6 episodes

Welcome to the Pussy Whispers podcast, where we get to the heart & bones of all things sex, love, and spirit.

Your host Tarea (she/her) works 1:1 and with couples to help them claim the love and intimacy they desire. Tarea is bringing you play and depth to these juicy topics so you can have a deeper understanding of yourself and the freedom to take up space as you are.

Tarea has 2 years training in VITA sex, love, and relationship coaching program, has over 5 years of client experience and brings her unique lens and intuitive medicine to the table.

This space is for all bodies. I am recording this podcast on the unceded territory of the Lekwungen people. I aim to continuously expand my capacity to hold safe and sovereign space for all bodies, including the earth body.

Pussy whispers is not by any means exclusive to pussy havers. This is about safety and love for all beings. I will share my unique lens as a queer, cis gender woman, and trust you will receive what lands for you, and discard what doesn’t. We are all healers, creators, and beings who have experienced trials and tribulations of being human.

You can find her on IG@tareaselixir and if you want to learn about working with her you can check out her offerings at www.tareaselixir.com

Pussy Whispers Tarea Elixir

    • Health & Fitness

Welcome to the Pussy Whispers podcast, where we get to the heart & bones of all things sex, love, and spirit.

Your host Tarea (she/her) works 1:1 and with couples to help them claim the love and intimacy they desire. Tarea is bringing you play and depth to these juicy topics so you can have a deeper understanding of yourself and the freedom to take up space as you are.

Tarea has 2 years training in VITA sex, love, and relationship coaching program, has over 5 years of client experience and brings her unique lens and intuitive medicine to the table.

This space is for all bodies. I am recording this podcast on the unceded territory of the Lekwungen people. I aim to continuously expand my capacity to hold safe and sovereign space for all bodies, including the earth body.

Pussy whispers is not by any means exclusive to pussy havers. This is about safety and love for all beings. I will share my unique lens as a queer, cis gender woman, and trust you will receive what lands for you, and discard what doesn’t. We are all healers, creators, and beings who have experienced trials and tribulations of being human.

You can find her on IG@tareaselixir and if you want to learn about working with her you can check out her offerings at www.tareaselixir.com

    Stepping outside of the self abandoning binaries

    Stepping outside of the self abandoning binaries

    This weeks episode Tarea talks about about how getting caught in the loop of "good" and "bad", "right or wrong", "she" or "he", and the topic of systems that have the facade of safety, love, and belonging, are actually cause a lot of isolation, fear, and being severed from highest truth and deepest love. 
     
    She shares how you can get curious with your own body, mind, heart, and spirit to radically create a sense of safety, love, and belonging in your beingness and true essence outside of the chains, beliefs, and constructs that limit you from thriving, feeling joy, and knowing your authentic self. 
     
     

    • 49 min
    The intimate aliveness of heartbreak & grief

    The intimate aliveness of heartbreak & grief

    The episode I didn't want to make but new I must.
    This week I am going to take you on a journey of grief through the voice of my heart. I am going to share what I have discovered and the intimacy that can open up inside of it all. 
    May this be a torch for when you too go into the cave of darkness or the dark night of the soul. May this be your permission to be human. May this be poetry to your sadness. Comedic relief to your rage. 
    May this be simply, all that it wants and needs, to be for you.
    References:

    Sarah Blondin on insight timer 
    Heidi Priebe on YouTube 
    The wild edge of sorrow by Francis Weller and Michael Lerner
    The wisdom of a broken heart by Susan Piver

    • 1 hr 11 min
    The spiritual connection between control & surrender

    The spiritual connection between control & surrender

    The spiritual connection between control and surrender. 
    This week I share with you what I thought was surrender, and turned out to be control, and how I found the truth of surrender. 
    This was a moment I will always remember and has made me so much stronger.
    www.tareaselixir.com
     

    • 49 min
    You don't have to hide away until you are "perfect" in order to be loved

    You don't have to hide away until you are "perfect" in order to be loved

    This weeks episode I talk to you about the struggle of the spiritual perfectionist mindset and how debilitating it can be to feel constantly not good enough and not worthy of your desires. 
    Whether that is romantic desires or life passion & purpose. 
    I speak about ways to integrate this so you can start to crawl out of that cave of having to be perfect before you have the romance and life you want. 
    When you feel perpetually afraid to be rejected and not accepted as you are it creates this massive inner turmoil that blocks you from sharing your authentic self in relationships which has you feel left alone or prevents you from sharing your medicine with the world and feeling alone in that as well. 
    Let me know what you think and share any moments that inspired you so I can celebrate and love you in your vulnerability. 
    I want to also acknowledge that if you have been afraid most of your life and are not yet sure how to feel safe as you are, it's going to feely normal and you do not have to do it alone. I am here to support you. 
     
    If you want to learn about working with me you can find me on IG @tareaselixir and on my website www.tareaselixir.com

    • 33 min
    How knowing your desires will activate Eros (and why that can feel scary AF)2

    How knowing your desires will activate Eros (and why that can feel scary AF)2

    In this weeks episode I will be talking to you about the eros and aliveness that comes from intimately knowing your desires, being able to own them, and allowing them to come to life.
    No matter what that inner critic says, your desires are actually so valid. Your desires are a vital part of your experience being here, and a part of the unique blueprint that is you.
    Knowing your desires will support you to feel more freedom, more aliveness in your sex life, and have this inner trust in who you are so taking risks and leaps of faith won't feel as scary. 
    Follow me on IG @tareaselixir and keep up to date with all my offerings by heading over to my website www.tareaselixir.com
     

    • 1 hr 1 min
    Why it's so valuable to have a conscious relationship with anger

    Why it's so valuable to have a conscious relationship with anger

    This weeks episode I will be talking to you about rage, or what I like to call sacred rage, and it's cousins, frustration and jealousy.
    I'm going to share and clear the air around common misconceptions around anger and how often it is seen as wrong which leaves the rage stagnant and builds up over time in the form of tension in the body. 
    You will explore how anger can be a tool and friend to support you to experience aliveness, self-trust, and deeper sexuality. 

    • 36 min

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