We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson

We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson

When someone says to you 'we need to talk', how does that make you feel? The hardest conversations to have are also the most important. Paul C Brunson, the world’s most influential matchmaker and TV star, brings his insightful commentary on how to create and sustain successful relationships through vulnerability, connection and understanding. From weekly conversations with industry experts and familiar faces, Paul promises to support your personal growth, provide practical insights, and deliver actionable advice that will add value to your relationships. Ready to deepen those connections? Then you’re in the right place. Instagram: @paulcbrunson LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulcbrunson

  1. 21 HR AGO

    Katherine Ryan: Breaking Up Felt Like Life or Death

    From her humble beginnings working at Hooters in Canada, to conquering the UK's comedy scene, Katherine Ryan's journey is nothing short of inspiring. In this candid interview, she opens up about her trials as a single mum breaking into the male-dominated stand-up world, her experiences with toxic relationships and overcoming personal setbacks, including her tragic miscarriages. Now, reconnected with Bobby, her high school sweetheart, Katherine's story embodies deep resilience, showing us how one can turn life’s challenges into empowering insights. Please be aware that this episode discusses sensitive topics. If you or someone you know needs support, please see the charities below: The Survivors Trust: https://g2ul0.app.link/sqvZqaAesPb MIND: https://g2ul0.app.link/d72yzu7jJOb Follow Katherine here: Katherine's Instagram - https://g2ul0.app.link/1LSdEcnweQb …And get tickets for Katherine's stand up tour, Battleaxe, which runs until 28th June. For tickets, visit Ticketmaster - https://g2ul0.app.link/xCXoMzpweQb Follow me here: https://www.instagram.com/needtotalk https://www.tiktok.com/@weneedtotalkpod Get your tickets to 'An Evening with Paul C. Brunson' here: https://bit.ly/keeplove-megaphone Pre-order Keep Love here: https://lnk.to/keeplovebook Sections: 02:16 Differences Between Life In The USA, Canada, And The UK 04:33 Katherine's Childhood And Upbringing In Canada 05:40 Growing Up In Different Communities: Katherine's Experience 07:30 What Katherine Thought About The UK As A Child 09:00 How Katherine Discovered Her Passion For Performing 09:50 What Was Katherine's Childhood Really Like? 11:15 How Katherine Built A Strong Family Bond During Childhood 12:57 Does Experiencing Trauma Make Someone A Better Comedian? 15:45 What Katherine Wanted To Become At Age 12 18:29 The Impact Of Katherine's Parents’ Divorce On Her Life 25:53 Katherine's Early Dating Experiences And Relationships 28:13 Generational Challenges: Alcohol And Violence In Katherine's Family 29:33 The Story Of Katherine's Friendship With Jessica 39:49 Behind The Scenes: Katherine's Job At Hooters 47:47 The Truth About The "Keep Love" Ad Campaign 48:39 What Happened Behind The Scenes Of The Tinder Ad 49:34 How Katherine Started Her Comedy Career At 21 51:31 Why The UK Is Considered The Stand-Up Comedy Capital Of The World 53:06 Challenges Of Starting Out As A Female Comedian In Stand-Up 55:38 Did Katherine Move To The UK For Love Or Her Career? 56:44 Starting Her Comedy Career In The UK: Katherine’s Journey 58:45 Becoming A Young Mother By Choice: Katherine's Story 1:05:10 Katherine's First TV Break With The Show Campus 1:05:51 Balancing Motherhood And A Growing Comedy Career 1:08:09 Paul’s Reaction To Katherine's 2012 Appearance On 8 Out Of 10 Cats 1:09:00 How Katherine Prepares For High-Pressure Panel Shows 1:13:45 Why Stupidity Dominates Modern Politics 1:15:59 Why Are Less Than 20% Of UK Comedians Female? 1:18:21 How Diversity Is Shaping Today’s Stand-Up Comedy Scene 1:24:22 Katherine's Relationships During Her Comedy Career Rise 1:25:40 The Shocking Story Of Child Protection Services Investigating Katherine 1:28:36 Surviving Coercive Control: Katherine’s Personal Experience 1:37:00 Katherine's Life During Her Single Years 1:38:33 Reconnecting With Her Childhood Romance: Bobby’s Story 1:43:56 How Katherine Persuaded Bobby To Move To The UK 1:45:19 Katherine And Paul's Heartbreaking Experience With Miscarriages 1:51:15 Will Katherine And Bobby Have More Kids? 1:53:07 Why Katherine And Bobby Schedule Intimacy In Their Relationship 1:55:19 How Often Do People Really Have Sex? 1:57:08 The Most Memorable Conversation Of Katherine's Life 1:59:01 Key Takeaways From Paul’s Perspective 2:01:18 The Inside Scoop On The Adobe Express Ad Campaign Sponsored by: Tinder: https://tinder.com/en-GB/ Adobe: https://www.adobe.com/uk/express/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    2h 3m
  2. 1 DAY AGO

