Divorce Coaches Academy Tracy Callahan and Debra Doak

Thoughts About This Episode? Text Us NowHave you seen this viral question going around the internet where people are asking women if they would rather be stuck in the woods with a bear or a man? It was intended to spark discussion about violence against women and the responses have been both overwhelming and insightful. This whole conversation has made us wonder how people would answer if we ask them if they would rather mediate with a bear or a narcissist?Today we're tackling the fear s...

Thoughts About This Episode? Text Us NowEver hear the expression "Expectations are just planned resentments”? When our expectations aren't met, we feel like what we got less than we deserved, which leads to disappointment and builds to resentment which increases cost, conflict, and stress in divorce.Whether the source is tv and movies, social media, or family and friends, people can tend to enter into divorce with some preconceived notions about how it works or how things will go. They may ha...

Thoughts About This Episode? Text Us NowIt’s well known that divorce can be one of the most stressful life events our clients will experience. And we’ve talked extensively about how fear escalates cost and conflict. But there’s a secret ingredient that can make the process even more difficult and more expensive … and that’s trauma. Today we are going to give you some insight into working with clients experiencing PTSD or post traumatic spouse disorder. No, that’s not a real DSM diagnosis, but...

Thoughts About This Episode? Text Us NowCouples facing challenges or difficulties in their marriage have traditionally turned to couples counseling or marriage therapy for help. And we often hear from clients who are now deciding whether to stay or go that they found the experience of couples counseling to be quite frustrating with lots of blame and finger pointing and little to no resolution of the issues at hand. But what if married couples had another choice? Enter Marital Mediation.&...

Thoughts About This Episode? Text Us NowFinancial worries are at the top of most everyone’s list when it comes to divorce and one common concern we hear from clients is how much it’s going to cost to get divorced. So in this episode we’re diving into not just how much divorce costs, but the factors that can influence it and how we can work with clients to keep their costs down.IBISWorld reports that revenue for the Family Law and Divorce Attorney sector is expected to be $12.9 billion for 202...

Thoughts About This Episode? Text Us NowThere's a big difference between being a victim (having been harmed) and adopting a victim mentality. And the difference relates to how an individual responds to adversity. In this episode Tracy and Debra explore the 6 ways a victim mentality can impact how individuals perceive and respond to conflicts. So, why is it so important to address victim mentality when working with clients? Because victim mentality can escalate conflict, can leave i...