The Mind, The Mirror & Me

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Welcome to "The Mind, The Mirror, and Me," where the worlds of beauty and mental health come together like never before. This is the podcast for anyone eager to explore not just what they see in the mirror but what lies beneath the surface. Mackie Overbay, a 20-something licensed cosmetologist, provides more than just styling tips; she offers a window into self-love, self-care, and the transformative power of looking your best. Her father, Tony Overbay, LMFT, an experienced marriage and family therapist, brings therapeutic insights, offering guidance on relationships, family dynamics, and emotional well-being. Together, they create a rich tapestry of conversation, appealing to listeners of all ages and backgrounds. In each episode, you'll find engaging dialogues and real-world advice that intersects the outer appearance with inner growth. Whether exploring how a new hairstyle can boost your confidence or delving into techniques for cultivating mindfulness and mental clarity, this podcast is as multifaceted as the people it serves. Hear stories from clients in the salon chair, participate in enlightening discussions on solitude, and engage with expert guests from various fields. With topics ranging from the latest trends in beauty to managing stress and anxiety, "The Mind, The Mirror, and Me" brings something unique and invaluable to the table. Join Mackie and her father on this enlightening journey as they help listeners navigate both the mirror of appearance and the mirror of the mind. With every episode, they challenge, inspire, and empower, aiming to make every individual feel comfortable in their skin and life. Listen in, and you may just discover that the path to well-being lies in the reflection of "The Mind, The Mirror, and Me."

  1. 10 SEPT

    How Can Change Be Funny, Scary, and Uncomfortable… and Still Be Necessary for Growth? (with Tony Overbay)

    Mackie and her father Tony (@virtual.couch) catch up on a lot of life. Since the last time they hit record, Mackie has navigated big career shifts, health challenges, and new adventures. Tony has faced major surgery and the loss of his mom (Mackie’s grandmother). Together, they dive into the messy, uncomfortable, and often hilarious realities of change — why our brains resist it, why it feels so daunting in the moment, and why it’s actually the engine of growth. From dad jokes about Gen Z slang to real talk about autoimmune diagnoses, resilience, and reinventing yourself, this conversation is equal parts laughter, honesty, and insight. If you’re navigating your own season of change, this episode will remind you that discomfort isn’t just survivable — it’s what shapes who you’re becoming. Follow Mackie on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/beautybymackie or Tiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@beautybymackie or subscribe to "The Mind, The Mirror and Me" wherever you listen to podcasts! 00:00 Welcome and Introduction 00:30 The Struggle with Change 02:16 Introducing McKinley 02:44 Life Updates and Major Changes 02:58 The Humor in Processing Change 03:25 Practical Gifts and Life Lessons 03:32 Social Media and Upcoming Events 04:10 Conversation with Mackie Begins 04:17 Casual Banter and Podcast Revival 05:56 Mackie's Career Journey 10:17 Health Challenges and Lifestyle Changes 28:21 The Concept of Healthy Ego 30:49 Defensive Ego and Feelings of Inferiority 31:10 Insecurity in Professional Settings 31:18 Hypersensitivity and Narcissistic Traits 32:01 Building a Healthy Ego 32:39 Passion vs. Obligation in Work 34:02 Personal Growth and Change 36:20 The Fear of the Unknown 38:37 The Illusion of Control 39:19 Coping with Discomfort and Growth 40:12 Therapy and Emotional Support 49:13 The Power of Pausing and Acceptance 54:13 Mackie's Wellness Journey 56:46 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

    58 min

  2. 23/09/2024

    Navigating Life's Curveballs: Mackie Overbay on Hashimoto's, Health Challenges, and Embracing Uncertainty

    McKinley “Mackie” Overbay, host of “The Mind, the Mirror, and Me,” and Tony Overbay, LMFT, return after a significant hiatus to discuss numerous life updates, including their recent move to Arizona and Mackie's health journey with Hashimoto's disease. They delve into the struggles and triumphs of losing 55 pounds, the importance of self-love, and the necessity of balancing mind and body health. The conversation touches on the challenges of diet, exercise, meditation, and maintaining consistency. It's a candid look at personal transformation, resilience, and the importance of understanding and caring for oneself amidst life's unpredictable challenges. 00:00 Introduction and Opening Banter 00:25 Welcome Back and New Beginnings 01:18 Social Media and Personal Updates 03:21 Discussing Past Episodes and Themes 05:25 Weight Loss Journey and Health Challenges 07:25 Understanding Hashimoto's Disease 11:21 Reflections on Self-Worth and Body Image 14:20 Diet Changes and Lifestyle Adjustments 24:18 Thyroid Health and Medical Insights 27:56 Understanding Perimenopause and Hormonal Changes 28:16 Unexpected Balloon Incident 28:54 Recognizing and Addressing Health Issues 30:39 The Journey to Diagnosis 32:13 Lifestyle Changes and Their Impact 34:21 The Importance of Consistency and Motivation 35:51 Managing Inflammation and Dietary Adjustments 37:21 Exercise and Weight Loss Strategies 39:37 The Role of Meditation and Mindfulness 48:14 Embracing Self-Worth and Positivity 53:02 Concluding Thoughts and Reflections