    Pete Wicks Exclusive: "I Don't Think That I'm Enough"

    CONTENT WARNING: This episode includes a conversation around suicide. “I had Death threats after cheating” Join us for an intimate journey with Pete Wicks as he reveals the truths behind his life in the spotlight. From deeply personal setbacks to pivotal lessons learned along the way, Pete opens up about his experiences from early life to his days on reality TV, and how he navigates his current world. This episode goes beyond entertainment; it’s a heartfelt exploration of authenticity, friendship, and the courage it takes to truly be oneself. CONTENT WARNING: This episode discusses sensitive topics, including suicide. If you or someone you know needs support, please see the charities below: Pete's Instagram - https://g2ul0.app.link/zjM1cB5I7Pb Samaritans - https://g2ul0.app.link/AqoPIXcJ7Pb CALM https://g2ul0.app.link/Xx7coefJ7Pb Follow Pete Here: Watch Pete Wicks: For Dog's Sake on U https://g2ul0.app.link/F6dHawVY7Pb Dog's Trust https://g2ul0.app.link/ZYBsXCYY7Pb Book Never Enough https://g2ul0.app.link/KZHnwQ0Y7Pb Follow me here: https://www.instagram.com/needtotalk/ https://www.tiktok.com/@weneedtotalkpod/ Get your tickets to 'An Evening with Paul C. Brunson' here: https://bit.ly/keeplove-megaphone/ Pre-order Keep Love here: https://lnk.to/keeplovebook/ Sections: (00:00) Insights on Pete (01:40) Pete Is WNTT's Most Wanted Guest (06:20) Exploring Pete's Love for Dogs (15:48) Debunking Myths About Pete's Height (17:06) Introducing Harlow (18:30) The Roots of Pete: His Early Life (21:49) Tribute to Pete's Grandmother (26:00) The Impact of Pete's Parents' Divorce (28:25) How Pete's Parents' Divorce Shaped His Self-Esteem (33:33) Mental Health Challenges: Insights from Pete's Mother (36:33) Pete and His 12-Year-Old Self: A Relationship Study (40:11) How Pete's Childhood Influences His Adult Relationships (43:16) Pete Before Fame: His Employment Journey (47:57) Adobe Ad (48:54) Tinder Ad (49:46) The Start of Pete's Journey in Reality TV (52:59) TOWIE's Rise in Popularity with Pete (55:11) Comparing Reality TV Then and Now: Pete's Experience 57:52 Public Reaction to Pete's Cheating Scandal with Megan McKenna (01:01:29) TOWIE's Impact on Pete's Personal Relationships (01:01:57) Unveiling the Two Sides of Pete (01:04:25) Pete Today: Does He Feel Sufficient? (01:06:33) Paul's Positive Affirmations for Pete (01:08:31) Paul's Praise for Pete: A Motivational Boost (01:11:48) Is Pete Truly Happy? Unpacking His Emotional State (01:16:52) Exploring Pete's Relationship with Maura Higgins (01:19:28) Pete and Sam Thompson: Analyzing Their Bond (01:21:12) Today's Crisis of Authenticity (01:25:58) Loneliness Epidemic and Male Mental Health: A Deep Dive (01:29:42) What Lies Ahead for Pete? Future Prospects (01:32:24) Pete's Journey to Self-Help Realization (01:36:38) Pete Discusses Vulnerability and Openness (01:38:15) Most Memorable Conversations with Pete (01:41:41) Paul's Closing Thoughts For Pete (01:46:16) Paul's Key Takeaways (01:48:54) Keep Love Ad Sponsored by: Adobe: https://www.adobe.com/uk/express/ Tinder: https://tinder.com/en-GB/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 50m
  3. 7 JAN

