Why She Stayed

Grace Stuart
Why She Stayed

A podcast where we dive deep into what really goes on inside of domestic violence relationships that makes it so hard to simply "just leave". Through stories of survivors, and practical conversations with guests, I am going to put the microscope back on what the abuser is doing that causes us to become so trapped in the first place, and how each survivor was eventually freed. We will discuss what abusive relationships look like, sound like, and feel like for the purpose of educating and relating to one another in a much needed way. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  1. Ep. 36: Non-Fatal Strangulation: How it's Introduced and Escalates- Dr. Dana Anderson

    4 DAYS AGO

    Ep. 36: Non-Fatal Strangulation: How it's Introduced and Escalates- Dr. Dana Anderson

    On this episode I am joined by forensic psychologist Dr. Dana Anderson where we discuss the dangers of non-fatal strangulation, what it is, what "counts", why it matters, and answering your most commonly asked questions. Dr. Anderson's website and social links: Instagram: dr.dana_anderson Tiktok: @killerpsychologist Website: https://psychologydr.com/doctor-of-clinical-forensic-psychology/ Further resources and videos: https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/being-choked-during-sex-is-rising-in-popularity-among-young-people https://www.familyjusticecenter.org/resources/survivors-perspective-the-impact-of-strangulation-during-sex-sexual-choking/ https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/after-four-strangulations-i-googled-domestic-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/strangulation-is-the-highest-predictor-of-murder https://www.strangulationtraininginstitute.com/non-fatal-strangulation-is-what-domestic-violence-advocates-fear-the-most-right-now/ https://www.dangerassessment.org/DA.aspx Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1h 10m
  2. Ep. 35: Will Trying to be Perfect Make Them Change?

    10 DEC

    Ep. 35: Will Trying to be Perfect Make Them Change?

    On this episode I am joined by my guest Amanda where we discuss topics of emotional abuse, coercive control, sexual coercion and more. We also discuss how abusers use things like withdrawing or demanding intimacy as a way to control you and how porn use and spiritual manipulation can play a role in the cycle of abuse. See my Instagram @gracestuart26 for more on guest information. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1h 13m
  3. Ep. 34: Cognitive Dissonance, Euphoric Recall, and What if He's Changing?

    3 DEC

    Ep. 34: Cognitive Dissonance, Euphoric Recall, and What if He's Changing?

    On today's episode, Cindy and I discuss the progression of abuse in her past relationship/ marriage and how strong cognitive dissonance can be when you are dealing with "two versions" of your partner. We also talk about their claims of change, and how intense euphoric recalls can be when you are trying walk away and what helped Cindy to overcome that. Cindy's Instagram: @cin.d.bin Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1h 16m
  4. Ep. 33: DV Survivor & Mass Shooting Survivor- Elle Gargano

    26 NOV

    Ep. 33: DV Survivor & Mass Shooting Survivor- Elle Gargano

    On this episode, I am joined by Elle Gargano speaking about enduring a 9 year abusive relationship and all of the aspects that kept her feeling stuck including surviving a mass shooting during the time when she was still with her abuser. We speak heavily about emotional and mental abuse and how the confusion kept her feeling uncertain of her experience for many years. Elle's Socials and Website: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ellegargano/ TikTok: @ellegargano Website: https://www.ellegargano.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1h 8m
  5. Ep. 32: Coercion, Reactive Abuse, and what if it's me "causing" this?

    19 NOV

    Ep. 32: Coercion, Reactive Abuse, and what if it's me "causing" this?

    Morgan shares her story of escaping a relationship that included extreme phases of "love" and devaluing. We discuss topics of coercion, reactive abuse, lying to escape his accusations, the addictiveness of the cycle, and overcoming self-blame. See my Instagram @gracestuart26 for more episode clips and episode information. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1h 16m
  6. Ep. 31: Am I "Supposed" to Stay in an Abusive Situation?- Karen DeArmond Gardner

    12 NOV

    Ep. 31: Am I "Supposed" to Stay in an Abusive Situation?- Karen DeArmond Gardner

    On this episode I'm joined by Karen DeArmond Gardner where we talk about covert, emotional, mental, and spiritual abuse. She gives new perspectives on how to handle the intrusive thoughts and lies that tell us "but am I supposed to stay?" All Links for Karen's Socials and Website: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/karendearmondgardner?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Book: https://www.amazon.com/Hope-Healing-Domestic-Abuse-Reaching/dp/0825446945 Website: https://anotheronefree.com/ Facebook: Another One Free Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1h 1m
  7. Ep. 30: "No one will ever believe you because you look too happy"- Savannah's Story

    5 NOV

    Ep. 30: "No one will ever believe you because you look too happy"- Savannah's Story

    On this episode, Savannah shares her story about mental, verbal, and physical abuse and why it felt so hard to leave. We talk about how "smaller" physical trespasses escalate over time and how the perpetrator may pretend they are not even happening. This is an episode for anyone who is in a cycle of "good and bad" who is looking to gain new perspective. Savannah's Socials: Tiktok: @therealmessmom IG: @therealmessmom Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1h 16m
  8. Ep. 29: How to Help Someone Who's in an Abusive Relationship by Holding Space for Them

    29 OCT

    Ep. 29: How to Help Someone Who's in an Abusive Relationship by Holding Space for Them

    On this solo episode, I give all of my best tips for bridging the gap with a loved one who may be stuck in an abusive relationship. I give advice on what could be most helpful VS. harmful and how to stay hopeful in the midst of it all. Remember to always contact law enforcement in the case of an emergency, or call a DV hotline yourself for specific advice. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    53 min
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About

A podcast where we dive deep into what really goes on inside of domestic violence relationships that makes it so hard to simply "just leave". Through stories of survivors, and practical conversations with guests, I am going to put the microscope back on what the abuser is doing that causes us to become so trapped in the first place, and how each survivor was eventually freed. We will discuss what abusive relationships look like, sound like, and feel like for the purpose of educating and relating to one another in a much needed way. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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  • Creator
    Grace Stuart
  • Years Active
    2K
  • Episodes
    36
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Grace Stuart
  • Show Website
    Why She Stayed

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