but protected, cherished, and thriving." If today’s conversation hit home, don’t just stop here. I created a free PRONE to Power Worksheet that will help you put these strategies into action. You can grab it now at https://bit.ly/PRONEtoPowerwksht Follow SaCola on Instagram:  https://instagram.com/workitliveitownit   Email for business inquiries: info@workitliveitownit.com

    23 min
  6. 84: The Myth of Constant Availability: Why Being "Always On" is Burning You Out

    10/23/2025

    84: The Myth of Constant Availability: Why Being "Always On" is Burning You Out

    The Myth of Constant Availability: Why Being "Always On" is Burning You OutIn this powerful fourth installment of the "Suck It Up, Go It Alone" series, Work-Life Harmony Strategist SaCola Lehr dives deep into a subtle, yet deeply damaging habit: persistent availability. We live in a world of endless pings, emails, Slack messages, group texts, and notifications that never stop. This episode unpacks the profound cost of feeling like you always have to be "on" for everyone else, and how this belief is silently draining your emotional battery and sabotaging your peace. What You'll Uncover in This Episode:1. The Hidden Roots of Hyper-Responsiveness More Than Modern Tech: While technology amplifies the problem, Sokola reveals that the need for constant availability is often deeply rooted in childhood. For many, being needed became an identity, a survival strategy learned early on to earn love, keep the peace, or prove value.The Identity Trap: The dangerous belief that we internalize: "If I'm not available, I'm not valuable." Your worth is not tied to how quickly you respond or how many fires you put out. 2. The Drain: Burnout Disguised as Dedication The Nervous System Never Rests: Constant responsiveness keeps your nervous system in a perpetual state of "alert mode." This chips away at your peace of mind, leading to chronic irritability, fatigue, and even resentment toward the very people you care about. Addiction to Chaos: Being constantly "on" is often burnout disguised as dedication. We split our energy between too many things trying to prove dependability at work and being the emotional glue at home leading to emotional exhaustion and hypervigilance. The Trauma Response: For some, this "always on" state is a trauma response carried into adulthood, a hyper-awareness learned in homes where love or peace had to be earned. 3. Four Brave Actions to Reclaim Your Energy and Peace The good news? You can unlearn this habit and reclaim your time, energy, and peace without losing your impact. SaCola  provides four practical, brave actions to start implementing today: 1. Set a Tech Boundary Turn off all notifications outside of work hours. Create "no phone zones" during dinner, family time, or personal rest. To give your brain and nervous system a much-needed break from constant pings and demands. 2. Communicate Your Availability Clearly state your response times. Example: "I check emails three times a day," or "My cut-off time is 6:30 p.m. for family time." People will respect your boundaries when they are clearly communicated and consistently enforced. 3. Create Micro-Breaks to Reset Implement 5-minute deep breathing or stretching breaks, or a 30-minute "just sit, just be" ritual after work. These small, intentional pauses calm your nervous system and restore focus, preventing the buildup of stress. 4. Remind Yourself of the Truth Internalize the truth: You are allowed to rest, and you are allowed to be unavailable. The world will keep spinning. Your value is inherent, not conditional on your responsiveness. The Takeaway: Persistent availability is a silent burnout trap. By taking these brave actions, you can stop trading survival mode for strategies that help you truly thrive in your career, life, and everything in between. If today’s conversation hit home, don’t just stop here. I created a free PRONE to Power Worksheet that will help you put these strategies into action. You can grab it now at https://bit.ly/PRONEtoPowerwksht Follow SaCola on Instagram:  https://instagram.com/workitliveitownit   Email for business inquiries: info@workitliveitownit.com

    12 min
  7. 83: Why Trying Harder Isn’t Working (Misguided Optimism)

    10/07/2025

    83: Why Trying Harder Isn’t Working (Misguided Optimism)