    Dr Tara Swart - What Science Says About Non Monogamy

    What is the truth behind delaying sex in the early days of your relationship? Dive deep into the neuroscience of love, trust, and connection with Dr. Tara Swart, a renowned neuroscientist and psychiatrist. Explore the role of oxytocin and learn how neuro-plasticity is reshaping our brains and revolutionising our relationships. Dr. Swart provides practical tips on reigniting passion and maintaining closeness in relationships. Discover a neuroscientist’s secrets to sustaining a deep emotional connection with others and ensure your relationships thrive. Follow Dr Tara here: https://g2ul0.app.link/xkHuM1JgWPb Follow me here: https://www.instagram.com/needtotalk https://www.tiktok.com/@weneedtotalkpod Sections: 00:00 Intro 01:57 How Brain Function Influences Relationships 04:44 Dr. Tara's Definition of Love Explained 09:00 Oxytocin: The Key Chemical in Relationships 12:24 The Crucial Role of Dopamine in Emotional Health 13:17 Understanding the Importance of Vasopressin in Human Bonds 14:14 Ideal Timing for Intimacy in New Relationships 24:30 The Impact of Brain Chemistry on Fatherhood 28:19 Effects of Pornography on the Brain 28:55 Brain Changes from Attending Sex Parties 33:33 The Science Behind Attraction and Scent 35:46 Factors That Shape Our Perception of Attractiveness 40:03 Tinder Advertising Insights 40:51 Insights from the 'Baby Girl' Ad Campaign 41:51 Exploring 'The Source': How to Access Your Inner Power 43:22 Manifesting Desires: Practical Steps to Bring Dreams to Reality 52:33 The Tetris Effect: How Activities Shape Our Brains 58:16 How to Align Actions With Your Manifestation Goals 1:04:01 Social Contagion: Understanding Its Influence 1:07:25 Modern Strategies to Manage Cortisol 1:13:53 The Impact of Cortisol on Brain Function 1:20:58 Two Surprising Facts You Didn't Know 1:23:39 Most Memorable Conversations: A Look Back 1:24:42 Key Takeaways from Paul's Discussion 1:28:34 Adobe Advertising Review Sponsored by: Tinder: https://tinder.com/en-GB/ Baby Girl: https://www.bgfilm.co.uk/ Adobe: https://www.adobe.com/uk/express/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 30m
  4. 1 JAN

    How To Not Be Alone In 2025 Real Advice For Real Singles - Is Sober Dating The Next Big Thing?

