Nicola Clinch is a Master Maturation Facilitator and Teacher, Hay House author, and Shamanic Healer. She leads people from all over the world through profound life-changing processes, allowing them to heal from the root, become free of their past, and come home to who they truly are. A leading expert in the field of ontology, human behavior, the human condition, trauma, and energetic intelligence, Nicky is ruthlessly committed to being a space for human beings to evolve beyond their childhood patterns, traumas, and generational stories, in order to mature, access higher states of consciousness, and discover their infinite potential. She founded and leads The Alchemy of Being: Academy of Maturation Coaching and has trained hundreds of people globally to become professional maturation coaches. With her pioneering teachings and practices of the BodyMind Maturation Method™, she integrates ancient wisdom, Zen mastery, and the future of human evolution. In this chat, Nicky emphasizes the importance of becoming conscious of the design and structure of the human condition and recognizing the blind spots that color our perception of reality. The conversation also touches on the power of choice, the impact of our past on our present, and the ripple effect of personal transformation on relationships and communication, i.e., the purpose of relationships is for spiritual evolution, not to make each other happy. Check out her website: https://nickyclinch.com Follow her Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nicky_clinch Follow her on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nickyclinchmaturation Find her on LinkedIn: https://uk.linkedin.com/company/nicky-clinch-surrender Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Letting Go 05:00 Describing Personal and Professional Background 08:08 The Power of Learning and Blaming 09:51 Being More Oneself and Returning to Authentic Essence 12:07 Mining for Diamonds: Uncovering Authentic Essence 15:42 Rewiring Neural Pathways and the Power of Choice 19:04 Being with Emotions and Dissolving Frozen Moments 21:36 The Confusion of Past and Present 24:56 Becoming Conscious and Aware of Human Design 30:04 The Impact of Blind Spots on Relationships 34:03 The Ripple Effect of Personal Growth 38:09 Taking Responsibility for Healing and Growth 38:58 Moving Beyond Blame and Drama 41:18 The Power of Boredom and Presence 45:33 Challenges of Personal Growth and Addiction to Survival Patterns 52:26 Finding the Doorway to Healing and Transformation Keywords: maturation, childhood trauma, human behavior, ontology, blind spots, perception, choice, past and present, relationships, communication, relationships, spiritual evolution, intimate mirrors, growth, blame, drama, responsibility, healing, boredom, creativity, self-evolution industry, mental health, collective perspective _______________________________________ Want to work with Jeremy? Click here. Sign up for Jeremy's weekly newsletter! Each week, he shares a personal story and his favorite books, tunes, articles, and ideas. Click here: https://longdistancelovebombs.mykajabi.com/email. It's easy and takes five seconds. Follow Jeremy on Instagram @LongDistanceLoveBombs: https://www.instagram.com/longdistancelovebombs. Check out a list of 120 of Jeremy's favorite books here, including HIS BOOK, and many his guests have written and recommend reading: https://www.amazon.com/shop/longdistancelovebombs. Here is all of Jeremy's favorite stuff on the planet: https://www.longdistancelovebombs.com/favorites