    In this episode of Work it, Live it, Own it! we explore the hidden trap of misguided optimism, that well-meaning belief that if you just try harder, others will notice, help, or finally step up. Spoiler alert: that pattern drains your energy and feeds burnout. Host SaCola Lehr breaks down how childhood experiences and trauma often shape our over-functioning habits, why optimism itself isn’t the problem, and how to tell the difference between healthy hope and exhausting over-effort. You’ll learn: The difference between healthy and misguided optimismHow childhood and past trauma influence your drive to “fix” othersWhy trying harder isn’t creating the results you wantHow to focus on what you can control without burning out Mentioned in this episode: PRONE to Power Worksheet — A free guide to help you Prioritize, Rejuvenate, Organize, Navigate Boundaries, and Empower. You can grab it now at https://bit.ly/PRONEtoPowerwksht Connect with SaCola: sacolalehr.com Book a virtual coffee chat: sacolalehr.com/letschat/ Follow the podcast: Work it, Live it, Own it! Follow SaCola on Instagram:  https://instagram.com/workitliveitownit   Email for business inquiries: info@workitliveitownit.com

    13 min
  8. 82: Can the Fear of Confrontation Drain You Emotionally?

    09/24/2025

    82: Can the Fear of Confrontation Drain You Emotionally?

    Have you ever walked away from a conversation wishing you’d spoken up — but instead, you stayed silent to avoid conflict? You’re not alone. For so many sandwich generation women, the fear of confrontation quietly drains energy at work, at home, and in caregiving roles. In this episode of Work it, Live it, Own it!, we’re unpacking how avoiding hard conversations becomes a pressure cooker effect: the more we hold in, the more stress and resentment build. From saying yes to extra projects at work to keeping the peace in family caregiving, silence often comes at the cost of our emotional well-being and relationships. What You’ll Learn in This Episode How fear of confrontation shows up in daily life — at work, at home, and everywhere in between.The hidden connection between silence, burnout prevention, and emotional labor in families.Why “kind but clear” boundaries can protect your energy without damaging relationships.Practical steps to practice speaking up (even if you’re not ready to deliver the words yet). Take Action This Week Write down a boundary you’ve been afraid to set.Draft a “kind but clear” script you could use.Practice saying it out loud — even if you don’t deliver it yet.The truth is, confrontation doesn’t have to mean conflict. It’s about advocating for your needs with compassion and clarity. The more you practice, the less drained you’ll feel. If today’s conversation hit home, don’t just stop here. I created a free PRONE to Power Worksheet that will help you put these strategies into action. You can grab it now at https://bit.ly/PRONEtoPowerwksht Follow SaCola on Instagram:  https://instagram.com/workitliveitownit   Subscribe to Work it, Live it, Own it! On YouTube: https://bit.ly/2lxB1TS Email for business inquiries: info@workitliveitownit.com

    18 min
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Are you tired of the constant pressure to hustle harder, to be a "Boss Babe," to rise and grind until you burn out? Do you feel like you're stuck on a treadmill, chasing a version of success that doesn't feel like your own, while your personal life, passions, and well-being take a back seat? If you're a woman who is ready to say "no more" to burnout and "yes" to a life of authentic achievement and joy, you're in the right place. Welcome to Work it, Live it, Own it!, the podcast for women who are done with sacrificing their sanity for success. This is your home for finding work-life harmony. Join your host and work-life harmony strategist, SaCola Lehr, as we dive into practical, real-world concerns and strategies to help you: Rediscover Your Priorities: Get clear on what you truly want in your career and life, not what you've been told you should want. •Truly Rejuvenate: Learn sustainable practices for restoring your energy that go far beyond bubble baths, so you can move from constantly drained to deeply renewed. •Organize Your World: Move from chaos to clarity by designing a life architecture that honors your priorities and creates space for what matters most. •Navigate Boundaries with Confidence: Master the art of saying "no" without guilt, protecting your time and energy as an act of self-respect. • Step into Your Power: Reclaim your inner authority, trust your own judgment, and take empowered action to create the life you've always wanted. It's time to stop living on autopilot and start living with intention. It's time to work it, live it, and own it. Subscribe now and start your journey from burnout to brilliance, on your own terms.

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  • Creator
    SaCola Lehr
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    99
  • Rating
    Clean
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    © SaCola Lehr
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