LaidOPEN Podcast Charna Cassell
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- Salud y forma física
Welcome to the LaidOPEN Podcast hosted by Charna Cassell. Charna is a Trauma-Trained Psychotherapist and Sexuality Coach with over 20 years of experience. Every day, Charna helps clients heal from trauma and access more bodily joy, emotional regulation, vitality, and hope.
Now she’s bringing her expertise to podcasting with interviews from post-trauma thrivers who share creative resources to support living an authentic, passionate, mindful existence.
Together they explore how to have a more pleasure-filled, peaceful life while reducing self-sabotaging behaviors and gaining control over reactive behaviors. Charna’s mission is to help people like you understand the impact of trauma on their nervous system and therefore their relationships with an emphasis on ways to heal.
In every episode, Charna explores how to build our physical and emotional capacity to be with all that moves through us and around us to ultimately feel more liberated on the other side. Join our community as we embark on this transformative journey by reaccessing our connection to aliveness.
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Trigger Talk: Insights for Rewiring Our Reactions with Susan Campbell, PhD
In this episode of the Laid Open Podcast we welcome Dr. Susan Campbell PhD, an esteemed psychologist and relationship coach who delves deep into the essence of understanding and managing what triggers us in intimate relationships.
Dr. Susan provides practical steps for self-awareness, emotional regulation, and effective communication to foster healthier relationships. Plus, she emphasizes the importance of self-compassion, safety, and understanding attachment styles. Together, Charna and Dr. Susan discuss the profound impact of individual healing on a collective scale.
The episode wraps up with Dr. Susan guiding an exercise on recognizing one’s Trigger Signature and touches on approaches for relational freedom and repair.
00:00 Introduction and Course Announcement
01:18 Introducing Susan Campbell
02:26 Exploring Emotional Triggers and Healing
19:42 Understanding Attachment Styles
26:44 Practicing Self-Regulation and Pausing
37:05 Understanding Attachment Dynamics
37:20 Learning Through Experience
39:27 The Importance of Repair in Relationships
40:22 Compassionate Self-Inquiry
40:44 Addressing Core Fears and Triggers
42:17 Effective Communication and Repair Scripts
48:17 The Role of Radical Honesty
48:59 Creating Safety and Self-Awareness
50:07 Managing Triggers and Repair Timing
53:50 Unilateral Repair and Seeking Reassurance
58:45 When to Seek Third-Party Help
01:00:14 Workshops, Webinars, and Continued Learning
01:02:03 Relational Freedom and Trigger Signature Exercise
01:13:54 Conclusion and Resources
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Making Trauma Funny: The Power of Humor and Healing with Mark Walsh
In this episode of LaidOPEN Podcast, host Charna Cassell welcomes guest Mark Walsh an embodiment coach and host of The Embodiment Podcast, to discuss their shared history and Mark's extensive work in the field of embodiment and trauma education. He's also the author of Embodiment, Working with the Body in Training and Coaching, and Embodied Meditation. He led The Embodiment Conference (1000 teachers, 500,000 delegates) and has trained over 2000 embodiment coaches in over 40 countries.
Mark, situated near Stonehenge in England, shares insights from his extensive travels and training, including his work with trauma-affected communities in Ukraine. The conversation spans various topics, such as the global rise of social isolation, the impact of technology on mental health, the essential role of humor in trauma work, and the importance of cultural context in embodiment practices.
Mark also shares his personal journey with embodiment, driven by his hyper-intellectual background and a traumatic childhood. The episode concludes with a practical centering exercise and reflections on embodied freedom, emphasizing the importance of awareness and choice in overcoming habitual behaviors.