    First Date Mistakes To Avoid in 2025! Join Paul as he explores the real-life dating from three remarkable guests: Jo, who at 44, has never been in a relationship; Heather who, as a single parent, is navigating the dating world after the tragic loss of her partner; and Emmalee, who recently lost her leg and is finding dating to be challenging. Also - stay tuned to meet Paul’s special guest - someone who many Married at First Sight fans will know all too well! Whether you're starting afresh, or looking for love under unique circumstances, this episode offers practical tools and invaluable insights to help you on your journey. Follow me here: https://www.instagram.com/needtotalk https://www.tiktok.com/@weneedtotalkpod Sections: 00:00 Introduction 02:13 Meet Jo 02:44 Self-Love Challenges 03:48 Finding Love: Challenges and Solutions 04:00 Living in the Moment: Techniques and Benefits 04:19 Family Dynamics: Understanding Relationship Impacts 07:12 Exploring Attachment Styles with Jo 11:11 Jo's Love Life 12:21 Has Jo Truly Been in Love? 14:48 Modern Dating Tips with Jo 18:44 Reconnecting with Fathers 21:00 The Power of Letter Writing in Healing 24:51 Changing Negative Beliefs 30:13 Baby Girl Ad 31:14 Adobe Ad 32:11 Introducing Heather: New Beginnings 32:50 Why Heather Chose Therapy with Paul 33:23 Inside Heather's Love Life: Current Status 35:25 Relationship Analysis: Heather and Dave 38:46 Is Heather Ready for Dating? Expert Assessment 40:53 Are You Ready to Date? Paul's Test Explained 44:45 Tips for Dating Again: Openness and Preparedness 51:50 Creating a Vision Board: Steps and Benefits 56:47 Dealing with Guilt: Effective Strategies 57:39 Paul's Parting Advice: Lasting Thoughts 59:27 Intro to Emmalee: A Soldier's Story 01:00:03 Relationship Lessons from Military Life with Emmalee 01:01:07 Healthy Relationships in the Military: Emmalee's Experience 01:01:36 Coping with Injury and Military Exit: Emmalee's Story 01:03:39 Dealing with Trauma: Emmalee's Leg Amputation Story 01:04:24 Dating as an Amputee: Challenges and Insights 01:05:58 Emmalee's Dating Life 01:06:42 Emmalee Discusses Love 01:07:30 Introducing Jay from Married at First Sight 01:08:00 Why Emmalee Follows Jay 01:08:36 Jay's Experience on MAFS as an Amputee 01:09:52 Building Dating Confidence 01:10:36 Addressing Fetishization in Disabled Dating 01:14:08 Vulnerability in Dating: Amputee Experiences 01:17:23 Tackling Anxiety in Social Situations: Emmalee's Techniques 01:18:15 Confidence Building for Dating: Paul's Guidance 01:23:00 Creating a Supportive Friend Network 01:26:30 The Importance of Setting Boundaries in Relationships 01:26:56 Emmalee's Revealing Conversations 01:28:18 Memorable Conversations 01:28:21 Paul's Key Takeaways 01:31:40 Tinder Ad Sponsored by: Baby Girl: https://www.bgfilm.co.uk/ Adobe: https://www.adobe.com/uk/express/ Tinder: https://tinder.com/en-GB/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 32m
  5. Tulisa Exclusive: Why I Left The Jungle! - PART 2

