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According to Dr. Robert Glover, an authority on the subject of the Nice Guy Syndrome, a "Nice Guy" is a man who harbors a belief that he isn't acceptable in his natural state. He's firmly convinced that he must mold himself into what he perceives as others' expectations in order to gain affection, love, and have his needs fulfilled.



In this episode, we're giving Illdris Hellbruh the spotlight as he delves into the pivotal concepts from Dr. Glover's renowned book, "No More Mr. Nice Guy," drawing parallels to his own life and sharing his personal insights.

In the second episode of "My Confessions," we delve deep into the fascinating realms of female intuition and the intricacies of female jealousy.

First, we explore the concept of female intuition, a mysterious and often misunderstood phenomenon that seems to give women an uncanny ability to read between the lines and perceive things that may elude others. Next, we navigate the complex landscape of female jealousy. From friendships to romantic relationships, jealousy can rear its head in various forms, sometimes affecting our behavior and decision-making.

It's a conversation that will leave you with a better understanding of yourself and the women around you. Don't miss "My Confessions: Female Intuition & Female Jealousy."

Why are boundaries important? "Set Boundaries, Find Peace: A Guide to Reclaiming Yourself" is a book by Nedra Glover Tawwab, a licensed therapist and sought-after relationship expert.

In her book, Tawwab provides a comprehensive guide to setting and enforcing boundaries to create a peaceful life.

In today's episode Luna Ma enters the Tangent Talk studio solo to share some of her confessions around boundaries. She also discusses key themes from the book "Set Boundaries, Find Peace" and the author's "Boundaries Quiz."


Show Notes:


Boundaries Quiz⁠
Article: Things To Remember About Boundaries (by Nedra Glover Tawwab)
Book: Set Boundaries, Find Peace: A Guide to Reclaiming Yourself (by Nedra Glover Tawwab)
Hip-Hop Influences Everything
Rapper Magoo, Timbaland's Ex-Collaborator, Dead at 50: Report

Carlee Russell (dubbed "Carlee Smollett") is an Alabama woman who disappeared for 2 days in the summer of 2023. Russell's case is an example of the maxim: “The boy who cried wolf.”

The moral of “the boy who cried wolf” story is that when you signal false alarms, no one will come to your aid when you are in real danger. Further, liars (and those impacted) will suffer the consequences of their dishonesty.

In this episode, the Tangent Talk crew explores why hoaxes—like the one Carlee Russell committed July 2023 and the one committed by American actor Jussie Smollett in January 2023—are particularly
problematic.



Resources:


⁠A timeline of the Carlee Russell case: What happened to
the Alabama woman who purportedly disappeared for 2 days?⁠ (CBS News)


Far Too Many Black Girls Disappear Without a Trace. Relisha Rudd Has Never Been Found (Treva Lindsey for TIME)


American Black Film Festival (ABFF) 2023 Inaugural Podcast Winners (ABFF’s Facebook Page)

We're back, folks, and we are coming in hot like the summer!

In this sizzling episode, we discuss the now infamous Keke Palmer & Usher storyline. What started out as the R&B legend’s successful Vegas residency has become the centerpiece of conversations about love, respect, loyalty, & insecurity. "You Don’t Have to Call"...but, we do encourage you to listen to our first episode of Season 10. Join us as we weigh in!

In an article published today (August 7, 2023), ⁠⁠Usher reacts to Darius
Jackson criticizing outfit Keke Palmer wore to his Vegas show⁠.

In this episode, we discuss the controversy surrounding the suspension of Boston Celtics' head coach Ime Udoka for having an "inappropriate relationship" with a fellow team employee. Udoka has also been engaged to actress Nia Long for 10 years, with whom he has one child. The employee with whom he had the alleged affair is a married woman.

Many netizens believe Miss Long thinks she is immune to being cheated on because of her good looks, but why would people think that? What has the actress said or done to suggest that this is how she feels about this situation? Who's to blame for the affair? Join us as we weigh in.