13 episodes

Dates don’t usually end with a satisfaction survey. And yet — we rate everything in our lives, from Uber drivers to local coffee shops. We complete "exit interviews" when we leave our jobs, so why don't we do the same with dating? Dating experts Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick (Dateable) invite guests to participate in the ultimate social experiment: conducting exit interviews with their exes and past dates. For the hopeless romantic going out on hundreds of dates without any sticking, will she find out what she’s consistently doing wrong? For the reformed f-boy who’s ready for a real relationship but can’t move past a situationship, will he learn how to express affection? For the high-powered executive who worries they intimidate all their romantic prospects, will they learn what really makes them shine? Tune into every episode of Exit Interview to hear the good, the bad, the cringe, and the shock of real feedback from real dates, and the lessons we can learn from them.

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    • Society & Culture
    • 5.0 • 4 Ratings

Dates don’t usually end with a satisfaction survey. And yet — we rate everything in our lives, from Uber drivers to local coffee shops. We complete "exit interviews" when we leave our jobs, so why don't we do the same with dating? Dating experts Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick (Dateable) invite guests to participate in the ultimate social experiment: conducting exit interviews with their exes and past dates. For the hopeless romantic going out on hundreds of dates without any sticking, will she find out what she’s consistently doing wrong? For the reformed f-boy who’s ready for a real relationship but can’t move past a situationship, will he learn how to express affection? For the high-powered executive who worries they intimidate all their romantic prospects, will they learn what really makes them shine? Tune into every episode of Exit Interview to hear the good, the bad, the cringe, and the shock of real feedback from real dates, and the lessons we can learn from them.

    Are You Ready for Love? Season Finale

    Are You Ready for Love? Season Finale

     Over the course of this season of Exit Interview, we’ve learned that most people have absolutely no clue what they’re doing wrong in dating - but with some simple fixes, love may be right around the corner. In this season finale, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable check back in with several of our featured daters to see if they’ve heeded any of their advice. Did Kirstin find someone who wasn’t intimidated by her? Did Caroline get her second chance at love? Has Justin gone out on a date? Tune in today for some key takeaways, and some big surprises from our daters.


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    Episode transcript here —> https://shorturl.at/cszA1


    Show Credits

    Executive Producers:  Yue Xu, Julie Krafchick and Folic Media

    Producer:  Abigail Steckler and Little Scorpion Studios

    Editor: Jen Jacobs

    Creative Producer: Samantha Martin

    Coordinator: Katia Kupelian

    Casting: Salt & Lime Media


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    • 55 min
    Is Your Lifestyle a Dealbreaker? w/ Caroline

    Is Your Lifestyle a Dealbreaker? w/ Caroline

    We all have that thing that we are positive is blocking our romantic paths.. For Caroline - she’s convinced that it’s being a single mom. Is that really what’s holding her back from her second chance at love - or is it something totally different? In this next installment of Exit Interview, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable makeover Caroline’s life by doing the scariest thing ever: call up her old flames for feedback. Why did one ex decide Caroline wasn’t worth driving to see? How did one relationship become “accidentally” exclusive? What was the real reason her ex moved away? The results are surprising to Julie and Yue, but especially to Caroline – because the real reason she’s not finding love is nothing she’s ever considered. 

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    Episode transcript here —> https://shorturl.at/hyOS5

     


    Show Credits

    Executive Producers:  Yue Xu, Julie Krafchick and Folic Media

    Producer:  Abigail Steckler and Little Scorpion Studios

    Editor: Jen Jacobs

    Creative Producer: Samantha Martin

    Coordinator: Katia Kupelian

    Casting: Salt & Lime Media


    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    • 49 min
    Do You Want Connection or Just Attention? w/ Kyle

    Do You Want Connection or Just Attention? w/ Kyle

    Kyle is a sex empowerment coach on the search for a primary partner who can fit in with his polyamorous lifestyle. You may have caught him on Amazon Prime’s The One that Got Away. Why can’t he be as open with his heart as his sexuality? Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable put Kyle in the hot seat this week for the ultimate romance review: calling up his old flames to find out what he’s doing wrong. And some of these women have shocking stories to share. Why did Sam leave their road trip only two days in? Why did Nicki swear off dating apps for good after their experience? And what exactly happened with Zian at their shamanic retreat? You won’t want to miss a minute of this conversation.  


