Dating Intentionally

Talia Koren

No outdated rules. Just honest, thoughtful advice to help you get what you're after in your dating life, and have fun along the way. Dating Intentionally will help you navigate modern dating with clarity, confidence, and purpose. Whether you're dating after a big break up, trying to avoid past mistakes, or just tired of swiping aimlessly, this show will guide you to make decisions that align with your values while actually enjoying the dating process. Hosted by Talia Koren, this show dives into real, practical strategies to help you attract the right matches, build connection, and move toward your dream relationship. Talia shares advice based on her real-life experience of going on 150ish dates with over 60 people in under a year until she met her husband (on Hinge)! You'll hear no-nonsense advice from her and guest experts, therapists, and authors to implement into your dating life today.

  1. 13 HR AGO

    A Therapist Breaks Down the Chaos on Love Is Blind S10 ft. Jordan Dann

    In this bonus episode, I'm sitting down with Jordan Dann, a couples therapist and psychoanalyst who, like me, loves to watch Love Is Blind on Netflix. This episode contains spoilers! We're talking about the moments from Season 10 (Ohio) living rent-free in our minds, including Alex & Ashley's dynamic that stays on the surface/never gets deep, Brittney and Devonta's pursuer/withdrawer dynamic, and how Bri just isn't ready for a guy like Connor. We touch on the insanity of Chris's behavior throughout the show at the end as well. Who will say yes at the altar this Wednesday? We share our predictions at the end. Check out Jordan's Substack! And here's my first ep with Jordan - all about the honeymoon stage in relationships. THANKS TO OUR PARTNERS Meundies: Get up to 50% off on underwear with code DATING! meundies.com/dating Quince: Get free shipping & 365-day returns on luxe basics, bedding, and more. quince.com/talia Pique Life: Unlock 20% off your first order! piquelife.com/dating Wayfair: Get organized, refreshed, and back on track this new year for WAY less. wayfair.com CONNECT WITH ME: ⁠Ask a question for me to answer on the pod⁠ ⁠Slide into my DMs on IG @dating.intentionally MORE FREE ADVICE & CONTENT ⁠Free texting templates & dating FAQ guide⁠ ⁠Get more dating advice from me on YouTube⁠ SUPPORT THE POD ⁠Rate on Apple See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    56 min
  2. 2 DAYS AGO

    241. Dating With Different Cultural Backgrounds w/ Marina Iakovleva

    I'm chatting with Marina Iakovleva, creator of Dating Beyond Borders, who's spent 12 years exploring how people date around the world. We're discussing everything from why Scandinavians have sex before they even go for coffee to why Eastern Europeans and Dutch couples clash over gift-giving, to how "the talk" looks completely different depending on where you're from. Marina shares which cultures tend to be most compatible (and which ones really struggle together), the truth about paying for dates globally, and the unique challenges of dating as a digital nomad, like dodging passport bros in Mexico. At the end, we tackle a dating dilemma about navigating different cultural expectations. THANKS TO OUR PARTNERS Meundies: Get up to 50% off on underwear with code DATING! meundies.com/dating Quince: Get free shipping & 365-day returns on luxe basics, bedding, and more. quince.com/talia Pique Life: Unlock 20% off your first order! piquelife.com/dating Wayfair: Get organized, refreshed, and back on track this new year for WAY less. wayfair.com CONNECT WITH ME: ⁠Ask a question for me to answer on the pod⁠ ⁠Slide into my DMs on IG @dating.intentionally MORE FREE ADVICE & CONTENT ⁠Free texting templates & dating FAQ guide⁠ ⁠Get more dating advice from me on YouTube⁠ SUPPORT THE POD ⁠Rate on Apple See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    53 min
  3. 5 DAYS AGO

    240. Stop Confusing Connection for Compatibility (Dating Dilemmas)

    What happens when you have an amazing connection, but the relationship itself is kind of a bust? In this episode, I'm answering four dating dilemmas that all highlight the common dating mistake of confusing connection with compatibility. The truth is, connection is important, but it can't get you anywhere with someone you're incompatible with! Featured dilemmas: 1. A woman who's not sure if she should wait for a great guy she met in person 2. Someone three months into a relationship, wondering if she's asking for too much or just asking the wrong person. 3. Someone who can't tell if the guy she's been dating for three months is a slow burn or not. 4. A woman who's been with someone for over a year and still hasn't heard "I love you" back. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: My take on age gap dating January's Dating Dilemma episode THANKS TO OUR PARTNERS Meundies: Get up to 50% off on underwear with code DATING! meundies.com/dating Quince: Get free shipping & 365-day returns on luxe basics, bedding, and more. quince.com/talia Pique Life: Unlock 20% off your first order! piquelife.com/dating Wayfair: Get organized, refreshed, and back on track this new year for WAY less. wayfair.com CONNECT WITH ME: ⁠Ask a question for me to answer on the pod⁠ ⁠Slide into my DMs on IG @dating.intentionally MORE FREE ADVICE & CONTENT ⁠Free texting templates & dating FAQ guide⁠ ⁠Get more dating advice from me on YouTube⁠ SUPPORT THE POD ⁠Rate on Apple See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    36 min
  4. 20 FEB