    23/12/2024

    Tulisa Exclusive: Why I Left The Jungle! - PART 2

    “I Sleep with a Knife!” This second episode in a two-part series reveals Tulisa's honest reflections on her time in the spotlight during her stint on 'I’m A Celebrity’. We also dive into the shocking details of the drug sting that threatened to derail Tulisa’s career and life, and speak of the profound impact it had on her mental health. Hear directly from Tulisa as she recounts the intense anxiety and prescription drug dependence that followed, before leading to her courageous steps toward recovery. Please be aware that this episode discusses sensitive topics, including addiction. If you or someone you know needs support, please see the charities below: MIND: https://g2ul0.app.link/d72yzu7jJOb The Survivors Trust: https://g2ul0.app.link/sqvZqaAesPb Follow Tulisa Here: Instagram: https://g2ul0.app.link/Cv7G7DkesPb Follow me here: https://www.instagram.com/needtotalk https://www.tiktok.com/@weneedtotalkpod Sections: 00:00 Intro 02:30 'The Sting' Explained: A Detailed Analysis 19:49 Resolving The Case: What Happened? 22:47 Psychological Effects of 'The Sting' on Tulisa: An In-Depth Look 25:51 Tulisa's Life Post-Trial: A Comprehensive Overview 31:41 BBC Documentary Review: Tulisa’s Path to Redemption 32:55 Legal Battle: The Controversy Behind 'Scream & Shout' 36:44 Scandal Breakdown: The "Homewrecker" Story 38:46 Tulisa’s Resilience in Showbiz: Secrets to Overcoming Adversity 40:46 Huel Ad 41:45 Tinder Ad 42:36 The Success of N-Dubz: A Deep Dive 46:10 Tulisa's Battle with Medication: A Personal Journey 48:35 Tulisa on 'I'm A Celeb': Behind The Scenes Insights 01:01:04 The Mystery of Tulisa’s Absence at the 'I'm A Celeb' Final 01:05:25 Exploring Tulisa’s Demi-Sexuality: What Does It Mean? 01:07:08 Tulisa and Celibacy: A Period of Self-Discovery 01:11:00 Does Tulisa Still Believe in Love? Insights Revealed 01:13:38 What Is Tulisa Looking for in a Partner? Dating Preferences Unveiled 01:15:53 Exploring Tulisa's 'Fantasy Land': Dreams and Aspirations 01:19:29 Paul’s Takeaways Sponsored by: Tinder: https://tinder.com/en-GB  Huel: https://huel.com/paul use code PAUL Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 23m
  6. Tulisa Exclusive: I Say When It's OVER! I'm Tired Of The Lies. I Am Ready To Share My Story - PART 1

    20/12/2024

    Tulisa Exclusive: I Say When It's OVER! I'm Tired Of The Lies. I Am Ready To Share My Story - PART 1

    This first episode in a two-part series explores Tulisa's inspiring journey, through a turbulent childhood with family mental health challenges, to achieving widespread fame through her career with N-Dubz and X-Factor. This powerful conversation explores Tulisa's personal encounters with trauma and sexual assault, while highlighting her incredible resilience and self-belief, offering a path of empowerment and hope for those in similar situations. Please be aware that this episode discusses sensitive topics, including sexual assault and self-harm. If you or someone you know needs support, please see the charities below: The Survivors Trust: https://g2ul0.app.link/sqvZqaAesPb MIND: https://g2ul0.app.link/d72yzu7jJOb Follow Tulisa Here: Tulisa's Instagram: https://g2ul0.app.link/Cv7G7DkesPb Follow me here: https://www.instagram.com/needtotalk https://www.tiktok.com/@weneedtotalkpod Sections: 00:00 Introduction to the Series 02:22 Growing Up in Camden: A Personal Journey 05:20 Family Life in Camden: Tulisa’s Childhood Explored 07:14 The Complex Relationship Between Tulisa and Her Mother 10:34 Tulisa's Role as a Caregiver: Personal Stories 13:16 Mental Health Struggles in the Family: Tulisa's Insights 14:50 Advice to My Younger Self: Tulisa Reflects 16:47 Tulisa’s Father and Mungo Jerry: A Musical Legacy 21:35 Understanding Attachment Styles with Tulisa 25:27 First Love: Tulisa’s Early Romantic Experiences 26:58 Tulisa’s Initial Sexual Encounters: A Candid Discussion 29:09 Exploring Spirituality with Tulisa 32:22 Addressing Sexual Assault: Tulisa's Harrowing Experience 36:15 True Love in Relationships: Has Tulisa Experienced It? 39:16 Wishing for a Different First Time: Tulisa's Regrets 41:31 Adobe Express Advertisement 42:29 Tinder Advertisement 43:26 Paul’s Love for N-Dubz: A Fan’s Perspective 47:39 The Impact of Dappy on Tulisa’s Life 51:03 Coping with Uncle B’s Death: Tulisa’s Experience 55:07 Celebrating Platinum Records: Tulisa’s Achievements 57:47 Tulisa Discusses Her History with Self-Harm 01:01:54 Class and Music: How It Shaped N-Dubz's Reception 01:08:30 Starting on X-Factor: Tulisa's Initial Impressions 01:12:36 Reality TV Exposed: The Fakeness Behind the Scenes 01:14:12 Support Among X-Factor Judges: Tulisa’s Experience 01:16:42 The Controversial 'Tape' Incident: Tulisa's Story 01:27:57 Wrapping Up: Final Thoughts 01:28:26 Teaser for Episode 2: What's Next? Sponsored by: Adobe: https://www.adobe.com/uk/express/ Tinder: https://tinder.com/en-GB/ Huel: https://huel.com/paul/ use code PAUL Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 30m
  7. Dan TDM Exclusive: How Depression Took Over My Life