00:00 Introduction and Reunion
02:10 Mark's Current Endeavors and Thoughts on Society
03:23 Impact of COVID and Technology on Mental Health
08:46 Mark's Work in Ukraine
21:37 The Role of Humor in Trauma Training
26:31 Navigating Cultural Sensitivities
29:08 Managing Vicarious Trauma
31:40 Personal Practices for Well-being
33:43 The Power of Social Media
35:16 Connecting with Mentors
45:30 Embodied Freedom and Choice
47:15 Conclusion and Resources
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Unlocking Healing Power: Dr. Keesha Ewers on Emotional Trauma, Sexual Energy, and Autoimmune Recovery
In the season 4 finale of LaidOPEN Podcast, Charna welcomes Dr. Keesha Ewers, an expert in integrative medicine, functional sexology, and a survivor of autoimmunity induced by trauma. And shares her personal journey from starting as a conventional nurse to exploring alternative healing modalities like Ayurveda, hypnotherapy, and EMDR after being diagnosed with rheumatoid arthritis.
She illuminates the profound connection between unresolved trauma and physical health, including autoimmune disorders and sexual vitality. The discussion delves deep into the science of adverse childhood experiences (ACEs), highlighting the impact of trauma on long-term health and well-being.
Dr. Keesha also discusses the concept of 'libido' as life force vitality and emphasizes the importance of healing and digesting trauma for reclaiming one's full vitality and sexual freedom. The episode encourages personal reflection and offers insights on how to embark on a healing journey with an exercise from Dr. Keesha that teaches how to embrace your inner 'eagle' and live a more embodied and liberated life.
Show Notes
00:00 Welcome to LaidOPEN Podcast with Dr. Keesha Ewers
01:06 Embarking on a Journey of Healing and Transformation
01:23 Dr. Keesha's Personal Battle with Autoimmune Disease
04:55 Discovering the Power of Ayurveda and Yoga
07:34 The Profound Connection Between Trauma and Health
13:57 Exploring the ACE Study and Its Implications
21:56 Navigating Trauma and Its Impact on Health
25:34 Personal Stories of Overcoming and Healing
27:21 The Importance of Self-Care and Boundary Setting
32:39 Embracing Vulnerability and Overcoming Shame
34:12 The Power of Plant Medicine in Healing
35:01 Navigating Life's Developmental Milestones and Achieving Unity Consciousness
35:43 Understanding the Human Condition: From Victim to Perpetrator
36:42 The Journey to Self-Compassion and Liberation
42:26 Exploring Sexual Liberation and Vitality
52:17 The Importance of Play and Embracing Different Perspectives
59:40 Concluding Thoughts on Community, Healing, and Empowerment -
Beducated: The AI Revolution & Sex Education with Mariah Freya
In this latest episode of LaidOPEN Podcast, Charna Cassell speaks with Mariah Freya, a sex coach and founder of Beducated, an online platform for sex education that offers a vast library of resources for pleasure-focused sex education.
Mariah delves into the innovative role of AI technology in revolutionizing sex education, making it more accessible and tailored to individual needs. Highlighting how Beducated’s AI sex coach aids users in navigating their expansive library and provides personalized sex education resources. She also shares the challenges and experiments involved in developing their AI-powered tool.
She also speaks on the challenges of balancing parenthood with entrepreneurship to the transformative power of embracing one's sexuality, this conversation explores the intersections of personal growth, intimacy, and empowerment.
We end this episode with Mariah sharing a mindful shower practice. Join us as we delve into the importance of self-discovery, boundary-setting, and cultivating a sex-positive mindset at any stage of life.
00:00 Introduction and Guest Presentation
01:48 Exploring Sexuality and Motherhood
06:25 The Impact of Parenthood on Business
12:55 The Journey of Sexual Empowerment
31:04 The Role of AI in Sex Education
40:09 The Vision for BBeducated
50:20 Closing Thoughts and Farewell -
OPEN Advocacy: Pioneering Legal Rights for Non-Monogamists with Brett Chamberlin
This week, Charna interviews Brett Chamberlin, the founder and executive director of OPEN, the Organization for Polyamory and Ethical Nonmonogamy. Brett opens by sharing his journey of transitioning from environmental activism to the advocacy for more awareness and legal rights for non-monogamists. This includes anyone who subscribes to relationship designs outside the norm of one man and one woman, including single people.