    239. Singles Events, Setups & Lessons From Vetting 800 Men w/ Alli Goldberg

    Alli Goldberg (back for round 2!) is the creator and host of Love Isn't Blind, the live dating show where the men can't speak, and she's now hosted nearly 100 shows across 10 cities. That means she's interviewed over 800 men, and she has thoughts. Alli shares what patterns she's noticed from all those interviews, including the surprisingly beautiful things men say about what they're looking for. We talk about why couples need to be better wingpeople, why women need to get over being scared of men if they want to date them, and what positive masculinity actually looks like. Alli also shares her own setup success story. Plus, we answer a dating dilemma from a guy who keeps having great first dates but can't seem to get to date two. THANKS TO OUR PARTNERS Meundies: Get up to 50% off on underwear with code DATING! meundies.com/dating Quince: Get free shipping & 365-day returns on luxe basics, bedding, and more. quince.com/talia Pique Life: Unlock 20% off your first order! piquelife.com/dating Wayfair: Get organized, refreshed, and back on track this new year for WAY less. wayfair.com JOIN THE COMMUNITY datingintentionallypod.com/community CONNECT WITH ME: ⁠Ask a question for me to answer on the pod⁠ ⁠Slide into my DMs on IG @dating.intentionally MORE FREE ADVICE & CONTENT ⁠Free texting templates & dating FAQ guide⁠ ⁠Get more dating advice from me on YouTube⁠ SUPPORT THE POD ⁠Rate on Apple See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    49 min
  5. 17 FEB

    238. When to Say "I Love You" (And Should You Say It First?)

    I'm sharing my experiences with saying "I love you" for the first time, from awkwardly blurting it out in a noisy subway station to intentionally saying it over the phone. I'm covering the signs you're actually in love, when to say those three little words, and my advice for being the person who says it first, which, yes, I've done in almost every relationship. I also get into what to do if they're not ready to say it back, how often to say it after the first time, and why both saying and showing love matter equally. At the end, I tackle a dating dilemma: a woman who put real effort into romancing her partner, only to be told at the 3-month mark that she didn't do enough. THANKS TO OUR PARTNERS Meundies: Get up to 50% off on underwear with code DATING! meundies.com/dating Quince: Get free shipping & 365-day returns on luxe basics, bedding, and more. quince.com/talia Pique Life: Unlock 20% off your first order! piquelife.com/dating Wayfair: Get organized, refreshed, and back on track this new year for WAY less. wayfair.com JOIN THE COMMUNITY datingintentionallypod.com/community CONNECT WITH ME: ⁠Ask a question for me to answer on the pod⁠ ⁠Slide into my DMs on IG @dating.intentionally MORE FREE ADVICE & CONTENT ⁠Free texting templates & dating FAQ guide⁠ ⁠Get more dating advice from me on YouTube⁠ SUPPORT THE POD ⁠Rate on Apple See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    27 min
  6. 13 FEB

    237. Surviving the Worst Parts of Dating w/ Rory Uphold

    I'm chatting with Rory Uphold, a writer and the author of The Final Girl's Guide to the Horrors of Dating, a book that uses the horror movie framework to help people navigate modern dating. We're discussing everything from how rom-coms groomed us for romantic disappointment and taught women to be chosen instead of the chooser, to the devastating breakup that turned Rory into a final girl, to what she did to rebuild her life after (spoiler: it wasn't therapy). Rory also shares three powerful pieces of advice from her book, including the truth about the walls we build when we're younger, and the walls we have to tear down when we're older. At the end, we tackle two listener questions about grief in relationships and whether to give a former situationship another chance. Get Rory's book: A Final Girl's Guide To The Horrors Of Dating Connect with Rory on IG THANKS TO OUR PARTNERS Meundies: Get up to 50% off on underwear with code DATING! meundies.com/dating Quince: Get free shipping & 365-day returns on luxe basics, bedding, and more. quince.com/talia Pique Life: Unlock 20% off your first order! piquelife.com/dating Wayfair: Get organized, refreshed, and back on track this new year for WAY less. wayfair.com JOIN THE COMMUNITY datingintentionallypod.com/community CONNECT WITH ME: ⁠Ask a question for me to answer on the pod⁠ ⁠Slide into my DMs on IG @dating.intentionally MORE FREE ADVICE & CONTENT ⁠Free texting templates & dating FAQ guide⁠ ⁠Get more dating advice from me on YouTube⁠ SUPPORT THE POD ⁠Rate on Apple See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    57 min
  7. 10 FEB