    1h 6m

  3. 24/04/2024

    Constructing Purpose: A Journey through Optimistic Nihilism

    Mackie and Tony discuss the concept of optimistic nihilism, a philosophical perspective combining elements of nihilism with a positive outlook on life. They delve into Mackie's journey of faith deconstruction, examining traditional beliefs and the freedom to create meaning in life. The discussion covers embracing uncertainties, the importance of constructing a fulfilling life narrative, and the empowerment in shaping one's purpose despite a lack of inherent cosmic meaning. They also discuss the challenges and liberations of letting go of societal expectations, accepting one's choices, and the significant impact of personal growth and discovery on one's worldview. 00:00 The Return: Navigating the Podcast After a Break 01:39 Diving Into Optimistic Nihilism: A Fresh Perspective 02:51 Exploring Personal Growth and Faith Deconstruction 08:28 The Essence of Optimistic Nihilism and Its Impact 15:37 Understanding Life's Meaning Through Optimistic Nihilism 18:44 Navigating Emotional Maturity and Misunderstandings 19:56 The Power of Perspective: Embracing Life's Simplicity 20:38 TikTok Trends and the Duality of Emotions 22:27 Embracing the Big Feelings: The Ups and Downs 25:18 Finding Purpose and Embracing Optimistic Nihilism 28:37 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Inherent Worth 37:49 Concluding Thoughts: Life, the Universe, and Everything

    40 min

  4. 16/01/2024

    Navigating Anxiety, Keeping it Real & Asking For Help - Mackie Goes Solo

    In her first solo episode, Mackie candidly discusses her struggles with anxiety and mental health. She shares her personal story of navigating a particularly difficult period, including the coping strategies she tried, reaching out for help, and the reassurance of knowing that no feeling is final. Mackie emphasizes the importance of seeking help, engaging in therapeutic activities, and remembering that you're not alone. This episode deeply reflects mental health and the importance of asking for help through challenging times. Note from Mackie: “Always here to talk about all the things! Feel free to DM me on Instagram @beautybymackie

    28 min

  5. 24/12/2023

    24 Life Lessons From 24 Years: Mackie’s Birthday Special Episode

    In this episode of The Mind, The Mirror and Me, Mackie shares 24 life lessons she's learned in her 24 years of life in honor of her birthday (today! Wish her a happy birthday at @beautybymackie on Instagram. From discussing the importance of setting boundaries to embracing change and adaptability, she discusses different emotional growth and well-being aspects. The episode encourages listeners to introspect on their lessons and take things in stride, emphasizing that no one has life entirely figured out, and that's alright. 00:00 Introduction and Studio Banter 00:24 The Reality of Therapy and Emotional Heavy Lifting 01:29 The Irony of Therapy Sessions 01:42 The Unusual Side of Therapy 02:08 The Struggles of Starting a Therapy Session 02:43 The Unexpected Moments in Therapy 02:55 Celebrating Birthdays and Reflecting on Life 04:01 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Growth 06:07 The Importance of Quality Friendships 06:27 The Power of Setting Boundaries 06:31 The Dangers of Comparison 07:28 The Value of Small Victories 08:48 Learning from Failures 09:41 Trusting Your Gut 11:45 Being Present in the Moment 14:22 The Role of Mindfulness in Life 19:46 Embracing the Present Moment 19:59 Outgrowing People and Situations 20:43 Trusting in Destiny 22:39 The Power of Privacy 24:41 Letting Go of Unhealthy Relationships 27:04 The Importance of Self-Validation 27:34 The Struggles of Being Single 29:40 The Power of Writing Things Down 31:05 Accepting Imperfections 34:47 Finding a Fulfilling Career 35:41 The Futility of Holding Grudges 36:15 Adapting to Change 37:51 The Reality of Human Perception