    17/12/2024

    Dan TDM Exclusive: How Depression Took Over My Life

    “I Thought Therapy Couldn’t Help” - Join us in this powerful episode featuring Daniel Middleton, better known as DanTDM, the UK’s most-followed YouTuber with over 29 million subscribers. Dan shares the untold story behind his rise to fame — from navigating childhood challenges such as social anxiety and the divorce of his parents, to his struggle with severe postnatal depression during early fatherhood. Learn how Dan overcame his mental health struggles through therapy and his advice on how to protect ones mental health through difficult times. If you’re affected by anything discussed in this episode, please contact the below organisations and charities who can provide support: Samaritans - https://g2ul0.app.link/1CRhatR7mPb CALM - https://g2ul0.app.link/YvmzhM17mPb MIND - https://g2ul0.app.link/d72yzu7jJOb Follow Dan here: YouTube - https://g2ul0.app.link/tjSbVHz7mPb Instagram - https://g2ul0.app.link/MEkgFAI7mPb X - https://g2ul0.app.link/341f8KC7mPb Follow me here: https://www.instagram.com/needtotalk https://www.tiktok.com/@weneedtotalkpod Sections: 00:00 Introduction To The Episode 02:16 Being Compared To Michael Jackson 02:46 The Origin Of The Name “Dan TDM" Explained 03:34 Balancing Two Personalities 04:33 A Look Back At Dan's Childhood 05:27 How Divorce Shaped Dan's Childhood 07:46 Surviving Secondary School 12:53 How Dan Started His YouTube Career 16:43 What Is Minecraft? A Beginner’s Guide 18:32 How Minecraft Transformed Dan's Life 21:18 When Dan Realized YouTube Could Be A Career 22:49 Transitioning To Full-Time YouTube 27:07 Why Dan Is One Of YouTube's Most Successful Creators 34:48 Breaking Down The 2017 Forbes Article On Dan 37:56 How Dan Coped With Sudden Fame 42:33 Managing Fame As An Introvert 44:06 Why Dan Is A Positive Role Model For Fans 44:59 Dan’s Impact On His Young Audience 47:39 Behind The Scenes Of Dan's Live Show 51:17 Inside Dan's Relationship With His Wife 54:20 Why Dan Got Married At 21 55:26 How Dan's Wife Influenced His Success 58:43 How Becoming A Father Changed Dan's Life 01:01:26 Huel Sponsorship 01:02:28 Tinder Ad Spot 01:03:24 Dan Advocates For Men’s Mental Health 01:06:16 Struggling With Mental Health During Lockdown 01:09:18 Hitting Rock Bottom 01:10:55 Dan's Honest Experience With Anti-Depressants 01:12:05 Dan Opens Up About Suicidal Thoughts 01:15:21 How Dan Shared His Feelings With His Wife 01:17:45 Exploring Why Dan Felt The Way He Did 01:20:01 What Early Fatherhood Taught Dan 01:24:10 How Therapy Helped Dan Overcome His Struggles 01:27:11 Creating YouTube Content While Battling Depression 01:31:06 How Being A Man Shapes Dan’s Views On Mental Health 01:34:18 Dan’s Advice For Those Struggling With Mental Health 01:36:38 What’s Next For Dan? Future Plans Revealed 01:41:38 Is Being A YouTuber A Sustainable Career? 01:44:07 Dan’s Top Tips For Growing A Successful YouTube Channel 01:46:43 How Many Subscribers Does Dan Have Today? 01:47:02 Dan’s Most Memorable Conversation Ever 01:49:48 Key Takeaways From This Episode 01:52:33 Adobe Sponsorship Sponsored by: Adobe: https://www.adobe.com/uk/express/  Tinder: https://tinder.com/en-GB/ Huel: https://huel.com/paul/ use code PAUL Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 54m
  8. 10/12/2024