He also discusses the cultural implications of nonmonogamy, the impact of societal norms, the progressing nonmonogamy movement, and the importance of community, consent, and cooperative living in practicing non-monogamy.
When it comes to having a successful non-monogamous relationship, Brett emphasizes the relevance of developing effective communication skills, having a clear understanding of personal desires, and the establishment of healthier relationships. He calls for the questioning and challenging of the supremacy of monogamous relationships in society and how dismantling this norm will lead to a more inclusive, loving society.
Charna ends the episode by sharing resources for people looking to explore the world of non-monogamy, as well as, an exercise designed to help you focus in on the characteristics and nuances you’re looking for in a partner when choosing a potential mate.
Show Notes
00:04 Introduction of Brett Chamberlin and OPEN
01:09 Brett Chamberlin's Journey to Polyamory Advocacy
03:31 The Birth of OPEN: Organization for Polyamory and Ethical Nonmonogamy
04:09 The Challenges and Privileges of Advocacy
05:38 OPEN's Theory of Change and Advocacy Strategies
11:07 The Reality of Nonmonogamy in America
13:23 The Importance of Visibility and Acceptance
17:22 The Legal Challenges Faced by Nonmonogamous People
28:31 The Role of Polyamory in Broader Human Liberation
35:42 The Liberatory Potential of Non-Monogamy
35:51 The Social and Environmental Impact of Extractive Systems
36:31 The Rise of Social Issues and the Role of Non-Monogamy
38:08 The History and Evolution of Monogamy
38:58 The Impact of Industrial Revolution on Relationship Structures
40:55 The Importance of Relationship Education
50:07 The Role of Media in Normalizing Non-Monogamy
54:43 The Impact of Pandemic on Non-Monogamous Relationships
59:41 The Importance of Self-Acceptance and Authenticity in Relationships
01:00:58 Understanding and Navigating the Complexities of Relationships
01:03:57 Conclusion: The Power of Open Conversations and Community -
From Heartbreak to Happily Ever After: Dating Insights with Celeste Moore
Get ready for Valentine's Day with Celeste Moore, a personal image and dating consultant in the latest pre-Valentine's Day episode of LaidOpen Podcast.
In this episode, Celeste offers invaluable guidance for those navigating new beginnings, particularly men who are navigating the complexities of dating post-long-term relationships or marriages. She also explores the importance of communication and authenticity in relationships, strategies for building confidence, and the art of crafting effective digital dating profiles.
Discover how Celeste's experience as a sole parent informs her approach and the invaluable insights she offers for single parents dipping their toes back into the dating pool. From debunking common profile pitfalls to unveiling the top lies men tell online, this episode is packed with wisdom and inspiration for anyone seeking love in the modern world.
Charna wraps up the episode with a powerful visualization exercise, enhancing focus and attention skills for a more mindful dating experience by pulling one's energies back from the past or future and directing them towards the present moment.
Show Notes
00:00 Introduction and Personal Updates
00:54 Introducing the Guest: Celeste Moore
02:07 Celeste's Journey to Becoming a Dating Coach
04:05 The Challenges of Working with Men and Women
05:13 The Evolution of Celeste's Career
07:08 The Ideal Client for Celeste
08:59 The Challenges of Dating and Image Consulting
09:38 The Importance of Image in Dating
10:30 The Different Types of Clients Celeste Works With
13:44 The Importance of Adventure in Dating
18:35 The Role of Mock Dates in Celeste's Coaching
24:25 The Challenges of Being a Sole Parent
32:51 Parenting and Dating: A Delicate Balance
34:59 The Importance of Timing in Relationships
35:57 Transferable Skills: From Parenting to Dating
37:23 The Power of Collaboration in Personal Growth
38:21 Breaking Communication Barriers
42:21 Building Confidence and Desirability in Dating
53:45 The Art of Online Dating: Profile Dos and Don'ts
59:09 The Journey to Self-Love and Acceptance