    42 min

  6. 08/12/2023

    Creating Purpose: You Are Not One Dimensional

    In this episode, Mackie and Tony delve into the concept of purpose, discussing how society's expectations and personal pressures often shape how we perceive our life path. They underline the importance of creating rather than finding one's purpose. They explore the need to let purpose be a fluid concept, shifting and evolving with personal growth. Reflecting on topics ranging from life choices and creativity to self-worth, they argue that purpose is about who we are rather than what we do. Tony also sheds light on the use of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) principles in navigating life's journey. 00:05 Introduction and Spotify Wrapped Discussion 01:03 Exploring Professions and Misconceptions 01:14 The Role of Titles in Professions 02:04 Misunderstandings in Professional Titles 03:27 Exploring the Concept of Purpose 04:13 Personal Experiences with Purpose 05:18 Impact of Religion on Perception of Purpose 06:38 Challenging Traditional Views of Purpose 08:42 Discovering New Perspectives on Purpose 17:14 Purpose, Goals, and Values 18:32 The Journey to Finding Personal Purpose 24:48 The Importance of Reading and Knowledge 25:33 Understanding Purpose and Its Relation to Life 25:57 The Concept of Ikigai and Its Impact on Life 26:23 The Simplicity and Complexity of Purpose 27:17 The Changing Nature of Purpose 29:53 The Impact of Purpose on Mental and Physical Health 31:00 The Struggle of Finding Purpose 31:23 Creating Your Own Purpose 32:03 The Role of Self-Knowledge in Defining Purpose 32:30 The Importance of Taking Action Towards Your Purpose 33:49 The Role of Acceptance in Pursuing Your Purpose 36:59 The Power of Consistency in Achieving Your Purpose 38:59 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Purpose 43:29 Conclusion: Embracing Change and Growth in Your Purpose

    47 min

  7. 02/12/2023

    Defining Okayness: The Power of Personal Autonomy

    In this episode of The Mind, the Mirror and Me Podcast, Mackie and Tony navigate through topics such as understanding personal limits and preferences and the importance of self-validation. They delve into personal autonomy, emphasizing the individuals' right to make choices that align with their values and desires. The conversation also touches on friendships, the expected and unexpected life changes, and how the concept of 'it's as okay as you say it is' applies to various aspects of life, from career decisions to relationships. They also discuss the significance of acknowledging that everyone's life experiences, values, and boundaries differ, making it crucial for individuals to assert their own sense of what's right for them. 00:07 Introduction and Casual Banter 00:42 Discussing Thanksgiving and Birthdays 01:24 Podcasting and Collaborations 03:20 The Concept of Friendship in Adulthood 16:23 Exploring Personal Autonomy 17:54 The Power of Individual Agency 19:20 Understanding Personal Issues and Boundaries 20:09 Career Choices and Personal Decisions 20:52 The Power of Personal Permission 23:38 Navigating Uncharted Territory 30:03 Understanding Personal Limits and Preferences 33:54 The Power of Self Validation 38:15 Conclusion: Trusting Yourself and Embracing Change

    39 min

  8. 23/11/2023

    Nice People Have Boundaries, Too!

    In this episode, hosts Mackie and Tony engage in a deep exploration of the significance of boundaries within relationships. Their conversation intricately weaves personal experiences with psychological insights, unveiling the pivotal role that boundaries play in fostering healthy interactions. They candidly address the struggle in setting boundaries, discussing the tendency to prioritize others' needs over one's own—a pattern known as the 'nice guy/girl syndrome'. Amidst this, they highlight the crucial distinction between healthy boundaries and controlling ultimatums, emphasizing the necessity for emotional stability in maintaining these limits. Moving beyond individual relationships, Mackie and Tony extend their discourse to familial dynamics, acknowledging the complexity and emotional weight associated with setting boundaries, especially in parent-child relationships. Throughout the episode, the hosts advocate for self-respect and empowerment, encouraging listeners to assert their needs confidently without fear of conflict or judgment. Their insightful discussion serves as a guiding compass, navigating the intricacies of interpersonal connections and highlighting the importance of establishing and respecting boundaries in various spheres of life.

    46 min
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Welcome to "The Mind, The Mirror, and Me," where the worlds of beauty and mental health come together like never before. This is the podcast for anyone eager to explore not just what they see in the mirror but what lies beneath the surface. Mackie Overbay, a 20-something licensed cosmetologist, provides more than just styling tips; she offers a window into self-love, self-care, and the transformative power of looking your best. Her father, Tony Overbay, LMFT, an experienced marriage and family therapist, brings therapeutic insights, offering guidance on relationships, family dynamics, and emotional well-being. Together, they create a rich tapestry of conversation, appealing to listeners of all ages and backgrounds. In each episode, you'll find engaging dialogues and real-world advice that intersects the outer appearance with inner growth. Whether exploring how a new hairstyle can boost your confidence or delving into techniques for cultivating mindfulness and mental clarity, this podcast is as multifaceted as the people it serves. Hear stories from clients in the salon chair, participate in enlightening discussions on solitude, and engage with expert guests from various fields. With topics ranging from the latest trends in beauty to managing stress and anxiety, "The Mind, The Mirror, and Me" brings something unique and invaluable to the table. Join Mackie and her father on this enlightening journey as they help listeners navigate both the mirror of appearance and the mirror of the mind. With every episode, they challenge, inspire, and empower, aiming to make every individual feel comfortable in their skin and life. Listen in, and you may just discover that the path to well-being lies in the reflection of "The Mind, The Mirror, and Me."

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