    236. When to Move In (And What No One Tells You About Living Together)

    You know you want to be with your partner for a long time, but how do you know when to move in? Today I'm sharing everything I've learned about moving in with a partner, from knowing when you're ready to navigating daily life together. I cover the emotional and practical signs you're ready to cohabitate, the red flags that you're not, and why you need to talk about your relationship timeline first. Then I answer your Instagram questions about handling habit differences, avoiding getting on each other's nerves, managing income disparities, keeping romance alive, and so much more. At the end, I tackle a dating dilemma: should you start dating again while unemployed? Episodes & Resources Mentioned: Ep 20: Questions to discuss before moving in together Ep 213: Tara Laferrara on keeping romance aliveLow-budget date ideas post THANKS TO OUR PARTNERS Meundies: Get up to 50% off on underwear with code DATING! meundies.com/dating Quince: Get free shipping & 365-day returns on luxe basics, bedding, and more. quince.com/talia Pique Life: Unlock 20% off your first order! piquelife.com/dating Wayfair: Get organized, refreshed, and back on track this new year for WAY less. wayfair.com JOIN THE COMMUNITY datingintentionallypod.com/community CONNECT WITH ME: ⁠Ask a question for me to answer on the pod⁠ ⁠Slide into my DMs on IG @dating.intentionally MORE FREE ADVICE & CONTENT ⁠Free texting templates & dating FAQ guide⁠ ⁠Get more dating advice from me on YouTube⁠ SUPPORT THE POD ⁠Rate on Apple See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    34 min
  8. 6 FEB

    235. Dating Red Flags That Predict Domestic Inequity w/ Laura Danger

    Author and educator Laura Danger (@thatdarnchat) brought weaponized incompetence and the nag paradox into the mainstream, and today she's here to talk about how these dynamics can show up way before you're married with kids. We get into the early warning signs of domestic inequity you can spot while dating, the green flags that actually matter for a long-term partnership, and what a truly collaborative relationship looks like day to day. Plus, Laura shares her unexpectedly romantic love story, we unpack why "happy wife, happy life" makes me cringe, and we tackle a dating dilemma from someone who started dating their roommate. Check out Laura's amazing book, No More Mediocre: A Call To Reimagine Our Relationships And Demand More THANKS TO OUR PARTNERS Meundies: Get up to 50% off on underwear with code DATING! meundies.com/dating Quince: Get free shipping & 365-day returns on luxe basics, bedding, and more. quince.com/talia Pique Life: Unlock 20% off your first order! piquelife.com/dating Rocket Money: Cancel unwanted subscriptions easily and manage your finances with Rocket Money! Go to rocketmoney.com/dating to get started. AG1: Go to drinkag1.com/dating and get a FREE Welcome Kit with an AG1 Flavor Sampler and a bottle of Vitamin D3 plus K2 when you first subscribe! Olive & June: DIY salon-level nails! Get 20% off your first mani system at oliveandjune.com/dating20 JOIN THE COMMUNITY datingintentionallypod.com/community CONNECT WITH ME: ⁠Ask a question for me to answer on the pod⁠ ⁠Slide into my DMs on IG @dating.intentionally MORE FREE ADVICE & CONTENT ⁠Free texting templates & dating FAQ guide⁠ ⁠Get more dating advice from me on YouTube⁠ SUPPORT THE POD ⁠Rate on Apple See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    54 min

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About

No outdated rules. Just honest, thoughtful advice to help you get what you're after in your dating life, and have fun along the way. Dating Intentionally will help you navigate modern dating with clarity, confidence, and purpose. Whether you're dating after a big break up, trying to avoid past mistakes, or just tired of swiping aimlessly, this show will guide you to make decisions that align with your values while actually enjoying the dating process. Hosted by Talia Koren, this show dives into real, practical strategies to help you attract the right matches, build connection, and move toward your dream relationship. Talia shares advice based on her real-life experience of going on 150ish dates with over 60 people in under a year until she met her husband (on Hinge)! You'll hear no-nonsense advice from her and guest experts, therapists, and authors to implement into your dating life today.

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