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Flirtations! with Benjamin, the Flirt Coach

Hey, flirty! With new episodes dropping every week, Flirtations is your go-to resource for getting out of your head and into the flirt! I’m so excited to bring you classic conversations on timeless dating questions around pacing, communication, and confidence ... with a unique Flirt Coach perspective! You can expect thought provoking, inclusive conversations with an array of guests and much, much more. Let’s flirt! You can connect with me on Flirtstagram:  https://www.instagram.com/benjamincamras/ And Flirttok:  https://www.tiktok.com/@benjamincamras To work together 1:1 and for all Flirt Coach offers:  https://stan.store/benjamincamras

  1. 10 HR AGO

    Flirtini #8: F.O.M.O. (Fear of Missing Out) in Dating!

    What is F.O.M.O. (fear of missing out) in dating? What does it look like? What are some ways FOMO shows up? How might it hold us back in our dating lives? And what can we do about it? You'll find the answers to all of these questions inside! At it's core, I believe FOMO is about a scarcity mindset that causes us to feel like something in our life is missing, and is rooted in comparison. FOMO also causes us to look outside ourselves for happiness and validation, which isn't inherently bad, but can lead us to feeling unfulfilled.  Yet, there's ways to shift out a FOMO/scarcity mindset into one of abundance where the point we're at today versus where we want to be doesn't seem so far away.  And that we have it within ourselves to totally get out of FOMO! To learn more about Morning Pages, click here. Then don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review Flirtations on your favorite podcast platform, and share this episode to spread BFE - big flirt energy, all over the world! Enjoying the show and want to support my work? Buy the Flirt Coach a coffee! About your host:  Benjamin is a flirt and dating coach sharing his love of flirting and BFE - big flirt energy, with the world! A lifelong introvert and socially anxious member of society, Benjamin now helps singles and daters alike flirt with more confidence, clarity, and fun! As the flirt is all about connection, Benjamin helps the flirt community (the flirties!) date from a place that allows the value of connection in all forms - platonic, romantic, and with the self - to take center stage and transform lives for greater healing and deeper connections. You can connect with Benjamin on Instagram, TikTok, stream the Flirtations Flirtcast everywhere you listen to podcasts (like right here!), and find out more about working together 1:1 here. 💗 Happy flirting!

    22 min

  2. 2 DAYS AGO

    51. Love in Bloom: Dispelling the "Late Bloomer" Concept in Dating with Mia Chard

    Have you every felt like you're a late bloomer when it comes to dating and relationships? Or wondered if the love you're looking is meant for you? In this episode of Flirtations, we're going into both of these topics - and much more - with our guest Mia Chard! Mia went viral on Tik Tok for talking about the themes of dating in her early 40's, adult loneliness, and having not been in a relationship before.  Her videos have touched millions all over the world and Mia has got incredible insight to share with you on some of your biggest dating questions, like: Where do I even start with dating if I don't feel I have much experience? Or any experience? How can I be with loneliness as a single person? What if I feel like it's too late for me? What do I say when people ask me, "Why are you still single?" What can I say when I get asked about my relationship history, but I haven't really dated before? How can I face my fears? What can I do if dating feels overwhelming? What are some dating strategies I can use if I'm unsure where to start? For mindset, what are a few shifts or tricks I can use to date with confidence? How can I grieve experiences I've maybe never had and wanted to, like a teenage romance or prom date? Don't miss this heartfelt conversation that proves it's never too late to find love and happiness in dating, no matter your age or stage of life you're in! Then don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review Flirtations on your favorite podcast platform, and share this episode to spread BFE - big flirt energy, all over the world! Enjoying the show and want to support my work? Buy the Flirt Coach a coffee! About our guest:  Mia Chard is a TikTok content creator and mental health advocate that discusses the topics of loneliness, dating, vulnerability, and mental health on her account. She started sharing her experience of never having been in a relationship two years ago and has built a community of people online that connect to that unique experience and has found it is not that unique at all! There are many people who relate to having little or no relationship experience and her hope is to help others know their worthiness isn’t contingent on relationship status— that they can find purpose and meaning in or out of relationships.  You can connect with Mia and follow her journeys on TikTok! About your host:  Benjamin is a flirt and dating coach sharing his love of flirting and BFE - big flirt energy, with the world! A lifelong introvert and socially anxious member of society, Benjamin now helps singles and daters alike flirt with more confidence, clarity, and fun! As the flirt is all about connection, Benjamin helps the flirt community (the flirties!) date from a place that allows the value of connection in all forms - platonic, romantic, and with the self - to take center stage and transform lives for greater healing and deeper connections. You can connect with Benjamin on Instagram, TikTok, stream the Flirtations Flirtcast everywhere you listen to podcasts (like right here!), and find out more about working together 1:1 here. 💗 Happy flirting!

