126 episodes

Jay Dee from the blog UncoveringIntimacy.com explores married sexuality from a Christian perspective. Each week we'll explore topics relating to married sexuality from psychology, physiology and also explore what the Bible says about sex, and how to apply that to our lives. We'll also take listener's questions and answer them with frank, but informative answers, drawing on our communities experiences through surveys when applicable. If you have a question you'd like answered on the podcast, please visit UncoveringIntimacy.com to submit your anonymous question on our Have A Question page. So, if you want a healthy, vibrant, active sex life but have questions that are holding you back, please tune in and learn about how amazing and fulfilling marriage can be.

Sex Within Marriage Podcast : Exploring Married Sexuality from a Christian Perspective Jay Dee - Marriage Educator

    • Religion & Spirituality
    • 4.7 • 15 Ratings

Jay Dee from the blog UncoveringIntimacy.com explores married sexuality from a Christian perspective. Each week we'll explore topics relating to married sexuality from psychology, physiology and also explore what the Bible says about sex, and how to apply that to our lives. We'll also take listener's questions and answer them with frank, but informative answers, drawing on our communities experiences through surveys when applicable. If you have a question you'd like answered on the podcast, please visit UncoveringIntimacy.com to submit your anonymous question on our Have A Question page. So, if you want a healthy, vibrant, active sex life but have questions that are holding you back, please tune in and learn about how amazing and fulfilling marriage can be.

    SWM 126 – Unspoken Nuances of Understanding

    SWM 126 – Unspoken Nuances of Understanding

    SWM 126 - Unspoken nuances of understanding. Check out the blog post here for more details and links.
    Marriage is a cosmic tapestry, a constellation of souls woven into the fabric of time, where vows echo in the heart's language, shaping a journey of shared whispers and laughter. It's a dance of compromise and compassion, a symphony where individual melodies blend into a shared harmony, with time sculpting the narrative of a joint odyssey. Amidst life's tempests, love's resilience is tested, forging a bond that transcends the ephemeral, painting a portrait of unity where intimacy bridges solitude, and shared dreams color the canvas of existence.
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    Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.

    • 7 min
    SWM 125 – Rethinking “Duty Sex”

    SWM 125 – Rethinking “Duty Sex”

    SWM 125 - Rethinking Duty Sex. Check out the blog post here for more details and links.
    I've had a lot of conversations with couples as well as husbands and wives individually lately about what often gets called "duty sex" or "pity sex." For those who don't know, duty/pity sex is when one spouse gives in to sex, not because they desire it themselves, but because their spouse does. They might have sex for many reasons, including feeling obligated, pressured, guilty, to keep the peace or to "get them off their back."
    The problem is that these negative reasons are often the only ones considered, and so any situation in which one spouse wants sex and the other agrees to it without having an internal desire of their own is seen as unfavourable.
    But there are some excellent reasons to have what's commonly considered "duty sex" or "pity sex," and often, the conflicts I see in marriages are not that it's because of those reasons I mentioned above but instead about something positive and loving.
    So, in this podcast episode, we're going to talk about reframing duty sex in those situations.
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    Thank you to all our faithful supporters!
    If you like that there are no ads in our podcast and want to keep it that way, check out our support page for more info.  Even $5/month makes a difference.
    Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.

    • 15 min
    SWM 124 – My daughter’s speech – A vaccine against the epidemic of transgenderism

    SWM 124 – My daughter’s speech – A vaccine against the epidemic of transgenderism

    SWM 124 - My daughter's speech - A vaccine against the epidemic of transgenderism. Check out the blog post here for more details and links.
    Today I've got something a bit different than the usual fare. Last year, for our 100th episode, I had my eldest daughter present her 4H speech as I felt it fit the scope of this blog. This year, she wrote a part 2. She won at her local club, and placed second at districts. So, we thought we'd record a version for the podcast again. Rather than give away any of the speech, I'll just let you read it. If you do want to go back you can read the first speech here.
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    If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.
    Thank you to all our faithful supporters!
    If you'd like to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info.  Even $5/month makes a difference.
    Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.

