We Are Lonely We Are Lonely
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Follow four twenty somethings on their search for connection. It might not surprise you to hear that people in Australia have never been more lonely. Half of us will feel lonely this week. The UK has a Minister for Loneliness and the US Surgeon General has declared loneliness a health epidemic, but it might surprise you that young adults are lonelier than the average person in Australia. If we learn to manage and minimise loneliness, it’s no more than a healthy human emotion. If it becomes chronic, it can have the same impact on us as smoking 15 cigarettes a day.
Over this six-part reality documentary podcast series, four young people meet with mentors and experts who will help them build strategies to reconnect. Through their stories, we understand the reality of loneliness in Australia experienced by a generation that theoretically has never been more connected. Each of us will connect with different parts of their stories and resonate with different strategies and advice from our mentors and experts.
We are lonely, so let’s reconnect.
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We Are Lonely Bonus Episode: Grief & Loneliness
Grief is something we will all experience, but it’s also something that can feel very lonely. Supported by Medibank, ‘We are Lonely’ is a podcast that seeks to demystify loneliness and this bonus episode shares participant Charity’s experience with grief and loneliness, and how creativity can help with healing and connection.
This episode brings together singer songwriter, Alice Skye, Aunty Bea Ballangarry and Charity to talk about grief, and to work on a piece of music as a form of healing. There's no typical, or right, way to grieve. There is also no proper time frame for grief. It’s important that you allow yourself to feel what you feel and not try to suppress it. Reaching out and connecting with people, sharing memories, listening to music, meditating, writing about how we feel and taking the time to care for ourselves are all ways through grief.
If you are feeling overwhelmed, it’s important to reach out for help. Thirteen Yarn is a national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. They have a dedicated crisis support on Thirteen Ninety Two Seventy Six. Or you can contact Lifeline on 13 11 14 or ReachOut dot com, which offers dedicated support for young people.
Host: Jemma Sbeg
Participants: Charity
Mentors: Alice Skye and Aunty Bea Ballangarry
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Episode 6 - We Are Lonely: The Grand Final
We’ve had a chance to get to know our participants pretty well by now, but they still haven’t met each other. So we do the thing that is most practical when it comes to loneliness - bringing people together.
Charity, Tim, Aleks and Holly all head to Melbourne to meet and share their experiences with each other.
Host: Jemma Sbeg
Participants: Charity, Aleks, Tim and Holly
Mentors: Dr Deidre Anderson, Barry Conrad, Sean Szeps and Tessa Blencowe
Experts: Professor Ian Hickie and Dr Lisa Mundy
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Episode 5 - We Are Lonely: Social Media & Technology
It’s pretty common to blame our blooming loneliness on technology. In this episode we tease out that theory and look at the ways technology is both helping and hindering our connection with other people.
Tim also meets with a psychologist who is part of a gaming research program to talk through the impacts gaming has on our brains and how to control our relationship with technology.
Host: Jemma Sbeg
Participants: Tim, Holly, Aleks and Charity
Mentors: Dr Deidre Anderson, Barry Conrad, Sean Szeps and Tessa Blencowe
Experts: Professor Ian Hickie and Dr Lisa Mundy
Guest - Shane Southwood
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Episode 4 - We Are Lonely: Finding Your Passions
Reaching into where you feel joy, where you feel accepted and happy is a powerful way to build connection. Holly does something she would never have faced just months ago and heads to a yoga retreat alone. Tim reignites his passion for drag and Charity steps into the world of study.
Sometimes connection doesn’t have to be with people just like us, it can be with people who like the same things as us.
Host: Jemma Sbeg
Participants: Charity, Tim and Holly
Mentors: Dr Deidre Anderson, Barry Conrad, Sean Szeps and Tessa Blencowe
Experts: Professor Ian Hickie and Dr Lisa Mundy
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Episode 3 - We Are Lonely: Stepping Out
How does our relationship with the world and the people around us make us lonely? And how do we fix it? Aleks, Charity, Holly and Tim are getting ready to step into the world, and find their people.
During our 20’s our relationships are changing a fair bit. Only a few years ago we were at school, we each had our school identity - sporty, academic, musical, popular. Then we left school and the world felt a bit bigger and the options for how we presented to the world expanded. Naturally, alongside those changes, a lot of our friendships might be adapting as well. There can be a lot of rethinking of who we want to be with and what we want from our relationships.
We cover a heap in this episode, from the impacts of racism to communication skills and how to have the courage to step out.
Host: Jemma Sbeg
Participants: Aleks, Charity, Tim and Holly
Mentors: Dr Deidre Anderson, Barry Conrad, Sean Szeps and Tessa Blencowe
Experts: Professor Ian Hickie and Dr Lisa Mundy
Guest - Aunty Bea Ballangarry
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Episode 2 - We Are Lonely: Looking Inward
What does your relationship with yourself have to do with being lonely? When you think about loneliness it’s easy to focus on how many friends you have, how connected you are with the outside world. But loneliness isn’t that simple - you can feel lonely in the company of others and you can feel content alone. In this episode our participants and their mentors take a moment to look inwards and work out who they are, and who they want to be.
This question of self discovery, of understanding our place in the world, is part of why we can feel particularly disconnected in our twenties. We’re trying to find the answers to those questions - Who am I? Where do I fit? Where do I want to be? Who are my people? And at the same time we’re sorting out the practicalities of living in the world outside of our family.
It can be exhausting, and it can be isolating.
Host: Jemma Sbeg
Participants: Charity, Holly, Aleks and Tim
Mentors: Dr Deidre Anderson, Barry Conrad, Sean Szeps and Tessa Blencowe
Experts: Professor Ian Hickie and Dr Lisa Mundy
Customer Reviews
Important topic
Love that this podcast shines a light on loneliness being a normal thing we experience. It can be a really hard thing to open about it, so it’s comforting just listening to these stories.
Authentic and vulnerable
So beautifully authentic. Absolutely loved Charity and Dee’s honest relationship! And the fun of Tim and Sean’s friendship… such a fabulous and different podcast ! Loved episode 3 !! Can’t wait for the next one!
Loneliness to connection
This is such an insightful podcast. I feel I know the people so well and can really understand what they’ve gone through. This is a must listen!!!!