    58 min

  3. 5 DAYS AGO

    50. How to Not Date Potential with Dr. Sheva

    Have you ever dated someone's potential? Dating who you want them to be? Who they could be? Who you think they should be? Or maybe you find yourself romanticizing the future?  Lawd knows I have! Thankfully, in this episode, we welcome Dr. Sheva to the show to talk about why we date potential and how can we practice a different approach! Inside, we talk about the different ways we date potential, why we do it, and how to be more grounded - and present - in the dating process.  We also offer strategies for navigating the gray areas of dating, like when someone says they are going to change, but you're unsure how long to wait? Or what signs to look for to know if they're changing? Or if you should even wait in the first place? Finally, we've got ways to manage anxiety in the dating process and how can you identify your needs and work with boundaries so you are less likely to date someone's potential. I hope you enjoy this one as we move out of dating in the past and future, and date in the present! Then don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review Flirtations on your favorite podcast platform, and share this episode to spread BFE - big flirt energy, all over the world! Enjoying the show and want to support my work? Buy the Flirt Coach a coffee! About our guest:  Dr. Sheva is a licensed clinical psychologist and podcast host of "Tell Me Some More with Dr. Sheva". She believes that the relationship we have with ourselves, particularly how we think and respond to ourselves, is the foundation for our relationships with others. Dr. Sheva is passionate about empowering women to improve their confidence, relationship with themselves, and relational skills to have the connections and life they desire. She also regularly presents on various wellness and mental health topics for individuals and organizations to promote holistic wellness.  Dr. Sheva has shared her relationship perspectives and expertise in numerous publications, such as Forbes, Cosmopolitan, InStyle Magazine, and news platforms.  Learn more about Dr. Sheva on her Instagram @drsheva and at www.drshevaassar.com, as well as the Tell Me Some More podcast. About your host:  Benjamin is a flirt and dating coach sharing his love of flirting and BFE - big flirt energy, with the world! A lifelong introvert and socially anxious member of society, Benjamin now helps singles and daters alike flirt with more confidence, clarity, and fun! As the flirt is all about connection, Benjamin helps the flirt community (the flirties!) date from a place that allows the value of connection in all forms - platonic, romantic, and with the self - to take center stage and transform lives for greater healing and deeper connections. You can connect with Benjamin on Instagram, TikTok, stream the Flirtations Flirtcast everywhere you listen to podcasts (like right here!), and find out more about working together 1:1 here. 💗 Happy flirting!

    54 min

  4. 20 NOV

    Flirtini #7: Flirting and Conversation Tips for a Date!

    In this Flirtini today, we're doing some flirting, ya'll! No matter where you're at in the dating process, whether you're heading into a first date, a tenth date, or looking to get back out there in the future, this episode is for you! As we answer the question, "How can you have more engaging conversations - and flirts - on a date?" All is revealed inside for just how you'll take things to the next level and develop deeper connections, which is what the flirt is ultimately all about! Resources mentioned in the episode: FREE Flirt Styles Quiz:  Follow this link! Textual Chemistry download:  Learn more and purchase here! 46 pages of conversation and flirting tips! Then don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review Flirtations on your favorite podcast platform, and share this episode to spread BFE - big flirt energy, all over the world! Enjoying the show and want to support my work? Buy the Flirt Coach a coffee! About your host:  Benjamin is a flirt and dating coach sharing his love of flirting and BFE - big flirt energy, with the world! A lifelong introvert and socially anxious member of society, Benjamin now helps singles and daters alike flirt with more confidence, clarity, and fun! As the flirt is all about connection, Benjamin helps the flirt community (the flirties!) date from a place that allows the value of connection in all forms - platonic, romantic, and with the self - to take center stage and transform lives for greater healing and deeper connections. You can connect with Benjamin on Instagram, TikTok, stream the Flirtations Flirtcast everywhere you listen to podcasts (like right here!), and find out more about working together 1:1 here. 💗 Happy flirting!