    Follow us:

    Instragram @ExitInterviewshow 

    Twitter: @ExInterviewShow


    Episode transcript here —> https://shorturl.at/afjJV


    Show Credits

    Executive Producers:  Yue Xu, Julie Krafchick and Folic Media

    Producer:  Abigail Steckler and Little Scorpion Studios

    Editor: Jen Jacobs

    Creative Producer: Samantha Martin

    Casting: Salt & Lime Media


    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    • 50 min
    Are You a Dating Chameleon? w/ Deborah

    Are You a Dating Chameleon? w/ Deborah

    Deborah is a romantic, through and through. But…maybe, she’s so hungry for love that she molds herself to adapt to whomever she’s dating.  You may remember Deborah from Christofer’s episode, and now she’s back for her very own Exit Interview. Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable are ready to help Deborah understand what’s getting in the way of love. Tune in to hear their conversations with several of Deborah’s past flames - all of whom help shed light on Deborah’s struggles with her own sexuality and identity.  Why did Deborah sell her shoes to a stranger? What happened when she moved in with her new boyfriend during COVID? Why does Deborah do so much to conform to the women she’s dating? It’s all here in this week’s Exit Interview. TW: Sexual assault. 


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    Twitter: @ExInterviewShow


    Episode transcript here —>  https://shorturl.at/efBYZ


    Show Credits

    Executive Producers:  Yue Xu, Julie Krafchick and Folic Media

    Producer:  Abigail Steckler and Little Scorpion Studios

    Editor: Jen Jacobs

    Creative Producer: Samantha Martin

    Coordinator: Katia Kupelian

    Casting: Salt & Lime Media


    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    • 49 min
    Why Can’t You Get a Date? w/ Justin

    Why Can’t You Get a Date? w/ Justin

    Justin is the full package - he’s handsome, he’s smart, he’s the life of the party. But now well into his 30s, he’s never had a boyfriend. Not only that, but he’s never been on a date. What is he doing wrong? Well, luckily, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable are here to help. Julie and Yue call up Justin’s friends (because he doesn’t have any exes) to help figure out what he’s doing wrong. Is Justin going after the wrong sort of men? Is he keeping himself removed from the Austin queer scene for a good reason? Is he oversharing so much that it’s offputting? You’re going to be on the edge of your seat for the whole conversation – and listen all the way through to the end for a special guest!


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    Thank you to Michael and the Gay Men’s Brotherhoodthegaymensbrotherhood.com


    Episode transcript here —> shorturl.at/lnAHM


    Show Credits

    Executive Producers:  Yue Xu, Julie Krafchick and Folic Media

    Producer:  Abigail Steckler and Little Scorpion Studios

    Editor: Jen Jacobs

    Creative Producer: Samantha Martin

    Coordinator: Katia Kupelian

    Casting: Salt & Lime Media


    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    • 51 min
    Are You Too Intimidating to Date? w/ Kristin

    Are You Too Intimidating to Date? w/ Kristin

    Kristin is so strong and independent that she worries she’s scaring off potential partners. In this instalment of Exit Interview, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu of Dateable are ready to help Kristin understand how she is actually presenting herself on dates. And who would know better - than her exes? Julie and Yue call up several of Kristin’s old flames to answer these burning questions: Are Kristin’s dates really not ready to be in a relationship, or just not in a relationship with her? Do her dates find her exhausting, overwhelming, or out of their league? Maybe all of the above. Tune in to find out. 


    Follow us:

    Instragram @ExitInterviewshow 

    Twitter: @ExInterviewShow


    Episode transcript here —> shorturl.at/lnAHM


    Show Credits

    Executive Producers:  Yue Xu, Julie Krafchick and Folic Media

    Producer:  Abigail Steckler and Little Scorpion Studios

    Editor: Jen Jacobs

    Creative Producer: Samantha Martin

    Coordinator: Katia Kupelian

    Casting: Salt & Lime Media


    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    • 48 min

Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5
4 Ratings

4 Ratings

lisaindarwin ,

Not just another dating/ relationships/ personal dev podcast, this one’s great!

A fabulous podcast that shares valuable insights into relationships and personal development.
The hosts are easy to listen to, they know the topic and have a great rapport with their guests.
High production values and a great concept, definitely worth a listen.

_nianix ,

Great concept, loved the first season

As a fan of all things Dateable, I couldn’t go passed this podcast without giving it a listen, and it didn’t disappoint. I hope there is a season 2, and if there is - I’d love to be a guest!! Xx

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