Time to Lean Laura Danger and Crystal Britt
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Laura Danger and Crystal Britt tackle your household messes! Time to Lean is full of unsolicited advice to tiktokers and reality tv couples, write-in questions and interviews! Send in an anonymous question and we'll chat about it!
Laura, @thatdarnchat, is an educator and advocate. Crystal Britt, @itscrystalbritt, is a coach and licensed therapist in California.
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are "boy rooms" really all that messy?
In this episode, Laura and Crystal talk about "Boy Room", a show by Rachel Coster. It's an Instagram series that explores the messy and often disturbing world of boy bedrooms in New York City. Comedian Rachel Coster interviews men in their 20s and 30s about their messy living spaces. The rooms are filled with clutter, trash, and filth. The videos have gained a large following and have sparked discussions about messy habits, gender stereotypes, and the dynamics of relationships.
Answer our prompt. Do you think these videos are FUNNY or SAD?
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Domestic Violence Resources
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the best part about being a dad is not being a mom.
In this episode, we hear a clip from a podcast where a man VERY PROUDLY explains that he only changes diapers if he's in a good mood, doesn't wake up with the babies during the night and acts like a child. We talk about the importance of reciprocity and the value of care.
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Mentioned:
Disability Intimacy, edited by Alice Wong
We Do This Til We Free Us by Miriame Kaba
Constellations of Care by Cindy Barukh Milstein
Braiding Sweetgrass by Robin Wall Kimmerer
Data on parenting!More Data on Parenting!
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Domestic Violence Resources
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why is knowing everything MY job?
In this episode, Laura and Crystal discuss the mental load of parenting and the learning that is often assumed by partners socialized as female. We also talk community building through gardening, and, of course, neurodivergence!
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Domestic Violence Resources
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am i the a-hole for choosing the bride over my friend?
In this week's episode, we look at an AITA where someone's caught in a sticky friendship/family situation chock full of emotional labor. We talk about friendship, family, communication and empathy and all of the nuance that exists in our relationships.
Read the AITA here!
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Domestic Violence Resources
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what if i sacrificed my identity to serve my family?
Laura and Crystal discuss submissions from our audience concerning loss of identity through self-sacrificing. Can we serve others, enjoy it, without sacrificing or losing who we are?
Mentioned in this episode:
Financial Abuse ResourcesFresh Starts Registry
Mikki Kendall
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Domestic Violence Resources
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is it a case for older men or is it a case for girl bossing?
Crystal and Laura discuss a viral article from The Cut titled 'The Case for Marrying an Older Man'. The article argues that marrying an older man provides women with ease, flexibility, and liberation from the burdens of womanhood. Is that what's it doing?
Mentioned in this episode:
Rose Hackman's article, I was 14. He was 22. If it wasn't grooming, what is?
bell hooks ain't I a woman
How to rent without credit! https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTLBowGyy/
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Domestic Violence Resources
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