    19 min

  5. 18 NOV

    49. The Trauma Episode with Tal Fish

    On this episode of Flirtations, we welcome Tal Fish to the show, a licensed mental health counselor, to have a conversation with us about trauma. In this complex, sometimes misunderstood, and yet highly relevant topic, we hold the space to go deep and talk about trauma, which many of us will experience at some point in our lives. And when a trauma happens, whether it's a single event or something we experience multiple times, often we feel like something changes within us. We may feel unsure about how to move forward or what happens next. When it comes to dating, making connections, and forming relationships, trauma can show up in unexpected ways and make it difficult to open up. Today, we hope to make this a little bit easier. We start by defining trauma and recognizing how we may respond to it. What happens to the brain and body when we experience trauma? What are some ways that we naturally cope? Does the body hold on to (or store) trauma? How can we begin to release and heal? Our conversation also addresses how trauma influences our choices and behaviors in dating, including having difficulty trusting others and building intimacy. Here, we strategies for learning to trust again (speaking to hypervigilance here) while maintaining your boundaries and protecting yourself. Finally, we offer guidelines for healing from trauma, remaining hopeful, and moving forward with optimism and an open heart. I hope you'll join us for this very powerful conversation! *This episode contains potentially sensitive dialogue about trauma. If you need to come back and listen at another time, please know this episode will always be here for you.* Then don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review Flirtations on your favorite podcast platform, and share this episode to spread BFE - big flirt energy, all over the world! Enjoying the show and want to support my work? Buy the Flirt Coach a coffee! About our guest:  Tal Fish (he/him) is a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor and Licensed Clinical Addictions Specialist. He is also an actor, singer, and hopeless romantic. He’s a part time professor in addition to being a full-time clinician and loves to perform in his spare time. He is passionate about mental health and social justice, and loves being a cat dad to his Snowshoe kitten.  About your host:  Benjamin is a flirt and dating coach sharing his love of flirting and BFE - big flirt energy, with the world! A lifelong introvert and socially anxious member of society, Benjamin now helps singles and daters alike flirt with more confidence, clarity, and fun! As the flirt is all about connection, Benjamin helps the flirt community (the flirties!) date from a place that allows the value of connection in all forms - platonic, romantic, and with the self - to take center stage and transform lives for greater healing and deeper connections. You can connect with Benjamin on Instagram, TikTok, stream the Flirtations Flirtcast everywhere you listen to podcasts (like right here!), and find out more about working together 1:1 here. 💗 Happy flirting!

    55 min

  6. 15 NOV

    48. Breaking Free: Surviving and Thriving After a Narcissistic Relationship with Madeline Beeler and Randi Markowitz

    In this powerful episode of Flirtations, we welcome two Flirties to the show to share with us their stories of surviving and thriving after a narcissistic relationship. Our guests, Madeline Beeler and Randi Markowitz, share their personal experiences of being in relationships with narcissistic partners and, through their stories, we explore the signs of narcissistic behavior, the emotional toll it takes, and the journey towards healing, self-discovery, and what comes next. What you'll hear inside: Understanding Narcissism: What it is and how to recognize it in a partner Red Flags: Identifying the early signs of narcissistic behavior The Emotional Impact: How being in a relationship with a narcissist affects your mental and emotional health Breaking Free: The turning points that led our guests to leave their relationships Healing and Recovery: Practical advice on rebuilding self-esteem and finding hope after leaving a narcissistic relationship Moving Forward: How to avoid falling into similar patterns in future relationships and cultivate healthy connections Please join us for an insightful and heartfelt conversation that sheds light on the challenges of dealing with narcissism in relationships and offers hope and strategies for anyone looking to reclaim their lives - and thrive! Then don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review Flirtations on your favorite podcast platform, and share this episode to spread BFE - big flirt energy, all over the world! Enjoying the show and want to support my work? Buy the Flirt Coach a coffee! About our guests! Madeline Beeler is a business coach, mindset expert, and advocate for women navigating major life transitions. With a focus on empowering women to build thriving businesses and create meaningful lives, she helps them break free from limiting beliefs and step into their full potential. As a single mom, she understands the challenges of balancing family, business, and self-care, and she’s passionate about guiding women through the process of creating aligned, successful businesses. When she's not coaching, you can find her living life fully with her daughter and partner, and dreaming big for the future. You connect with Madeline on Instagram. If you know its time to leave your relationship or marriage and looking for support, check out Madeline's upcoming course, Empowered Exit! You can learn more and join the waitlist here: https://madelinebeelerco.podia.com/empowered-exit Randi Markowitz is a mixed-media artist who works as a painter, photographer, and graphic designer. Her paintings often feature inspirational messages, as she strongly believes in the power of words. Each piece includes an uplifting quote or saying—sometimes visible and other times hidden—intended to inspire feelings of love and hope. In 2023, she received the Best of Chatham award for her design business, Belle Fleur Design. In 2024, she will participate in the Chatham Artists Guild Studio Tour to showcase her artwork under Randi Markowitz Art. As a single mother, she has overcome the challenges of narcissistic abuse and now helps others understand narcissism. You can find Randi’s art on Instagram @randimarkowitzart and Facebook @randi.markowitz.art and her website www.randimarkowitz.com. Her graphic design work can be found on Instagram @bellefleurgraphicdesign and Facebook @bellefleurgraphicdesign and www.bellefleurdesign.com About your host:  Benjamin is a flirt and dating coach sharing his love of flirting and BFE - big flirt energy, with the world! A lifelong introvert and socially anxious member of society, Benjamin now helps singles and daters alike flirt with more confidence, clarity, and fun! As the flirt is all about connection, Benjamin helps the flirt community (the flirties!) date from a place that allows the value of connection in all forms - platonic, romantic, and with the self - to take center stage and transform lives for greater healing and deeper connections. You can connect with Benjam

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  7. 13 NOV

    Flirtini #6: Dating Anxiety, Codependency + Moving too Fast, and Are They Flirting with Me?