    Chidera Eggerue - Why Women Are Saying No To Traditional Roles!

    “If he upsets me - I get gifts!” In this episode, best-selling author and activist Chidera Eggerue (aka The Slumflower) joins us to discuss her transformative ideas on love, relationships, and self-worth. Known for creating the viral #SaggyBoobsMatter movement, Chidera challenges traditional heteronormative expectations and encourages women to recognise their inherent value, demand more from their partners, and create more equal, empowering relationships.  With her provocative insights on love, money, and equality, she provides listeners with practical tools to break free from societal norms, set higher standards in their personal lives, and reclaim their power. Follow Chidera Here: https://g2ul0.app.link/T3GIV2Y0bPb Follow me here: https://www.instagram.com/needtotalk https://www.tiktok.com/@weneedtotalkpod 00:00 Intro 00:02:13 History Of Chidera's Moniker 'Slumflower' 00:04:30 Growing Up In Peckham/'Little Lagos' 00:08:00 Chidera Cutting Her Mum Off And Ensuing Therapy 00:10:57 Chidera's Relationship With Her Father 00:13:11 Chidera's Early Romantic Relationships 00:14:31 Was Chidera Loved By Anyone In Her Childhood/Adolescence? 00:16:04 Chidera Has Never Had A Man At Her Flat 00:17:31 How Chidera's Ideology Developed Over Time 00:24:45 The Traditional Idea Of Love Is Damaging To Women 00:27:31 What Does Love Mean To Chidera? 00:29:25 Love, Feminism And Finance 00:31:04 Chidera's Thoughts On The Male Loneliness Epidemic 00:32:15 Is Chidera An Advocate For Marriage? 00:33:41 Why Does Society Struggle With Finance When It Comes To Romance? 00:41:49 Men And Self-Esteem/Ego 00:45:19 'Marriage Is The Lowest Paid Form Of Sex Work' 00:55:10 Huel Ad 00:56:12 Tinder Ad 00:57:06 Chidera's Definition Of Hypergamy 00:59:40 4B Movement 01:07:01 Chidera Being 'Grey A-Sexual' 01:11:29 Chidera On BDSM And Being A Dominatrix 01:16:14 How Do These Relationships Start? 01:22:17 Chidera's 'Goddess Gina' Alter Ego 01:27:46 A Letter From 'Slave Tux' 01:37:51 Critiques Of Chidera 01:41:24 Most Memorable Conversation 01:46:57 Paul's Takeaways 01:49:10 Fiver Ad Sponsored by: Huel: https://huel.com/paul/ use code PAUL Tinder: https://tinder.com/en-GB/ Fiverr: https://fvrr.co/paul/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 51m

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When someone says to you 'we need to talk', how does that make you feel? The hardest conversations to have are also the most important. Paul C Brunson, the world’s most influential matchmaker and TV star, brings his insightful commentary on how to create and sustain successful relationships through vulnerability, connection and understanding. From weekly conversations with industry experts and familiar faces, Paul promises to support your personal growth, provide practical insights, and deliver actionable advice that will add value to your relationships. Ready to deepen those connections? Then you’re in the right place. Instagram: @paulcbrunson LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulcbrunson

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