    • 9 min
    SWM 123 – AQ – Enjoying anal sex, periods and vacation, aging and orgasms, fantasizing, and condoms for handjobs

    SWM 123 – AQ – Enjoying anal sex, periods and vacation, aging and orgasms, fantasizing, and condoms for handjobs

    January and February 2023 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links.
    In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:
    The monthly masturbation challengeHow do I make anal sex enjoyable for her?Periods and vacations and sexAging and orgasm strugglesHow do I know if I’m in right?Does fantasizing about my husband make it a shared experience?Condoms for handjobsResources for newlywed virginsHere are the links I mentioned during the podcast:
    FullyLiving.com Marital Mastery Virtual WebinarBecoming more sexually engaged Webinar (for wives)Is it okay to engage in pegging in marriage?Do Christians have sex during their period?Can you have sex during your period?Christians, anal sex and anal playThe DivaCup and why I love it (by my wife Christina)Our Sexploration ListThe Limon by MinnaLife (sex toy - bullet, rumbly and quiet - on a rediculous sale and the last of their stock)SWM 082SWM 085Intended for pleasure - Ed and Gaye Wheat (book)Married Sex - Gary Thomas and Debra Fileta (book)Book reviews I've doneFollow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter
    If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.
    Thank you to all our faithful champions!
    If you'd like to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info.  Even $5/month makes a difference!
    Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review.  They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage.  You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.

    • 15 min
    SWM 122 – How to make your spouse more attractive to you

    SWM 122 – How to make your spouse more attractive to you

    SWM 122 - How to make your spouse more attractive to you. Check out the blog post here for more details and links.
    If you look online, you can find tons of videos, articles, podcasts, products and more about how to make yourself more attractive to your spouse or potential partners. I mean, it's everywhere. You can also find resources to help you make your spouse more attractive by changing them. What you don't see much of, though, are resources to help you change your mindset to make them seem more attractive to you without changing them.
    We all know the phrase "beauty is in the eye of the beholder," but rarely, if ever, is it used to recognize that you, as the beholder, can change what you're attracted to.
    Upcoming Events:Marriage Mastery Virtual Summit - I'm speaking at 3pm EST on March 9th, 2024 about why you should have a varied sexual repertoireBecoming more sexually engaged webinar - for Christian wives
    Resources:37 Questions for spouses to ask each other about sexOur Sexploration List - Sample
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    If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.
    Thank you to all our faithful supporters!
    If you'd like to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info.  Even $5/month makes a difference.
    Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.

    • 18 min
    SWM 121 – Why marriage should be hard work

    SWM 121 – Why marriage should be hard work

    SWM 121 - Why marriage should be hard work. Check out the blog post here for more details and links.
    I made a post on social media some time ago saying, “Marriage is hard, divorce is hard, choose your hard,” and someone asked me if I then disagreed with some other bloggers and podcasters who say that marriage is and should be easy.  This post expands on what I wrote in response to that question.
    There is a trend these days to water down Christianity and make it easy.  In the times of the early church, being a Christian meant persecution, possibly even death, and they still willingly took on that challenge.  These days, people want Christianity to be comfortable and easy. We see many churches that are more social clubs than ministries, many pastors who are eloquent speakers but not doers of the faith, and many teachers who scratch those itching ears by telling you that being a Christian should be easy and comfortable.
    For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine, but according to their own desires, because they have itching ears, they will heap up for themselves teachers and they will turn their ears away from the truth, and be turned aside to fables. But you be watchful in all things, endure afflictions, do the work of an evangelist, fulfill your ministry. 2 Timothy 4:3-5 (NKJV)
    We see some of this in the prosperity gospel, but also elements of it bleeding into mainstream Christianity. Even if they claim to reject the prosperity gospel on the surface, aspects of it still infect their teaching.
    In particular, I see this in the teaching about marriage.  Some few are teaching that marriage is and should be easy.  So, in this post, we’re going to tackle this false teaching and explore why it’s false and what that hard work is so that you can have a fantastic marriage, not because it’s easy, but because the work is worth it.
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    If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.
    Thank you to all our faithful supporters!
    If you'd like to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info.  Even $5/month makes a difference.
    Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.

    • 16 min

Customer Reviews

4.7 out of 5
15 Ratings

15 Ratings

TheRealYoze ,

Great advice

These podcasts are really good. They taught me so much about relationships. The host has a strong understanding of the Bible and everything he says is based on it.

RainyJane ,

Solid

Practical, applicable advice based on solid Christian theology for the discerning listener.

Laurhen3668 ,

Great for non-Christians too

I'm a non-Christian female who was looking for some insight into what my husband was thinking/feeling especially when it came to sex. This podcast helped me to decode a lot of this and as a result my marriage has drastically improved. Listen with an open mind, I promise you'll learn a lot. Also the host Jay Dee was quick to get back to me with f-up questions I had. Highly recommend.

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