Counselor Chat Podcast Carol Miller, School Counselor

In this episode of the Counselor Chat podcast, I share insights into what I wish I had known earlier in my career as a school counselor. We explore the lessons learned from over three decades in the field, and I offer practical advice to both new and experienced counselors. Join me as I discuss key topics like setting boundaries, understanding contracts, and the importance of retirement planning, along with insights from other counselors in our Facebook group.
Key Takeaways:
Mentoring New Counselors: I talk about my experience mentoring a brand new counselor in our district and what I've learned from guiding someone at the start of their journey.Retirement Planning: I delve into the importance of having a retirement plan early on and share my personal experience with starting late and trying to catch up.Checking Contracts: I emphasize the significance of reading your contract thoroughly, focusing on more than just the salary. I discuss why understanding benefits, healthcare coverage, and other terms is critical.Boundaries and Work-Life Balance: I discuss the need for boundaries to avoid burnout and maintain a healthy work-life balance. We explore the benefits of setting clear boundaries to separate work from personal life.Counselors Need Counselors: I talk about the importance of seeking help when needed and how counselors should not hesitate to seek their own support.Advice from the Community: I share insights from other counselors, including advice on maintaining a positive outlook, embracing flexibility, and setting boundaries with colleagues and students.
Upcoming Events:
2024 Summer Counselor Conference: I'm thrilled to announce our upcoming summer conference happening from July 26-28. It will feature over 40 sessions and two keynotes, covering a wide range of topics relevant to school counselors. Join us for an enriching experience and a chance to connect with fellow counselors.
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In this episode of the Counselor Chat, we are learning all about the Circle of Control, a fundamental concept that helps us differentiate between what we can and cannot influence in our lives. 
Episode Highlights:
Understanding the Circle of Control:
Overview of the Circle of Control and its relevance to both personal and professional life.Importance of acknowledging what is within our direct influence versus what we need to let go of.
Setting Boundaries:
Practical tips on setting healthy boundaries with students, colleagues, and family to maintain work-life balance.
Time Management:
Strategies for effective time management during the school day.Emphasizing the significance of prioritizing tasks and the empowerment of saying no.
Professional Development:
Discussion on the importance of continued education and seeking professional growth opportunities.
Creating a Positive Environment:
How to foster a positive atmosphere in both office and home settings.The impact of the physical and emotional environment on our professional output and personal well-being.
Relationship Building:
Insights into building and nurturing relationships within the school and beyond.
Self-Care and Wellness:
The significance of self-care and the eight dimensions of wellness.
Advocacy and Emotional Regulation:
The role of school counselors in advocating for resources and policies.Techniques for managing personal emotions and seeking support when needed.
Accepting What We Can’t Control:
Discussion on facing realities like policy changes, parental involvement, and student behavior that are beyond our control.Strategies to cope with and accept these limitations.

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In this episode we are exploring side hustles and how to make ends meet as a school counselor.Episode Highlights:
My Journey to Side Hustles:
Reflecting on my years as a school counselor.Balancing my passion for counseling with the reality of financial needs.Sharing my primary side hustle: Teachers Pay Teachers (TPT).
Inspiring Side Hustle Ideas from Our Community:
Coaching Multiple Sports TeamsRunning a Summer CampProctoring ExamsGrant ReviewingAnd MORE!
The Joy of Creating Tangible Results:
Encouraging counselors to seek side hustles that bring joy and a sense of accomplishment.My mom's wisdom: Life requires something to keep us healthy, something to make us wealthy, and something to bring us joy.Finding satisfaction in seeing results, whether it's a successful TPT resource or a well-run summer camp.
Invitation to Explore and Share:
Let's continue this conversation!Reach out with your questions, stories, or ideas for future episodes.Your experiences could inspire others in our incredible counseling community.

