How to Discover What You TRULY Want—and Ask for It! Featuring the Author of Dave’s Top Book for Women

The Human Upgrade with Dave Asprey

What if you could command any room and set boundaries without saying a word? 

Dave Asprey sits down with Kasia Urbaniak, founder and CEO of The Academy—a trailblazing school where women learn the true principles of influence and authority. Kasia brings a unique and dynamic perspective, drawing on nearly two decades of experience that includes working as a professional Dominatrix, practicing Taoist alchemy in one of China’s oldest female-led monasteries, and earning certifications across disciplines like Medical Qi Gong and Systemic Constellations. 

Here’s what you’ll learn in this episode: 

• How to set clear, unbreakable boundaries in any situation 

• Techniques for wielding influence without sacrificing integrity 

• Tools to reclaim inner authority and navigate life with confidence 

• Practical strategies for handling power dynamics in relationships, work, and beyond 

Kasia’s methods have empowered over 4,000 women worldwide to step into leadership roles in every sphere, from personal relationships to professional arenas. In this episode, she shares practical insights on transforming how you’re perceived by others and, more importantly, how you perceive yourself. Whether you’re navigating complex workplace dynamics, strengthening personal boundaries, or seeking clarity in relationships, Kasia’s teachings offer a path to reclaiming the powerful, authentic authority within you. 

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Resources: 

2025 Biohacking Conference – https://biohackingconference.com/2025 

Kasia Urbaniak’s Website – https://www.kasiaurbaniak.com 

Kasia Urbaniak’s Book: Unbound: A Woman’s Guide to Power – https://www.kasiaurbaniak.com/unbound 

The Academy – Practical Training for Women on Power and Influence – https://www.kasiaurbaniak.com/the-academy 

Kasia Urbaniak on Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/kasiaurbaniak/ 

Dave Asprey’s Website – https://daveasprey.com 

Dave Asprey’s Book: Smarter Not Harder – https://daveasprey.com/books 

Danger Coffee – https://dangercoffee.com 

Danger Coffee Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/dangercoffeeofficial/ 

Dave Asprey’s Linktree – https://linktr.ee/daveasprey 

Upgrade Collective: Join The Human Upgrade Podcast Live – https://www.ourupgradecollective.com 

Own an Upgrade Labs – https://ownanupgradelabs.com 

Upgrade Labs – https://upgradelabs.com 

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