    Flirties! It's the first Q&A Flirtini! In this one today, I answer three dating questions that were submitted! ➡️ Question 1: When I meet someone, I automatically ask myself, “Is this my future partner?”  How can I stop doing that and enjoy the dating process more? ➡️ Question 2: I tend to rush a connection and go into codependency mode. What can I do about this? If things have moved too fast, is it too late to slow things down? What could I say? ➡️ Question 3:  I think someone is flirting with me, but I’m not sure. How can I tell? Should I ask them out? Or wait? Check out this Flirtini for the answers to these questions, all delivered with my signature Flirt Coach perspective! Then don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review Flirtations on your favorite podcast platform, and share this episode to spread BFE - big flirt energy, all over the world! Enjoying the show and want to support my work? Buy the Flirt Coach a coffee! About your host:  Benjamin is a flirt and dating coach sharing his love of flirting and BFE - big flirt energy, with the world! A lifelong introvert and socially anxious member of society, Benjamin now helps singles and daters alike flirt with more confidence, clarity, and fun! As the flirt is all about connection, Benjamin helps the flirt community (the flirties!) date from a place that allows the value of connection in all forms - platonic, romantic, and with the self - to take center stage and transform lives for greater healing and deeper connections. You can connect with Benjamin on Instagram, TikTok, stream the Flirtations Flirtcast everywhere you listen to podcasts (like right here!), and find out more about working together 1:1 here. 💗 Happy flirting!

    22 min

  8. 11 NOV

    47. Healing from a Narcissistic Relationship and Living Courageously with Dana Flaherty

    On this episode of Flirtations, we welcome the incredible Dana Flaherty to share with us her story of healing from a relationship with a narcissist. If you've ever found yourself trapped in the harmful cycle of narcissistic abuse, this episode offers hope, guidance, and inspiration for reclaiming your power and why the best is yet to come. Today, we'll get into: How it begins:  How does the narcissist show up in the early stages of dating? Are there early signs to look for? The Turning Point: Dana shares what the turning point was, how to not abandon yourself even in a narcissistic relationship and why leaving is so hard. Escaping the Narcissist: What are the complexities of leaving a narcissistic relationship? How do you get out? What do you do if/when they come back? Healing and Recovery:  Insight and advice on the healing process, from setting boundaries and seeking support to rediscovering love and trusting again. Living Courageously: Exploring how to rebuild your life after narcissistic abuse, continue to show up for yourself and your family, and believe that the best is yet to come. Whether you're in the midst of a narcissistic relationship, in the early stages of recovery, or looking to support a loved one, this episode is packed with wisdom and hope to help you move forward and live courageously! Then don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review Flirtations on your favorite podcast platform, and share this episode to spread BFE - big flirt energy, all over the world! Enjoying the show and want to support my work? Buy the Flirt Coach a coffee! About our guest:  Dana Jill became a social media creator on TikTok during 2020 in addition to her full time, multifamily career.  She has a huge passion for helping women feel empowered by sharing her tips and tricks that have made her feel more confident.  She is a single mother of three and uses her platform to share how you can be "park happy" and thrive as a single parent.     You can connect with Dana on TikTok and Instagram! About your host:  Benjamin is a flirt and dating coach sharing his love of flirting and BFE - big flirt energy, with the world! A lifelong introvert and socially anxious member of society, Benjamin now helps singles and daters alike flirt with more confidence, clarity, and fun! As the flirt is all about connection, Benjamin helps the flirt community (the flirties!) date from a place that allows the value of connection in all forms - platonic, romantic, and with the self - to take center stage and transform lives for greater healing and deeper connections. You can connect with Benjamin on Instagram, TikTok, stream the Flirtations Flirtcast everywhere you listen to podcasts (like right here!), and find out more about working together 1:1 here. 💗 Happy flirting!

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Hey, flirty! With new episodes dropping every week, Flirtations is your go-to resource for getting out of your head and into the flirt! I’m so excited to bring you classic conversations on timeless dating questions around pacing, communication, and confidence ... with a unique Flirt Coach perspective! You can expect thought provoking, inclusive conversations with an array of guests and much, much more. Let’s flirt! You can connect with me on Flirtstagram:  https://www.instagram.com/benjamincamras/ And Flirttok:  https://www.tiktok.com/@benjamincamras To work together 1:1 and for all Flirt Coach offers:  https://stan.store/benjamincamras

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