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In this episode, I am absolutely thrilled to announce we are celebrating a very special milestone - the one-year anniversary of the Counselor Chat Podcast!
???? Highlights of Our Journey:
Reflections on a Year of Growth: It's been an incredible journey of learning, sharing, and connecting with amazing counselors like you from all around. As I look back on the past year, I can't help but feel immense gratitude for the stories, insights, and wisdom shared by our guests and listeners alike.Top Downloaded Episodes: We'll take a walk down memory lane and revisit some of the episodes that resonated most with our listeners. From navigating undesired classroom behaviors to empowering students with coping skills for anxiety, each episode has been a gift of practical strategies and heartfelt conversations.Episode 2. Working With Kids With Undesired Classroom BehaviorsEpisode28. Avoiding TACOS with Nancy WillardEpisode 3. Activities To Help Kids With AnxietyEpisode 12.  School Anxiety Solutions: Technical Tips for Managing Tears at Dropoff with Ashley BartleyEpisode 19. Motivational Interviewing For School Counselors with Reagan NorthEpisode 32. Teaching Kids How to Be (Or Not Be) Someone’s FriendEpisode 16. Teaching Students About Race and Racism in Elementary School with Kristin MoffettEpisode 44. What Am I Supposed To Do For National School Counseling Week with Mal Jacobs and Hannah MickEpisode 34. Advice To Counselors From CounselorsEpisode 33. Adding Fun To Your Counseling Lessons with Mallory JacobsLessons Learned and Shared: One of the most beautiful aspects of this podcast has been the wealth of advice and wisdom shared by fellow counselors. From self-care reminders to the importance of being present in every moment, these insights have not only enriched our profession but also our lives.
???? Special Gift for Our Amazing Listeners!
As a token of my gratitude for your incredible support, I invite you to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. Your reviews help us reach more counselors and spread the message of Counselor Chat far and wide.
But wait, there's more! If you leave a review and screenshot it to me at carol@counselingessentials.org, I'll send you a gift card for a coffee (or your favorite beverage) as a thank you for being a part of our community!
???? Looking Ahead:
As we celebrate this milestone, I am filled with excitement for the future of Counselor Chat Podcast. We have more inspiring conversations, insightful guests, and valuable resources lined up for you in the coming year.
Thank you, from the bottom of my heart, for being a part of this incredible journey. Your support, feedback, and enthusiasm have made Counselor Chat what it is today - a community of passionate counselors making a difference.

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Today I am taking you on a journey into the world of teaching careers to our youngest learners.
Episode Highlights:
Kindergarten Dreams:
Discover how I introduce our littlest explorers to the heroes of our communities. From firefighters with their trusty axes to gardeners with magic green thumbs, kindergarten is a world of wonder!
First Grade Adventures:
Explore the magic of matching careers to skills. Join me as I help students uncover their own unique talents and interests, connecting the dots between dream jobs and the qualities that make them shine.
Second Grade Discoveries:
Delve into the realm of career training. I shed light on the different paths our students can take, introducing the concept of college and specialized programs that turn passions into professions.
Third Grade Insights:
It's all about multiple intelligences! Join me in uncovering the diverse smarts within each student, guiding them towards careers that align with their strengths and passions.
Fourth Grade Expeditions:
Take a tour of workplaces! From bustling town halls to the heart of a school, I paint a vivid picture of the varied careers that await our young adventurers. Who knows where their passions will lead?
Fifth Grade Discoveries:
Dive into the world of career interest inventories! I share how students take the reins, identifying their aspirations and diving into research to uncover the perfect path for their future selves.
Sixth Grade Preparations:
Get ready for the next chapter! I discuss career clusters, advanced training options, and the exciting journey towards informed decision-making as students prepare for the road ahead.
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Dive into a treasure trove of career exploration with my specially crafted lesson! Available for download from the show notes until March 29th!!! Don't miss this chance to spark curiosity and ignite passion in your students!
Free Lesson: 4th Grade Career Lesson

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In this episode, we are chatting about something that is sure to spark joy and excitement - future planning for our incredible students! 
Highlights:
Exploring Future Planning
Diving into the world of future planning for our students—empowering them to achieve their dreams.
Strategies for Engagement
Hosting a Career Fair in May at my elementary school—exciting opportunities for students to explore diverse career paths."Munch and Lunch" sessions with parents sharing their unique career experiences—inspiring students to think beyond the ordinary.Eye-opening "How Long is a Lifetime?" lesson—plotting lifespans, retirement ages, and years spent working versus in school.Teaching students about adulting—budgeting, financial responsibilities, and preparing for life beyond school.
Links for Further Exploration
Dive deeper into the discussed lessons with links provided belowExplore these activities and adapt them to suit the needs of your students and school community.
Lessons Mentioned:
How Long Is A LifetimeAdulting
Other Great Lessons for Future Planning:
Values AuctionCollege and Career Escape Room

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